@peacejy1221 You Know that for sure? Didn't she say he blocked opportunities for her to work with other producers. Her career seemed stunted to me. She probably could have gone so much further without him. Abuse is not just physical. It's emotional, mental, financial, etc.
@peacejy1221 You don't have to feel sorry for her. Just pray a charming narcissistic psychopathic demon with endless money to stalk, murder, make people you love die and disappear while keeping his hands clean don't ever get his demonic claws into you 🤷🏾♀️
Im sending all the love and virtual hugs to EVERYONE who has ever been effected by D.V. My God give you the strength to heal and my He make your life whole again. I love you all. ❤
EXACTLY I love this comment these people out here in this world/society is evil,wicked,TOXIC,emotionally,mentally,physically,ABUSIVE I grow up in a domestic violence home and it EXPLAINs why I made the choices and decisions I made this world needs healing
I'm praying for you! I am praying for all women who have endured this type of abuse. I am a 14-year survivor of domestic violence. I almost lost my life the night I left, he hit me in my head and left me laying in a field bleeding from my head,I saw my funeral that night and I heard God tell me if I don't leave this is what's going to happen to you if you don't Leave. I left and never looked back!
You are correct dear sister. Been there, done that, and refuse to be anyone's punching bag! Love, hugs, and prayers for you and all who have suffered from domestic abuse❣️
Christi. Thank you for being open and sharing. Thank ypu for calling us back to who we are supposed to be ...to watch out mouths & memes on Our Father's children. He's serious about His kids (Luke 17:2; Matthew 25:40). Let's act like we are really His kids. Praying with you & for you Christy.❤️🙏🏾🕊
Christi I too grew up with domestic violence as well as an abuse survivor myself. Thank you for this upload.♥️ Yes we do need to be Kind. Sadly, the world has Changed and Empathy is an endangered species.
Praying for all the victims and survivors of domestic violence. You are right on point. No one can speak about something they haven't experienced. Love and prayers! Thank you for your bravery. ❤
Thank you for this Christi……. The terror and fear that victims have … the abuser has control over them physically, mentally and emotionally.. let’s keep praying 🙏🏽🙏🏽
When U popped up in the feed today. Told your story. And the way you make me laugh. To that old adage......U don't know what someone has been thru. And so YES Be Kind. 2 words you see when you enter my doors. But unfortunately, the world is changing. U must live your BEST life. Be Kind. 2 U 1st. As God would have U 2 B. Because we have been WARNED of these times. SO BE A LIGHT.....And Be kind. Last.....Ms. Christi....I am praying 4 your mind. And spirit. IJN...Thank U 4 U.
I grew up in domestic violence & was in domestic violence for a lot of years. People are good at advising you of what they would do if the shoe was on other foot. Unless you been in that situation you can’t say what you would do. My relationship with JESUS CHRIST THROUGH HIS HOLY SPIRIT was the only way I got out he brought me out of it to a place of safety. Some time later I messed with the same guy & after that last incident GOD would not allow me to entertain the thought of going back. Whom the son set free is free indeed & where the spirit of the LORD is there is liberty. I feel for anyone that’s in that situation & cannot see their way out. JESUS CHRIST gave me a way of escape it took a lot of years to finally get tired. I NEVER NEEDED HIM but I fooled myself in believing I did
You are a hero! I am praying for all of the people suffering in silence. Thank you for your courage and strength. It's not easy to stand up as an advocate for victims of any kind of abuse and manipulation.
I prayed for you, Miss Christie, that our Father would provide His comfort and peace for you. It is so easy for people to say ugly things when they are punching away on a keyboard... living it is different. I have a very close friend who was a victim of horrible domestic violence. She was so beat down, not only physically, but sometimes even more damaging, mentally. She felt like she was not worth anything and almost like she deserved in, in a way. I was at my wits end on how to help her. They ended up having two children and I told her we needed to make arrangements for when he critically hurts her or kills her, because I needed to be able to get in contact with her family to get her kids. I honestly think that flipped a switch in her head. I typed up a letter that had her family's contact information and that I could take her children until her family arrived, if she was incapacitated and she had to sign it. I will say this, her ex-husband is also a person. He hurts people because he is so broken. I am not condoning his behavior in ANY WAY. He was raised with complete craziness.
Preach 🙏 You're beautiful inside and out. I wish everyone could see this video and take it to heart. This world is sick. The things that's being glorified today are nauseating. Praying for all survivors. 🙏
I watched my mother get the sh&$ beat out of her every day by my stepfather for YEARS when I was young! I mean daily. That's how I grew up, just traumatized to this day. Abuse is not nothing to joke about. Prayers to Cassie and all who suffer in silence. I pray for a way out for you. I pray for safety and for peace for you. 🙏🏾
Hey Christi how are you doing lam also a DV victim you are so right about everything that you said lam getting ready to go to court soon for DV lam in therapy but it is very very hard after you have been have been have been have been abused thanks for the video ♥️💜♥️♥️
Please, please refrain from judging if you’ve never been in it. I’m one of the strongest people I know and I was in it! It’s a scary and hopeless situation. Take care of you!
Facts. However, as victims we must learn to break the cycle of abuse; not date for money and status, not make poor decisions because we are lonely and desire emotional support and to be held. We need to take our time getting to know someone and run the first sign of danger because WE KNOW what it looks like. We cannot put total responsibility on the other person to not abuse us (=no control); we can only control our decisions and what we will tolerate. Abuse (emotional, mental, physical) CANNOT be tolerated on ANY LEVEL!
I saw myself in that video too, survivor as well and I lost my baby from the last assault. It was so hard to watch but I wanted to see from the outside what it looked like. VICTIMS "CAN'T JUST LEAVE" FOR SOME ITS CALLED A TRAUMA BOND. SOME WOMEN HAVE CHILDREN AND ITS DIFFICULT FOR THEM TO JUST UP AND LEAVE. SOME WOMEN ARE BEING CONTROLLED AND MONITORED AND HELD HOSTAGE BY THEIR ABUSERS OR UNDER SURVEILLIENCE 24/7!!! It takes 7 tries for a victim to leave their abuser, did you know that??? Sheesh it's not easy to just up and leave if it were my baby would still be alive. Cassie would've been gotten out of there if she could've so have would Kim Porter who was also bonded to him by her kids. For anyone to make fun of this I pray you never have to go through it. Diddy isn't sorry for shit. Just like my abuser wasn't when he laughed at me in court knowing I had a miscarriage from his assault. I swear people are getting more stupid and ignorant every day. I'm glad you survived Christi and take it easy I know this is very triggering for a lot of us who have went through this and are going through this. 🙏
Praying for you Christi as well as all those impacted by domestic violence. You are right, it’s an issue that should be treated with respect, love and kindness.
I work with a non profit called beauty for Ashes which is a support for abused women . I hear you Christie and I applaud you for speaking out! Until You have walked I. Someone else’s shoes don’t judge !!!!!!!!
I have worked in law enforcement for over 25 years. Ladies (and men) get out the best way you can. I know leaving is the scariest part but it's the first step towards getting your power back. Praying for all affected.
I'm praying for the people who have made it out and also the ones that are struggling to get out. My sister wasn't fortunate to make it out. Domestic violence destroys the entire family. 🙏🏾💜
I totally agree!!!! It's easy to say what she should have done when you have never been in that situation. Abusers start to break you down mentally FIRST then it escalates
I zseen myself in that video and I’m happy we who made it out did. I’m grateful daily ❤. I’m praying for all women and men in this situation. I’m still healing and I’m praying for you Christi ❤
I seen myself in that video and I’m happy we who made it out did. I’m grateful daily ❤. I’m praying for all women and men in this situation. I’m still healing and I’m praying for you Christi ❤
I've been through domestic violence before and its not easy to get out. I left with the clothes on my back to get to a safe place at a domestic violence shelter. My daughter was 5 years old at the time. I was in a deep depression and didn't want to get up and do anything but i had to take care of my daughter. Since then, God has blessed me with a good husband who loves me unconditionally.
Who knows what would’ve happened if she would’ve gone in the stairwell and he got a hold of her on the stairs. the bottom line he was abusing her and it’s a cycle until you are strong enough to walk away or there are other ending consequences thank goodness it wasn’t the latter
Cassie and you are the strongest ladies. I have at 50 years old decided, I don't want anymore relationships. Once you're free, stay free! I want peace and many of these men (NOT ALL) want everything for nothing. Try to be righteous by my own kind. However, they are too busy looking in other faces and giving it all they got, but give hell to their own kind. Shameful to see and say. Stay strong and keep on, sis. We love you to life. Praise Him!!❤❤
I went through this while supporting a friend whose husband said he was going to kill her. I stood by her and when she said she was going back to him, I told her I will support you as you are my friend. She had to leave him in the end. I know what it is like and I do not stand in judgement of anyone. I pray for all abuse women and ask for God's protection. We do not know what we would do in the circumstances so leave the judgemental attitude at the door.
Amen. Well said. We need to be kind to one another and pray for healing ❤️🩹. I know that video is triggering because it triggered me to. DV is NEVER okay. Thank you for this message 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
I’m a domestic violence survivor of 20 years. I went through every type of abuse you can experience. My heart goes out to those who are suffering in this type of abuse, which is bondage. It’s by the grace of God that I’m still here. My ex husband and I forgave each other. He’s in heaven now. I’m praying for and love everyone!❤️🤗🙏🏽
Praying for every survivor strength. I knew that video was going to be very triggering. I'm glad you shut down social media for a moment. It's very overwhelming.
TY❤ TRIGGERS ARE VERY REAL💔🙌🙏 JEEEEEESUS HELP US ALL.. I STILL HAVE ANXIETY. I STRUGGLE DAILY. GOD BLESS,KEEP,COVER AND HEAL YOU AND ALL WHOM EXPERIENCED ANY AND ALL ABUSE.
As a survivor and a certified DV advocate and also a former facilitator of a DV women’s group, you cannot question victims when you don’t understand what they are going through. The things victims go through is unimaginable to those that have never gone through it. They question shouldn’t be why, it should be how can I help?
