Some of that feeling may have to do with the tune of this song sounding remarkably similar to Gnarls Barkley's song "Crazy" but in a different key and tempo. Perhaps it could just be the muted guitar picking, which is generally rare but present in both songs.
While i'm sitting here at 1am listening to this beauty of a song, i just wanted to say to all the folks in the comments, i hope you're doing well, whatever you're going through, where ever you are, we're all here during this song, different times and places, but we're all here, you made it another day and i'm proud of you, cheers y'all 😅🙌
March 23, 2024. Today im dropping this comment to let you know that im gonna be a big shot artist soon. My songs will be bangers shortly. And when that happens, I'll make sure to slide back here and leave a comment, so that all you guys who believed in me can be proud. I wish you all the best and don't mistake my confidence for arrogance. Peace out 🙏🏼
I'd like to make a comment to specifically say I don't think you'll do it. I am entirely willing to eat my words and apologise if you do prove to become a big shot, sometime later in the future. Let this comment fuel you, and do it to spite me.
“You treat your mouth as if it’s Heavens gate”… “The rest of you like your the TSA”… ------------------- “If you could sit in a barrel, maybe I’ll wait”… 😆 👏 This song is written so cleverly!! I love the subliminal, yet evident, message that he’s speaking of!! He needs someone less guarded… She’s beautiful and perfect, more or less, but he just wishes “maturation” of her spirit would occur. But not maturation in a typical way; maturation like the process of finding subtle notes in the aging of a fine whiskey… He wants someone a little more “flavorful” in spirit and a little more like him… That’s what I’m getting anyway. She’s not “rough around the edges” and “savory” enough; just a little too perfect even…
Lyrics// It can't be said I'm an early bird It's ten o'clock before I say a word Baby, I can never tell How do you sleep so well? You keep telling me to live right To go to bed before the daylight But then you wake up for the sunrise You know you don't gotta pretend, baby, now and then Don't you just wanna wake up, dark as a lake? Smelling like a bonfire, lost in a haze? If you're drunk on life, babe, I think it's great But while in this world I think I'll take my whiskey neat My coffee black and my bed at three You're too sweet for me You're too sweet for me I take my whiskey neat My coffee black and my bed at three You're too sweet for me You're too sweet for me Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh-ooh Ooh, ooh-ooh I aim low, I aim true and the ground's where I go I work late where I'm free from the phone And the job gets done But you worry some, I know But who wants to live forever, babe? You treat your mouth as if it's Heaven's gate The rest of you like you're the TSA I wish that I could go along, babe, don't get me wrong You know, you're bright as the morning, as soft as the rain Pretty as a vine, as sweet as a grape If you can sit in a barrel, maybe I'll wait Until that day I'd rather take my whiskey neat My coffee black and my bed at three You're too sweet for me You're too sweet for me I take my whiskey neat My coffee black and my bed at three You're too sweet for me You're too sweet for me Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh Whoa, oh-oh I take my whiskey neat My coffee black and my bed at three You're too sweet for me You're too sweet for me
Here's my breakdown of the key themes and possible meanings: *Lifestyle and Habits* - *I take my whiskey neat / My coffee black and my bed at three* symbolizes his preference for things that are straightforward, unfiltered, and perhaps unconventional. These choices reflect a desire for experiences that are authentic and potent, mirroring his approach to life. reflecting a broader inclination towards facing life’s complexities head-on. - This contrasts with the other person’s lifestyle, which he perceives as too “sweet” basically living in a fairytale avoiding life’s hard and uncomfortable truths or perhaps lacking the depth and authenticity he craves. Someone who comes off too perfect flawless and disingenuous, no scars, one dimensional to their existence just pure flawless,picture perfect fairytale level of existing, which doesnt come off as real and authentic. It comes off as a frount *Emotional Maturity and Incompatibility* the song has nothing to do with age. Its about maturity. - The repeated line, *You’re too sweet for me* suggests that the person in question has a disposition or outlook on life that is too childlike, naive, sugar-coated, or simply too different from his. This sweetness is juxtaposed with his preference for the "neat" and "black" aspects of life, implying an ability to handle life’s bitterness which he finds more authentic or relatable. - The lyrics also touch on the idea of living fully but differently. The other person is described with a positive almost pure imagery ( *bright as the morning / As soft as the rain* ), yet he feels he cannot fully align with this perspective. This refrain suggests not just a difference in taste but a deeper emotional and philosophical incompatibility. The “sweetness/purity” here could imply a naivety or gullibility in the other person’s approach to life, which doesn’t resonate with his more seasoned or perhaps cynical perspective. The song suggests a maturity in embracing life’s bitter days, indicating a resilience and depth of character that he values and identifies himself with. *Acceptance of Differences* - Despite these differences, there's an undercurrent of respect and perhaps affection for the other person's way of being. He seems to understand and appreciate the qualities of the other person maybe they aren't this childlike naive person maybe they're just high on life *If you’re drunk on life, babe / I think it’s great* but acknowledges a fundamental mismatch in their approaches to life and relationships. *Reflection on Life and Death* - *But who wants to live forever babe* suggests a contemplation of mortality and the ways people choose to experience life. He opts for a more immediate, perhaps hedonistic approach, while still recognizing the validity of the other person's more sheltered or cautious way of living. I wouldn't say his singing a love song or a rejection song, it's a mature acceptance of their incompatibility and differences EDIT: I wholeheartedly agree that "sweetness" is not inherently negative, The intention was not to cast those qualities in a negative light but rather to highlight the contrast as depicted in the song's narrative. I believe the song is speaking of an emotionally immature or emotionally sensitive person who prefers things sugarcoated, overly gentle, and would rather avoid life's hard and uncomfortable truths. I think the emotionally immature person's "sweetness" isn't authentic but more of a shield to protect them from reality and This person may opt for a gentler, more sugarcoated experience, potentially shying away from the rawness of life's difficulties, whereas he seems to prefer brutal truths, This is someone who values directness and forthrightness, preferring life's narratives to be delivered without embellishment-a 'give it to me straight' mentality.
Beautifully put, thank you for taking the time to write that out. I resonate with the Acceptance of Difference thought the most. The person sees the beauty in the soul of the 'Too Sweet' lifestyle, but at least right now I can't match that... And you don't deserve to wait around for me to do so. I enjoy life's simple pleasures right now, black coffee/strong liquor/sleeping in/ working and staying up late. Now as I said, I see the beauty in that but I'm just not there. So if I could put you in a barrell, to continue to age, so I can have you in the future. I would But I can't bare to do that to you, it's unfair so until then I do me and you do you. Well see what the future holds... -How wild is this in life when potentially the two are soulMates? A game of try not to think about you everyday and work on myself, though your entire being craves them. Though you know the love between you two burns silver flame so hot it's cold.... Something beyond the traditional word "Love". Together they created something new. Something Divine... Unbound... And yes, at times, Difficult... Complex... 🍑 "But that's the thing isn't it... Feeling a pain as strong as this reveals how powerful the connection between the two of us really was".
I want to start with saying I love what you were able to take away from this song, but I wanted to add a different perspective. I think it's harmful to insinuate that "sweet" only has negative connotations. I say this because you likened it to this other person being naive or gullible. I feel the perspective that only things that are hard, negative, or potent are "real" is limited. I think kindness and gentleness are just as real, depending on the person. One person's inability to be soft, kind, or "sweet" doesn't equate to someone else's sweetness being disingenuous, or artificial. Some people are just nice or "sweet", even when things are hard. Neither side should be seen as negative, simply different.
**Crowley on the phone, trauma dumping for the fourth time in a two weeks** Hozier: **nodding along and writing down on a note pad** hmm? Oh, really? Oh, I’m sorry about that mate, really am, hm-hm, could you repead that bit about Heaven?”
My hotel neighbours in Greece were playing this song loudly every evening, that was my cue to go out for a cigarette onto the balcony and vibe together. Normally I hate this type of music but the vibe could not be denied
Met a chick, absolute angel, everything was too good, found out from her she still had a bf when she gave me her number, the guy was an asshile to her, i aint no asshole, but she is still too sweet for me, already got 2 kids of my own, wished Id met her sooner in life. We are still together, not sure for how long... I tried to end it before either of us got too attached, she put the water on and I got a bleeding heart... what can I say? This girl is too sweet for me. This song nailed it. Literally met her when this song dropped, only just hearing it now. Cheers Hozier.
When whiskey is served neat or straight up helps allow someone to appreciate the whiskeys true flavor while black coffee can be served in different ways which are versatile and exciting but when someone is too sweet they can also be considered fake. The specific that schedule implies a hint of consistency.🤩 I think the author was expressing his longing for someone who's honest not only with others but with themselves. He wants someone who is exciting, consistent, and flexible but not fake in terms of their personality. 🤔
