I Broke Off My Engagement. 

We're here for you. You've created a community and the very definition of the word is we support each other no matter what. You're not alone.

I'm so sorry. It was a hard decision to do that, but doing what's best for you guys is so brave! It's so hard, but so brave. Here's to healing.

So sorry!! We’re all supporting you 🤍

I’m so sorry 💔 It’s so hard to end and engagement i ended my marriage of 7yrs and it is hard even if you know it’s the right thing. I actually started watch your videos to learn to sing as a way to distract myself to cope. Give yourself space and small steps and sometimes doing nothing is a step it’s self care to just let yourself absorb the new reality. Sending good vibes girl❤

I know a goof chunk of people will say thank you for sharing this. It was probably a struggle. You filmed this video& did these things and if I was you I wouldn’t count the effort and work for that I’d prolly be worrying about the next thing. If you read this I hope I can be an internal voice telling you to breathe in between trying to do little tasks at a time. You may not want to be strong but know that you naturally are to have done what you’ve already done after the months you’ve had. You deserve your happiness, you deserve the effort, you are loved and the time was not wasted. If you feel like crying then cry. Feel it and release do what you need courageous woman ❤

Thank you so much for sharing this. I can’t say how much it means and even helps me to hear you being so real, vulnerable, and honest. You heal others even when you think you’re a mess. I’m so sorry for all the grief and sadness you are feeling. I feel so much respect for the choices you made and where you’re coming from in making them. It seems to me really… honorable. I love you, just the same as ever, you are still just a big light in my life. I know you feel like shattered glass on the floor, but to me you are still just amazing you, making a difference in my life. I know it’s such a hard process, what you’re going through, and it’s not like we ever plan on it. Thank you for being here ❤️‍🩹 I hope you feel better…. 🫂

it's okay to be depressed and have anxiety take your time I just want you to know we are here for you you are not alone thank you for inspiring us with your video love you XOXO

Hey libby, i just wanted to say that hearing you talk about what being happening to you really struck to me bc ive been dealing with some similar things and feelings. I really hope you go through everything in the best way possible, and to let you know that you are not alone, everything you are feeling is so valid and im happy you were able to talk about it. Best wishes for you, better days will come, and i know you will be able to get back on your feet. Much love and support

Thank you for taking the time to share this. You're going through a lot right now. You have our support. Be strong. Take it one step at a time. When it feels too much, take a moment for yourself. You deserve to be well. You might not see it now, but things will gradually improve.

We're here. I just resonate with this, not yet engaged. But the situation is yep the same. I'm confused and i dont know how to break it off. I dont know if it's me being dependent to him or me feeling that he is my responsibility; his feelings are my responsibility. Or both. Im fuckin crying!

I can’t imagine how hard it was to sit down and film this, this may feel like such a major life changing event for you right now but I promise it too will pass! You made a great judgement for yourself and a smart one at that. You deserve the best of the best in a person who loves and respects you and you will definitely find them. I am so proud of you Libbey. I hope you can take the proper time to heal and possibly take this time to turn a new leaf for yourself. Please take care of yourself!!! Find joy in the small things like finding new music, food, and things that calm you and allow you to vent. Don’t be so hard on yourself, we support you so much here and I hope you can rely on us as community to validate your passions and interests. All the love ❤️‍🩹❤️

💗You will get through this, queen!!💗 Please take all the time you need. Don't get frustrated. That only leads to you getting worse. All of us on RU-vid support you! We have your back. 🙂

Honey, these things are a natural part of life. I know it hurts now, but you’ve made the right decision. You have tons of support, but remember the only opinion that matters in this is yours. I’m proud of you. Please feel free to reach out if you want to talk.

мне очень жаль что все пошло по плохому сценарию , береги себя в моральном и физическом плане . хочется верить что у тебя есть пара крепких друзей которые дадут тебе необходимую поддержку и увлекут тебя иными событиями . не знаю что именно может помочь тебе выйти из депрессии ( музыка , прогулки , другой город , погружение в чужую жизнь, видео игры ) УДАЧИ Либби

Baby im so sorry. It will get better. i promise. i love you to much momma!!

I know it's difficult but you made the right decision for YOU and that's the most important part. Take care of yourself and time will help you heal. Take it day by day and look for something small everyday to put a smile on your face. You have support on this channel. Nothing but love for you girl ❤️

I came across your channel today because I wanted to be able to sign some of the Christmas songs that play at work so that way it gives me something to do towards the end of my shift, and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Although I don’t have seasonal depression, Black Friday is the 1 year anniversary of the death of my grandmother. I took care of her during the last 6 months of her life, and as someone who is trying to move forward in my life, I understand. I wish I could give you a hug!

Sorry to hear what happened. Know that there are people here to support you.

I’m so sorry Libbey!! Mental health and relationships are so so hard. I totally get it girl. Thank you for being so open about this. Take care of YOU 💕 If you need to talk to someone I am more than happy to talk to you!! I’m free a lot so just reach out to me if you need anything! Ps. I’m in therapy too and it’s so hard buts it an amazing step!

I’m so sorry Libbey😢😢😢 look you have given us a safe space to share our own thoughts and feelings and I believe we should offer you the same if you are okay with that. Just know you can talk to us anytime you need too!! We’re all your friends💜

Sorry for the difficult time you're going through! 🥲You have a purpose in life! You're blessed with soo much! We will always be here to support you in all you do. Best of luck to you Libby! God bless 🙏🙏 Hope you feel better soon. 🫶✌️🤟

Thank you for sharing the video. Hope people see how depression is. Someone that suffer depression, it gets bad. And dark. Stay strong!!! Don't give up!!! We all hit dark times. Just talk to your therapist. Is crazy seeing you go from sign language to blogging. STAY STRONG WE CARE!!! you didn't kill the vibe. You're showing us mental illness. Also hearing the pain in your voice breaks my heart. All I can say. A doctor still sees a doctor. On that note therapist needs a therapist sometimes

Hi Libbey, I've been on your channel for a long time now and I just wanted to say I'm proud of you. You have inspired so much in my life personally, I was just thinking about you the other day and wondering how you were doing. I'm sorry things are hard right now, but life has its ups and downs and the important thing is that you're still here. You're doing your best, and that's so admirable. You are such a strong and caring person and I hope these next few weeks get a little brighter for you. Healing is hard, but you have all of the support from me. Take a deep breath, and remember, You've got this! Sending love and support your way, friend. ^-^

I’m so sorry to hear that Libbey! 😔 Stay strong, ily 🤟🤍🫂

Right now it may feel like chaos and itll feel like youll never feel yourself or good again. But trust me been there done that, it will and ik you dont think of this yet, but you will meet someone who will make you feel like youre everything. In the meantime, good healing 💙

Thank you for posting this video and knowing that you can talk to us I don't feel as alone as I did when I woke up this morning because of this video so thank you

I was in a similar place last year . I broke down and finally got on medication and thank God I did because this year had a lot of traumatic things happen to me and I’ve managed it well , and not once have I questioned my existence or the point despite my circumstances this year . I pray you find something that works the best for you rather medication, making friends to talk to , or a therapist , etc . Whatever it is I hope you can find that peace like I found . 💛 Sending you love and prayers beautiful .

Oh Sweet Libby my heart truly hurts for you. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing all that with us that can't be easy. I am SO sorry you are going through all that. I am also VERY PROUD of you for being aware and strong enough to stay true to yourself and what's best for you, not a lot of people can do either. I wish we lived in the same town I'd come get you and just listen to you and comfort you. I don't know what much more to say except You are Strong, You are Amazing & I truly Admire you. I am sending gentle and loving energy your way continually ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I'm so sorry, Libbey! I can sympathize with you when you said you appreciate your family's support, but it isn't always the kind of support you need. Last year, I went through a lot of physical and mental health issues. Like you, I went from being pretty independent living on campus, taking classes, doing my BSW internship, and finishing my last few semesters. Due to breaking my leg and ending up with other issues on top of it, I had to move out of my dorm and back home with my parents. I was on bedrest for 4 months so nobody could relate to what I was going through. Therapy and having the support of my favorite staff member at my college who convinced me to try therapy were the only reasons I was able to survive that horrible experience. I wish you the best in counseling and trying to heal and figure out where to go from here. We miss your videos, but you take all the time you need before you come back again ❤

You are clearly in pain, which makes sense. Libby, you inspire so many people. You will look back on this decision as one that had to be made. You should be proud of yourself for seeing clearly in spite of the trauma. Be strong. You have it in you.

I’m also struggling with seasonal depression, your words really helped validate me and know that it will get better. You’re so strong and we’re all rooting for you, you’ll get through this even though it seems really difficult right now

I'm glad you shared this with us. We are here and we going through this wit you no matter what happens. We are with you. And we love you

To Libbey, I really appreciate your videos and your mental health videos. I hope you'll be able to feel better soon mental illness is really hard I'll be praying for you!

Awww Libbey, we believe in you but healing takes time. We'll be here when your ready 💜 im proud of you for getting up quickly for yourself though 💪

I’m praying for you Libbey! I’m going through something similar. Just take all the time you need and know we will still be here when you heal your heart and mind. Focus on yourself, take it day by day. You are doing what is best for you. You deserve so much and you did what you had to do. I know it’s a hard change but with time things will get better. Time is your friend here. You are strong and I’ll know you will start focusing on yourself with help. You are beautiful you are strong and we love you. Don’t worry we’re not going anywhere!! We’ll be right here for when you feel strong to share your next video, can’t wait!!! ❤️🥰❤️

Take all the time and healing you need Libbey❤ 🤟🏾 and feel better

I know so many ladies, one of whom was my adopted daughter, who should’ve broken off their engagement, and didn’t. They all ended up in really bad marriages. Good for you for recognizing it early enough. Getting out of a bad marriage is a lot harder and far more stressful than ending an engagement.

You’re so incredibly amazing for sharing that with us. I’ve also been going through issues that are difficult to share. So it’s heartening to know that I’m not alone in my struggles. I’m wishing you the very best and we’ll all be here whenever you’re ready ❤

I admire your strength and bravery. It's only gonna be up from here.

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with all of that. I kinda feel what you're going through. My life is a train wreck right now, and I feel like I'm just waiting to just waste away. I hope things get better for you, and you'll pull through this. Take care of yourself.

Yo Libby you'll get through this you are not alone we're here for you girl you gotta do what is best for you and we'll be here for you every step of the way just buck up champ you can do this amazing things it's good for you that you atleast your trying never forget Libbey we love you and we'll NEVER leave you take care of yourself it'll get better bud

I completely sympathize as I too have gone through some serious rough patches and, like others have said, we are here for you. I do a lot of advoacy for others and have done a lot of training so feel free to reach out anytime. I have walked in yoru shoes with some relationships that got very toxic so my door is always open. Big hugs to you.

I have all the same disorders and diagnoses. Medications fail me. I self sabbotage everything good that comes into my life (many relationships and 2 engagements). As much as it hurts and gets lonely, I've come accustomed to the idea maybe it's just best for me to remain alone in my misery till death do us part.. if even then it escapes me. I feel you

Seeing this after finding your channel because of your video for "fight song sing language" and then seeing the titles of your last 4 videos really hits hard, I'm very sorry and I hope you're better, you are a strong person. 💗

I'm so sorry, Libbey. I can't say I know 100% what you're going through, but I can relate to a portion of what you're dealing with right now. You take care of yourself first. We will be here when you are ready. 😊💕

I just want to say thank you for sharing this. I'm sorry that you're going through this difficult sea of emotions and I just want to say to give yourself time. You made the best step for yourself in breaking that off for you and your future. We are all here for you. Things like this are never easy and you just have to take it one baby step at a time. I know all of this might be annoying to hear but I'm going through something similar at the moment and hearing you talk about some of the similar worries in my mind helped me step back and process those things more. Little by little things will start to look up and they'll get better. Thank you for sharing this with us and being here. 💙

Realizing all this before you actually tied the knot was probably a good thing! Can I also just say that you are so gorgeous! Here’s to new beginnings 🎉😢

I'm sorry, Libbey! All the support and love goes out to you. ❤❤❤

Libbey, I'm sorry that you're going through this. I know that you don't know me, but I'm here if you want or need to talk.

i am sorry for what has happened recently. I’m glad you put yourself forward and decided to let something go even it was one of the most hardest things you can do. you’re strong and I know things will become better for you. much love for you Libby 🤍🌼🫶🏽

My parents aren’t super good at empathizing or validating me either. I get that. Thinking of you

You ROCK! It's NOT easy to open up your life & heart to the world like you have! I've had severe depression my whole life. Family & close friends have never TRULY understood what that means & for ME it is too hard to even try to help them understand. By you opening up your life & telling others, you have given us who CAN'T SAY that depression can & DOES HAPPEN to anyone a voice. Just like your ASL videos give music to those who can't hear & THAT dear, sweet young, lady is AMAZING! Okay, yeah, you didn't do a shower, or your nails & you eventually WILL get your teeth brushed, & the video done you want & need to do, but for RIGHT THIS MINUTE, RIGHT NOW, you made me remember that I'm not alone in depression. There are SO MANY others struggling to put on a happy face, pretend they are alright & continue to act like their (or my) world doesn't feel like it's crumbling. YOU COULD SAY IT! Thank you for sharing. I am INCREDIBLY SORRY you are having SO MUCH thrown at you all at once, but you are still RIGHT HERE, doing a video. You're not balled up on the floor, alone & broken, you're using your voice to break the silence of the sadness & still rockin! You're advocating for YOU through therapy, & reaching out instead of hiding. Your strength for saying you are sad & yes, that is a valid, very alright emotion, (one that most people WON'T ALLOW others to express without saying, "Oh, DON'T BE SAD." or "Don't cry!" ) is proof you are doing all you can do for YOU, PLUS you are STILL HELPING OTHERS JUST BY VOICING IT. You Will be alright. You Will get the important things done, maybe not right this minute or even this week, but you've searched, through therapy & inner instincts, intellect, & found out 1 relationship isn't what you wanted BEFORE it was 'for a lifetime'. Stay strong. Stand tall. Continue to advocate for yourself with all the positives you are already using & the rest will happen. The room will get cleaned. You'll get that video done. Your nails will get polished eventually, & that independence you crave WILL HAPPEN. You know HOW I KNOW? Because you got on here & are strong enough to do the 'now'. AND THAT IS PLENTY, for right now.🤟💙☺️

I hope you start to feel better soon, thanks for sharing something like this. Im sorry you're feeling so bad! We are here if you need. Sending good vibes 🤗

Sending much love to you during this difficult time.

Hey Libby, just wanted to say that I'm so sorry to hear about all the things that you've had to go through this past season. Super thankful that you are having the chance to go to therapy, definitely praying that things start to lighten and that it becomes easier through the step by step process. I'm praying that you will be able to breathe freely, and that there will be light in the next season as you take the steps. You are so strong and more loved than you know. I know this is coming from a total stranger so I don't know if it'll help but know that you are so supported and so loved.

Heartbreaking to watch and see you hurting. Such a hard decision to make. It is obviously the right one. Hard to see now. You'll know when you're on that right road to happiness. You could tell that this just wasn't it - as hard as that was to discover and to grow strong enough to admit. When you're ready, keep searching. For what it is worth, Ohio's not that bad, if you live it the right area.

there is a great amount of emotional maturity in you. i’m sorry you’re going through this hard time but good for you for doing what’s best for you. at least you can say you tried. we love you. and wish you the best and will always support you 💜💜 take care of yourself today love. asl i understand i love in ohio and all my friends are moving. it stinks.

I’m proud of you Libbey for recognizing your constant discontentment in your relationship/engagement and pivoting accordingly.

Your honesty and authenticity is inspiring. You will get through this, you're amazing 💕💕💕💕💕💕

This video just popped up in my feed and has been a week since you posted. I hope you're a bit better already. I want to congratulate you. Ending a relationship takes strength and bravery. It's very mature to end things that don't serve you the way you want, especially if you can't see a future together. You are very strong for acting on your moral and gut feeling. I can see that there is still stuff you have to figure out and get organized, but I loved listening to your very reflective thoughts. I'm glad you have therapeutical support and a family that tries to help - even if it's sometimes not the way you need. It seems like you have a clear vision of what you want for your future and I'm happy you're pursuing that. I wish you strength. It will be worth it. Much love from Berlin, Germany

Hang in there!You're amazing and we see you. You're strong and you'll get through it. You have before...you can do it again!Yes, it will be rough. But you'll come out transformed and a warrior.

I was there that stupid relationship but, not engagement part but, I know it super hard but, I made through it. He and I was on and off and we made huge mistake with it. I really did move on from him and now I am so happy right now. ❤ It's okay someday it's will get better.

May The Lord bless you girl. I am going thru crap with my husband and sone of the things you pointed out are consistent within our relationship as well so thank you for explaining some of the differences you experienced. It is a good thing that you acknowledged the issues and are willing to take the steps to better yourself. I have been married 4years and the issues still remain and I have been feeling very discouraged around him. God will make a way for us both I truly believe that. We are going to be okay💖

I've been supporting you since I started watching your videos and I've been waiting to watch you videos again. I'm so sorry. We are always here for you❤

The way I can treat my own depression is to find ways to make me smile and laugh. More you do the more chemicals in your brain fills up with that happiness. I believe finding yourself is what is needed before sharing that happiness with others. I love all your videos with the music sign language. I always wish you could made videos on how to help a beginner and advanced learner on sign languages. You have to go through a bumpy road before you get to that beautiful meadow. We all do some point and it’s worth it when you look back on it.

Oh sweetie, i am so sorry to hear that you are going thru a rough time. I am happy that you are taking care of yourself. You are in my daily prayers always. (No pun intended) Sending you an abundance of positive vibes & huge hugs. 🤗

Hey Queen glad to see your back! Hey Libby you know what? All I am hearing is just an lot of EXCUSES! EXCUSES ARE FOR PEOPLE THAT CANT MAKE REALITY REAL! DONT YOU KNOW THAT? So stop doing that and pick up yourself dusty yourself off and keep on pushing! PERIOD! sometimes life happens shit will go wrong and Now what? Like I tell my daughter the same shit! Get up cause you got an life to still have! So get it done! Love yah and I got to go cause life is calling! REAL TALK FOR LIFE! U HEARD THAT? 42 yr old who loves jb

Libbey, I'm so sorry for the pain and turmoil you've been through. You should be so proud of yourself for doing everything in your power to make it work and also proud for realizing what you need and what you deserve out of a partner. That takes SO much courage. Sending love

Good luck!!!! We get to the end of all journeys one step at a time. Take care of yourself! You are not alone and we will be here. Keep smiling. :)

Been watching you for years. Im sorry you are going through a rough patch. You've made me smile on days I didn't want to. Hang in there, we'll be here for you.

Hey I just wanted to say that you are super inspiring and I found myself in a similar situation and it takes being brave to handle shit so here's to being brave and we all have your back ❤️

Hey girl don't be so down. Always remember if the person is driven away from your life, it's all for good ❤️ I exactly know how you're feeling Be strong, this is tough to go through but you will overcome this

I'm speechless, I'm sorry - I know it's rough decision, Hey Libbey, I know I don't know you that much, But I'm pretty sure if you may remember me that I'm deaf and I has still support all the way from you and your youtube, of course I still have the shirt :) so I want you to know that you're not alone you have plenty of support, your side, and hand tie, I had experienced through like this before in 2020, I has been through everything like that, I was fight all my life, because "strong & tough" but it's been exhausted me, but I'm not let it stop me, So it's not easy for battles, But I would like you to know that don't give up, just hang in there we all here for you if you need anything, hug and praying

Sorry to hear this.... Life is hard, at least you were smart enough to KNOW that things were wrong... many people dont realize that till they're married, have kids and its even more complicated... You'll get through this, stay strong. work on yourself, take the time you need... when the time is right, when the person is right you will know.

Thinking of you Libbey! I’m sure it was so incredibly difficult making this video. Love you ❤

I’m sorry… I saw this video pop up and I wanted to watch it… and sitting here I could feel your pain and what you’ve gone through…. The fact that you can say that you needed help is amazing! Keep doing what you are doing and you will get there!!! I wish I could reach out more and be a “friend” that you could talk to but I don’t think that would happen…. Just keep your head up and do you! You got this and your an amazing person who will go so far in life! Never give up!

We'll pray for you. You bring a lot to the table, most decent men will be lucky to find you.

Awwww u are gonna get through this ! You got this girl. U will see that every thing happens for a reason and someone better is gonna be waiting for you. You are beautiful and courageous for sharing your truth and heart break. U are strong and u will get through this and come out shining like a bright star 🌟

Prayers for your healing, I'm sorry about your breakup. You're a strong young woman. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Be happy you found out now rather than later that he is not your soul mate. The good part is you get to keep on keeping on and loving who you are.

you are a very very interesting person, you talk and express your thoughts in a stream of consciousness, it's like you're touching on everything inside and outside of you. such honesty. wish you would express it by putting your words and your hands to your own music. that might force you to channel yourself, make it simpler timed to music. i think you're a great subject for music videos.

LIBBEY YOU NEED TO KNOW, EVERYTHING WILL BE OK. You are Heaven sent You Are Divine You are LOVED You are creative! YOU ARE SAFE! JESUS LOVES YOU! I think I do too! I think, you the 1! in a ZILLION... The devil is a LIE BUT DEEP INSIDE YOUR HEART.. DONT CRUSH YOUR DREAMS ILL MAKE A VIDEO FOR YOU!!! YOUR INSPIRATION INSPIRES, ME TO CONTINUE WRITING MY RECOVERY POEMS... WE MIGHT NOT BE ABLE TO CHANGE THE WORLD BUT WE CAN SPARK THE BRAINS THAT WILL!!

Have You in Prayers 😊🤲 MUCH Love

We're thankful, you had the strength to tell us... Hope things get better over time... and no rush, just occasional update is fine, when you feel like it. EDIT: watch a good series if it helps.

I hope things will get better. Take care 💗

I'm so sorry to hear about this Libby i hope you feel better

Wishing you healing thoughts and prayers. I hear you loud and clear, I hope others to do to help you heal.

I am so so sorry, my heart breaks for you and you are in my prayers. You are amazing and will find your forever person when the time is right. Until then .... sending you lots of love support and hugs 🙏

i love you you got this 🥺💖

You're an amazing person. The only thing you can do is to make the healing process. 🤟🏾

We support you. Very true, you are human first. We are all going through something. I understand fully. Happiness is hard to find now a days, Hugs.

Sorry Libby! Keep your head up kiddo! As they say the good Lord never gives more then you can handle! This will make you stronger! 😘

Sweet baby First I just wanted to say you are an amazing woman. You've grown so much from when I first found you when you were doing Pse. . I understand the depression anxiety .ect we are all here to support you.. Every thing you've said. I'm going through some of the same issues ; it's hard when people try to understand how and what you are feeling & unfortunately saying things that really do not help or can cause it to make it worse then better... I do understand... For me my family is there but don't understand why I think the way do. They always say you are so strong you got this or it's not that big of a deal either.. I'm proud of you. Like I said earlier you are amazing woman. I'm here for you sending you lots of love and respect 🤟🥰

Oh no, I'm so sorry! Sending you hugs if you want them

Everything will be okay, just give it time and hang in there. i feel the exact way you do. I split up with my girlfriend of 4years last week…i found out she’d been cheating on me again 😢

Better you found out sooner than later. You will find your soulmate. Don’t ever settle for less life is to short.

You'll be good! I believe in that and i want you really believe in that too. Thank you for all content that you've done for us and yourself

I'm soo sorry to hear thatx sending love ♥️

I'm not sure what's happening, but I'm sorry for you. Been here since you uploaded like crazy and we even talked once on here lol. But Ik this has been long gone but support is here.

Thank you for being so vulnerable