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I asked out 100 girls on a date to get over my fear of rejection... this is what I learned 

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When I was young I was very much a SPAM: a Shy Passive Asian Male. I was scared to talk to girls and even more scared to ask out girls.
So to get over my fear of rejection, I decided to make this video asking out 100 girls on a date.
My hope is that if you're like me and you're too scared to ask someone out or have a lot of insecurities, you may be able to find some hope and encouragement with this video. You never know how strangers might react, so don't be the first one to tell yourself no. Hope you find a date and maybe even the start of a beautiful love story.
If you made it this far, comment: BOYZ IN THE STREETZ
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@got_chorro
@got_chorro 2 года назад
UC Sam Date
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
COMMENT OF THE YEAR. Please stay part of the community here hahahahahahhaha
@voted
@voted 2 года назад
Nice pfp bro
@justorange3808
@justorange3808 Год назад
@@yankeesam11 ur fucking inspirational
@zeffery101
@zeffery101 Год назад
​@@yankeesam11 I thought that campus was UCSD but I wasn't 100% sure until that girl #16 said it Graduated in 2021 and never dated sadly. Transferred in then COVID... good luck w/ life mate
@mercadorodriguezgerson3549
@mercadorodriguezgerson3549 Год назад
@@yankeesam11 bro, can i get the text monologue that you used?, i want to translate this to spanish for my loser cousins xd.
@habsfan4ever67
@habsfan4ever67 Год назад
19/100 agreed dates is WAY better than you’d do on any dating app. People are lucky to get 1/100 matches let alone dates. Good on you for putting yourself out there.
@SynthhInHD
@SynthhInHD Год назад
Guys* are lucky to get 1/100 matches. Women have zero problem.
@journeyoflife9159
@journeyoflife9159 Год назад
@@SynthhInHD true I once opened a girl account just to test how it is and figure the app better. The app was flooding in just a few minutes
@LechuKawaii
@LechuKawaii Год назад
@@SynthhInHD lgbt guys have an easier time too. I'm bisexual and I get likes all the time, but 95% of them come from men and i am not interested in the majority of them
@shawnsmith4692
@shawnsmith4692 Год назад
I saw an interview once where someone was talking about Tinder statistics. It was something like less than 5% of men on the app receive like +90% of the matches. So you have almost no chance of having success unless you're in the top 5% of attractive men. And apparently when a man does well, they will give them a free upgraded membership and try to encourage them to use the app more.
@ImJugg
@ImJugg Год назад
@@journeyoflife9159 damn...
@andricrypto2852
@andricrypto2852 Год назад
As a guy who used to have really bad acne, the stuff can really affect your confidence and get you down. You're a king for not letting it get to you.
@handlemonium
@handlemonium Год назад
I got really bad eczema/dermatitis on the corners of my forehead. One day at a time for sure. I'll definitely ask a friend or a fresh acquaintance out when I'm ready 😉👍
@asfuji
@asfuji Год назад
@@handlemonium I have skin issues like that as well, mostly on my face and honestly there's days I don't feel like leaving my house at all. It's also eczema/dermatitis and of course, there's days when I'm good and days when it's really bad. And even with that, I have success in dating, because there's girls who can understand it and not look down at you because you have this skin issue. Girls have them too but they hide it with make up and of course, there's many normal girls who don't mind that you have this issue. I don't know how far into treating your skin you are, but what you eat and how you shower and what cosmetics you use. But even with that, sometimes it still gets bad.
@TheCommandant-wb9tv
@TheCommandant-wb9tv Год назад
My cystic acne 😢
@madi8181
@madi8181 Год назад
Your comment just made him realize that 😂
@fx_raj
@fx_raj Год назад
How did you treat the acne?
@AmazingStoryDewd
@AmazingStoryDewd 2 года назад
Asking 100 people is easy. Asking someone you actually like is far harder.
@rachitaggarwal1283
@rachitaggarwal1283 Год назад
Not "easy"
@muhamadmiftahurrizqi5909
@muhamadmiftahurrizqi5909 Год назад
Damn!
@johnprather9424
@johnprather9424 Год назад
Yeah because you want things to work out smoothly and not mess anything up
@impudentdomain
@impudentdomain Год назад
no that's wrong, the purpose of a date is to see if you might like them
@henriklmao
@henriklmao Год назад
If you know how, then it isn't that hard. The rejection is just harder.
@yoshi4799
@yoshi4799 Год назад
I think the biggest takeaway from this video is the fact that this guy got 16 girls to say yes, so no matter who you are, you can get at least one, and I think you should, everyone deserves love and respect.
@davide1652
@davide1652 Год назад
Not everyone 😅
@yoshi4799
@yoshi4799 Год назад
@@davide1652 everyone unless they loose that basic human right by being a menace to society
@dafeels3085
@dafeels3085 Год назад
You have not demonstrated that it would work for everything person. There probably is someone ugly enough that everyone would say no (or get only pity yes's). Also, it probably helped a lot that he was a content creator.
@starlightakabane4686
@starlightakabane4686 Год назад
nobody deserves love or respect
@gougouga
@gougouga Год назад
you didnt have to do him like that
@mcswizz9609
@mcswizz9609 Год назад
I love how chill all the boyfriends were 😂😂 def passed the vibe checks 💯
@truthteller3024
@truthteller3024 Год назад
Beta males are like that. Back in the day before feminisation of men, the only answer to that was a big punch in the face by the bf and silence and frown by the gf. Welcome to the world of snowflakes, hookup culture, abortion, divorce and gender inventions.
@sr-71667
@sr-71667 Год назад
all the Boyfriends can tell an ugly dude is no threat.
@Johnny_Silverhand77
@Johnny_Silverhand77 Год назад
Yeah cz the dude is below average... If he was hot or cute, dressed nicely majority of boyfriends will get pressed
@serengeti4027
@serengeti4027 Год назад
@@Johnny_Silverhand77 eh... i think it was more that they were chill and felt secure in their relationships lol
@RainbowBandana
@RainbowBandana Год назад
Naww weak man check
@adamward3603
@adamward3603 Год назад
i dont mind a girl telling me no to a date, its the "awkwardness" that comes after a no that i dont like. i can go home an accept the no but when something awkward happens i fixate on that, thats something i need to try and fix
@H0kram
@H0kram Год назад
From an outside perspective it probably looks cute. Maybe tell yourself afterwards that yea it was awkward but rather cute 😁
@kri5hie
@kri5hie Год назад
Agreed, it most likely completely changes how they see you as a person and will probably make things awkward from there on imo
@morty6159
@morty6159 Год назад
Just run away, always works.
@Chomanji24
@Chomanji24 Год назад
@@morty6159 what if you can't run?
@letsgobrandon7310
@letsgobrandon7310 Год назад
On to the next one.
@myles432
@myles432 8 месяцев назад
So some girls dislike the idea of guys randomly approaching yet others like the confidence.
@Crybaby-Media
@Crybaby-Media 4 месяца назад
I work at an appliance store . Half our reviews are “they’re down my throat the second I get in the door , it’s so annoying “ The other half are “they didn’t even ask if I needed help, so I left and didn’t come back” It’s always gonna be like this . We just can’t be scared of taking the chance
@McP1mpin
@McP1mpin Месяц назад
Most like the confidence. There are always exceptions of course because there are all kinds of people, but in general confidence is king. Part of having confidence is being confident enough to get rejected though.
@daenerystargaryen4185
@daenerystargaryen4185 Год назад
The girl who said she's too emotionally attached to fictional characters is a whole mood
@echoactual1776
@echoactual1776 Год назад
You mean, pathetic?
@anomaly3215
@anomaly3215 Год назад
but they don't exist, live in reality
@JonDotExe
@JonDotExe Год назад
@@anomaly3215 it was sarcasm ;)
@G_Singh222
@G_Singh222 Год назад
I would cosplay for her 😂
@raymondleggs5508
@raymondleggs5508 Год назад
I'm sorry Jon Snow killed your dragon, then killed you.
@a.lopez49411
@a.lopez49411 2 года назад
This is awesome! You should be super proud of yourself just for putting yourself out there in general to that many people
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
Thanks Alex, hope it was somewhat entertaining and useful haha
@gravewalkers
@gravewalkers 2 года назад
If he was super proud of himself, would he call himself Asian? I am thinking about an Asian wedding. What can you tell me about that? Nothing. Asian is not an ethnicity. Where do I go for Asian food? You don't. It not an ethnicity. ASIAN is a person exactly like NON ASIAN is a person. Describe a non Asian to me. You can't. It is not an ethnicity. Since it is 100% NOT an ethnicity? What is Asian? In Western Judaism, Asian is a term like comrade or citizen of Earth. It is a way to ERASE YOURSELF for globalism. If you were proud, you would still be a person. You think I will start INTRODUCING MYSELF as 'not Asian'? Find some self respect.
@jeanpaul4100
@jeanpaul4100 Год назад
Congrats brother. You will look back at this as a turning point in your life. I am 57. Rejection is the basis for improvement and success. Ps...only ask a girl you are attracted to. I spent 1 year in the gym and...it totally works.
@ia3893
@ia3893 Год назад
@@gravewalkers im an asian and im disappointed in you
@gravewalkers
@gravewalkers Год назад
@@ia3893 Tell me what an Asian looks like. Tell me what an Asian wedding is. Tell me what Asian food is. Tell me anything about Asian. It is an ANTI-ETHNIC term. What purpose does it serve? It just means you are a communist and you hate yourself.
@LucasAviador
@LucasAviador 4 месяца назад
People saying dating in 2020s is a nightmare, and then this guy goes on and scores 19 dates. GOAT
@turtle-kl7ur
@turtle-kl7ur 4 месяца назад
Out of 100 and a lot of them felt like they were saying yes just to not be mean. If a guy approaches girls like crazy and gets rejected as often as he did he usually won't have the balls to keep trying until someone actually say yes, that shit crushes your self esteem plus he asked that many girls without setting any standard in terms of looks a lot of the girls he asked were even below average and those still rejected him
@LucasAviador
@LucasAviador 4 месяца назад
@@turtle-kl7ur I through some of the Yes girls were attractive. And by the way, this kind of approach is how I met my wife. Here in Brazil it is very common to be VERY direct in parties saying something like "do you wanna make out with me?". I did this at my school graduation 7 days trip and scored 4 kisses in 2 days, one of them is my current wife who looked for me and found me. Rejection is harsh, but learning to handle and deal with it is part of the journey, just be straightforward and fast, it saves your mind from creating fantasy and fake connection with a person.
@Bennyboy1985
@Bennyboy1985 2 месяца назад
@@LucasAviador This is what I like about Latin culture- people are more direct with each other. People accept the realities of the sexual interactions and men's/ women's true needs without all the corrosive subversion that's taken place in the west.
@S_xBobOmb
@S_xBobOmb Месяц назад
19 out of a 100 isn't great dude
@smtandearthboundsuck8400
@smtandearthboundsuck8400 3 дня назад
Cute how you think they're not gonna all flake on him.
@Shane8
@Shane8 Год назад
The incredible high you feel when you find out how easy it is to get a girl to agree to go on a date vs the absolute low you feel when you find out how easy it is for her to cancel it
@bleensteen9331
@bleensteen9331 9 месяцев назад
Yep you quickly realise that quite a lot of girls see men as easy come easy go. From their perspective dates just drop into their lap along with free meals, taxi rides and sex if they're so inclined. They can choose at their leisure. If it happens to you don't worry, do not chase, and learn to move on.
@jordanmiller4147
@jordanmiller4147 8 месяцев назад
bro for real, i asked this girl out on a date that I was crushing on and she said yes, then a day later she said "now is not the right time for me". died inside.
@adamruzenec-freerunning9838
@adamruzenec-freerunning9838 7 месяцев назад
Yeah people who are impressed by the amount of arranged dates shows they dont try it themselfs.
@connor.chan.jazzman
@connor.chan.jazzman Год назад
4:38 "If I was single I might be tempted, man." This guy is an absolute chad
@Forlorade
@Forlorade Год назад
Even though it's only maybe 10% of the video, props for getting through those first 7 rejections, that was definitely the most impressively brave portion of this.
@Shanyae9
@Shanyae9 8 месяцев назад
"You learn to love yourself" Kinda hard to make a family with just that, y'know
@VladTriesCoding
@VladTriesCoding Год назад
This type of comedy is golden.😂👌 Remember that whatever your "acceptance" percentage is, if you find that one person that makes you feel special, nothing else matters. I hope all of you get all the love you deserve. ❤️ Stay positive!
@dkursada
@dkursada 9 месяцев назад
Man that was enjoyable, being outgoing and holding a conversation with a touch of humor really helps. The right mentality is the most important part. That's the part most of us people miss out on
@ProfessorPunk
@ProfessorPunk Год назад
This is actually an awesome video about rejection. Love seeing you go on this journey. Thanks for being vulnerable with us, bro!
@NInjaTunazier
@NInjaTunazier Год назад
Well said and well put bro. My respects to you Ali (and Sam). You seem to know much more than many of us in here. (zero sarcasm here!)
@ProfessorPunk
@ProfessorPunk Год назад
@@NInjaTunazier This response got me laughing and crying. Much love, bro! Let us all continue our individual journeys out from the SPAM! 🥲🤣
@shadowjuan2
@shadowjuan2 Год назад
I used to struggle with shyness around girls a heck of a lot. The thing is... once you overcome that you realize that getting into a relationship is not that hard at all, the difficult part is being able to maintain it, and oh boy all the struggles that goes along with it.
@angryktulhu
@angryktulhu Год назад
Lol what if relationships aren’t even the goal 😂 just wanna fuck around that’s it 😂
@Jonathan-be7gj
@Jonathan-be7gj Год назад
@@angryktulhu For that u need money and ;) Buy 1 for 1 hr There are So many girls in world even if u rich u will run out of cash.. and will not get bored.
@angryktulhu
@angryktulhu Год назад
@@Jonathan-be7gj ehhh bro you know there are other ways around right? Like just start dating, wait till she’s ready for sex, have it and go next? Or even faster, go to the club and find a girl who just wants to “have fun”?
@Jonathan-be7gj
@Jonathan-be7gj Год назад
@@angryktulhu I live in india here girl's are not beautiful and have ego like they are angel and also its not worth wasting time on indian girl or any girl..coz life is short......If u can buy anything just do it also.why i should depend on someone for my happiness?
@cosmopx1855
@cosmopx1855 Год назад
A
@OldManTastic
@OldManTastic Год назад
The shotgun approach works pretty great. I think it's important for guys to realize that most women will probably reject you. It doesn't matter what you look like, it doesn't matter if you're funny , smart, nice or confident, you'll probably be rejected, and that's okay. Respect the rejection and move on to the next one. As long as you're not completely repulsive, you will find someone willing to give you a chance...and that will probably fail too. People lose interest, find ways to get on each other's nerves, but the important thing is that you keep trying again. Eventually, you'll find someone that you'll like and for whatever reason likes your ugly, goofy, awkward ass too. That will make every rejection and dating failure worth it.
@ticktacktate2484
@ticktacktate2484 Год назад
💀💀💀
@waltermh111
@waltermh111 Год назад
Or just go overseas so you dont have to play womens bullsht games and deal with 1000 rejections from women who couldnt care less about family or you anyway. If you are in the top 15% then American dating scene is great for you. For the rest of us, women outside of the west are far better, especially if you want a family or something serious with a woman who will respect you. You can have them all Mr Brown. have fun playing their games...
@JoRosieQueen68
@JoRosieQueen68 Год назад
@@waltermh111 I'm from the east and it isn't too great for me here, quite a lot of failure and struggles, I seem to be nobody's type here i guess, oh well.
@waltermh111
@waltermh111 Год назад
@@JoRosieQueen68 I don't know about your specific situation I would have to be there. If I was there I would be happy to help you but I would say if your intentions are clear you just have a better chance in the East. You could come to the West hoping that you being exotic will be enough to pull somebody but if you are a girl you you'll just have a good time in general As long as you put yourself out there. Just have to be careful because since the sexual revolution men have benefitted from it as much as women have. The players have clear red flags you just have to not ignore them.
@GregXHunterz
@GregXHunterz Год назад
I wish I was told this when I was working on my dating life. With the amount of rejections I got, I thought I was doing something wrong to get this much rejection. But a lot of men getting rejected a lot despite doing everything right is very common. Had I been told this earlier, I would've reached progress much sooner.
@GhostManPRO
@GhostManPRO 8 месяцев назад
One of the most insight lines I've ever read from literature is this "Don't wonder if they like you, wonder what they are like". If you can't understand what that means, it means stop obsessing over rejection and "hoping" a person likes you, if they don't that's life and that's ok, rejection is a tool for growth. Your priority should focus more on actually getting to know a person to find out if YOU LIKE THEM.
@thetiredcynic
@thetiredcynic 4 месяца назад
Louder for the people at the back
@ellysetaylor5908
@ellysetaylor5908 Год назад
This actually taught me a lot about how to nicely turn someone down 😂 These girls have the courage to be upfront
@esleyb7968
@esleyb7968 Год назад
It's also alot easier to be upfront in this type of situation in middle of a campus than in an usual interaction
@Shrektopuz
@Shrektopuz Год назад
@@esleyb7968 Yeah, and when it’s a complete stranger who just walked up to you…
@waltermh111
@waltermh111 Год назад
I know, I have more respect for the girls who were honest with him, more than the ones who lied and said yes just so they wont hurt his feelings or look bad on camera.
@rocco1584
@rocco1584 Год назад
this man grew more as a person in a day then i have in a year
@johndang887
@johndang887 7 месяцев назад
😂
@shimayobi
@shimayobi 26 дней назад
I saved this video to my playlist and never had the courage to watch it because I was terribly shy. Nowadays I no longer have problems asking for girls' Instagram profiles and asking for a date, in fact the more I go out the more I learn that however difficult it may be, in the end it is a process that improves little by little. So, guys, ask to go out, look for nice places (walk, cocktails and the like, dinners only do it if there really is an understanding), don't be ashamed to say what you like, don't indulge in everything and you'll see that everything will be fine
@gelonvia8525
@gelonvia8525 Год назад
I respect you and appreciate you immediately turning and asking their boyfriends out
@pancake7289
@pancake7289 Год назад
Even 19 out of 100 is pretty good bro. In the end it only takes 1 to be the love of your life.
@beepbop416
@beepbop416 2 года назад
All the girls that say “ i feel like I would have to get to know you first” are capping dates are what help you get to know if you want to continue seeing them or not
@vladys5238
@vladys5238 Год назад
some people prefer meeting others organically through common interests rather than directly comitting to a 1 on 1 interaction.
@scottbellisle5581
@scottbellisle5581 7 месяцев назад
Good job young man. I have a 22 year old half Japanese half American and he is so shy it’s crazy. He is in the AirForce for 3 years already. This might be a good idea for him. Thanks for the video. One of my brothers friend was not so good looking. But he knew at the club at the end of the night he would ask every girl if he could take them home and you know what. He got laid more than everyone. It’s realizing those 99 no’s means one is on the way.
@bowser6039
@bowser6039 2 года назад
Saw this on tiktok. Even tho I've been in a relationship for 3 years, this would have been helpful to see before that. Really cool to put yourself out there. Don't stop doing what you're doing
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
Thanks for the kind words :,) hope you stay part of the community here
@seanfitzpatrick9954
@seanfitzpatrick9954 Год назад
Sam, you’re an actual tank. I’ve definitely heard of people doing stuff like this, but I’ve never had the courage to do it myself. Huge kudos! I’m going to try something similar!
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 Год назад
Keep your head up! Hope it works out :)
@wilsonson_of_will2041
@wilsonson_of_will2041 Год назад
How's the chase so far ?
@_camy_
@_camy_ Год назад
My man walked up and asked girls a yes or no questions. The approach needs work lol. I struggle with my fair share of dating but.. a lot of those women are modern women so you being 6’1 definitely helped you bro keep it up
@Daniel-nb2du
@Daniel-nb2du 7 месяцев назад
95 was crazy! “Yeah… but I am like…5/8 of a lesbian” IDK why but that had me on the floor💀😂
@Dudanation12
@Dudanation12 Год назад
This is a fun video. I'm surprised how many said they're lesbian. The "I have a boyfriend" excuse may or may not have been real with some of them. But I think the fact you were doing a video and it was obviously an interview likely made it comforting for everyone, including yourself since you know it's for research (or kind of as a joke) and they of course knew it wasn't serious. I really like how they seemed to be giving honest answers though. College campuses tend to have a pretty positive vibe.
@podomuss
@podomuss Год назад
The ‘lesbians’ were probably mostly bi or straight and didn’t want to hurt his feelings, which is fair enough
@darylpang2968
@darylpang2968 Год назад
I'm guessing that people usually behave differently when they know they're being filmed, and would tend to give a reply that puts them in a good light (if they're not into the whole "brutal honesty" thing)
@Ichigo-dh9rd
@Ichigo-dh9rd Год назад
@Podomus wtf with boys on the internet who can't take "no" for an answer lmao "she has a boyfriend" eh must be lying "she's a lesbian" must be lying
@edwardk3
@edwardk3 Год назад
That vibe is a facade. It's the facade of young liberalism. With time, people understand a little more.
@dave3429
@dave3429 Год назад
Yeah this video effectively shows nothing about how to get a successful date
@mattofthe7pathes
@mattofthe7pathes Год назад
Dude thank you so much for making this! It debunks all my assumptions about asking a girl out. You have no idea what a gem this is! Thanks again my guy!
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 Год назад
Thank you for the kind words :)
@ripme6782
@ripme6782 4 месяца назад
“What the heaven” had me ROLLINGG
@neiljohnson7914
@neiljohnson7914 10 дней назад
This guy has way way more luck with the ladies than I ever did.
@EinSofQuester
@EinSofQuester 10 дней назад
I know what you mean, dude. This guy has way more luck with the ladies than I ever did. How does he do it? If I asked 100 women probably none of them would even look at me.
@varsityeagle89
@varsityeagle89 Год назад
4:28 my man paying attention and whipping up a solid line. Good job my guy. Love how you're a go getter on tackling your fears.
@klauseba
@klauseba Год назад
the line from 8:00 was also good
@jonathanchen1026
@jonathanchen1026 Год назад
I feel like the hard part isn’t asking them out, the hard part is keeping them interested 😭
@Valentin_MeL
@Valentin_MeL Год назад
Dude you are a hero for me. With such amount of skin problems you still tried to do this challenge. Well done.
@stelioslykovardis7512
@stelioslykovardis7512 Год назад
cmon dude dont do him like that
@Valentin_MeL
@Valentin_MeL Год назад
@@stelioslykovardis7512 I just told the truth. Thats it.
@bruhman8005
@bruhman8005 Год назад
@@stelioslykovardis7512 it can be thought of as a giant handicap when it comes to women. Lots of people get turned off and also someone’s self confidence. This guy is doing wonders
@igloo614
@igloo614 Год назад
Lol this is such a backhanded compliment, but im sure he knows
@Valentin_MeL
@Valentin_MeL Год назад
​@@igloo614 No, it wasn't backhanded. I didn't tried to laugh or something. In fact i know how skin problem can affect owner's confidence. And yes, he is a hero for me. Cause i am not sure if i will be able to do such things with my psoriasis that i cannot defeat for many... many years.
@jasongotcello
@jasongotcello Год назад
It's much easier to get over a rejection by a stranger than someone you like
@Arvidje
@Arvidje Год назад
u are doing something wrong then in the dating phase.. never take the friendship thing route.. never end well. be direct and ask them out.. if they come with some stupid excuses, seek further.. A girl with interest alway find a way to meet you, always.
@greenlitlleman
@greenlitlleman 6 месяцев назад
Lol, for most men one glance is enough to know if they like a girl.
@neodonkey
@neodonkey 9 месяцев назад
My best ever 'date' was the most tragic when I wasn't looking for one. Was out in a different town drinking with friends. This girl, friend of a friend of a friends girlfriend dropped in and she was stunning, just stunning, 10/10 - every guy in the bar was looking at her and then my friends who had way more luck with women and confidence than me started hitting on her one by one. I ignored her, she was so clearly out of my league it seemed pointless. She wasn't interested in any of my friends. Next thing I know she's moved and is sitting across the table from me and she's says "You're quiet." and I say "I'm a bit shy" so she's like "Why?" and we get talking. We end up talking ALL night just to each other (though I occasionally caught looks from my friends like 'WHaaat daaa f**k!?', Soon she's moved to sit with me and she's in my arms. I ask her for her number and she writes it on my hand. As the night finishes up, we kiss outside the bar before going our separate ways. I feel like I've just been launched to the moon. Wake up next morning and the number is all smudged. The smudging made it look like a mobile number, much later (after having written down as best I could from my hand) I realised it was a home phone number for her home town, but it was still too garbled for me to get anywhere and too late. This was before the days of social media, and my friend broke up with the girlfriend who knew her tangentially soon after so no chance of finding her.
@boejiden7093
@boejiden7093 Год назад
Respect the confidence in this my man. I’ve only asked out a girl 3 times and the last one ended up with me. She broke up after cheating. Then the one after that was too clingy. Know your boundaries broski and be picky. You the prize my man. Don’t let em choose you. You choose them.
@commanderkittycat6513
@commanderkittycat6513 Год назад
So basically what I got from this video is that most women want to know you first, have a conversation, get your vibe, then go out with you. Try to talk to them, and ask them out right before you leave, and don’t ask out 2 in the same day, especially if those 2 women are friends. (Last one I learned from experience, lol)
@suqmaddiqq
@suqmaddiqq Год назад
Exactly
@allenllewellynkra
@allenllewellynkra Год назад
If she finds you physically attractive, vibe w her, get number, hit her up
@rizvan1632
@rizvan1632 Год назад
isn't that basically what the date is for
@ayoutubecommenter7494
@ayoutubecommenter7494 Год назад
Your advice is very valid but in this case he just wanted to get rid of his fear of rejection it wasn't his true feelings on the line. If you are serious you shouldn't be asking out more girls at the same time in the same place you go to
@germansniper5277
@germansniper5277 Год назад
But that's what a date is for
@TechnoEdits_Official
@TechnoEdits_Official 6 месяцев назад
AMEN BROTHER!!! You really inspired me! I am also kind of a SPAM when talking to girls, but now I feel more confident :) Thanks for your tips and God bless!
@h2o848
@h2o848 Год назад
11:08 thought he was starting his gay arc
@krugerstan
@krugerstan 7 месяцев назад
This is a great experiment. I particularly appreciate the woman who is "too emotionally attached to fictional characters right now."
@stevinsonnt385
@stevinsonnt385 2 года назад
This is actually insane!! You’re killing it man! 19 yeses is A LOT you got game my guy, keep it up!
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
Hahahahha I don't have that much game, trust 😂😂😂 but thank you so much :)
@psycho-logical3756
@psycho-logical3756 Год назад
@@yankeesam11 game is a state we all have it it just takes a little push to get you there
@DroppetjeNL
@DroppetjeNL Год назад
u are a legend. I am in highschool and do talk to girls. but asking them out is a tough thing. it was surprising to see that they all reacted kind. I tought they would find it weird.
@asfuji
@asfuji Год назад
You never know. Some girls are used to only being asked by guys who come and say creepy stuff. So it's always worth a try to come and approach like a normal person, with a decent compliment, which also should(but doesn't have to be completely) be true. Like "hey, I like your dress". You can easily make her day just like that and she'd be amazed that finally there's someone who didn't approach her with a body compliment. Or she can be upset that you don't care about her "hot body" of which she's confident and rather notice something she doesn't care much about. Again, you never know, just find a confident and relaxed approach and once, there'll be a cool girl who'll look at you and think you're good for her!
@DroppetjeNL
@DroppetjeNL Год назад
@@asfuji I hope so. I just need to overcome my fear.
@asfuji
@asfuji Год назад
@@DroppetjeNL Good luck man. Just as you can see in the video, if 10 girls say No to you, it doesn't mean you should give up because maybe 11th one is the one who says yes. Not everybody likes every single person right?
@100abbs
@100abbs 4 месяца назад
The one just killed me, props to your confidence and fight against SPAM.
@crazytrain86
@crazytrain86 11 месяцев назад
Props buddy, that's definitely not easy to put yourself out there like that and you've figured it out early in life. Way to be a boss
@flashpeter91
@flashpeter91 7 месяцев назад
the fact he actually found 100 people he would be wanting to ask out (and actually did ask) is seriously impressive! :D
@samiullahsyed7545
@samiullahsyed7545 Год назад
19 out of 100 is still pretty good, since that means almost 1 out of every 5 girls will say yes to you if you ask them out
@randomdudeface
@randomdudeface 5 месяцев назад
I don't have the problem of being unattractive, but that sure doesn't mean I'm any less scared to ask a girl on a date!
@MonAhgasInsomniAroELF
@MonAhgasInsomniAroELF Год назад
this was a fun and funny video, but you made some really good points at the end. the vast majority of the people who said no, were either already in a relationship, did not swing your way, or weren't interested in _anyone_ at the moment. which, wasn't a rejection of _you_ as a person. this is supported by the fact that some already in relationships did say yes to the hypothetical of dating you, because there's no _issue_ with you as a person. what you mentioned, probably half jokingly, about imaging your (improved) chances with people who had a chance to get to know you better before you asked, is absolutely true. you would have even higher chances getting a yes from someone you'd spent a bit of time with beforehand. no one is unloveable, no matter what they look like or where they come from. there's someone out there for everyone according to what they're looking for, whether that's romantic, platonic, queerplatonic, poly, etc. the best advice i have received and can give, is to actually look to make friendships, not look to date. it's in making those friendships that you're most likely to be able to find something more with someone who feels the same. because that's what a partner is. they are first and foremost, a friend. :)
@Redd_Nebula
@Redd_Nebula Год назад
or they were lying. most of them probably werent lying but there were some liars for sure
@forklordbbb8684
@forklordbbb8684 7 месяцев назад
99% of gamblers quit before their big win
@DuncanJuice
@DuncanJuice 2 года назад
Way more confident than I am, big props Sam!
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
Haha, I'm not as confident as it may seem 😅, thank you though. Hope you stay part of the community!
@papoprimearchon9910
@papoprimearchon9910 Год назад
@@yankeesam11 a question bro, you got more confident because of the compromise of making the video?
@JGComments
@JGComments Год назад
When they say No because they don’t know you, that’s just girl code for they aren’t attracted to you. Getting to know you is what the date is FOR.
@LadyDecember
@LadyDecember Год назад
I would partially agree and disagree. While some could have thought that, it's definitely a possibility, I'm one of those people where shyness is my fatal flaw and complete strangers showing interest in me sets off tornado sirens in my head. If I got to have more of a conversation, perhaps even become friendly with him first, then yeah, I'd be much warmer to the idea. You are right of course, the first date is getting to know them, but I could never do it with an entirely blank slate, I need something to at least create an initial foundation first. Could be something as simple as him mentioning off-hand that he likes musicals, or maybe he just told me to watch out for the bad step I was about to fall off of. Doesn't have to be grand, just something. Who knows what the reason could be to make me need a little foundation first. Is it my unbearable shyness that makes me clam up to a complete stranger? Maybe I'm afraid to waste his time? Perhaps I fear that he's not actually interested but is looking to take advantage, manipulate, or possibly harm me? I'm quite unattractive so I tend to automatically regard interest in me as a little suspicious. I guess that will take some soul searching to find the big reason, but those are all strong contenders. I would compare it to this: while a cigarette lighter is inadequate and can't light your way more than an inch in front of your face, it's better than wandering blindly in complete darkness. But that's just for me, I'm not speaking for anyone else or saying this is an iron-clad rule. I applaud anyone who can say yes in the dark, I really do! Takes some chutzpah that I wish I had.
@creatingvideostobreakmyspe6049
Well he could also just seem like a rapist.
@JGComments
@JGComments Год назад
@@LadyDecember I totally agree that he would get more dates if he talked with the girls first so they could feel safe and comfortable and get a sense of his personality. BUT, if they found him highly attractive, I think they would say yes regardless.
@podomuss
@podomuss Год назад
That’s not what that means at all. I usually just don’t ask people out that I don’t know. I don’t care if ‘dates’ are for getting to know someone I would just rather already know the person, and seeing if we’re compatible as friends before becoming a thing
@CristianGarcia-vm1ms
@CristianGarcia-vm1ms Год назад
@@LadyDecember i agree, its sad when someone showing interest in you makes you suspicious and wary. its sad.
@derPetunientopf
@derPetunientopf 7 месяцев назад
This guy is a hero.
@SpoonerTuner
@SpoonerTuner 7 месяцев назад
Your my freak'n hero buddy!! Thanks for the encouragement. Now I need to get out there and ask some girls out myself.
@Gatzlocke
@Gatzlocke Год назад
So here's the thing. to me: "I have a boyfriend" isn't as bad as a "No." I don't fully count it as rejection. As least not emotionally.
@gray_girl
@gray_girl 5 месяцев назад
Honestly kudos to you Sam! I grew up in a culture similar to East Asian culture and was also very shy, sheltered and awkward as a result. Despite the way you described yourself you actually seem quite confident, funny and charming just based on these interactions. I could hardly speak to a stranger when I was college age and could only get a date through dating apps (wouldn't recommend.) I dealt with a lot of rejection as well. I think what frustrated me most was it being unprompted (guys would literally walk up to me, out of nowhere to insult me and let me know they don't find me attractive) or not making sense ("you're wife material not dating material") And of course, guys rejecting if I didn't want to sleep with them. Rejection sucks, and it sucks even more when there's all this rhetoric about how real human women don't face rejection ever. I've learned that I'm an alien creature, lol. Despite peoples ideas rejection is a part of life and can happen for any and everyone. It sucks but it won't kill you and learning that helps. Sometimes it's not personal either--like you saw in the video, many people rejected because they have a partner which is to be expected. It's not because they don't like you. Same with the girls who said they don't know you yet--I'd gauge a lot of those no's could be yeses with a little extra conversation and socializing. The more standards you develop (and I think everyone should have standards) the less rejection feels personal because there are people you would've rejected, too. Luckily, all it takes is one yes!
@samuelmorse784
@samuelmorse784 2 года назад
Great video, you are really showing guys the right way to BE. You are a very giving person, whereas most men think of dates as something they TAKE from other womena. Great job being direct while still being very lighthearted at same time. The girls are laughing and smiling because they have your attention and can feel your positive energy. There is so much wisdom in your approaches here!
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
Appreciate it man!
@icawn
@icawn Месяц назад
6'1"?? Your saving grace for sure!
@GooCH9
@GooCH9 6 месяцев назад
dating not even worth it these days
@larahauge6410
@larahauge6410 7 месяцев назад
The problem is being rejected by a classmate, colleague etc and having to see them every day and carry on like nothing happened😂
@PieOnPot
@PieOnPot Год назад
That was surprisingly wholesome -- well done, Sam.
@bdstudios6088
@bdstudios6088 Год назад
Lesson from mom: when people say no, it's not because you're not worthy. As you can see from Sam's social experiment, most girls either have a boyfriend, are not in the mood, or have other goals in mind. These are situational, circumstantial factors, and should not be attributed to one's fundamental attractiveness or character as a person. So get out there and ask random people out to dates right now! You have to start from somewhere. It can just be a hangout, making friends, nothing too serious.
@bdstudios6088
@bdstudios6088 Год назад
PROTIP: paying for their food does help :) go make some money!!
@fostyy106
@fostyy106 Год назад
Thats cap dud
@Rudi_Mentary723
@Rudi_Mentary723 10 месяцев назад
@@bdstudios6088 that's not the pro tip. That's the ONLY tip for the guys. Make money. See the numbers change in your favour, even the women who are 'not in the mood, have goals in mind' will have a different view then. 😂
@batfuzz1681
@batfuzz1681 10 месяцев назад
A lot of women lie about having a boyfriend because they don't find the guy attractive enough or worthy enough. So yes a lot of women reject men for these reasons and I've seen women admit to it.
@fostyy106
@fostyy106 10 месяцев назад
@@batfuzz1681 bro dont think abt it Its kinda depressing think that
@anotherfacelessname9270
@anotherfacelessname9270 6 месяцев назад
The boyfriend acceptance rate was 100%. I'm switching to boyfriends.
@КарлДжонсон-у3г
I’m 28, and I’ve only had 2 dates in my life. It was with girls I didn’t like and happened only because I’d felt desperate and stuff… wouldn’t say that I’ve tried hard or something. If I were to count all the attempts I had, it’d be like 60-80 attempts in my life, with the girls that I like, because I’ve never really tried to date girls I don’t like, except for those 2 dates. Overall every time I asked out someone, it was no or doubts that led to no. kinda gave up on this dating stuff cuz the closer you are to 30, the less you need dating, maybe it’s just my thing, who knows. The main reason of all this in my life is my appearance; never been cute or handsome. In my teens had a lot of acne was ugly, by the time I made it to my 20s, I’d already gotten bald… acne, baldness, patchy beard, low income, insecurity, bad English, slim body, all those things committed to my insecurities, making me less and less attractive… now, I don’t even know what I want and what to do, I’m just playing video games where I have a better life
@paulo29z
@paulo29z Год назад
Aqui no Brazil ou em Portugal você teria legiões de garotas interessadas em você, principalmente as loiras, você só precisa mudar de país
@КарлДжонсон-у3г
@@paulo29z thanks bro, but if I were to go to Brazil, I would have my bad Portuguese added to my insecurities, and more importantly, immigration puts you into the position where you don’t have a lot of money and opportunities at first, which also contributes to the above mentioned
@asfuji
@asfuji Год назад
​@@КарлДжонсон-у3г Hey man, it's all about approach. Interesting thing is, that even females you find beautiful and perfect have doubts about themselves - why would so many of them pursue implants, face injections, hair implants etc. All these insecurities are always in our heads, the other person always sees you as a whole package and view you as you are. They don't see that "I'm very insecure about my bald head". The key? Embrace what you have and try to make yourself better at things. Being 28 is still very young age. I'm 24. Bald head? Some girls prefer guys with bald heads and seek them. Some girls like chubby guys. Patchy beard doesn't mean anything too. English can always be improved(you're playing games, find friends to talk on discord?). And there's many things... The key is to accept who you are, find something that is fulfilling you = making you happy and optimistic about life and learn how to lead a conversation with confidence and have a good hygiene. With being slim, you need to eat just nutritious food and do some exercise(do 10 push ups and 10 squats every time you die in a game and are waiting for respawn) and you'll see how your body shape will change and you'll become more confident. There's also another point of view = if you have healthy body and no handicap, you really have *nothing* to seriously take as insecurity.
@КарлДжонсон-у3г
@@asfuji thanks dude, you’re definitely right about all this stuff. I do understand that I can improve myself if I commit myself to it, but it’s so jarring that someone has all those things just because they have better dna. Baldness is one of the examples where it’s just a lottery, some people just have hair and some people do not. Although balding is kind of a natural thing, Hollywood beauty standards treat it like something problematic, which makes people like me frustrated
@Robert.Lachowski550
@Robert.Lachowski550 Год назад
28 is still young and oofy doofy is law anyways, no one care about your insecurities. IT DOESNT REALLY MATTER TO WOMYN, they want the most lazy disgusting man they could ever find.
@Youtuber-mc2uv
@Youtuber-mc2uv 6 дней назад
80% of them seemed crazy.
@krishdesai1980
@krishdesai1980 Год назад
I loved this. It was refreshing and real, heartwarming, and funny asf. I love how much confidence you have and the ability to take sarcasm and make jokes about yourself. Good job man! :)
@ProgrammedMind
@ProgrammedMind 5 месяцев назад
shorty said " depends on what car you drive" nahhhhhh thats ugly
@QuangAndSomething
@QuangAndSomething 5 месяцев назад
nah bro being 6 feet tall is every Asian male's dream 💀
@byungsong2819
@byungsong2819 5 месяцев назад
Hey at least, 19% acceptance rate bro. It could have been 0% not bad honestly!! Very proud of you!! 👍
@bennett2873
@bennett2873 Год назад
04:46 that completely caught me off guard 😭😂 these GOD DAMN OTAKUS ! ♥️🙏🏽✨
@Perrypool09
@Perrypool09 9 месяцев назад
I watched that part and it took me 5 full seconds to truly process what she said 😭
@darshnikdeep4650
@darshnikdeep4650 7 месяцев назад
your confidence is giving me goosebumps and i am looking at myself now🤣
@criticalhitentertainment
@criticalhitentertainment 5 месяцев назад
In all seriousness, this is one of my favorite videos on the platform! Perhaps this is a sign for me to get out there
@Followmybliss777
@Followmybliss777 3 месяца назад
“I’m not mentally stable enough”
@brucew5919
@brucew5919 3 месяца назад
any normal person, not just SPAM should be expecting a reject rate of over 90%
@shoeberci6126
@shoeberci6126 Год назад
2:14 hugeeee dub, SHE HAS EREN'S KEY AS A NECKLACE😫🛐
@xanthonybryant4269
@xanthonybryant4269 3 месяца назад
for me, because im in school, i dont fear rejection as it is all ive ever gotton when ive asked anyone out, its the akwardness, you and whoever you like both know that i like that person and it makes it akward.
@roxythefoxsayfurismurderan3187
@roxythefoxsayfurismurderan3187 7 месяцев назад
So many beautiful girls! More than I expected said yes! Go for it, Sam.
@ahlakee
@ahlakee 3 месяца назад
"I only have space in my heart for my cat" 😹🩷
@ooooggll
@ooooggll 8 месяцев назад
"I'm too emotionally attached to fictional characters right now" 💀
@LIBqueen
@LIBqueen 7 месяцев назад
LMAO!
@DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC
@DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC 7 месяцев назад
literally me
@Bunny-xr7cx
@Bunny-xr7cx 6 месяцев назад
Gojo fan
@banerjeehome5913
@banerjeehome5913 5 месяцев назад
@@DONTTOUCHTHEGRASSIMALLERGIC eww
@xxxarimaxxx
@xxxarimaxxx 5 месяцев назад
​@@banerjeehome5913 eww
@mikalastseraph7894
@mikalastseraph7894 Год назад
Can we just appreciate how guys would always say yes? True Bros solidarity
@whakjob
@whakjob Год назад
I'm 42 now and am glad guys are less toxic these days, I would totally do that for a laugh if I was with my girl.
@jakubslavik5595
@jakubslavik5595 Год назад
Yeah, boys are the best. My friend had some troubles (first a girl openly showed him she was interested in him and then later rejected him, because she had too much stuff to do and other shit) and I was a bit worried about him, so to cheer him up I asked a girl on a date just to be also rejected, so we went for a beer with my friend.
@soccernatic
@soccernatic Год назад
@@jakubslavik5595 I need a friend like that... you are a true hero my bro!
@kundan1630
@kundan1630 Год назад
@@jakubslavik5595 respect 📈📈📈
@macmcleod1188
@macmcleod1188 Год назад
Nah. Gay guys wouldn't say yes. And most guys in serious relationships wouldn't-- basic pain avoidance. And a at least some guys would suspect a trap, some kind of scam, some kind of ripoff and say no. So.. probably 40-55 would say yes.
@_Izxk
@_Izxk 2 года назад
If only 1% of the world finds you attractive that’s 78 million people
@yankeesam11
@yankeesam11 2 года назад
That is... true
@BenjiBHasNoD
@BenjiBHasNoD 2 года назад
yeah and their all in fucking russia or smthin
@ConchRepublic2047
@ConchRepublic2047 2 года назад
What if it’s like a tenth of that 1% like 7,800,000 people, there’s what, 8 billion people in the world, at that point there’s only 1 girl in every 1,000 girls attracted to you.
@metalrockstarizer89
@metalrockstarizer89 2 года назад
@@BenjiBHasNoD hahaha
@KiraTheGod666
@KiraTheGod666 Год назад
@@BenjiBHasNoD Well this is your chance they are all fleeing their shit country they might be your Neighbors soon!
@fosfo7363
@fosfo7363 Год назад
At this point am getting convinced that geting a girl's boyfriend to go on a date with you is far easier than geting a date with a girl.
@pixelzebra8440
@pixelzebra8440 Год назад
Lmfao
@ashhadalam8874
@ashhadalam8874 Год назад
Two of my best friends introduced me to their current girlfriend using these exact words ‘Girlfriend, meet my boyfriend’
@stud28gr
@stud28gr Год назад
You really should date men.
@johncox2912
@johncox2912 Год назад
Hahahahaha!!!!
@B1ENTERTAINMENT30
@B1ENTERTAINMENT30 Год назад
when all else fails, the bro code reigns supreme lol
@gevans5446
@gevans5446 9 месяцев назад
In my experience, 19% acceptance rate on a cold approach is like batting 0.500 in the major leagues. This guy is legend.
@bleensteen9331
@bleensteen9331 9 месяцев назад
Yeah but he was clearly asking it as a hypothetical stunt so obviously girls are going to be more inclined to say yes to seem nicer.
@thabulos
@thabulos 9 месяцев назад
Well said man.
@rebinu
@rebinu 9 месяцев назад
@@bleensteen9331 more like they're gonna say no/boyfriend because hes putting a camera in their face and putting them on the spot. Go touch some grass and then talk to some girls. World isnt so bad as you think.
@medcol-gx8pp
@medcol-gx8pp 9 месяцев назад
​@@rebinulol keyboard warrior tryna hurt his feelings, bet you've never touched a girl in your life
@OneTequilaTwoTequila
@OneTequilaTwoTequila 8 месяцев назад
19 girls out of 100 felt pity.
@shawnsmith4692
@shawnsmith4692 Год назад
As someone with social anxiety, I don't think it's the fear of rejection that's the worst part of this. It's the fear that they will actually say yes and I'll have to spend an entire evening trying to be interesting.
@KindaOutofHere
@KindaOutofHere Год назад
That is so true 😂😂😂
@minnie21434
@minnie21434 Год назад
I read somewhere that if you take your first date to play games that increase your adrenalin, they'll have a good time & also always associate you with a happy feeling they had during the adrenalin rush.
@kookilenakkk8779
@kookilenakkk8779 Год назад
Being boring is one of my biggest fear… that’s why when I have a crush, I always try to see him with a group of friends so I know that I won’t be alone if I ever run out of interesting things to say
@exudeku
@exudeku Год назад
Basically "damn, I never expected to go this far"
@rodrigo-tj1gf
@rodrigo-tj1gf Год назад
both are scary
@ethan-scott
@ethan-scott Год назад
One of the most wholesome, supportive, positive “male-mental-health” videos I’ve ever seen. Cheers man. Killin it.
@BusinessWolf1
@BusinessWolf1 Год назад
seen*
@ethan-scott
@ethan-scott Год назад
I have no idea what you’re talking about! *whistles in perfect grammar*
@holidaycomplex
@holidaycomplex Год назад
less tate more sam pls youtube
@abdood6173
@abdood6173 Год назад
@@holidaycomplex they both help
@suprecam9880
@suprecam9880 Год назад
Agree with that!
@RickzMaven
@RickzMaven 29 дней назад
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
@milkcrate5735
@milkcrate5735 Год назад
This man deserves a nobel prize for his confidence alone
@coolgamers2794
@coolgamers2794 Год назад
This guy in the video needs to relax and enjoy life. If he was born ugly or isn't perfect; his life isn't over! He might not be super attractive; but that is where he can always go to Las Vegas, Nevada to seek adult services if ever necessary. I am an Asian American guy whose look is about *Above Average* and the first time I ever tried to ask a girl out was so nerve racking even as a military veteran whose pretty embolden with tough training. You get to learn about being tough and having a thick neck about girls saying no. I had to go through 20-30 girls of just socializing/dating around before finally finding my current wife. To get his hopes up; My first girlfriend I ever seriously got into a relationship was a white girl that I met through a Church gathering. Woman when it comes to dating all will operate with the same psychology of trying to figure out who you are and are you worth the time. Whatever values, goals, devious thoughts, or ways how they want to use you in a possible relationship is all up to them. That is where you must figure out also if the girl you're talking to worth the time. The hardest part of any relationships is maintaining it. I am now married to an Asian American girl though; but that was after 12-15 years of dating/mingling around many girls before running into my wife. Confidence is great; but also using some wits to figure out which girl best suits your future is what counts the most.
@scintillam_dei
@scintillam_dei Год назад
@@coolgamers2794 Prostitution is degrading.
@coolgamers2794
@coolgamers2794 Год назад
@@scintillam_dei It's all part of life no different than people doing drugs. 2/3 of people in the world support female hiring for sexual services.
@scintillam_dei
@scintillam_dei Год назад
@@coolgamers2794 Yes, it's part of LIfE. You did an AD POPVLVM fallacy. Popularity is irrelevant to morality or you're as low as the lowest common denominator.
@coolgamers2794
@coolgamers2794 Год назад
@@scintillam_dei Keep thinking that way kid. You'll never see life as the perfect fantasy you think it was. Once you grown up more; you will learn to accept reality as it was designed. Btw; my wife does not object to me accepting the fact that woman can choose to sell their bodies. She is a conservative woman but still understands that man and woman can choose to partake in actions with societies oldest profession.
@cloudsRniceC0M3
@cloudsRniceC0M3 Год назад
19% is roughly 4000% better than tinder
@ANM21985
@ANM21985 7 месяцев назад
true.. only Chads get 19% match rates on Tinder.
@masterexploder9668
@masterexploder9668 7 месяцев назад
Real life is actually easier than apps. You might think it's easier, because you don't talk with somebody face to face and can swipe while comfortable on your couch, but the results speak for themselves.
@ANM21985
@ANM21985 7 месяцев назад
@@masterexploder9668 Yes but also no. Not everyone can deal with potentially getting rejected by 100 girls face to face ..whereas on an App you're basically just swiping so its a lot easier. Apps as well allow you to hit on a large amount of girls a lot more efficiently than in real life. However most people will probably get better results with in real life simply because what happens online is that the top 10% of men get more matches/likes than the bottom 90% combined. So if you're an average guy then approaching offline is definately gonna yield better results if you have a thick enough skin for it.
@BoysinBlue-zn5db
@BoysinBlue-zn5db 7 месяцев назад
Real life dating chances of success are like 2%-20% depending on your personality, looks, height, physique etc. Online, only top 1-2% get the dates because the standards there are too high due to exposure to a lot of external influences.
@BoysinBlue-zn5db
@BoysinBlue-zn5db 7 месяцев назад
Dating isn't fair at all for men. I'd rather wait for someone
@youtubewatcher4955
@youtubewatcher4955 Год назад
When you start looking at rejection as part of the process and not objective failure it gets a lot easier.
@thendomudau558
@thendomudau558 Год назад
You can get a 1000 girls and still feel hurt getting rejected by one. Rejection is too deep
@chooonker
@chooonker Год назад
@@thendomudau558 yeah, it really depends on how much connection you have with girl, you can have 1000 hoes which you don't care but that one which you truly love will be hard
@TimothyGod
@TimothyGod Год назад
@@thendomudau558 that's not the point of the comment. You gotta understand rejection will and can happen, and gotta move on
@desert4seat
@desert4seat Год назад
@@thendomudau558 um.. but in reality, there is no such thing as "rejection." C'mon people
@omerkose2218
@omerkose2218 Год назад
@@desert4seat "Um, actually..." 🤓
@xero8047
@xero8047 Год назад
to be honest some of the girls who told him yes seemed really pretty and cool and it made me realize just being down to earth with people and not being afraid of a no can do more for you than you’d think
@lolong5976
@lolong5976 Год назад
That is actually true. Social media has brainwashed men into thinking every girl is a gold digger, wants 6 ft, 8/10, etc. And all these bs is mostly said on so called self improvement or pick up artists channels. And it's obvious that mainly men with less confidence, introverted, shy watches those channels. And those creators only show a handful of overreacting or scripted gold digger women into those videos to put up a narrative. And men believe it. Most go projecting cause they need to feel better about themselves too. Since they can't get a woman they whine about them. And it has became a default narrative cause it's overused so people believe it as a truth. There are authentic prank channels too where girls and women are mostly chill and even give numbers to the pranksters. Even tho the pranksters aren't attractive or 6 ft or whatever. They just show confidence and decent approach. And about picking up girls randomly is stoopid too. If a girl gets impressed by a mere pick up line or in the club then it's obvious she isn't for long term relationship. Same with guys who use pick up lines. If it's about asking fisherman how to catch a fish, then it literally means asking how to get only one type of women. Cause the fisherman is himself the "street" who attracts women who belongs to the streets. Any guy riding the village bicycle isn't worth too. And a decent, high value woman won't get picked up by a man who is himself a street. Just like a decent, high value man won't go for the women from streets lol
@qersy127
@qersy127 Год назад
I didn't really find them to be cool but it's whatever
@plague6174
@plague6174 Год назад
@@qersy127 Think about it. Because its easier to get over rejection of someone you don't know rather than someone you've had on your mind long-term, and you would rather the latter not fail
@fahad8162
@fahad8162 Год назад
I dont blame them for rejecting a random guy they're seeing for the 1st time
@SwamiEU
@SwamiEU Год назад
nah, being afraid of a no and talking to no one leaving you eternally alone is the way to go
@high.level.noob.
@high.level.noob. 5 месяцев назад
Almost 1/5 acceptance is actually insane
@Squared_Table
@Squared_Table 3 месяца назад
That’s the power of being over six foot, shoving a camera in people’s face, and “confidence”.
@EmoneyXC
@EmoneyXC 3 месяца назад
@@Squared_Tablefacts. I’m a bit introverted but I’m a 6ft athlete and if I had a camera in my hand I’d be unstoppable 😂
@dieauferstehung
@dieauferstehung 2 месяца назад
cuz hes tall
@nevergiveupbaby1720
@nevergiveupbaby1720 Месяц назад
Losers
@McP1mpin
@McP1mpin Месяц назад
1/5 said yes to going on a date on the spot but he didn't leave with them on the spot. If he got all their numbers and tried to set up the date later, I bet less than 1/5 of those 1/5 would actually follow through.
@shwift8789
@shwift8789 Год назад
massive respect for doing this. As someone who is massively scared of rejection, this is like a superhero! Especially that final message that you should never be discouraged! Loved the video Sam!!!
@guerrill
@guerrill Год назад
hey bro, an advice, you should never think about women like he did at the end. They are NOT special, they are NOT that goddess that our mind create. They want more than they can provide, and it's very difficult to find one that match you and will CONTINUE matching along your life. Be vigilant, take care.
@willb5278
@willb5278 Год назад
@@guerrill "They want more than they can provide" Alright, who hurt you? This sounds specific enough to be damage from an ex. *rereads that* That came out more hostile and less funny than it was in my head.
@shwift8789
@shwift8789 Год назад
@@guerrill not all women are the same.
@larrellmcclain7513
@larrellmcclain7513 Год назад
@@willb5278 it’s true 90% of the time
@guerrill
@guerrill Год назад
@@willb5278 it's not about hurt, it's all about evidences. Women are constantly looking for better life, if her man can't provide it, she will get it by another way, and you can't prevent it, it's natural. The more she has, the more she wants, and most of women can't hold it back, unfortunately. You think the things are equal? Women offer the body, and the men the rest? If you're okay with that, go for it. Like I said, it was an advice.
@rithvikyagnamurthy6560
@rithvikyagnamurthy6560 Год назад
Dude I don’t think you understand how insanely good a 19% acceptance rate is! Congratulations on having the confidence to ask people out, you definitely made huge improvements in this video! Just make sure whoever you decide to enter a relationship with us high quality and respects you just as you respect them
@fedes9626
@fedes9626 Год назад
The guy is 6' plus it is almost all that is needed in the US.
@ryusnipes6284
@ryusnipes6284 Год назад
@@fedes9626 if he did some skin care and worked out he would be easily an 8 or a 9
@nonlmao
@nonlmao Год назад
51%!!
@Leo-gi7bg
@Leo-gi7bg Год назад
even 1% is good, since that's 1 entire person, and a relationship is with 1 person.
@alvarogarcia8880
@alvarogarcia8880 Год назад
It means that you have to like some of those 19% of girls, as with the other 81% you dont have chances, so it is quite difficult that you like one of them. And as some of the girls said, a date is just a date and it doesnt mean anything
@pinduli
@pinduli Год назад
As a girl, I think It's important to note that a lot of the women laughed right as he asked them. THE MAJORITY WERE NOT LAUGHING AT HIM. The laughing is due to nervousness, not thinking he's ridiculous for asking him.
@humanyoda
@humanyoda Год назад
Thanks for noting that!
@sheppee5608
@sheppee5608 Год назад
Woulda Laffed in his face, pushed him to the ground, kick him and ride the ddd
@theYoutubeHandle
@theYoutubeHandle Год назад
hey, speak for urself.😂
@fos1451
@fos1451 Год назад
It depends, you can't just generalized this
@sheppee5608
@sheppee5608 Год назад
@@fos1451 I would ride his ddd
@dvictor1350
@dvictor1350 2 года назад
"I don't trust guys that approach girls." Please tell me I'm not the only one that caught that cause I'm lost for words after that lol
@WhiteRanger1298
@WhiteRanger1298 2 года назад
So you don't trust guys that want to date women?
@tradeo8899
@tradeo8899 2 года назад
Dodged a bullet
@Kyrobucks
@Kyrobucks Год назад
Yeah she’s lost.
@SamC77
@SamC77 Год назад
in her mind humans reproduce by mitosis.
@IamINERT
@IamINERT Год назад
"She doesnt trust guys that are not attractive who approaches girl"
@shantymanshep
@shantymanshep Год назад
These people are all so chill. I love how the boyfriends laugh it off and say that they would probably date him if they weren’t in a relationship
@Michal235
@Michal235 Год назад
The most classy approach, to go with the joke. Well done by them
@Innatefulness
@Innatefulness Год назад
It’s what San Diego does to you lol
@shukailu6731
@shukailu6731 Год назад
Most boyfriends are cool and well-calibrated (socially). It's probably why the girls like them
@GilbbBuilds
@GilbbBuilds Год назад
@@shukailu6731 for real bro,
@calvry4157
@calvry4157 Год назад
San Diego looking really cool after this video...every conversation with each person was great
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