Yeah, he said a lot of things that make sense. In addition to family relationships, it's also important to see how that person interacts with people in the everyday. Stability is also very good!
Absolutely love this segment. I concur with all their views and agree with the post below that the man in pink made the most sense. Good interviews, Jerry!👏👏
A cracked phone is a red flag? Mine is cracked, has been for two years, but it works fine, so I don't see the point in replacing it. Some of us are just frugal and like to spend our money mindfully.
This may be because most women who like to drink all night long at places like clubs are holding phones with broken screens. It's not because they're frugal, but because they drink too much and break the screen too often, so they always seem to be holding a phone with a broken screen.
@@박똘똘-o1j Then I understand that logic a bit better. ^^ It would still make more sense to say that your red flag is going out to clubs to drink too much, but to each their own. Personally, I don´t like clubs, I only drink alcohol when I go back to my homecountry of France once a year, but I´ll keep my cracked phone until it dies on me. ^^
The bigger guy (with the skinny friend holding the zanda bag) His expressive statements and opinions were spot on, excellent command of the English language too! Relationship with the father good point.
I’m just gonna go out there and say a girl getting weight and a girls height isn’t necessarily a red flag because a girl may not be able to help it if she gains weight and a girl cannot change her height so their commenting about things girls can’t change as being red flags a red flag is usually pertain to somebody’s actions and personalities not somebody’s appearance and definitely not something they can’t change guys who say girls are not attractive based on something they can’t change like height and sometimes weight is a red flag
Ahahahahaha the 4am ptsd talking ripped me into shreds by the viewers😂😂, I was just dang nervous talking in front of the camera in general so I babbled pretty hard 😅 it's just my personal experience and preference talking as someone who had a bad experience related to the matters I mentioned and yeah, her night was on her insta stories and I realised I prefer neither of staying out too long on weekends or do I have the energy of doing so in general. And yes!!! Women do use the bathroom at 4am too!! I was just too into thinking about my past relationships 🫠 Anyways, great video to find out how others think and thank you for stopping us for an interview!
That’s why so many relationship crash and burn because people don’t look for a kindhearted woman or a kindhearted man someone that will be there for you when you are down sick but they look for for appearance. Your relationship is doom to fail because you don’t look at the persons heart.
That’s a fairytale, this is reality, there’s no such thing as “true love” or the “right one.” Someone can be so good at acting and pretend to love you without you ever finding out, that’s one of the reasons why divorce and break up rates are really high and common. Like the saying goes “love blind people.”
Believe it or not there is true love we just don’t appreciate it when it’s right in front of us. I love someone for 20 something years never cheated never asked for anything yet he betrayed me my heart into pieces. People like us are broken. We do not trust anymore. They are a few of us. We just picked the wrong man or the wrong woman.
The little bit of us that’s left. We are all damage because some bad seed has ruined us, which is to stay single and do not love again we choose to love ourselves and take care of ourselves.
8:25 I get him. I used to like someone, but I didn’t consider the idea of us being together because of one of his sisters. I don’t think I could deal with her, especially since her family can’t even handle her most of the time.
For the 2nd last couple it took me a sec, I thought one was a girl when they came on and with the over exaggerated hand movements thought he was gonna start signing. But agree about possessive others, total red flag, the family thing - depends on situation really
Short? What is short for koreans? Every country has it's own type of short lol 😂 it's not the same the short girls from Norway than the short girls of Philippines 😭
A lot of these guys probably can't date Westerners at all. Bro I take a whole day in some cases to respond to my husbands messages or totally forget and I do not at all make any form of a big deal in my mind or to him if he doesn't reply for any generic length of time. There is usually some kind of reason as our lifestyles have a lot involved in it during and off work hours. A quick call when you aren't getting any response to something important usually works. A quick i'll call you later also works when it isn't urgent. I don't know... it just isn't a big deal. Maybe it is just me and my husband that are odd about the whole 'not responding to messages' bit. Not responding to 2 consecutive calls may rather be a bigger issue especially if we called when we knew the other person would not be occupied. In the first place, we tell each other what our day plan is or is looking like so you have that in mind as well. I guess that wouldn't fly with Korean guys lol. Red flag they said.
The standards of at what caliber those red flags are. Not to mention with heavy women they mean anyone above 50kg it's all bout understanding their culture to understand the problematic of some statements
Im wondering if they like foreign girls the kpop thing would be a red flag and i honestly don't blame korean guys, because some have expectations in korean guys which is sad because tbh kpop can never place a real relationship if im making any sense so i am saying i officially left the kpop Fandom i just can't do it anymore
the reason why korean people might sound weird to some is because they talk out loud what others might try to hide or twist and play slick with.To understand better koreans value honesty and don't understand the word play and there is no such thing. Koreans are taught to be straight forward especially when conversating. However, you can get your partner to understand you so to satisfy you in the way to make it work. In another word when love enters than he or she will do anything the same as all human. Love is universal. All problems arise towards that love so put on your gloves 🤣
Maybe they have this "red flag" in Korea. But usually they loose all of controls and expectations when they are abroad... So, sounds nice but not average to keep this mind... Really is really sad nowadays about their choices...
Great points, that translate internationally especially from the gentleman in the pink jacket. I think it’s interesting though that no one brought up that cheating is a huge issue on both sides though. 😅
@@판탈라사 hi! I meant no disrespect. I mentioned it because a lot of men, not any demographic specifically, will say all of those things are red flags in a partner when behind their back, they are cheating OR have done all of those red flags themselves.
These "red flags" are absurd, lol. It's honestly not even a red flag, but just a preference. The "gaining too much weight" in the preview made me not watch this video fr.
This is so interesting b/c if you went to America and asked the average guy I’ll bet he would say more superficial things about a woman’s appearance rather then personality or intellect
I think a lot of the dudes here also have superficial things in mind, but they might have not mentioned them on camera to avoid looking like a shallow person. Remember that men are mentally pretty much the same around the globe #thedustisglobal
Lol. I wish i could have stuck with this too but I realised to stay married I couldn't keep stressing my husband by 'hanging out' excessively with my countless guy friends. I had to reduce it altogether or have my husband somehow in the hangout setting. If you get married it might change or contact time would certainly reduce. In my case, my husband had countless i really mean countless female friends as well and i flipped it and realised the trust weight is just too heavy so we both drew grounds and put in limitations.
I have no family other than my mother. When she goes I will be alone. My entire life I’ve chosen my friends very wisely & I don’t have many. We are all close, I am close to their spouses as well. I treat my friends just like i would family. They aren’t going anywhere and if my man can’t accept that then he likely wouldn’t be my man in the first place.
It's not just their honesty that I'm struck by, but how refreshingly unprocessed their answers are. They just give it to ya raw! That's VERY rare in the West. Most people completely intellectualise, rationalise and grossly over-process simple thinking. Bad things can only come from that unnecessary over-processing. Truth is lost and all ensuing self-analysis is based on a level of pretention and artifice. After that...yikes, what a mess. Keep it honest and raw.
I agree. Some responses were annoying but I appreciate the honesty. From their collective answers you get a pretty cohesive picture of the dating sene there. For me I was surprised by how many of them had an issue with a girl's response time to their message...quite odd.
@@apoetsbrain6794 I see it from your point of view too. This weird collective, thoroughly modern impatience when it comes to 'acceptable response time' to emails and text messages is...I don't think I have the right word for how embarrassing and pathetic it is. Technology was meant to just make life easer, more convenient, less stressful. Instead, we've conditioned ourselves in society to normalise pestering people via smartphones; being childishly entitled to constant stimulation and attention on demand. If someone is taking a nice relaxing bubble bath, reading a novel or cleaning the kitchen they shouldn't be neurotically responding to all incoming text messages and phone calls! It's one of the many things I deeply resent and worry about when it comes to how human nature interfaces with such communications technology. Any dude who's going to whine about how long it took me to respond to his (likely very mundane and underwhelming) text is NOT a keeper. What a needy, boring, juvenile dork. Talk about MY idea of a psychological red flag.😅🚩
I'm laughing my pants off because these men are walking red flags judging by their beliefs but at the same time I am really sorry for the women in their life
