Nothing is wrong with him, the same thing happen to me, I wasn’t happy in Canada so I came back to Ghana. And I have never regretted. I understand him paaaa
You made the right choice. Most of us abroad are depressed and are doing jobs that is very bad for our health. Ghana life is the best if you know how to do your things
Smart move. Only those who live here will understand, because this place is mini hell on earth. Ghana is heaven on earth. Only the wise will side with him. Home sweet home.
Please, let's help him get back home and stop asking all these unnecessary questions. There are a lot of people in this situation, but they don't have the courage to go home because of the fear of what people would say about them.
What is the essence of life…live happily, care for family if you have one, and die and fade away. If he can live a happy life in Ghana, enjoy his life and take care of his child, it is okay. We have the whites in abroad who cannot own a house in their country, and in debts. The west has the conveniences of life but it did not get here easily. Bro, you can make it work in Ghana
The issue with mental health in western countries is serious. Let be honest and look at the number of black African immigrants who are mentally disabled and challenged.
I made the same mistake in Germany, i seeked political asylum, a got frustrated not getting my papers seeing most of my friends getting deported. I bought a big mercedes truck, nissan blue bird car. Went to Ghana. After a few years arriving in Ghana, i became " Burger" lose. I came back to America in 1987.. I have successfully set my own business and owns Rental properties both in the USA and Ghana. God bless USA 🎉 hope he reads my story.
It boils down to our mindset back in our country. Things are really happening outside ghana, but people back home who have no travel experience wont understand until they also experience it
One thing I have learnt in life is that the good job you want , the marriage you want , the happy life you want are the same things that will stress you. But in life put God first. Bro God be you .
Milo stop pressing him to live in Canada. Canada is too cold which is not good for our health, Canada does not have jobs and even accommodation. What the fak is he doing there ? Let him come back home and hustle and he will be better than most of you guys living in Canada and uk . Bro, take the decision and leave for the sanity of your mind and soul
Abroad is not for everybody this guy is depressed and impatient on time ,before success there is a price to pay before success remember nothing goes for nothing every where one love ❤️
What I no in this world is not every one will succeed in abroad let's keeps that in our mind , because everyone has his or her destiny what will work for kwaku will not work for kwame despite all start with k❤ that's my humble opinion
People don’t have the right mindset….anyone that thinks abroad is for chilling is simply uninformed… you’re there to suffer and make money from that suffering them back to your country for chilling … periodttttt
I think he should sit and rethink the decision....it's something you are going to overcome if you stay strong......you'll have to tune your mind to the living of Canada.
This guy misses home, his family and probably his girlfriend.....in your first couple of months abroad, you have to be disciplined, especially sexually, if you're not the type who can suppress your sexual urges, that alone can make you depressed. I realized when I got to Canada that, I would have to restrain myself from pleasure and a lot of things.....I left my own 4 bedroom house in Ghana before coming here, but I came here with a dream and a purpose and until I achieve that, nothing will make me return home. Absolutely nothing! If this youngman really wants to go home, he should just go and tell them to deport him.....because to buy a plane ticket, you need your passport and when you seek asylum, your passport is seized so even if you guys contribute money for his ticket, he still doesn't have a passport and you can't board a flight with only ticket.
Milo, Nana Osei Bonsu is here, I will play devils advocate, West Africans are not tuff minded enough, this guy is so attached to the family in Ghana and he didn't know how the system works in Canada. we all have families in Ghana but it comes a time when you have to part off the family and stand alone. Canada is a great place especially at younger age like him. I don't think anyone should encourage him to leave Canada until his case is over with the immigration. We should only support him if he wants to stay, We have all been through this and even worse than this. We were brought up like this and religion has made it worse, weakened our fighting power, we cant take hardships. This guy may need people talking to him or joining some group here to push back the loneliness. Coming all the way and returning just because of pressure does not make any sense. It took me 10 years before becoming landed, within that period my parents passed, I stayed and struggled and now taking care of siblings my parents left behind. You have to man up. you cant be weak and travel outside your comfort zone. Compare here to those in Dubai. People who do not research any endeavors they take end up like this all the time. He put her trust in an agent and that is the result of his actions now. people die everyday and every where. Life in Canada is not Carnival.
You’re not serious, contrary to all the rosy,green and fairy tales about living in the west, a person feels lost in himself and seeks to go back to the motherland and you say what! He should only be supported if he wants to stay?! Wo ny3 correct … you think life is all about living the enslaved life abroad or that everyone has that mental toughness living this lonely,pathetic life abroad just for money that you lots never even get to enjoy the fruits of your toil? If you wont help him Commot for there masa
@@iamthatiam602tell him..I wonder why some Ghanaians think the only way to survive in life is to travel abroad..Traveling abroad is not for everyone..so if the guy wants to go back to Ghana, let him go because may be his true destiny is In Ghana..u are right bro
I live and work in America anybody in America will understand my job is hardest job in America and a tanner truck drive going around the whole United States we run about 700 miles a day mostly stuff days a week is not easy when that winter comes trust bro when i come to Ghana i feel alive and if not for the money i swear no Ghanaian will go and live abroad we will only go for holidays and come back
I'm sure the guy has assessed his situation very well and realized he's better off in Ghana. One thing you should know is that money cannot revive bad mental health. Trust me, there's plenty of people walking the streets of Toronto looking good but are depressed and in a negative mental state. It's not worth it man. Let him go if he wants to.
This is sad, People don't learn, and all they know is we are going to Canada. You know how to investigate airline tickets, and you can't do visa applications for yourself. In this modern day, you contact someone to buy tickets for you. Hmmmmm, People should learn oooo
Masa, don’t say that. Is not as simple as ABC. Somebody coming from Obuasi Zongo, how do you expect him to complete a whole visa application form? Some of the questions are a bit technical and you need some guidance from an an immigration advisor, a lawyer or someone with vast experience. Why are you also not driving in Canada and always taking TTC? You are lucky enough to even go to the university yet you’ve not been able to write your G1 test and pass
Those saying "where he's coming from", as if the place has no learned persons, stop that koraa!! Obuasi Zongo is not deprived as you think! I was born here and I can tell you for a fact 95% of the youth here are literates! about 70% of this 95% are degree holders!!!
MASA CALL ERICO FOR HIM NOW! HE IS PLAYING NONSENSE. WHAT KIND OF MADNESS IS THIS? YOU ARE FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO GET WORK PERMIT AND YOU ARE MISBEHAVING. GO TO GERMANY, UK AND SOUTH AFRICA AND SEE, 70% of GHANA GUYS DON’T HAVE NKRATAA, YET THEY ARE DOING WELL. PLEASE CALL ERICO FOR HIM NOW, HERH!
You always come and write with fake accounts where did he say he had work document mr fake account. Which place does 70% don’t hv nkrataa mr liar 😂. You are part of reason these young people are suffering always telling lies about Abrokyire but mean while you yourself you don’t even hv place to live or you are perching 😂😂
Mr fake account have you lived in Germany bf or uk can you compare Germany economy to Canada tweaaaa you are joker . Go to work bank and imf and check the numbers which economy is big . Mr fake account stop lying to Ghanaians back home that Abrokyire is heaven joker 😂😂
Who says . I pray you all come to Canada. It’s not easy . Even you want to work you are not getting the work. Canada is not what people are saying it’s.
@@sandraantwiadjei6507 madam please stop this kenkey and fish talk . Everywhere in Nigeria the world, you just don’t get job on a silver plate. You have to go through the due process. It won’t take you up to a year . Buh once you get a job bingo 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. IT IS THE HEADQUARTERS OF ALL ABUROKYIRE. IF YOU THINK CANADA IS NOT GOOD, PACK ALL YOUR BELONGINGS AND COME AND STAY IN GHANA IN A MONTHS TIME FOR GOOD .
U are not serious....Must he die here before u will see how he is suffering? U think abroad is for everyone?People like u will die in abroad even when u are suffering because of what others will say ..Abroad is not Heaven and accept that many can't make it there
True, if you're the type who enjoys being alone, keeping to yourself and not the outdoor type of person, chances are that you'll survive abroad. Not the same for extroverts....who find happiness and fulfilment in being around people and attending social events all the time.
Seeking asylum means you are running from something in your country in the first place how do you go back to the airport that they should send you back
You are not mama B and not dada b yet you keep repeating you can’t condone pressure. You shouldn’t have made your mom aware you are sleeping outside at the first place considering her situation. Wether you like it or not your mom will die at God’s appointed time so you returning to GH won’t stop God’s plan. We all will die. Some stories like sleeping outside must be told to our parents after we have a stable residency. Telling them this kind of stories will trigger whatever sickness they are battling. He might be depressed. You want to seek proper life yet you can’t condone pressure. I somehow understand you because you know yourself and your situation of high blood pressure is good to do the needful by going home before sad event. Best of luck
I just do not get the point that some individuals think that everybody must be comfortable with Abrokyire life. If one would look at issues critically, Ghana has the most stress-free life and opportunities, but the difference is our mindset. There are a lot of Ghanaians who would NEVER exchange their life, business, and dignity for Abrokyire life!! I believe this guy would be successful in Ghana based on his mindset!!!
Although he has his own reason but forget about home when you travel, because your mum will do not own her life, only God holds life. There is a whole lot that goes on when you travel but determination is the key.
If you know yourself very well why did you travel? You keep saying you can’t go through pressure. Who doesn’t go through pressure in the first few years? He needs to see a therapist. It’s not easy in the first year wherever you go. From your submission, you’ve got a job and you’re managing but the negativity is from your home. So why do you listen to negative news from home? It’s not easy back home bro. When Africans travel we want to solve every problem at home. Think about your decision carefully. Those people giving you bad news from home won’t help you when you’re at your lowest. I think there’s more to it in this guy’s situation. Anyway individual differences, may God strengthen you.
Boss, I caught some stray bullets from you. Lols. I wanted to solve all family problems when I came initially. It took me some time to realize that’s impossible. I still help them but I have learned to put myself first. The problem was there long before me and will be there long after I’m gone. All I can do is help but I don’t have to kill myself because of that. I also have a life to live in this world.
The harsh truth is that abroad is not for everyone. It favors some people and not others. So, let him do whatever his super ego tells him. If he truly wants to come back home, then let him do so. That's all.wish him all the best!🙏
When you people dey for Ghana 🇬🇭 you dey talk any how. U now came to Canada not even one year you are runing back stay there. Those who are living in Canada do they have 4 heads or 4 hands ?? stop that Me Mame , Me Mame are you a kid ??
Asylum is not an easy process. I am a asylum seeker in Netherlands, sometimes depression set in and i always pray to God to see me through. If he wants to go home...... simply go to the immigration and the rest is history. U dont have to beg anybody for money, the system works 24/7.
It's true there's pressure in abroad but as for this guy i think he has spiritual problem,, it's he deal with it than saying my mother my mother my mother
I really understand this, man. I have repeatedly said that it isn't all that easy abroad, but there is a lot who are of the view that everyone outside is ok. It is a BLATANT LIE! He should go after all some people even die here....
If you have work permit work and buy your ticket stop begging people to buy you a ticket,do you know what some people are going through in foreign land but they keep it cool stop wanting easy way cos nothing is easy and cheap, work and rise your ticket fares and stop saying pressure my man
Abroad life is not good especially starting from refugee visa because it will take you longtime to make it in life and this asylum situation lead you into a different lifestyle (mental health problem,alcoholic,smoking, pressure,slavery labor,you can’t visit your love ones back home or even you can’t attend funeral to your family ) not everyone can survive in such situation in abroad .This life is a trap because you are going to work to pay bills at the end of the year you can not save 10,000$
This guy is not serious.....the world is full of pressure. Learn to be a soldier, be confident, endurance is the key . Life is never gonna be easy anywhere no one should waste their hard earned money to send to you to be sent home easily.
I’m not judging him but he’s not too open for the help he needs. His story is not clear if you really need help show your face and explain things into details. Who go support this besides you stated you’ve fought for a work permit what do you need in life again
Milo let him report to the immigration to withdraw his asylum process and go home. His passport is with the immigration never forget that and they are the only people who can send him home.
This guy is not serious. If you have work permit and you want to go back home. Go for more jobs because you are depressed. Canada is highly depressing because there is no way you can get more money without working. There is no kululu or connection money in Canada. Psychologically he is not prepared to travel.
The most important question is what type of visa did he use come to Canada with most of you just travel for travelling sake without even knowing the consequence of the type of visa .
people think canada is rosy. i ve been here in Toronto for a month. its all about your hardness. if u know nobody here u will suffer. im in downtown too. its not a joke but we ve managed to create jobs for ourselves here..no jobs
ɔyɛ mama ba. He should be allowed to go. He is very wise to save money home for business when he goes back without remembering he had to leave some for his ticket back. This one dier, he should give himself time to save money to get the ticket himself. He sounds like a pampered boy paa...
This guy doesn't need any help. Nobody should help him to buy ticket. He has a Canadian working permit and he says he lives outside meaning he's not paying rent. In Canada you can work for just 2 weeks and get paid to buy your tickets. What is he talking about??? Something is wrong with him. Trust me
,if he comes does he think the situation will stop.?2,if hes hiding his face to protects him selves why cant he off his phone fron hearing information from Ghana .
Pls you guys should assist him to go back home..Pls help him to go back home before something terrible happens to him..I really agree with him.I know a friend of similar situation and eventually he died in the country when the help he was seeking didn't come and was anxious to go back home.Pls listen to his plea .I'm based in new Jersey.
Milo you doing a great job but please stop the over hyping specially your friend Eric get him the plane ticket instead of interviewing him to seek alms which is very bad thank you
This guy need serious massage, sex, rest and a counsellor to eradicate the stress he's passing through. Living in Canada without a spouse can make you go into coma unknowingly. Tonga can solve his problem at ease. Trust me
I ve been praying for my visa to b approved I ve go up n down n am in panic n someone to ve gotten the visa n has been drr n he want to come bak jst bcoz of pressure Eish ewiase ain’t fare koraaao hmmm
What the host should do is try and get the contact of the guys family, and advise them to stop calling him and making demands or telling him things that will put pressure on him. If he is working now, I suggest he exercise patience and also go to Church.
Sorry to say this but I'm tempted to think our brother wasn't prepared for this trip. In this Canada japa movement you either dive deep or not. He wasn't prepared for the port of entry questions which suggests he wasn't mentally prepared to make it beyond the port of entry. He's purposed in his mind not to fight on but come back to his comfort zone. We cannot push him to stay if he's not ready to take any pressures.
This guy has taken life easy for long. He needs education. His mindset that he possess before coming here has failed him. This is reality of life that he never thought of.
Massa shut the fuck up..u don’t know what the person is going through..nonesense u must be in his shoes to feel his pain..people are still making life In Ghana
I am in Canada and I always thought people abroad complained too much till I got here. If you are not strong mentally you can lose it. What the guy is going through is not easy, sleeping on the streets even spring is crazy what of fall and almighty winter…greetings from Mississauga
@opokupatrick1884 Let's advise people to learn something for themselves. You could see that the agents took all his money for a visitor visa, which is wrong. See how much he paid for the man for a ticket. Buying an airline ticket is so simple; ah
@@Chopper1zBut he no longer sleeps in the streets and he claims to be working now so what's his real problem? Charlie this guy is not getting sex , he misses his girlfriend and his family witches are whispering into his ears...." come home, come home " 😂😂
Masa go and start your life in Ghana again not all people can make it in overseas if only he dies overthere where is his life he will never joke with his life in Ghana
When the reality kicks in you realize immediately Ghana is heaven that's why God made you to be birth there if not for it style wicked evil leaders criminals in position of power like here is where e belong because the Canadian culture and weather and life style no matter what is not for us black people but it of struggle gets us there, I will advice before you come try to come with some money and some cars to sell so you can start something because down here is not as easy at all
This guy is weak. Milo please tell him the plain truth backstage. He is too weak and likes complaining too much. Is he the only child? People go through worse things than this. He will regret this decision I tell you
You don’t like pressure and you travelled? Oh Boss you don’t like pressure de3 3noaa ni Ghana oh . What you are going through is a phase that will end if you endure.