I'm sorry, did people forget there's an average body type? You're not skin/thin, but you're not obese/overweight. This is coming from a woman who has had an average body type my entire life. Why does it feel like people nowadays are losing braincells every time they take a breath?
Mine doesn’t they are stupidly arguing this girl pink shirt girl has no one to help defend her it’s appears there’s a total of 4 people in that area and 3 are on red shirt side camera man and red shirt are fat shaming her she doesn’t have anyone to defend her so she has to defend herself that probably brought her self esteem really low too.
I feel so sorry for those little girls, I can tell that the one in the tank top was on the verge of bursting out in tears their whole video. I have she didn’t/doesn’t grow up in that mentality. Even if the other girl didn’t say that, it is just sad in general how much beef they must have at about 8-10 years old :((
(this happened in like kinder) My sisters bff joined the popular girls and turned her back on my sis, then she went in the "mean girl pose" and said "you're dad is ugly" LMFAOOO
I always was middle size, but growing up I constantly heard kids at school calling me fat, while some of my relatives said I was "skin and bones" and tried to get me to eat more. I think thats where it all comes from, when you are a woman it's easy to get into fat category for stupid reasons like your stomach isn't flat or your thighs being slightly bigger than average, because society is really judgmental about women's bodies, despite body positivity movement
@@PrincessChieswoll the girls in my school used to wish they were underweight like me(not okay), they liked the fact that I can't get fat even if I want to, which is messed up.
i have a problem with my weight and im over the average weight for my age. i have always been insecure about my body and i have been trying to change it. but seeing these really really skinny girls call themselves fat hurts because i would do anything to have that body type, and i dont think they understand what fat really is. Update: I was around 160 when I wrote this. I’m now 140 :)
I feel sorry for that little girl in purple, I hope the kids at least have decent Guardians that punished them for bullying her, as someone who was actually bullied for her weight by students and teachers, and was removed from school because of it, I hope it doesn't reach that point with her. She is going to be jaw dropping gorgeous when she grows up, she isn't even fat to begin with.
that clip reminded me of when my sister was pregnant and my own mom pulled the "you look pregnant" and i was like "you're talking to me?" and she said "yes you" i was literally nine 💀
I used to be overweight and started gymnastics to have a fun way to exercise. But apparently people don’t go to the gym to get healthy. He was probably insecure about being the only boy
watching that little girl getting called fat actually broke my heart, bc i remember being about 7 and getting changed for gym, and this one kid said i looked pregnant. that comment stuck with me for so many years and i was reminded of it every time i looked in the mirror for years after that. honestly, that other girl was such an asshole for that.
@@feuerstern9203 i'm more confident in my body image now so yeah screw them, i don't think they realised how harmful that comment could be for years lol.
This except my sister called me pregnant and my dad kinda just always said I’m unhealthy and overweight and gross and I’m gonna hate and regret my body starting at 10, I’m sorry it started at 7 for you
there is a RU-vidr named Venus Angelic that has been thin her entire life, however because she grew up in the modeling industry she was always told that she was overweight and eventually she developed an eating disorder and ending up having an illegal surgery to sew her stomach shut, which almost killed her. she recently tried to commit suicide by jumping in front of a bus
Omg that poor sweet girl she's been through through much with her abusive mother too, haven't checked in on her for a while but last time I did I could tell she was struggling mentally, I hope she's doing better since the attempt.
This trend is so not cute. I’ve struggled with anorexia for years and this worries me especially because a lot of young impressionable people see this shit. They need to stop 🤦🏻♀️
@@msjujuz266 this is exactly why I hate trends like the one in the video… those girls are fishing for compliments and think they’re cute but they have no idea how harmful what they’re doing is :( I hope you’re doing better now 💜
When I was just a child people call me fat whitish made me have body dysmorphia at 11 and made me be unhealthily skinny at 15 because I stopped eating and my biggest meal every week was about a salad with some ranch and croutons so I don’t die, thankfully I don’t have either anymore because I started to nit listen to them and ate more to be healthy wait last year❤️but some people keep listing to them and it’s just horrible that this happens
When I was 9 years old, I was called a "whore" by another 9-year-old. Reason: I had bleached bangs. Yes, I have brown hair and my parentes allowed me to get my bangs bleached, therefore I was a whore.
That girl in the purple tank is gonna think back to that moment and never gonna see her body the same :( she’s seriously so pretty, I don’t know the backstory to why those kids were fighting but in no way, that’s not ok to say
I feel so bad for the little girls. What those other kids were calling the girl in the purple tank top was not okay and I hope the guardians of these children punished them for their behavior. No little girl should have to go through this,I guess it shows what society is teaching little kids. I hope they are doing okay!!
Exactly. And the girl in the purple tank top isn't even fat either; she's like the normal body size for a child, so idk where those kids got the idea that she's "fat" from.
@MissBethslays honestly dude I'm just talking from personal experience. I like subconsciously started doing it as a kid when people said stuff and it's definitely a therapy topic
7:33 the fact she is sucking in her stomach, this hurts me cause ive gone through insecurity for 2 years, hating my body and thinking im fat but hiding my insecurity from the world and just hiding my body. i hate how this girl had to go through this.
@@pau7886yeah but we are the first generation to truly grow up with social media so there is a bit of a different culture around it. It is much more accessible to see harmful things.
And THIS is why midsize positivity became a thing, and I’m so mad that it got shot down by the fat positive crowd right when it was getting started. It’s the most normal body type, and yet it’s so underrepresented and shunned by both the extreames
In a respectful way this comment confuses me because everytime I've seen a midsized post, they've always been overweight (but not as overweight as body positive ppl). All the girls in this video have conventionally attractive figures and are slim or straight up skinny.
The girls in the videos arent midsize, i feel like its a common misconception that midsize means you wear a size medium, but thats not true. Midsize is where you lie inbetween straight and plus sizes, so like an L-XL, so thats where the “mid” comes from. Maybe im just getting confused by your comment and youre not calling the girls in the video midsize but that is what it looks like to me so sorry if i misinterpreted anything
@@hqichou1784 It’s all good! I know these girls aren’t midsized, it just feels like there’s no place for people in the medium to XL range sometimes, and then people with perfectly normal bodies end up thinking they’re weird because of that
@@deepsea5348 thank you for the clarification, i often misunderstand what people are trying to say so thank you for being nice about it. I agree with your message as well, it’s so sad that women who aren’t an xs to s are often picked on for their weight and called fat when they’re clearly not, it’s something I’ve experienced a lot growing up and it should not be happening so often. I hope there is something seriously done about it because the beauty standards are becoming so unrealistic and damaging so many girls and women.
the one with the little girls fighting made me sad. she looks 9 at max and is being called "looking to pregnant". breaks my heart, especially when i went thru the same thing at 9 years old.
same! one time when i was in like 3rd grade, me and my friend were doing a sisters roleplay and she was gonna be pregnant and she picked up a ball, but then she looked at me and said "maybe you should be the pregnant one since you already look pregnant" istg that whore ruined my mindset
Exactly, literally everyone still has baby fat at that age and grow out of it. I really hope parents or teachers saw that video and punished them because that’s the start of a bully and an eating disorder in the same video
I’m definitely overweight. Not Walmart scooter type overweight, but still overweight. And I’m unhappy in my body. Seeing videos like the ones made by these girls on tiktok feels the same as having two middle fingers shoved in your face :]
I felt sad for the girl in the pink top because she looked like she was trying to not cry when she was called fat and the boy (who actually is fat) says she looks pregnant. Those kids were little shits and they need a clip round the ear for 3 of them picking on the other girls.
Fr like I'm quite close to their age but a bit older and even if I was in a fight I would genrally never fat shame someone unless their talking about my weight , I would say : look at urself instead ,ur ego is fatter. And it's honestly true 😭 ALSO THOSE INSULTS WERE NOT EVEN COUNTED AS INSULTS LIKE : You,you,you,you 😭-
As a girl who's always had problems with weight fluctuation and was bullied for it my whole life this hurts because when I say bullied I mean by 4th grade I tried to take my own life because I was constantly being jumped by guys and girls and even the bus wasn't safe for me I was thrown out of the emergency doors in the bus because they wanted to "see if I could bounce back up" like I'm 22 now and I still have problems keeping my weight under control and I also have seizures so it's constantly bringing my weight up and down and maybe normal girls that I wish I was able to keep weight off or able to control it more don't see they are beautiful I know I can't see my beauty no matter how many people tell me but this stuff is so toxic for everyone I just wanted to be honest about it even if no one cares.
god damn. I also have troubles with my weight. More like my habits surrounding health. My mental health makes it very hard for me to care about myself which makes it harder to introduce new habits. And my family has a lot of risks that come along with it like heart disease and diabetes so I really need to do a quick turnaround if i don't want my life damaged forever. But it is hard.
I’ve been bullied my whole life too. I’m in the same situation. People tell me I’m pretty but I don’t believe them. I’m just now starting to train my brain to realise I am beautiful.
agreed. how are 4th graders so mean? like when i was in 4th grade there were mean comments, but it wasn’t about weight and how “hot” you are. this makes me so sad 😭😭
@@ameliejwritess In my opinion, I think it’s bad parenting that caused this. People be letting their young children on TikTok instead of teaching their own kids to be decent people.
@@ameliejwritess I don't think they shouldn't be on RU-vid either; there's a bunch of weird things they could possibly see, so RU-vid kids is probably the better option.
As a skinny/underweight girl its weird. People want you to be skinny and will bully you if you aren’t, but there the same people who call a “skinny” person anorexic.. I have no clue what overweight people go through but it probably hurts a lot, I only know what underweight people go through because well I am one. (Yes I think overweight and underweight people are pretty/handsome but it’s not healthy for them. I’m not trying to be rude btw.
No that's actually so sad with the little kids. It's so true every insult a girl says will include the word fat. I got called fat so much in primary I swear every girl has been called fat before and it does hurt cause even the slightest bit of belly gets called out.
You saying it is "funny" reflects immaturity. Layze is using satire, you obviously are not. This is sad, not funny. It reflects poor parenting and social norms brought on by the internet. When I was 9 and 10 I had no idea what a "bikini model" was. Never had I seen or heard of any social media, and im not as old as you think, only 19. To this day all I use is youtube, and I rarely comment. If you are under 18, your parents had better step it up. If you are over 18, you need to get your life together... saying verbal abuse is a joke. Its not funny; its sad and concerning.
I mean when my ed was really bad i thought i was always fat ana made me think and convinced me i was. Lost weight from 130 to 90. Something that made it much worse was when i opened up about my struggling at 115 and multipe people told me "well you dont look anerexic." Also those little girls fighting is pretty accurate girls usausly aim for phyical appearnce when bullying. 💀
Seeing the pretty accurate depiction of how a lot of little kids act, reminded me of how I don't miss being one, and I've never understood those who do and obsess over it.
Thanks for voicing this man, hella relatable 😢 I feel bad for that 8-10 y.o. kid, hopefully she didn't take that personally... I had a kinda similar experience with my own ex-best friend, when we were just 12-13, I have always been the fat girl, I was over 64-65 kg and 155 cm, which was the same height as her, whereas she was barely 50 kg. She was OBJECTIVELY skinny and I'm objectively overweight, although not obese. She consistently told me that I was skinny, which confused me, but said that she was fat and she needed to diet and exercise. She even showed a healthy taco she bought to our friend group and said "oh no, cheat day". We got in a fight and she said "you think your friend likes to see you always insecure, asshole?" And I was BAFFLED. I only stated the TRUTH that I was INDEED FAT? And I was trying to lose weight?? Several months later I heard from another person that she admitted I was fat. We were just like early teens..... Why????? Nobody said she was fat, she only had like a little... JUST A LITTLE FAT on her tummy and I HAVE IT ALL OVER MY BODY 😭 But well, the good news is that we made up, I distanced myself with her, and we're perfectly fine now.
How do you not have way more subs and views?? I literally found you accidentally the other day amd have been binging your content. You make me laugh out loud which is very hard to do. You definitely need more recognition for your content ❤️
As a bigger person who’s trying to lose weight, girls like this who are skinny and calling themselves “fat” is extremely hurtful. It can send the wrong messages to younger girls who are easily impressionable by telling them that even despite being skinny, they’re considered fat. Not to mention that it’s harmful to already bigger girls (such as myself) who are perhaps already insecure and WANT to look like the girls shown in the video..
OMG lol i didn't realise that this was a just uploaded vid coz had been binge watching your channel! Your reaction, commentary, skits, editing everything is top tier and congrats on the green screen😏
Man, I remember growing with girls that acted like this. I was called fat when I was quite average sized, probably toned (due to being in sports) and man it has messed me up till adulthood. I had chub like that little girl in the purple shirt. It’s practically normal and she’s obviously growing and tiny!! It started in middle school and it effected the rest of my school year until senior year of Highschool. I’d skip lunches in hopes of becoming “skinny” but it only made things worse. I’m finally doing well and seeing this shit just irritates the hell out of me. Im medium/avg sized, maybe on heavier side since im toned due to being active. This is absolutely an awful trend. I hope it is not continuing. This seriously fcks people up.
Yes. Its traumatic and damages the developing psyche, as someone who's speaking from experience. There should be no tolerance for this kind of behavior, especially at that age. What you say about others says much more about you than it does others!!
I gotta say after having been an athletic woman living in Los Angeles, this is a thing. Even before this tiktok trend. I'm toned and athletic, but in LA (the land of size 2s and 0s), I was considered fat and not many men approached me. Buuuuuuuuuut..... whenever I traveled anywhere else, I was "too thin" and "needed more meat on my bones"..... Like WT actual F 😂 Even if you feel secure with yourself, living in this contradiction on a daily basis does mess with you bc (again) it's a daily thing. So the tiktok trend is weird, but I get what it's based in & it actually does suck ☹️
Preach I'm 5'2 136lbs which is a healthy weight but I struggle with it because I was bullied in high school when I was just 6 pounds heavier then I am rn. However if I were to go traveling they might think I'm skinny. I actually look quiet similar to the girls in the vid
I really don’t understand that , where I’m from in the US a lot of guys like chubby girls with thick thighs. Not obese girls (well quite a bit do) but just girls who have a bit of meat on their bones and are curvy
I had a teacher skinny shame me in 5th grade. Everyone else started laughing while I was sobbing in my chair. She was the same teacher that victim blamed me, bullied not me but my whole friend group (Because 2 of us were finding out their sexualities, and one had 2 moms) She did things like, if let's say our table groups' table was slightly slanted, she'd pull us in from recess and lecture us about how we need to pay more attention to our surroundings. Mind you we were 12-13.
Dude, as someone who is ACTUALLY midsize, this is weird as hell. Im always too fat for skinny people, but fat people think I'm "too skinny" this actually happens and these skinny people are acting like they're obese or some shit.
I think I understand these girls, it's never really been important to me, but when I was little and a little overweight, my family said I was a little too fat and I should do something about it, when I grew up I got very thin and they told me I had anorexia, and the worst thing is that according to bmi, I have always been healthy and almost at an ideal weight. The world and standards are confusing
You never fail to make me laugh, regardless of how terrible I might feel moments earlier. Thank you so much for having such an awesome sense of humor. Love you, keep up the great work! ^ ^
I used to be insanely self-conscious. In late elementary school to 7th or 8th grade, I had extreme issues with how I looked. I was taking meds for my ADHD and they made me lose my appetite (and keep in mind, I had just started hitting growth spurts, so eating was huge during this time) so I didn’t eat much. I went from 100 and something pounds to about 70. In 7th grade. And I was HAPPY with it. I’m a pretty medium sized person, and over the last few years I have gained more confidence and started appreciating me and my body, and it sickens me how society paints the picture that people need to obtain absolute perfection (which is IMPOSSIBLE) to be happy, when that is not the case! I fear for life…
I'm gonna be honest, Iove my grandma, but I'll never forget how scarred I am to this day when she said I need to loose weight when I was like 11... I was 152cm and weighed 39kilos if I remember correctly. She is obsessed over being overweight, and still to this day I stupidly believe that I weigh good if she tells me so. I take meds that happen to lower my appetite as a side effect, and I'm panickly scared to go off them.
Man that sucks my grandma was totally the opposite always feeding me. At 8 y.o. I weighed 42kgs and my parents put me on my first ever diet. I still struggle seeing myself as average size because I got bullied for my weight until I was 17.
@@agnese2944BMI doesn’t apply on kids. Anything above 16 is actually considered healthy for teenagers. Idk about little kids but I imagine it’s even lower
the little girl and her brother who called the other girl fat made me wanna smack them in the the face the girl who was called fat was trying to defend herself and this makes me so sad
Also, people with body dysmorphia rarely post a full body pic or video publicly, talking ability their insecurities. If they do, it’s not in a joking way, and usually to try and see if their friends are lying to them with compliments. Body dysmorphia makes many patients not even want to leave the house because they are so preoccupied with seeing themselves as disfigured. So I suspect most of these are just compliment fishing.
Literally is so hard to me to look in the mirror without notice things that I don't like bout myself but then people tell me that I'm skinny or that they not see that thing and if do a diet I'm gonna disappear, body/face dismorfia it's really confusing and harmful
i think a LOT of people dont understand the description.. its not like youre "in between" of super thin and super big, youre just normal. the description is supposed to be for people that are somewhere between the average size and plussize, example it could apply to me.. i dont have a huge belly, i dont look THAT big, but i still have a double chin and bigger arms, like youre somewhere in between, like ur not the biggest in the room but ur not rly as small as some of the others. Its not if youre in between 2 extremes like severely underweight and severely overweight
Bro now that I’ve gotten older and kinda ‘’glowed up’’ in my opinion (I’ve lost like 34 pounds or so), I understand that this isn’t normal. I’ve had a medium sized body my whole life, and I once got called ‘’pregnant’’ by a popular girl in literal 3rd grade, all I can say to those people is congratulations! This is how you get people to stop eating :)
5:00 When the brother of the little kid stood infront of that girl and acted though haha. I laughed so hard. It reminds me of parties i go to haha. The men always do that, make themself look bigger and flexing there muscles. Thinking it 'looks good', the 'Aplha thing'. Its so funny to us girls haha.
Btw, not hating on the kid. Just thought it was funny to see that the 'Aplha thing' also happens @ that age. And the girls shouldn't fight... They’re way to young for that shit.
Welcome to what it feels like to be a woman. I am "fat" as in slightly over 200 pounds after giving birth and to listen to my sister in laws who are 130 pounds who never been streched having kids call each other "gorda" (it means fat in spanish since you don't speak spanish) is so annoying.
130 pounds is fat?! Can I get like....20 of those pounds? I WISH I WAS 130 POUNDS!!! 😭😭 I'm tired of being a lil skinny bish!!! I'm 110 pounds at 18, this shit is embarrassing
I was 209 pounds and my friends who are very skinny (one of them are 141 pounds and she is 5'7) call themselfs fat. Now I have 167.55 pounds but still, it's annoying when I skinny people call themselfs fat in front of actually obeze people.
This is why I deleted tiktok it’s very bad for anyone’s mental health, not to mention how everyone’s on it 24/7 not doing anything productive. It’s been about 2 years now since I had it and trust me I feel 80% better…but anytime I go out I have the tiktok girlies staring me up and down because I don’t have “legging legs” “feminine features” “long beautiful luscious hair” 💀 I’m 19 don’t wear makeup never put on makeup unless I’m on a date DONT wear anything cute because well I don’t think it’s my style to and because of that I am constantly being told I’m 13 I’m an adult having beef with middle schoolers apparently
not gonna lie, all it takes for that kid in the pink top is to have that kid just say "Im not gonna like, you DO look like too months pregnant". and shes gonna struggle with an eating disorder the rest of her life or until she gets enough therapy to help her unpack the stupidity and crassness of little kids who dont even know what theyre saying but just do it to be part of the bullying. good luck to her
4:07 okay, if you haven’t already; please report that video for child abu- bc the adult is just recording these girls and laughing behind the camera rather than intervening, i assume that it is without the girl’s permission.
This was so sad but funny to watch😭😭 those 2 girls shouldn’t be fighting in the first place. Girls gotta have each other’s backs (unless it’s personal idk) but I feel so bad for that girl in the pink tank top. Fat shaming at such a young age is horrible. From what it looks like, I’m probably their age. I may be young, but I know how bad society can be. There’s people my age with makeup or going on diets bc they think they aren’t pretty enough, which is so cruel. It’s never ok to fat-shame or skinny-shame someone under ANY circumstance. It’s so sickening that these girls are probably younger than 10 and fat shaming each other. And it’s a 3 Vs 1, no one has that pink tank top’s back. No one should experience this. In the end, I hope the parents found out and did better parenting and knew to watch their kid’s behavior (not tryna shame them) and they apologized. As well as those 2 boys. Ik I’ve wrote a lot (srry I’m extra), but as someone who has been fat shamed and 7 being the lowest I’ve been fat-shamed, it definitely doesnt feel good. Again, I hope those girls and boys learned their lesson.
What you’re not understanding is this is true. Skinny girls look at regular size girls and think they’re fat, but they’re skinny to actual fat girls. It’s not for attention this is literally how women think. And many men think this way too. Like when I gained 15 lbs and my boyfriend said I was chunky but I just wasn’t super skinny anymore. i was still thin though.
The fact at my school or any where I go I feel like I’m not pretty due to standards and I want to fill those standards tho but the most upsetting thing about this whole thing is that I’m under 18 and want the hot woman’s body 💀😭
The girl in purple was defo going to cry,like imagine if someone calls you fat and then some else agrees,i hope she’s okay and that she knows she’s not even fat. The bully needs discipline.
Honestly, it’s just nice hearing someone outside of this thinking with common sense. It’s really comforting, and I thank you for that. You chose to make this video, and I appreciate it, and I’m sure others do too.
