I’m 41 Years Old and STILL Learning Hard Lessons | Here are 4 of Them

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I’m 41 Years Old and STILL Learning Hard Lessons | Here are 4 of Them. I recently turned 41 and celebrated by going on a solo trip to Barcelona! ⟡ My Patreon is Launching JUNE 5TH!!! Join me for all the BTS I've been meaning to share!!! ⟡ bit.ly/mayaonpatreon
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@karakarakarakara 11 месяцев назад

Every time Maya brings up her spiritual life, it makes me happy!

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

I could talk about it all day 🤣

@merriabenton7323 11 месяцев назад

Me toooo❤❤❤😊😊

@Joy11411 11 месяцев назад

Me three!

@sajdahsamuels4037 11 месяцев назад

Same 🙌🏾😊

@DesiraeOfori 11 месяцев назад

My heart swells ❤❤❤

@toniciabryan438 11 месяцев назад

I just turned 40 this year and am learning to lean on God more and more. Happy 41 birthday to you 🎉

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Thank you boo! and same here!

@teeb1353 11 месяцев назад

I am 42 I will be 43 in July , I had my daughter at the age of 25 I definitely don't regret having her in my mid 20s. She is about to turn 17 next month she is my only child. I am a single parent my daughter's father was murdered when I was 3 months pregnant , so I never had the help & support from him unfortunately; I have a great support system with my family Thank God, because it hasn't been easy I have always worked full-time & finished college I did it, but I worked myself into exhaustion. I now suffer with Fibromyalgia and I am fighting for my health so I can go back to work I really don't know how women do it in their 40s having babies because I definitely do not have the energy to deal with little ones anymore, but I love babies they are adorable sweet & innocent. I promised myself I would never have anymore children unless I was married because single parenthood even with a great support system has been hard on me, but I am so happy for you & family I been following you since 2015 when you lived in NYC, I found your channel, and you inspired me. I think you & your husband are doing a great job with parenting keep up the great work I love your channel its one of my happy places to escape in my mind. lol 😊

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

What a life and testimony! Girl give me your name and I will PRAY!!! We need hedges of protection and healing! I don't know how I be doing it but the blessing is I am an energetic person naturally and have to find even more energy to keep up 😂 I can't wrap my head around another one of them . Thank you for sharing here in the comments🙏

@teeb1353 11 месяцев назад

Hi Mya my name is Tanesha thank you so much I will also keep you & family in my prayers!

@deanadiaries3390 11 месяцев назад

I’m so sorry, lost my husband at 35, had just given birth to our second son, baby was 3 weeks old an my husband got covid and died. Our eldest was 5. 2 years later and being a single parent is hardddddd. I cry every day. Praying for you about your health issues 🙏

@teeb1353 11 месяцев назад

@@deanadiaries3390 Thank you for sharing being a " single-parent" has been extremely hard to say the least the emotional, physical, & financial burden has been hard everything falls on me now I'm dealing with a teenager and all that comes with the " teenage age " years. My daughter also suffers because she never met her father & never will, but I put all my trust in God & he always makes away for us. My health issues has slowed me down a lot, but I keep on pushing through my daughter needs me. Sending you peace !

@BenjaminMutuku 11 месяцев назад

What a gem of life lessons in our 40s. With social media and the fast life, it’s been challenging to focus on self and self reflection. One of my biggest life lessons is that what people think of you doesn’t affect your life (if you don’t let it). I just don’t care as much about what people think about me. In my 20s and part of 30s, I cared too much about that. Not anymore. It’s so liberating. Thanks for sharing. Hope you post more content.

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

It’s freeing letting that go! These days I’m concerned of what God thinks 🙏🏾✨

@WildWorldOfBooks 11 месяцев назад

Currently in my mid 20’s, haven’t had any relationships nor casual ones. Struggled with that a lot. Not because it bothered me specifically but because I looked at those around me at my age and felt as though I wasn’t experiencing and missing out on what they say was “enjoying your youth”. I don’t want to put myself in situations for the sole purpose of relating to others. So, I’m in the season where I’m learning to trust that God is more than enough in my life and whatever will come when it comes. I shouldn’t be too concerned about how others are living and focus on living the best life that I can through God.

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

GIRL!!!! You are so good! Keep seeking God and pray for a man of God!!! Both in spirit and in word

@MissJhane 11 месяцев назад

I remember when I used to watch Oprah (the 90s days) she said 20s you make AALLL the mistakes, 30s you see if you learn the lessons, 40s you know yourself more and is okay with who you are, 50s you trully start living. So far 40s I love it and getting closer to God makes it much more meaningful 💕💕. Love theses self-discovery. Trully amazing 💕💖

@gracious2gf 11 месяцев назад

As a 41 year old woman, this was the RU-vid video that I needed. Thank you so much for sharing 🙏🏾

@sailstomars 11 месяцев назад

My mum has been praying over me my entire life. She is so filled with prayer and turning to God. This has resulted in me feeling so incredibly protected my whole life. Because of her example, I pray too.

@Momentsofessence 11 месяцев назад

Loving this introspective chat in the forest! More of this scenery por favor 🙂I am turning 32 this year and the two most important things I want to aim for are: living out the gospel by treating people with kindness and love and accepting my true identity in Christ. Nothing (not work, friends, or even my past) can define me.

@elenam9435 11 месяцев назад

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@yoursisesthermeya 11 месяцев назад

Amen

@rileystein6195 11 месяцев назад

I'm 35 in July and it's wild to me that I even got to this point. To an extent, I feel like I never left my 20s. At this point in my life, my focus is on my career and growing financially. There's a lot I want to do and give to my son, so I really need to improve this part of my life. My goal is to be fully in my new career by 40.

@leanita2010 11 месяцев назад

Anytime you start ministering the true gospel...and talking about prayer and salvation etc. And i get so proud and happy that you are here to represent for Believers! Love you. Please Keep On Shining That Light In This World Girly!❤️

@fiyinobayanmusic 11 месяцев назад

Girl I had no choice but to be a prayer warrior in this season! Only God got me through it!

@shivon.monique 11 месяцев назад

Amen 🙏🏽, same!

@SaharaKnows 8 месяцев назад

The mind is never satisfied. It also drifts to wanting something else even when you get everything you ever wanted. Prayer AND workshop

@keciabrown7455 11 месяцев назад

Maya having the Holy Spirit for my Teacher is priceless. He has given me the gift of speaking in Tongues and when I pray in the heavenly language I find that so gratifying because the enemy doesnt understand what you're saying and when I ask my teacher to interpret I get clear answered prayers. I wouldn't trade it for anything. Txs. for sharing.

@jassyramirez9306 11 месяцев назад

I’m 39 and feel the transition and all these thoughts get the best of you!!! You haven’t accomplished everything you set your mind to do. You are not where your suppose to be at this age. So thank you for sharing your journey!!! God bless you and your family!!!🙏

@WordsPictures997 11 месяцев назад

LOVE the language of "being a better listener" vs 'obedient and silent' it sounds so much healthier and makes a lot more practical sense when you say it like that. Thank you for that Maya!

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

I think so too 🤣

@Embodyingfaiththroughfitness 11 месяцев назад

I can feel the genuine excitement of your salvation whenever you speak. God bless you. 💕

@MaxMayaLiving 11 месяцев назад

Here for all of this. I’m excited about this next chapter and more so PATREON!! You’ve worked so hard for this 🎉❤ / Max

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Thank you my love! I'm so excited for Patreon!

@BabyLawyer2010 11 месяцев назад

I am also turning 41 this year and what you said about wanting to pray at night and angels directing you out of accidents is hitting me so hard. Thanks for sharing. God spoke to me through your video

@vanillamint7854 8 месяцев назад

🎉 you're looking gorgeous & your little garden is beautiful.enjoy!#Give thanks 😊

@bree.bonnie 11 месяцев назад

Ooo that 40+ “isms” actually being issues that haven’t been dealt with is something new 🤔 may need to give that some serious thought while still in my early 30s

@user-os3gp6pv5h 11 месяцев назад

MAYA YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL!!!😍😍😍💜💖⭐️⭐️⭐️ also I LOVEEEEEEE the background. ughghhhg so stunning

@Snicolemidlifeliving 6 месяцев назад

Im 44 and it's been a lot of revelations about life. Im happy for the mindset I have about it now vs my 20s. Its a different outlook that's for sure.

@elianasjoy 11 месяцев назад

Aw Maya, I so appreciate your wisdom through the ages, and your heart for Jesus ❤ Excited to see where life takes you 😊

@amarouge 11 месяцев назад

I am here for the learnings and the solo trips! I'm in my late 30s and just did my first solo trip because i wanted to nourish, rest and restore myself and work to my own timeline - not have to consider anyone else in my decisions whilst on holiday. Just do exactly what i wanted each moment of the day. BEST choice ever! This year is about courageous expansion for me, bliss and anchoring into faith and trust.

@MissPrettyNPink 8 месяцев назад

At 47 I can say you just keep learning

@closecounsel9099 8 месяцев назад

That was awesome.. you've come such a long way. Father God is pleased

@quiniannjambi 10 месяцев назад

I really love the green background 😍✨✨✨.

@ConsciousMatters 11 месяцев назад

💯 I love your approach on silence. I have a similar one on patience with the byproduct of LISTENING. I don’t use “obedient” … that word is still triggering for me but I’d say that being patient and listening definitely helps in being more aware, present, and mindful of self and others, even in the words we use. Happy 41 to you! 🎉

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Trigger word of the season? OBEDIENCE! hahaha!!! We're similar if patience is your season

@ConsciousMatters 11 месяцев назад

@@shamelessmaya My eeeaarsss! (in Phoebe Buffay's voice). Well, I guess I have some inner work to do around that trigger word of the season 🙈Thanks for highlighting that for me, though.

@lisajenkins7692 11 месяцев назад

hmm. so that's what I said, obedience is a by-product. Agree about the listening part too. Happiness (aka refilling your own cup/self care) is key too. Glad to see you're vacation did the trick.

@PoSHEmediaglobal 11 месяцев назад

I am 31 and so excited for what’s ahead 🎉❤

@anatashazeegelaar3096 10 месяцев назад

MAYA, such a blessing you are. THE LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU AND YOURS

@AmandaGabriel876 10 месяцев назад

Thanks for these gems ❤

@rdunyc554 5 месяцев назад

Great video!

@JayH1931 11 месяцев назад

Wow you look amazing!!!

@hendrick32 11 месяцев назад

Love you big sis! Thank you for the advice ❤❤

@natybeautyholic 11 месяцев назад

41 😮? You look more like 25-28! Wow, you are amazing!

@IvonneStacy 11 месяцев назад

Love it Maya! Happy belated Birthday! ❤

@lorealdonae 11 месяцев назад

10 years ago you taught me how to properly take care of my curls. I turn 29 this year and today I learned you’re 2 years younger than my mom! Crazy!

@ChelsieLarose 11 месяцев назад

First off, you look fucking amazing! Skin.. hair.. GLOWWWWW 😍😍😍 my goodness. I’ve been following you for almost a decade and you always amaze me. I’m 23, you give me so much to look forward to 🫶🏾

@soulqueenlove 10 месяцев назад

I am loving this season of your channel.

@auag19 11 месяцев назад

The reflection ✨✨✨✨ Here for it! 🙌🏼

@user-vw9yo1gf3e 11 месяцев назад

You’re such a blessing, keep sharing ❤

@AleighaNicole 11 месяцев назад

Ahhh 🌞 I love the nature setting for filming Maya!!

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Me too! The weather has been so beautiful in Sweden lately.

@7sistersenterpriseinc142 10 месяцев назад

I am proud of your independence even if you're married. Also, I agree about listening and not interrupting the other person. Whenever I want to give my opinion, I ask the other person if they want me to just listen and not give them my opinion because maybe that's all they want from me. No judgment.

@LaurenFrancisco 11 месяцев назад

"It's Supernatural." 🙌🏽That sounds like it's the greatest theme and declaration for your life in this decade. I feel it more and more the older I get, and truly believe words and prayers are prophecies that we declare over ourselves and future generations. We can only imagine the compounded prayers of our parents and so on. Now it's our turn to be that for ourselves and the future. Thank you for sharing!

@laurak5414 11 месяцев назад

Girl you are glowing! Beautiful story❤❤❤

@ashleighlankford6245 11 месяцев назад

Looking Amazing Maya! Wishing you many blessings!

@lovingatlanta 11 месяцев назад

👍💝Awesome commentary and video. You look amazing. Great call to video outside. The outdoor scenery is a beautiful backdrop. The outdoor sounds of nature too. Thanks for sharing your journey. Wishing you the absolute best. 💝

@abenaoffeh-gyimah8265 11 месяцев назад

THIS WAS LOVELY! And wisdom and raw ❤😊🎉

@vaniadamanso5921 2 месяца назад

I just turned 41 today, jobless, clueless of what life I should be living, not sure of myself at this day and age?🤦‍♀️

@elenam9435 11 месяцев назад

I just love your transparency!!!🥰🥰🥰 You are a breath of fresh air!!!

@TimewithLivi 11 месяцев назад

Love this Maya ❤

@mosunsannitradingasbambiba5351 11 месяцев назад

I'm with you on the celebrate yourself girl! Every single day ❤

@user-wu6bs9qg9n 11 месяцев назад

Yes AMEN!

@beingkrys 11 месяцев назад

I love hearing people’s testimonies. It’s so amazing.

@joyjoyner2753 11 месяцев назад

Been here from day one.. enjoying this new content Maya! God bless you!!!❤

@Delinamedhin 11 месяцев назад

Happy Birthday Maya ! Thank you for sharing :)

@jessiicc 11 месяцев назад

We got love for you girl!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤ peace and blessings and protection!!!! 💜💜💜💜

@Carafuuul 3 месяца назад

Maya you‘re always such a great inspiration to me! Here since 2018 and your videos from your vow to yourself to today supported my liberation so much.

@hippystranger 11 месяцев назад

loving the trees, such a vibe. great video! ✨

@nhills505 11 месяцев назад

Your journey is beautiful and inspiring 💛💛💛

@Eleerai 11 месяцев назад

Happy belated birthday Maya.. u r such an inspiration. Will be turning 40 in 3 years and still have those issues that aren't cute anymore. U r so true when u say with age it gets harder and slower to change. Thank you for sharing your life and your faith with so much boldness and authenticity. It is really inspiring and empowering.❤🎉

@ByBoLe4kA 11 месяцев назад

oh my God, can I just say you look absolutely amazing with the forest in the background

@porshal.1052 11 месяцев назад

Omg you are absolutely beautiful 🥺💕

@s.aitken5241 11 месяцев назад

❤ your spirit!! You glow and it's real cuz you show all the texture!

@EricaVain 11 месяцев назад

So gooooood! Maya this life looks sooooooo good on you and I am so happy for you! The vulnerability and sharing your lessons along the way as you see fit is phenomenal and truly BEAUTIFUL! Love you!

@breneworld 11 месяцев назад

What a perfect birthday! Happy birthday Maya :) 🎂🍰 Everything you say is spot on. I too started treating my life differently. 🌠 I like the way Max said about the buttcrack year. I felt like that when I was 39 going into 40. I am turning 42 in July and all I want is for everyone to leave home on a vacation so I can rest at home alone and be a sloth lol. 🦥 Totally relate with you about plans with sick children. We've been like sick off and on since October. Although I am not a religious person, I do follow spiritual practices such as saying blessings and affirmations. I feel like those practices give me a sense of gratitude and hope. 🙏 Have a great day and happy birthday for another year around the sun 🌞

@DakotaDistracted 11 месяцев назад

I love watching you in nature maya you look so good 😍❤ love to you from NYC 🗽

@someonewhoknows1891 Месяц назад

Love Barcelona. Definitely going back.

@janayalaude4722 11 месяцев назад

Bro, the way you look like you’re still in your 20’s is wild. God bless!!!!

@silentlyflourish 11 месяцев назад

Wow, Maya.. imagine if there was a studio wholly dedicated to people's testimonies! wow wow wow. thank you for sharing your journey

@CarasPlace 11 месяцев назад

I’m loving your content! Thank you for sharing your experience. 💛 You’re flourishing and growing.

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Thank you for tuning in! It means a lot.

@davidperrii 11 месяцев назад

I started watching you in 2014 and you don't look a day passed when I first found your channel. However, I have witnessed you grow so much through the years! Sending all the love and support.

@binbin9196 10 месяцев назад

I love the realization that some of the new ways we are seen is a by-product of a new attitude or new behaviors. It’s showing the fruit of the hard work you have done. One thing tho I think we can all make necessary changes at whatever age we are. You just need to be open to seeing that the changes are necessary.

@aleksandrasidel5412 11 месяцев назад

As I am about to turn 39, these are such good tips!

@josefineingtoft1 11 месяцев назад

Yes sooo cute outside!

@pagingamber 10 месяцев назад

Yes, 40's teaches us more of the truth about life and what matters and who matters. Such a journey. I'm 43 and I've learned a ton and finally see what's real. ❤

@kashtagraham7973 11 месяцев назад

Love it Maya

@christinalucia6321 8 месяцев назад

🙌🏽

@WIZ___ 11 месяцев назад

I began feeling that way in my late 30's. Great video!

@midheaven_mimi 11 месяцев назад

That time is definitely a transition period ❤

@MimiD14 11 месяцев назад

This was a wonderful video !! I am in the season of realizing I got ISSUES!! lol i thought I was fine but nope ! God has been revealing a lot of things about myself that actually surprise me . Working through it !

@robynabreu3594 11 месяцев назад

Maya you look fantastic! 🤎

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Thank you boo!

@deanadiaries3390 11 месяцев назад

Love this

@zandrenegordon5876 11 месяцев назад

Maya take a full breath ,you are so inspirational I love you so much and what you represent. Keep up the good work have a good day Maya Max and Saga.

@_reannawalker 11 месяцев назад

I'm turning 30 next Monday and thinking I'm getting old 😄. Happy Belated birthday Maya!

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

😂😂😂 30?! Not yet! And not even 40 🤣🤣🤣 I'll just keep pushing that narrative away until I'm really "OLD" like 80 or 90

@_reannawalker 11 месяцев назад

@@shamelessmaya 😆😆

@Inayah-jy8qb 11 месяцев назад

OMG you were in Barcelona and I missed on that!?!!!! I would loved have to meet you!

@alobiennicky7407 11 месяцев назад

This was so helpfull I turned 26 three days ago and I can see my growth.

@EllaBoadu 11 месяцев назад

In awe

@ElsaLoves246 11 месяцев назад

I love that you do these videos. It shows that you’re reflective and stride to live in the present. Back story, my mom passed when she was 48 years old #LupusAwareness one thing that stuck with me, unlike a lot of my peers I appreciate and embrace the process of aging. I’ve learned that every year has grows and glows but while I simultaneously appreciate the now. As a 33 year old who has watched you for about 6 years I genuinely appreciate this video. I love your honest truth growths and reflections. Keep shinning queen 👑 With love, Elsa

@thecadets1031 11 месяцев назад

Amen! I am definitely working on being a prayer warrior also!

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

Warriors Activate!

@candaces2010 11 месяцев назад

Cheers! #41loading 6/11. I’m celebrating me and me alone. Thanks for this.

@whosyourbrad 11 месяцев назад

Love you girl!!!❤ Beautiful video and words, and that backdrop 🙉🙉🙉

@shamelessmaya 11 месяцев назад

BRAD!!! Thank YOU for making my time in Barcelona one to remember! Can't wait until we meet again 🙏🏽

@courtneegurl86 11 месяцев назад

I understand the lowering of expectations part....my toddler started daycare April 2022 and he just stopped getting sick this month. All my PTO that I was gonna use for vacations went out the window. So I gave in and said bump it, maybe I'll get some time off next year.

@oaklandsoldier8520 3 месяца назад

Im a 38 year old single man and in still lost in life. Please pray for me

@evon0406 6 месяцев назад

How are you 41?? You look like your in your 20s....im like in awe!

@xauceamani 11 месяцев назад

1:40 Lesson 01, Celebrate Yourself ( Without Compromise ) 5:54 Lesson 02, Lower Your Expectations 6:40, Lesson 03, Your Issues Aren't Cute 7:50 Lesson 04, Learn To Listen 9:51 Bonus Lesson 05, The Power Of Prayer Happy Belated Birthday Maya❣🎉