The fact that this guy brings Mercy in their arguments....hiyo ni hasira iko boiled up..... Ati hawa wanawake wanatakanga nini haki surely????huyo mwanamke anataka ukue faithful...huyu chali ndiye alichokoza huyo dem...
In marriage, pray to God day in day out to help you resist the tempatiom to cheat because once you do it, you will never be the same and neither will your partner. Even with declared forgiveness, the wound might continue to fester and the rot will eventually break through its limits. That said, revenge is a fools errand.
Exactly so she is justified to feel hurt, hata kama watu wanasema she is arrogant fact still remains the guy is not remorseful and hii yote was because of him, that is what the woman wants
@@SharonAwuor-fh5ty She is a very kind person from her story of how she supported her friend before she found out, they turned her into this. This is too toxic sidhani it benefits anyone not even the child to grow up in such an environment
I still stand with this lady, her hubby and her friend mercy turned her into this. She is no longer the same! This is a bitter pill to take😢 enjoying her, toying with her feelings like a kid was not fair. I think this marriage can't work anymore. This is beyond repair😢
I know she's right but the better thing just walk away then peace at peace right now the child is the one who is suffering but you are only looking for the right of the lady not seeing innocent kid is going to suffer
Siz kaa huku rent tutakulipia lakini ile kukudinywa tutakudinya ha haa we ain wifing up a single mum just understand that but kukutomba nayo issa must 😂
Why is this man bitter, you cheated and forgave you forgive her too,upelekwe ushagoo kwani huna kwenu 🙄🙄gal hustle kama madem wengine Nairobi ni ya Kila mtu.
Right? coming here to tell us what he has decided and has not even consulted with her... like bro, mtoto mmoja hawezi shinda mtu. He is lucky she stayed, and to bring her up in their arguments is so low, he should just go and be with her.
Give a solution coz there are people who are going through this and opening up is so difficult for them so when they come to such comments do you think you are helping or destroying, okay if you decide you aren't going to ushago then the husband decide to move out look for a place to stay for you to sleep around with upto when will you be satisfied with the sleeping
Agurment then bring up your sudechick that she better 😂😂😂huyu dem alivumilia basi but cheating nayo ni mbaya..then akiulizwa why bring mercy up waakiwa in aguerment anasema si kwaa ubaya😂😂😂weeh men
It's wrong for a woman to bring your sister or best friend to stay in your house. In short you will be bringing your hubby a co-wife. It's a big mistake. Remember they are not his blood.
How people dont love ushago still beats me, my first destination landing in jkia ni shags kwanza nifukuzane na kuku,na kukamua ngombe. Long live my shags❤❤
Never bring a woman/man to live under you roof with your partner, you will be attracting trouble even if it is your relative, you can help but from a distance
They say a wise woman builds her own home while a stupid one destroys it with her own hands. Yes the guy cheated and she decided to revenge by cheating with his friend. That's done and dusted. You can't build anything by do I do. Her ego is too high for a marriage to stand. Bro, you are just wasting your time here. Even if you bring yourself down you can't take control of this lady anymore. Leave her alone and find your peace somewhere else. I am surprised that she is happy that the child you got with the other lady died. As a mother that's very bad. What if her current child dies (God forbid), what will she do? Ladies you need to learn to be objectively in how you handle some issues even if you are the one wronged.
@@tafadhalijiheshimu6229 No one denies the fact that the guy cheated. Is this a game or what? Anyway she is now a happy single independent woman because I doubt the other guy will ever take her seriously.
Bt to be frank sleeping with best friend hio nayo siwezi kosa kurevenge i gonna do it n leave you it's painful I'm trying to understand her even if she didn't do the right thing maybe it was meant to be that way meanwhile both of you are young you can start all over again n avoid kinda of mistakes all the best.
This lady is so much hurt beyond repair … some would have killed this man . Betrayal of this type is way too unbearable . The “ I don’t want my child to grow without a father “ is ridiculous if in the process you can’t stick on it .
Sometimes when a wayward spouse's cheating is found out, a common thing they will do is attempt to frame themselves as the victim of a betrayed spouse. When they frame themselves as the victim, they often hope to do the following: They hope to remove themselves from being accountable for their behavior.
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly is not meant to work. You cannot force someone to care about you. You cannot force someone to be loyal. You cannot force someone to be the person you need him or her to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you are best without. You have to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Do not lose yourself by trying to fix what is meant to stay broken. You cannot get the relationship you need from someone who is not ready to give it you. Moreover, you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future sister will always bring understanding of why things did not work out. I really feel the pain, which you have left/felt, in my heart, maybe it was not the right time to be together, maybe you meant at the long time, so so hurting.💔💔💔
Good girl. Usipojipanga utapangwa. Go forth, forgive yourself and shine. You should have walked out earlier than fight with a pig. Look, you dirtied yourself in the process. . .
Hakuna nyota hapa. The lady finds pleasure in the death of the mans ex kid The lady is very rude, "Si uendee huyo aliyekufa" if the worst happens to her kid? If Mercy sees this video, i bet, she might want to rteapch her a lesson. "Look at my skin" pride comes before fall
One thing clear is to sleep with one best friend is that of a wounded lion..the bitterness will never leave her and side chic regrets coz no good came out of the man in the end ..
She said any argument the guy refers to mercy as better than her. Hii unaweza fanya mtu a revenge, lakini it's not worth it, angeleft after the incidence
He hurt this baby girl beyond what a young lady should go through. He should settle with the betrayer mpango wa kando. Why go to UShago. Crazy solution.
My aged mother advised me, once you solve any burning issue in a marriage that might cause quarrel or fight again, avoid it completely inorder for u to forgive, heal and forget. Stop mentioning it at all the time cz it will finally break that marriage completely.
Hakuna msee huwaka moto kuliko mwizi akiwa ameibiwa katambe tu waendelee kucheat tuone kama ni kakinembe katakuwa mutaro ama ni mjulus itaisha. Men also learn to walk away and mute for some yrs find a new family start supporting kiburi itashuka
Philip why are you biter??she will not die of raising her child she might finally get her love of her life...Na hiyo Jamaal let him encounter new challenges in another relationship he might learn a thing or too or he will lose a second family with this immaturity
there is no way anaenda na mtoto wangu... a statement that holds together broken marriages full of sorrow and problems.. bro if the child is yours let her go with him take that bitter pill its just for sometimes nature will bring the child to you...best way is to let her do what she wants if the baby needs your help she will look for you if she can provide its ok too but nature will give you your child kwanza akiwa more than 5 yrs before you break it means anajua babake already. if you learn this early you will move on quickly and start afresh
The moment you start the reconciliation or healing process by blaming,then your won't sum(add)- up again. BMS should have educated them on how to reconcile B4 they met. It's done,they can't solve it anymore!!!!
Mapenzi ikishukuka from 💯 % coz of cheating no way itawaikuwa poa,so long as mmoja ASHA cheat everything will be okay just by pretending, second if it's a must to cheat,do it with someone who your partner don't know , if you do it with your partner's best friend, wait for a good revage without complement.
Stevo that girl is not in love somewhere. She is just hurt. And the guy unknowingly continues to hurt her. Those two love each other. I only pray the man could wake up from some sleep. And you girl, you can't take a poison to heal. By cheating you took a poison.
The best thing is break up and do coparenting lakini kusema heri mwenye uko naye na niliona akiwa amekwambia usikue unampigia kama hajakwambia juu utaruin marriage yake, so definitely ukiendelea na yy a time will come when pia wewe utakuwa umeharibu ya mwanamke mwenzako in the name of revenge na utakuwa unahurt the lady to the guy you are cheating with,
MArriage is God given, if not operated under God's instructions and guidelines it will never work. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, fear Him and turn away from evil!!!
"I dont want to raise my child in a broken marriage". This is what exactly what the lady did by being rebellious. Its better to walk out rather than cheat in the name of revenge. Huyu dem atapata cha mtema kuni
Each of them has issues but the guy appears very insecure and therefore the controlling traits. That's why he wants the lady to go to the village. She should only go if its going to improve her standard of living and bring more peace and happiness but not as a condition. You dont put conditions on your partner but you reason with each other.
Uyu ni poko tuh she cheated intentionally even though jamaa hangecheat uyu ni wa streets period 😔💔😢 but hii kanairo kunyanduliwa nayoooo atapatana nayo properly
They cheated on @ other with their best friends and one went ahead to conceive....all they have to do is lower their ego and forgive @ other and move on
Boy alicheat na wakasolve so her cheating hati ni revenge hio ni ujinga ona sasa na walikua wamekaa vizuri,saa ingine mfikirie mkifanya hizo revenge zenu .sa hata ukifanya revenge ka hio unanufaika na Nini 🤔 kama haukutaka wake nayeye ju alicheat kwanza angemwambia waachane .endeleeni kumpa nguvu na ujinga zenu tu
This man is smthing else who told u cheating wth her best friend was the best thing???ati anajuwa kitu alifanya.mm personally i feel good wen the gal cheated wth his best friend..the feelling is gd too to the man.malaya ulianxa wewe boychild.mm hakuna roho ya chuma na ingine ni plastic
Ushago is not solution cos even ushago u can still cheat,but its better u separate than to revenge what if u revenge and get H.i.v ,stop cheating guys😢
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