Alhamdulilah, a month or two ago, I asked Allah SWT to soften my heart that had become so hard, I couldn't see the result immediately, but day by day, my tears became easier, and I'm inshallah on the way to become a believer who cries for Allah in each remembrance ❤
@@myheartwillstopinjoy8142 well iman is like tide its low and high and we just gotta work at it. Even the sahaba went through it so do we. Dont worry inshaAllah if you work at it itll come back.
Thanks I am going now a days through these worries about eman . I think that Allah will not forgive me for this . Actually I and we all are humans and we are weak , not to do everthing that we want . It something we need a special power that resolves our all problems and that great power is the Creater ( Allah ) . In this Ramadan I did not feel anything in my heart and literally I cried so much cries that what is haplening to me ? Is Almighty Allah punishing me for my sins that I have done ? Plzzz anser me . I want to see your reply . Sis from Pakistan .
My heart is very hard, it's like a dry stone wanting to beat again, i feel 2% feeling when i read Quran, I'm scared because there was a time when my emotions overflowed, i spent nights prayering just out of love, i was a child that time i was 12 yrs old, i was the most content human being ever, because i loved Allah, i felt very powerful connection with Allah, i felt presence of Allah every where, i felt the love of Allah everywhere... But then as i hit my puberty, my hormones, my emotions, my desire took a hold of me and then ruined me, it destroyed me completely and i couldn't understand why, I was aware that Allah is testing me, i called out to Him too, but i was in a delusion, now i am at a point that i lost one the most valuable thing in my existence( that's what i was feeling actually) and now i am numbed, i feel nothing, i don't feel that love which i had for Allah, i don't feel overwhealm, i recognize the blessing of Allah upon me, but i feel no love in return, my heart is dead, it wants to revive.. I want to be that little girl again who would rely upon Allah and for whom standing in prayer to please Allah and the pains and soreness of muscle the next day was the joy of life.... Please make dua for me... I want to become a muslim again, i want to become a human again. I want to feel again.. I want to love again.. I want to love my Maker again.. Allah guide me and those eho are lost like me.. Allah guide me and those whose heart is dead and who are searching for you.. Allah please don't leave us to ourself because we will be doomed..
I was excited for ramadan but I realized I didn't do anything productive..I feel away from Allah and scariest part it's not shaitan it's me.. I'll ask Allah even more to fix my heart
Please read this Wallahi after i listened to this it brought tears to my eyes, especially the part where the Ustad asked about weather or not we are grateful of the Quran and i randomly opened the Quran to establish connections with Allah through it and opened the ayah (وَالَّذِينَ آتَيْنَاهُمُ الْكِتَابَ يَفْرَحُونَ بِمَا أُنْزِلَ إِلَيْكَ ۖ وَمِنَ الْأَحْزَابِ مَنْ يُنْكِرُ بَعْضَهُ ۚ قُلْ إِنَّمَا أُمِرْتُ أَنْ أَعْبُدَ اللَّهَ وَلَا أُشْرِكَ بِهِ ۚ إِلَيْهِ أَدْعُو وَإِلَيْهِ مَآبِ) [Surat Ar-Ra'd 36] page 254 And it begins (with rough translation) those whom we've sent down the Quran to are happy about what we've sent down to you,.... and I broke down crying. Wallahi if you open the book of Allah He will guide you if only we open our hearts to it. اشهد ان لا الله الي الله و ان محمد رسول الله Ustad Noman and every other person who have helped my Allah grant you janah for you spreading the word of Allahجزاك الله خيرا
The disconnect I feel is because I don't understand Arabic . I feel so sad that I wasnt gifted Arabic on my tongue. May Allah make it easy for us to have a relationship with Quraan .
you'll get there eventually , i'm a native arabic speaker but i understand how hard it can be to learn it , especially for quran , but it gets easier after a while, just work on yourself and may Allah help you😀
Just last night I made dua to Allah for softening my heart and this very morning, He gave me His guidance through this :") I cried, literally. Barakallah
In Turkey on holiday, as I walk around the man made holiday resort my eyes engage with the sea, my creator is all I think about. May Allah guide me and the ummah. Amen.
Please make dua for me. I cry almost everyday because I don’t feel anything anymore. I don’t know what to do, I feel that my connection with Allah is weakening. Please help me brothers and sisters
boo thyuj6uj alhamdulillah I’ve been praying and I have been feeling a lot better. It will be better after a while sister just never give up and never stop praying❤️
@@Lydia-dr1pk sister please give me your gmail.I want to talk with you.I suffering the same problem.I cry a lot to Allah.Please If anyone can give me some advise please give me😢. @Lydia,my gmail is:-rhainthehunter57@gmail.com
When the heart cannot feel anything, means it getting loosing from al Quran. Reangage with the kitabullah to make the heart beat again. When the heart is dying, means the source of oxygen (Al Quran) is far from it. Replant the trees back so that you can rebreath again. Let Allah talk to you. That's the medicine that we really need.
@ I'm as close to being depressed, and most of the time I feel deprived of many things. But, part of our journey, I believe, is to overcome tests, all sorts of test - the tests we like such as wealth, and tough ones, such as depression. But we humans like to play, collect and boast. I ask Allah for guidance, for I have no power to benifit or hurt myself, but mashae'Allah.
@ I just didn't feel like arguing with you and putting together an answer because I know I would have to look for quotes from the Quran and Hadith, which may be wrong but that's why I decided to just pray for you instead to be honest 😂
@ but why do you think that anyway? Where does Allah leave people that are medically depressed and not allow them to get treatment? I know many people (who are Muslim) in my life that are medically depressed or have other mental illnesses and get medicine and treatment for it. It's the same as when you are sick in your body, Allah wants you to take care of your body because it is a gift and blessing from him. Where does your opinion come from? 😁
@ No I was not having fun while writing that. I am pretty aware of the consequences and side effects of depression medicine, but that is true to medicine for many other things. Even if we did find some way to end it, there will always be new diseases that will need cures to be discovered. That is the way life and the world works. Also, The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "There is no disease that Allah has created, except that He also has created its treatment" (Sahih al Bukhari 5678). I know this answer won't satisfy you and that you may not think it's enough, but we simply were not created to live a perfect life without sickness and other "bad" things. Allah said that He will test our faith, and depression is one way to test it. This also gives opportunity for others to do good and study and look for different treatment methods and medicines. It's balanced. We can't live in a world that only has good, that would be impossible. That is only possible in heaven. I hope your heart is truly open to hear my answer.
Thanks Ustadh Nouman. You really motivate us. May the Almighty Allah reward you for that. Our hearts are really sick , to the point that we no longer feel anything. May Allah (SWT) protect and help us.
Thank you Nouman. This is exactly what I needed to watch. I’ve been praying and asking for forgiveness for this whole month by making dua, reading Quran. And when I make dua, I only ask for forgiveness everyday, and it’s sad because I don’t feel that love and connection with allah even though i desperately want that love and feel but I can’t..
We are like cars which needs fuel every time when it runs out of fuel and we also need fuel and our fuel is reciting Quran and understanding Quran and feeling Quran and responding Quran. Today is day three of Ramadan in 2019. جزاك الله خيرا يا شيخ. We really need this kind of lecture in this lifetime. والسلام.
I decided to convert to Islam because I feel it in my heart a while back, and your words and teachings has been so amazing!! Now my only wish is one learn Arabic, two move to a Muslim country cause it is really hard in a Hispanic country with no family or friends that are Muslim
This is what I’m going through now, my heart was hardened because dunya devastating blows which affected my eman so bad. . But Alhamdulliah Allah is my friend and has taken me home.
Mind blowing wisdom. I am in tears...May Allah give ustadh NAK and Ali Banat the highest Ranking in Jannah for being lights on this earth. May Allah give the same to me and every muslim and humanity the same light.
May Allah bless you and your work Mr. Khan. So many times after listening to your videos I turned back to Islam and engaged even more. This ummah needs more people like you!
May allah keep you for us, you’re like my father and you literally made me in love with our Quran, I speak Arabic and I have never thought about certain words until I saw your sessions, so I’m really thankful💙
Nouman, thank you. [57:16] Is it not time that the hearts of the believers be humbled to the remembrance of Allah and the truth which He has sent down? They should not be like those who were given the Book before this, whose time became very long so that their hearts became hardened. Many of them were impious.
Ustad nouman is just incredible.just the words i need to hear. Burst in tears watching this😭😭i promise gonna spend last days of Ramadhan watching tafsir of surahs and enjoy tadabbur of Quran. Alhamdulillah its never too late to get closer to Allah
I apologize from the world for what you are going through. You do not deserve the hate. You bring me closer to Allah every time I hear your Khutbah's with your unique approach and perspective. I'm not saying you did it or not, but you're human too. You're a gem for us at this time, I hope we don't lose you. Please be strong, May Allah SWT protect you and your family.
Ive been long looking for the tafsir of this ayah and Subhanallah, this pop up on my TL... Ya Rabb, grant this man the good of this dunya and aakhirah.. even if we don't meet here -- Norman -- In Shaa Allah in Jannah we will. For through you, ive been able to know my Creator. Much love from Nigeria🇳🇬
Approx 15 days before Ramadan 2023: Allah has given me knowledge and motivation through this lecture from the Ramadan years ago. Now I have to channel this motivation into planning for the upcoming month or it will go wasted. May Allah help me against shaytan. Ameen.
I guess I’m not too late.... I used to be close to Allah when I was little I could feel it.Every time I was sad I just felt happy right away cause I felt but never known if it was true or not, but I felt loved knowing Allah was there for me sometimes right next to me,or perhaps in me .i never felt sad .Now I don’t feel anything.
Qalbi Dhaya things did get better, I was just overthinking everything, I tried doing stuff to get closer, and made sure I solat and did everything I could. Just know that Allah would never leave his servants.He is there for us everyday and is always waiting for us to come back. That is why you and I we are still alive.Try reading Quran and think more of akhirat maybe you’ll get to soften your heart more, and don’t ever,ever stop praying and making doa. Allah can make the dead alive and he can make you heart alive again,trust me.
Subhanallah A great reminder May Allah grant us the taufiq to be grateful to Him... and the correct way to read and understand the Quran and respond to Him.. Ameen
Aslam-U-Alaikum, may Allah (SWT) grant brother Nouman Ali Khan and all of us the highest ranks in Jannah and motivate us to be elite Fasters of Ramadan.
I feel so lost. I never pray and I was a born a Muslim, and I’m Hafiz as well. I tried looking toward my friends but that doesn’t make me happy, honestly nothing does at this point. I feel so bad all the time that I don’t pray, and I can’t even pray juma because of school. I don’t know what to do at this point. I think ima start to pray as much as I can, and go on forward after that.
Escanortheone salam alaikum brother, I just wanted to let you know I was in the same situation as you but don’t fret Allah always has a plan. That sadness you feel means you still have Iman but don’t sit around feeling sad and procrastinating it just gets worse like that. The best thing to do is to act on that sadness you feel, and this can be by starting to pray every salah on time (if you can), leave your environment especially if you hang around with non-muslim friends or just friends who also don’t pray, try to find Muslim friends who practice deen(you can find some at your local masjid or musallah) or just see if your school has a Juma’ah then you can make some muslims friends there, SPEND AS MUCH TIME AS YOU CAN IN THE MASJID( dont just pray then leave, try and stay there for the next salat), make dua Allah to guide and most importantly READ THE QURAN EVERYDAY!!!! I can’t stress this enough reading even just a page helps no matter what. You’re hafiz mashalla, which means Allah chose you personally don’t waste it :). I hope this helped, may Allah (SWT) bless and guide to the right path. P.s. if you need anything just reply and I’ll get in contact with you about some more things you can do. Salam
I was there and I sympathize with you.... based on the experience I would suggest changing your friend circle, a lot of time bad parenting.... start slowly from 1 prayer per day then add another and so on... it will take you time but the slow and gradual progression is what works the best. cut down music, tv, etc and slowly replace it with halal tv, sports, etc.
Wow, subhanallah, i just completed reading and listening to the quran yesterday. So i was thinking, how can i explain this to my family, how can i motivate them to read the Quran. So something came up to my mind, i thought... what if i ask them... imagine if we didnt have the Quran.. just imagine for a second. It makes me feel as if its the end of the world. All purpose is suddenly completely lost. What would we be doing without it? No guidance at all? Just imagine...
Hearing this now after 5 years and it’s still so accurate, Subhanallah! I feel like watching the situation in Palestine is so hard, it makes our hearts harder… Seeing people dead, children, women or men has become almost normal, Astagfurallah may Allah guide us. I’m trying so hard to concentrate and i cant even make myself cry even tho i really want, may Allah forgive me and you. Ameen.
After this ramadan i really become very distant from everything 🙃.. i don't know where i am heading, i don't know what my hearts wants, i only think of death all the time or try to busy my self on the internet to avoid the feeling of anxiousness ...🙃may Allah makes easy for every believer on this duniya ameen...
MashaAllah... Alhamdulillah for the Ramadan, with heart and soul I really thank and praise the Almighty Allah for the Ramadan, His way of reconnecting with Him once again after losing our way in between... Expat here 🇵🇭 watching this right now from Abu Dhabi during the midst of Ramadan April of 2022... Sending Salam, love and respect to each and everyone... Thank you for this Kuthba, may Allah accept our fast and prayers during this Holy month of Quran... Ameen... 🤲🤲🤲❤️❤️❤️
Astagfirullah it's possible that such persons may have a hard heart due to bad things happening to them which do distract them, not only bcos of the first reason being mentioned, it's not easy to get out of a bad situation, may Allah makes things easy for us.
Felt like you were speaking directly to me...I pray that allah gives us all a strong connection to the Quran...these words were so helpful...may you be blessed
جزاك اللة كل خير و أ مين - You bring out the inherent nature of all of us who listen to you . MayAllah bless you and remove your difficulties and obstacles coming your way أمين
I'm a Chinese Muslim and I'm really touched by this topic.Can anyone pls share the chapter and verses number? Wanna take some notes and share to my other Chinese Muslim friends.
Thank you sir, your way to explain the word of Allah, help me a lot. Every time i have a problem or something that i need to ask Allah to, most of the time i found the answer of it on your video, like miraculously appeared. May Allah bless you and your family 🙏
I love more and more Allah and Bayyinah just help to get closer and closer to his Almighty Allah Subhanahu wata aalla!!! Very clear and direct lecture, very powerful and badly need every day... Thank you Noumaan and may Allah protect you and your family and guide our youth towards your example. Ameen!
Mashallah this video was so good! You did exactly What you said: REMINDER! I ”knew” all of this but you also put it in perspektive, thank you tabarakallah brother! I did listen to every Word of yours and NOW i’m going to read the Quran, if your reading this comment do that too❤️🤲🏼
Thanku so much from the bottom of my heart .I was very much in pain & crying why I can't feel anything.Ramazan1442h had gone but still my heart was the same. Allah has guided me.please make dua so that I can go for quran by 💓 heart and my heart become alive. Really thanku brother ,may Allah showers his blessing upon u🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
I honestly feel nothing reading Qur'an and only Allah knows how sad i am not able to feel anything. I need guidance. I don't know where to seek it from.
Are you reading it in Arabic and don't understand Arabic maybe. Try reading English version as well and rememember that this book is from Allah. It was sent down...
I remember listening to this so long ago... Subhanallah. I felt this exact thing "why do I not feel anything". I have come so far since then. Allahu akbar.
JAK Ustadh Nouman. 6 years this lecture been posted. Still relevant. This is really sadness for our ummah that we are distancing ourselves from Kitabullah by not pondering over it. We are more focused on just beautiful recitation and that's it. Lots of my friends are very good at recital with perfect tajweed MashAllah. However, they are not bothered to learn the meaning of the Word of Allah as if learning the meaning is not an act of worship. We should recite Quran as much as we could do. But we truly have focus our energy to understand the meaning rather than focusing on arabic 24/7. We have been seeing the tendency of consumerism in our ummah in this holy month of Ramadan Audhubillah. People are focused on the quality of food, dress etc. This happens when the spiritual connection between Allah and servant gets lost. May Allah guide us to the straight path and give us hidayat. Ameen
Les Rock Do u even think this is true? He has such wisdom and knowledge from Allah that we have no insight of So please stop spreading hate and making people believe in the falsehood
Mr. Nouman.. I always followed you and you've helped me in many ways of lives and I pray for you. My father might be behind bars for something he never did, he one of the most pious man I've known. Although I have immovable faith in Allah, plz suggest me a surah or some that might help our cause directly. And plz pray for us. I pray that we one unite in Jannah Insha'Allah.
Salim Javed Surah Taghabun, 41 times after Fajr. Can be recited by family members collectively. Do it for 40 days and keep praying. حسبنا الله ونعم الوكيل
Brother Salim, read surah Yousuf because he has a story similar to yours and is an example for anyone in this situation..he was imprisoned for something he never did, and his story, love of Allah and persistence is beautiful, strengthening and inspirational. He was wronged many times but he always had acceptance and always trusted Allah that He will keep him safe and get him through the difficulties
اللهم اجعلنا ممن تخشع قلوبهم لذكر الله وما نزل من الحق ولا تغرنهم الحياة الدنيا ولا يغرنهم بالله الغرور مع الذين امنوا وعملوا الصالحات وتواصوا بالحق وتواصوا بالصبر مع المتقين الشاكرين الراشدين. جزاكم الله خيرا وتقبل منكم. اميييييين.
Truly Allah swt guides you to truth all you have to do ask Allah swt for guidance... Jazak Allah khair brother, May Allah almighty bless you and your family .
Mannnn..... Why his khutbahz come to end....!! Y cant i listen to it endlessly...!!! But yes..... Quran revives the dead soul within us..... Untill n unless we give it chance to do so...!!!
@@bilalbasheer1804 I know brother, I started praying stopped smoking etc... Try to be good but wollahi I have big fear for what's going to happen in the grave and how the angel of death will approach me in beauty or in filth... Only bcs Allah swt mercy i will enter jannah and I never lose hope in Allah's rahma and always have good expectations but wollahi today I cried in the masjid and imam said are you alright I said yes like there was nothing but... Inshallah everything will get better
John Higgens you are a disgrace to the human race , you waste your time writing statements in which you don’t even believe. May Allah guide you if there is any good left in you amen
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You truly are a disgrace to yourself. Filling your mind with passages from the Quran, and other texts. Mohammed, always the warrior, the conquer, the sadist, the killer---of anyone who doesn't agree with him. Wake-Up! Fucking Wake-Up, and see the reality of this barbaric cult called islam.
I feel the same as the person below who does not have Arabic as the native language. It's the hardest thing about being a convert. I always feel like I'm missing something.
Don't worry brother/sister, many Muslims don't speak Arabic. You can learn it and insha'Allah you will learn it. You aren't missing anything, the only thing you were missing is Islam and you have that now. Read Qur'an in your native language translation and make duaa that one day you will learn Arabic.
I've been trying to read Qur'an translation as I cannot understand Arabic though I can read it , I would love to understand it too. But I have read a few translations of Quran( I can even name them )where the versus are misleading. I read a certain such aayah got disturbed but Allhumdulillah saw a video of ustad Nouman Ali and he explained it so well I started crying because he explained the truth so well. I wish he could Inshlaalah someday translate the entire Quran , Mashallah he is so intelligent and blessed I hope people like me can benefit more from his ways of understanding the holy Quaran.
A Salaam O Aleikum, very true may Allah bless him. Also, the Qur'an is not in "versions" but translations. So please edit the comment Jaza Kaa Allah Khair sister.
Please make dua for me. I am so empty. I have no motivation. even when I try and pray. It's like my belief.. even though I know Allah will help there is no emotion there. Please make dua for me
Sparky_124 Hi i think i noe wat u feel. I encourage you to try something that i used to do when i realized i have dead heart. You can try to trace back your actions and what u eat that lead u to ur current situation. Maybe its because you keep falling into minor sins due to lack of god-consciousness or god-fearing in your daily activities. You noe, the heart can gets complacent sometimes. What you eat-is it haram, did u leave out food that is syubhat? Sometimes we keep indulging into them unconsciously. Cuz the food we eat has a direct impact on the heart. Our blood and muscles are built upon the food we eat. The heart is a muscle. If the internal parts of our body are built from all the haram and syubhah food, then thats what makes the heart harden. I used to try everything. I read Surah Taha-ayah 1-5 cuz that what soften Umar al-Khattab heart and embraced Islam. Keep praying keep finding the source. When all the efforts doesnt improve you, make a doa. When u feel lazy and no motivation to pray, say la hawla wala quwwata illa billahil aliyil adzim. It work wonders. But your heart must be really sincere and desperate to perform the prayer when u say it. U must be dying to not want to miss it. In shaa Allah His help will push you. And when u sujud, ask Allah to bring you the next prayer. Keep doing this. If u start feeling restless and anxious in between prayer times, then congratulations, its a sign of His guidance. I hope it helps. Allah sees our effort not the result. Until He see that we desperately want it and make sincere efforts, He will not give it to us. After ramadhan, i am 360 degrees changed person Alhamdulillah.