Humanity's BIGGEST SCAM: Strong independent woman! 

Sharp!

When you said "her choice did not chose her" hit my soul

@@MrEllipsis423 Respect.... we have all been the next best choice... especially the older we get. You can over come it but we always ask in the back of our heads was it worth it. Most men are wired to look forward so many of us compare our women to possible future choices. At least that's what I constantly find myself doing. Lol

It’s coming with force

Thank God few of them will have reproduced

And I am waiting to laugh at them thn😂

​@@brenttaber1721😂😂😂

And they will still be independent after that

Nonsense there is no problem being strong and independent women

​@@shikhasophia2784aahaa , the Indian/Asian women trying to be cool. Always trying to apee the west and eating their leftovers, when they are clearly saying it didn't work for them. Jeezzz !!!!

​@shikhasophia2784 Fine, if the message is not for you. It is for someone, and that person is grateful for the timeliness of this message.

​@@shikhasophia2784 I pray she doesn't become a victim ❤

Victim of what, Alot of women who choose marriage and raising kids end up feeling a loss if sense, not being independent should not be celebrated, but let All things be done in moderation.​@@orocktakangagbor4177

very correct, it is only fools that pursue independency and strong woman

You have a point ❤❤ but she still delivered a good message as well maybe not with absolute accuracy, because I think the only thing she missed was the fact that she didn't emphasize that not all Independent women are toxic, some are actually healthy and promote love but on the other hand some take it too far and hide behind the fact that " they are independent woman" So the problem is some (not all ) women have defined independence in a very toxic way and this is an eye opener to tell them to redefine the toxic definition by ensuring their Independence doesn't have to stop them form being interdependent I believe the are 2 types of independent women the Toxic ones and the healthy ones This message was to target the toxic ones give room for them to change ❤❤❤❤

Your reply indicates you're one of those miserable "independent women" saying anything to shift attention to anything other than your empty soulless "achievements". That is NOT childishness but has a significant contribution from selfishness, entitlement and ego but most of the corruption of the ideology comes from the corrupt media/system that is forced down on us through the media and modern "education".

I think you missed her point. Independence is about becoming an adult. Not about separating yourself from the family and life you created with someone. Once you have a family of your own, there is no more strong independent you... You have to become interdependent on your life partner because if you don't, it WILL destroy your family, for the cost of your "freedom" which is actually nothing more than irresponsibility

@@chrisdavis2161 Maybe I didn't make my point clear. I'll try again. I see you are a Sailor. Thank you for your service. As a Sailor, you need to be able to operate independently, to carry your own weight so you don't hinder the rest of your team. Yet, you also must be able to operate interdependently, as part of the team, am I right? So, the two are not mutually exclusive; these traits coexist. As the old saying goes, the chain is only as strong as its weakest link. (part 1)

@@chrisdavis2161 It's the same for a family unit. If you have a full-time career and your wife doesn't, then you'd better hope you have a wife who is strong and independent enough to handle difficult thing that may arise without you being there, for the sake of your children, because this world will put her resolve to the test. Yet, you both need to work together, interdependently, for the sake of your family. (part 2)

Are you single? We can hook up if you don't mind?

You are already getting out. Sharing on the issue is a good start. You can also say - God help me!

I feel you

I tell women everyday that feminism was a movement to free men and ensnare women and most still don't get it. Women are drivers of economies via their consumerism and spending habits.

Tell me about it wish I could live my life all over again with the knowledge I now have....but am slowly going back out in the dating world and I make it clear from the first date....I need to fall in my femininity and you in your masculinity so if thats not it am out

Well said

And we had our humanity when? A 1000yrs ago? 2000? In 4000 BCE? If you know anything about history you know that humans have remained inherently the same and that, as a whole, there's no time period better than the last 50yrs

@@degreeskelvin3025yeah my life is pretty cozy ngl but i think the wealth divide is the craziest thing we have going on rn.. we have the resources to feed everyone and somehow it’s still not getting done

@@ahdorbfidks beats NOT having the resources to feed everyone and being forced to go raid the neighboring village/country, which has been most of history. We've made a lot of progress in just a few hundred years tho, like making slavery and child labor illegal

I wish I could have given you 1000 thumbs up.

Well put!

​@@angelahall256you can't belong with millions of people

​@angelahall256 She did say everyone has their own experience, right?

There is nothing like narcissistic families. I'd like to speak in terms of principles, not conjectures or experiences. My experience is not the standard or yardstick to measure the principles of life. I understand laws govern life. We all go to bed when it's the night hours of the day. It's 24 hours in Africa as well as in every other continent. I don't know why listening is such a hard thing to do.

and whites

I concur as a Kenyan woman 🇰🇪

I'm sure you do

The biological clock is waking you up.

So what's the alternative?

She is wrong. It is NOT the independent woman. it is NOT the interdependent woman. It is the submissive woman to her own husband and the nurturing woman caring for her husband, children and supporting her community.

Me too ..ohh my my .people have no idea how so true ,so real

Yes. You're right

Leave them alone my brother. Once their minds are made up, they are extremely rigid and hostile. They are wise women who see that this independence is a trap.

Amen to that 🙏🏿

Show her this video

Independent of what

@@dogstick12 didn't you watch the video? It's all about women who doesn't need a man and can do everything themselves.

Thank you so much!

Thank you!

Exactly 💯

You put it right. It's an inside job, only God can fill some gaps but I also believe God uses people so it's not okay to close them out.

Praise YAHUSHA!

Well said.

Thank you for this sensible comment.

Amen!

Absolutely!

she's conflating independence with ego. She's blaming being an independent woman on her own character flaws and calling it a scam for all black women. As an strong independent black woman (saying it proudly), I certainly practice restraint and accountability. Independent women are actually accountable for their own actions.....You need to practice restraint and accountability to remain an independent woman....she's projecting her own character defects onto other women,.

Stop ​@@notyet2345

yes, you are very right!

​@notyet2345 your correct and hats off to you but her message is for the common denominator, the average girl. The public message of independence is braided with self destructive tendencies like hyper sexuality and avoiding authority and accountability, from what I took from her video us that the message is counter *american* style(so to speak), city girl flavored independence. The type that conflates feminine independence to Godless and unguided self destruction. You are the healthy outlier of the concept, atleast from what you wrote

@@ObakhePahlane-ov1qh How condescending to assume I’m not the average girl and every single woman I know who is independent doesn’t live hedonistic hypersexual lifestyle trying avoiding authority and accountability. You cannot remain independent being hypersexual, avoiding authority, and accountability. No one has ever told women to become independent so they can be hyper sexual avoid authority and accountability. That’s just stupid.. women who tend to be independent are extremely responsible. There’s no way you can remain independent while being irresponsible and not holding yourself accountable.

Absolutely!

Lead the way to what.

Who is she though

True.

She is talking about connecting to your community, this isn’t just about being desperate for a man.

@@LovelyVibrations that's the only point you have chosen...but above all, one goes back home after being in community to her small knit family that we must agree fuels the soul with love, acceptance, no judgement, hope for the future...it's not the outside that gives u that but your people, family.

​@LovelyVibrations wanting a man as a woman is not desperacy. This is normally said by bitter women who are the result of their poor choices in men, and I hope you're not among. We all need each other and that's nature.

Yes! Thank you!

Naked Reality

Nothing like helps our selves because we all depends on God not partner so man or woman isn't source of our happiness so positively integrate and socialize wisely with your fellow people. No man have superior control over each other's lane, respect my view or dignity and vice versa

So there's no femininity today is that your point.