True that. I was in an abusive relationship for 1.5 years by someone who turned out to be a narcissist and a sociopath. I got pregnant but it was a blessing in disguise. I dumped him halfway through my pregnancy. He was unfaithful as well (he would message other women behind my back including going to dinner with his ex wife). Two years later I'm an independent happy gal with a 20-month old toddler boy who makes my world so full.
@@jeango-oco7970 awww I’m happy you dumped the trash keep fighting girl if it’s meant to be it will happen and when it does it will be someone who loves you for real. 😊☺️
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I like her personality. How she forgives him instead of hating and bashing on him and moves on with her life. It really shows you what type of person she is.
Distractixn exactly😂 I bet if he would come back she would have the hardest time of her life not going back either. I can sit there and tell my life is going upwards and shit. But in the end no one hears my thoughts and my soul.😂
Sir Wavy facts, these people believe anything, Nobody is even thinking what if she was a sadistic female that turned him into an asshole and no matter what he says nobody will believe him, I believe she did something that we don't know about lol
EXACTLY! And she kept saying "hes not a bad guy" no no, he kinda is..he kept putting the blame on her and victimizing himself. She was just still in love with the guy so she cant see him as a bad guy
If my ex ever goes from that to I hope to never see you again. Fuck I’ll hate myself so much for making myself look like a clown twice shit. I mean- thrice. Given that I still love and care for him so much that I was willing to hurt myself even more just to keep him in my life.
He doesnt want to see her again because he doesnt want to see her happy and moved on. He wanted to see her when she was crushed, heartbroken, and desperately needing his validation. Once she said shes found love again, he wanted nothing to do with her. He realized he didn't break her and he didnt want to see her happy. Just my opinion.
first thing i thought, she seems to have a great personality and she is not all over the place looking for unnecessary attention , i love when women act like women so attractive and feminine
she’s right, we can’t judge somebody off of a 6 minute video, everybody deserves forgiveness...but i’ll be damned if i let somebody treat me like that🤦🏾♀️
Mmhmm… Knowing what we Know, we can Discern what Kind of Relationship it was… Yes, Forgiveness. Amen! Wow, That’s Amazing she was Able to Forgive him after All that… I’m So Happy & Glad he didn’t Break her Beautiful Spirit. ✨🦋
The cheater always acts like the victim to distract and divert all blame on themselves...very cunning indeed. Just be loyal or leave SIMPLE. Bless this lovely lady ❤️
1. If I would hangout with a girl and my GF (who loves me) comes in and I ask her to leave, she would be angry as hell and I would have a damn tough fight, if she leaves to cry she is not a Girl friend, maybe a F+ck friend. 2. So many people are ghosted one, which is hard to stand, she can talk to him all the time. 3. She ran to RU-vid to show how strong she is, which means that she a. wants support from random people and b. loves attention ( no one who actually is hurt would tell everybody about it ( accept for intention seeking idiots)
Like Michelangelo no, it isnt. Its just that the minority not so beautiful that have corrupted the culture of healthy relationship development are getting the social and media highlight. In turn that sets a new standard on how relationships should look which gives the illusion that that type of “rare beauty” is rare
When he said "I hope I never see you again" it was like he was attempting to 'clap back' (when we all know he's now the "hurtbae") but, when she responds with a profound, simple and powerful statement "I wipe my hands of you". Based on his expression, you could tell that hit him like a boulder. To the point his facial expressions contorted and repeated the hand motions as if it would hurt her but, in reality it goes to show she really has moved on. It's like in that moment he knew his attempts to lash out, were in vain. She moved on buddy and her life better because of it. She processed her hurt in a healthy way and ended up knowing her worth as a person & partner. Now she is in a loving relationship with someone who treasures her, for her. That's truly beautiful♡ love her & wish her the best!
LOL Leonard was hatinggggg the fact that she wasn’t trippin over him in that second video lol I couldn’t roll my eyes harder at him trying to say whatever he could do hurt her in response to her saying she’s moved on. She’s so beautiful and seems like such a sweet person. I’m happy she was able to move on and is happy now. No one deserves to be treated that way by someone they love smh
Dont judge book by its cover. And women are excellent at presenting themselves as best cover possible. Who knows what she did to make him push to do all that stuff. He is still piece of shit for doing that. In all fairness she could really be nice lady.
I think the fact that you still somewhat defend Leanard really shows how much of a sweet empathetic person you are, but unfortunately neither you or him are fooling anyone. He's trash
Maddy Belle I’ve seen thousands of girls on Instagram refer to themselves as hot, so no, not all girls get offended. Maybe you. Just say you’re offended like 99% of the people in America that get offended at everything .
Her 1st instinct of not liking him was a reason for that, but also going thru this with him was true growth of why she will remember to treat herself best 1st & foremost as she's done ✔️ well done 👏 #Hurt Bae No More
Strong my ass she cries for almost the whole first original video why do people keep saying this i don't understand??? If she was strong there would be no hurtbae i don't get it lmao
Nick Leach for real fam i bet the majority of those likes r from salty heartbroken woman they really think liking a comment on yt gonna make a change😂😂😭😭
@@tiagotrindade2880 It's coz he's always talking about her on the other videos and the other comments as well. Always saying that the guy was right and he's proud of him for cheating on her. He truly is obssessed.
Leonard is a narcissist. He ain’t hurting He’s just fine, sociopathic narcissist usually are. It’s not the 6 minute video, it’s the story of the relationship. he couldn’t remember “he didn’t keep count” um ok that’s a lot.
@@adaezenjoku7527 She is right on it. He is a narcissist! Once you've dated these types it doesn't take long to identify them. I said the same thing after watching him for 3 minutes. He' s demeanor, he's responses, the way he enjoyed her pain makes its very clear he is a Narcissist.
We need more strong and beautiful women like her. She didn't play the victim. She didn't blame her ex for a screwed up life. She lived and learned and now wants to inspire others. I'm a fan!
Sophiaa Love King people say things about cheating people all the time. Example: every girl group chat, Everyman on love and hip hop or w.e reality show. But your right of course he shouldn't get shit about killing himself
rebecca molina apparently she hasn't. Why would you wanna keep hanging around someone who quotes around "I made that bitch famous"? 🤔 she defends him. Sure she knows him better jus cus you forgive doesn't mean you need someone around.
She can't play victim. She kept going back to him. Not saying what he did was right at all but after you catch your bf with another girl in his room & he kicks you tf out, why would you ever give him another chance? She definitely has to take responsibility too.
Their story made me loyal to my girl... you hurt people... but when you high and you take in that pain you cause... you realize what you are and what you done... so I changed.. for the better
I love that for her, good job it’s not easy to change. Please keep it up. I hope she heals fully and I hope your relationship is fully healthy, healed and prosperous.
@@mikaylaa.6948 do you mean like this girl who tried to play a innocent victim? She knew, but she still stuck around and announced him as boy friend. He never said they were exclusive boy friend - girl friend. She played every one to get fame
@@mikaylaa.6948 He never did call this bf-gf. Every comment here is gas lighting the real victim(guy). She is delusional to think otherwise. When would women ever accept their mistake and not turn it on the guy.
A good person doesn't lie, cheat, betray, hurt, over and over and over again especially if they say they are your "best friend" and spend all their time with you, etc etc. If people cant see that, its actually really concerning because its so incredibly obvious. I truly don't want to know what people like that consider bad because that has to be awful.
Imani Parris she doesn't inspire me, but she might inspire others. i mean, you can find inspiration in everything. maybe someone distraught over a break up might see her and realise they can be happy again. and she's being so incredibly nice about it as well, saying nice things about the guy instead of shit talking him (like everyone thinks he should and deserve). that's a positive attitude, don't you think?
yea we don't know him entirely--everyone is flawed, but we're hard on leonard because he didn't treat her right and the fact that he was so unapologetic--even in his own 16 minute video where he responded to #hurtbae. anyway, i'm so glad that #hurtbae is now #happybae :) she seems like she is doing so much better!
R Ruff he never got any real feelings for her that means he lost nothing. I was in a nearly same situation without cheating on a woman, but all said its your lost you will regret it to broke of with her, all of my friends and family loved her, but i didn't loved her, i regret nothing, I lost nothing, i am feeling better without her, short version of the cheater in the video, he also didn't lose anything.
i thought she seemed like a sweet girl before, but this made her sound like she's bragging about being newly famous. im not sure what's the point of this video anyways, i would love to hear about the guy though.
How can someone be a good person if they cheated on someone so many times they lost count.. regardless of whatever else good they might have done, it won't change the fact that he completely broke someone's heart and didn't show any emotion or regret in that 6 minute video. And he blamer HER for not leaving him... pfffff. Wtf lmao?! 😂
Emese Ocean you can't and to me she's still in love with that clown. I'd be cautious dating her. The way she was acting. If this dude wants her he can get her
