Husband Beater Caught Red Handed, Slapping Husband AT THE HOSPITAL 

How the story ends… The arresting officer, and the perpetrator wind up getting married they raise the victims child. The mother fills the child’s head with lies of abuse and debauchery about her father. The child grows up, hating her father, becomes a cop, plants a key of coke and mannequin pornography on her father and arrest him. resulting in him being sent away for virtually the rest of his life. Moral of the story: nice guys finish last, Don’t just stand there and take it.

The double standards are just disgusting

I'm surprised the cop didn't stop and get her a happy meal lol

I feel your frustration....watching the differences in criminal treatment is sickening.

My aunt was a Psycho growing up, she attached, hit, burnt, and stabbed my uncle, and the cops never believed him. He finally left her after ending up in the hospital. My uncle is 6’5, she was like 4’9, but he wouldn’t fight back.

This cop needs some serious retraining

This will work in his favor during the divorce and child custody hearings.

I’m glad she went to jail, but this cop is horrible at this.

Man, I got so much respect for you. I’ve been soooo lucky these females didn’t get me locked up.

My ex hit me with MY car in Florida, they did the same thing, and they arrested her but with soft gloves in front of me as I was being loaded into the ambulance, released her that day on bail, and made a private court call so she did not have to wait in court, the problem was after she hit me, drove my car INTO A TREE after she jumped out, thank god it was like 10 mph, my broken leg was not what made me press charges, it was the dent in my 1971 SS Chevrolet El Camino. If I had hit her, with her car, and then driven it into a tree after jumping out, I would still be in jail. In the end, she got probation for 3 years and had to make restitution for the car repair and they scrubbed her record due to her first offence. I sued the country for the soft arrest and the lack of care about me, but it was 2001, and they gave me an apology and 10,500k, and the state of FL taxed me on it later that year as it was over 10k. I added that after my insurance deductible and the 30% I had to pay on meds and PT, the 8,750 I was left with after the taxation only covered the cost of being healed and the car repair, not the 100s I paid over the years after my insurance when up after that claim.

This cop needs to be trained in the truth about battered males. Worried about embarrassing her ? They should shame the hell out of her. And she is emotionally abusive to the husband also.

Thanks for raising my blood pressure 🤦 Been through this crap and it wasn't her that went to jail.... I wasn't guilty and certainly treated worse..... You didn't cap it, but bringing light to this situation, however f*cking painful it is, we need some solutions....

The really sad thing is she KNOWS that man will NEVER hit her back. He was raised to never hit a woman.

What the fuck is with this cop? He needs a fuck ton of training.

And still 98% of the time the states always give the mother film custody. Its time the laws change. Because me as many of thousands of men get lied on, female lies to th courts and yet we fayhers get thenshort end. None of this will change for 100. Years. Its all Busllhi and the states need to stop bckinv the mother EVERY time

MrLBoydI hope u see this, shoutout to u for saying your situation and I been through the same thing but instead of almost losing my life, I went to jail for getting MY ass whooped by a ex and got a charge on my record for the rest of my life for something I was lied on about. It’s hella hard to get jobs because companies think I’m a POS, I get lucky sometimes but lately it’s become a issue again..that was 8yrs ago!! And whoever else is going through this prayers up to u, we can’t do nothing about it now and it’s a shame but they gone get theirs on judgement day. Can’t escape God 💪🏾 Sidenote: that nurse lowkey thick 😅

I think that cop needs a lesson

I never knew that the saying "i got hit so hard i saw stars" was a real thing. But my ex hit me hard enough for me to see stars. Its the craziest thing

This cop is making me nauseous. He needs to haul her to jail. This poor guy is a double victim. Do your job. The cop let the abuser in the room with the victim! OMG! Let's make sure she know she isn't going to face any consequences. This is appauling!!!

We heard you the first time about the divorce. It’s no excuse. The silence is deafening.

Some women keep their men hostage because of this😢

We see this hypocrasi allover in western societies. We men need to stand up in solidarity. But first we need to learn to stand together as men, just like women are good at. Then we make demands, and if they are not meant, we can conclude that the other half does not intent to cooperate in equal measures and we take it all back. We gave it to them afterall.

My friend went exact similar situation....very close friend. We warned about hes GF of hes....damn we warned. I went to HES house and start yelling at that child beater(GF). Damn my friend was so in love, he was blind what was happening around him. Hes GF said GTFO of my house....I said NO. This is my friends house and He calls the shots. He was so blinded by love he just stared at the floor and said ´´Its better if u go Pete´´ Few weeks later hes GF stapped him right in the heart. U know that situation....nothing left to safe him anymore. Ofcourse they but him in the jail and later doctors said this woman is very ill. So she sits rest of her life in mental institution! RIP Henry< i always loved u like a brother

@MrLBoyd I want to thank you for bringing it attention to this situation that all too often happens I could see the physical manifestation of anxiety and the triggered trauma you had to experience while watching this video. I am 100% in agreement with you this officer handled this beyond poorly. It’s going to take women to stand up for men because they suffering silence. We mothers, grandmothers sisters aunties must let the men in our lives. Know that this is unacceptable and that they are deserving of protection just as any One being abused does. Society has trained men to take it. Other men making fun of men who are abused so they stay silent. There are some very wicked women in our society that believe they are above the law because the law has shown them for the most part that they are. Example this video and how that officer handled it was disgusting.again, sorry you had to go through such trauma, but I’m grateful that you brought it to light.

Hearing that officer talk infuriated me. I can’t believe him being so empathetic about the woman beating on the guy! 😡

Everything this cop is saying is why men don’t want to say anything. Wow

Thank you for sharing your experiences. Societal norms skew the law in to treating male victims as if they were the perpetrator. Men in relationships are absolutely marginalized (happy wife, happy life BS) and often disregarded as victims and even discounted as a viable parent alternative (as opposed to the magical quality of "mother").

I'm in the middle of something similar right now. Cops here took it very seriously soon as they saw the video of her striking me. And she had the audacity to call the cops herself! I let the charges drop last time. I can't let my kids think this is ok, or for any man to be hit by a woman and vice versa.

I hate that whole "I don't want to embarrass you in front of your child" mentality. If you're acting stupid in front of your children and someone is willing to put you in your place let the child see so they know better not to act stupid like the parent.

People need to keep thier hands to themselves all together. Obviously you should defend yourself when attacked, or others if they're being attacked. Outside of that though, you should always keep your hands to yourself. Just my opinion, I'm sure many disagree. To those that do, maybe put some real thought into it before you come at me trying to justify unprovoked violence.

that rainbow mask is so cringe, ugh

Even when they are taking her away she goes in and pushes him around giving him commands. Thats a defeated man. Shame on her.

I remember a British documentary about a guy, who was isolated, abused, and beaten(almost killed), by his insane girlfriend. That poor man. I have no sympathy for anyone, man or woman, who hits their partner and it especially angers me, when kids get to see it.

As a victim of my ex wife's abuse, and not being believed, and actually be arrested for it because"women don't assault men" i can say this is not reported enough. 5:24 that is exactly how she was, she would start an argument, and then run screaming into the street saying i attacked her. I was charged with assault despite my being the only one with bruises.

That man is letting this happen. I feel sick to my stomach about that little girl being returned to an abusive situation. She’s just one! What life is ahead of her? 😢

I've seen innocent men treated the exact opposite of how she was treated, but I've also seen a few instances where the man was truly wrong and still handled with the same level of kid's gloves. Personally, I think this officer is just very adverse to confrontation, which isn't the worst quality, better than trying to Rambo every situation. However, he really needs to reconsider his word choices and the weight they carry. One can still avoid confrontation, be empathetic (to all people involved), but also allow the gravity of the situation to be fully felt. I'm glad you were able to get out and move on to truly greener pastures. We all have a past. It's how we move on that really matters.

Personally, having been abused once and only once, and reported it immediately, I dont think anyone should be hitting/abusing anybody male or female. Violence really doesn't solve anything, imo.

It’s really very simple, he was attacked, openly, in public, there should not be a stigma of shame on men being attacked by women. It’s a crime either way!

I think the officer really feels for the guy because he knows how guano crazy that lady is gonna go on him once she gets out of jail.

my take on the verbage used by the cop is that he is trying not escalate tensions of either party, husband or wife. it is known that in many domestic violence calls both victim and suspect have banded together to attack, verbally and or physically , the responding leo

This was infuriating!!! I was screaming for the cop to slap the damn cuffs on her. Why is he babying her??

I agree, if the situation were reversed the cop would not be nice. Also, about 20 years ago there was a million man march in Mexico where men demanded that the police start arresting women that beat on them - especially with weapons like a skillet, etc. I wish that would catch on here. Men need to stop "taking it like a man" and start demanding equal respect.

call the woman what she is a predator.

Cop was certainly super sweet to her. He needs to be trained appropriately. What starts out minuscule will certainly turn into something major if not addressed properly. I truly worry about any abuse that she will inflict.

I can't remember what I was watching, but it prompted us as men to think back to our past relationships and question if there was ANY violence or abuse at all, anything that would be otherwise unacceptable the other way around, and I thought about it and every one of my relationships had something in them. Stuff I had just dismissed and never given a 2nd thought to until prompted. It's incredibly common! Or I'm somewhat unfortunate lol (Not that I hold any grudge, I'm friends with most of my ex's. It's just a societal double standard is all)

In my state he wouldn’t get the choice to press charges or not. Domestic violence the state automatically charges & there is no getting it dropped.

She wont be allowed to go home.... Thats standard Bond conditions until her case is settled

100% he would not say that if the situation was flipped. Good call out L.

Ive been in a relationship like this, thankfully i didnt have kids with her. Iwas so torn on what to do, tale the abuse or called the cops. I was afraid to call the police because of some of her family having heavy gang affiliations and didnt want to be involved with them, so i took the kicks ou chea and desto propei thinking maybe itll get better. It never did and i was finally able to get out and ive never looked back. Surprisingly i dont have any ill will towards her and hope she gets the help she needs. But dam does this really hite hard in the feels.

Omg what they arrested the victim! That is horrific. Sexist and unjust. Wow

People really ought to watch The Red Pill documentary.

The double standard is disgusting.

The hospital could get in trouble for giving PPI against HIPPA, couldn't they? If the security officer was worried about a search warrant for the video, how much more important is PPI?

I love ya man and while I agree with everything you said. I think this is the only time I seen any real emotion from you. And almost to the point of rage. Have you gotten therapy or help for the trauma you went through? I mean that in the nicest way of course. Watching I can see some pretty bad unresolved issues from what you went through. >.

Why is there cameras in medical exam rooms to begin with? That is a major violation of privacy! You have some stranger watching you and your doctor discussing your personal medical issues. Imagine getting a physical or prostate exam…. And the security guard openly said I’m not legally allowed to show you but I will anyway.

Such a cute baby 😂😂

The longer I watch this the more dumbfounding I am. wtf. Why would she take it seriously if the police don’t?

With her temper, this is the same or worse treatment she will be using on her child as the child get older.

Huh? He doesn’t want to press charges so he actually isn’t “ backing out of everything.” He immediately wasn’t on board with her being arrested. I agree though, she needs to learn she can’t put her hands on others…ever…for any reason.

21:06 - She walks passed him and he turns his shoulder to avoid her and also to cover the baby.... She's hitting the kid too.

Women hitting men is just as wrong as men hitting women. There is no reason for either side to resort to violence.

In defense of the officers I would say she did not physically resist at all, she may have lied but she wasn’t aggressive once caught. The officers did it by the book and had time to explain things because there was zero physical resistance.

My ex punched me on several occasions. The final time was when I was making her leave my house because she was cursing and speaking in a very threatening manner in front of my kids. She then punched me in the face 3 times consecutively in front of my daughters. I called the police and it was this same scenario the way they spoke to me. They even gave me a "victim's packet". The cop said it's mostly battered women's shelters, but we have to give it to you. She didn't go to jail (I didn't make them take her), just escorted from the property.

Be the man that saves the next man, its not your fault its hers so press those charges to protect others.

He concerned about who is going to take care of the child.

She will probably get probation because she needs to be there for the child,you know this is the norm for these cases.

25:23 foolish Mr. LBoyd, the cop is clearly acting that way and telling her that so she doesn’t freak out and make their job harder. She is gonna be fucked

Equality✊.

I feel bad for the hospital workers that are in this cop's jurisdiction.

You were arrested because of the Duluth model. All police forces need to drop this bs model.

You gotta love male privilege.

11:16 don't need to imagine, ptsd is no joke.

I’m so sorry for what happened to you brother, you are doing great right now though

If you are going through a divorce why is she mad at him for talking to other women?

Good old Duluth Model behavior. I'm sorry you went through that, sir.

I FEEL EXACTLY AS YOU DO. THE COP WAS PATHETIC. BUT SHE'LL GET AWAY WITH IT AT HOME, NO CAMERA'S THERE.

The only thing I can think of in the animal kingdom that acts like that 'woman' is a honey badger. Attacks bigger targets, plays the victim, is thick skinned, and sprays ass juice everywhere, making everything stink.

This whole thing is sickening to me, on all sides.

Toxic by Brittany Spears never predicted this!

If you think this one-sided, try getting divorced!

Dude... I'm getting riled up. Women don't have privilege, right? bullshit

It’s obvious this dude doesn’t want to have to go home with those two kids…double standards sure sure but this guy isn’t hurt and the whole situation is making him feel less masculine.

Assault needs to be treated the same no matter who is giving and who is receiving.

Then you understand that bad people are cultivated by allowing women to do whatever they want to, without any consequences and accountability. So a man got to be good to not end up in jail ( even if he’s innocent they will do their best to get him down ) but women…. An it’s okay , right ? We have literally monsters walking free and that keep getting worse, then we wonder : why things are bad ?

I think part of what the cop was apologizing to the husband for was that they were doing this while their child was in the hospital. That being said…my nephew went through something like this with his ex and yeah, the way he was treated by the cops fucked him up mentally for years.

Did you catch the aggressive “call my dad” and he should have told her no “you can used your one phone call to call your dad I don’t want to talk to him you can lie to him yourself because we both know that’s what you’re going to do.

Wow the police officer is treating this woman with kids gloves as if she is the victim. Yes if it was a man hitting a woman then I’m sure the police officer would have been more aggressive towards him.

I really hate the, "but I'm just so emotional" excuse. It's just a re-wording of "look what you made me do."

So I interpreted the officers behavior a little bit differently. I agree with what you said don’t get me wrong, but I just thought he was acting like that in order to keep the situation calm and in order to keep the man from freaking out. Clearly there were witnesses that were worried so I don’t see why the officer would genuinely not think the woman did anything wrong, but obviously there is a chance wrong. I just saw it from a different perspective. I know sometimes Office officers will just say what they need to say in order to get the situation to go as smoothly as possible so that’s what I thought he was doing. If the rules were reversed, he would not have said the same thing, but I also think there’s less stigma on a woman being abused a man being abused sadly. Therefore, I think he responded the way he did. At least I should say I HOPE that’s why. I hope him and his kid are OK though

Where were these people when i was married?

I'm confused about where the footage took place. Not in the exam room right? Can they put cameras in exam rooms? So she must have been doing it in the waiting room?

The thing i thought was funny was when the officer was handcuffing her and and said ill make sure this doesnt hurt lmfao

Those are not the rules everywhere

He doesn't have to press charges the witness and cop can there is a domestic violence law I got into a situation like that and she didn't want to press charges so me as the witness and the cop pressed charges

This is crazy

and yet they say "believe all women" lol

My ex would just cut me

I'm a 64 year old female. I believe she should've been put in cuffs! She knew what she was doing! She's crying in front of the cop for sympathy! Years ago, my husband made a fist when we were having an argument. I told him, "Oh, you wanna hit me?! Go ahead, right here!", as I pointed to my chin. "Let's see what happens!" He lowered his head and said, "No, I don't want to." After I dared him, he knew what would happen to him. He's lucky that I warned him. Who knows if he would have hit me, otherwise. Mr Boyd, I'm glad you feel so strongly about this situation. But I'm sorry that you had to go through it!

Of course thy had a child together and the mother doesn't have her forst child. Almost always like that. Cant take care of the first child so have her mom raise her child while she has another for all of us taxpayers to pay for. The LAWS are all backwards and nothing wll change

You shouldn't regret it... It wil bog you down, You can use that as a lesson to others, Juust as you are doing now. I Feel for you, Bro, my y Wife has 'issues' too. Lucy us don't have kids . Take care eh