It's hard to dredge up a scrap of sympathy for this woman. It's not like she was under extreme stress and made a bad choice. She can't remember all of the affairs, but spoke of four in particular and she wants to make it right after she's been caught. If she hadn't been caught, she'd still be cheating on him. It begs the question: "Is ignorance really bliss?" If the cheater is never caught, is the marriage still wonderful? He might finish his days with his 'loving wife' by his side blissfully ignorant of the many affairs. Truth, honour, and trust are all broken here and they can never be made whole. Her disrespect of him, the lies, the deception and disregard for him are repugnant.
With the rapid spreading of a new more deadly std virus and herpie virus, it wouldnt take long before that would be brought home! Have a close friend that spent north of 20 thousand dollars on a private investigator to background checks on his girlfriend, with the strong possibility of being his future wife. There wasnt one thing found , nothing. This woman was truly the unicorn so to say. No red flags in the relationship, this woman was totally devoted to him. When a man or woman try to put the move on her she went ballistic on them and told them where to go. She had friends and they were all drop dead beautiful. They never did anything no red flags here either. Myfriend was over the moon. She didnt drink much at all and worked out and kept a strict diet and exercise routine. It was too good to be true. They both shared simlair interests. They never moved in with each other. Yes they did stay over with each other but that was that. They have been dating exclusively for over three years now! My close friends keep telling Bob that the woman he is dating is a woman on the W channel romance movie. She looks and sounds to good to be true. After a long talk with Bob while we played golf last week he finally admitted that all this seemed to good to be true. Bob is well off and is a former male model who started his career when he was 16 years old. We kinda shook him into reality 2024. He has toned his emotions and excitement back some now. We hope as close friends to Bob that what is happening to him is truly genuine and real. I talked with his girlfriend at a get together for friends at a back yard barbecue about two weeks ago. She is stunning as usual but she was clear and told me in front of other friends and acquaintances that her body was not community property and that she has never done hookups and other things with anybody. Those statements by her really took me back as well as other wifes and husbands at the barbecue. I hope this not a bad dream. But if things work out then there are still some decent men and women out there!
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, I wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
