I Caught Him On Tape...Cheating: Cheryl Mitchell v Richard Redding 

Exactly! Woman to Woman 2023

I quoted that line as soon as she said Barbara😂

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Exactly

Amen

Black don't Crack but that attitude was stank 😢

​@@shoogasweet5847 exactly!!!! Her attitude is horrible

She does look good

Yeah true but her attitude stinks

That's from the old Laura Lee hit record from 1972 ( it was the title of the song)

What does that mean

@@smithgabrielle101 Basically it means, in divorce court vernacular, if another woman can treat her man better than she can, then the other woman can have him

That's my theme from Miss Laura Lee

I knew that was straight ol skool. I will gladly give up my chair. Lol

True

Whew!! And at 71 years old, if you aren’t healed OR unbothered by the outside world, that’s a shame! Smh at that age you should be enjoying life!

Prime Example to STOP having community peen. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Exactly an ungrateful woman let him go because she don’t want him allow another woman too love him!

@@MsBizzyRae I am healed. He was my sickness. Lol

Ding you hit most of it on the head.

👏🏾 exactly

Exactly. Ms. Mitchell is not as crazy as everyone tries to make her out to be.

​@@Apricityvilleshe is, That's what she wanted, and in some sick way she was actually hoping he was cheating on her, so that way she can be a victim and leave at the same time. she's the literally the example of modern black women right now, you get girls don't want a man, You want a toxic man, when a man wants you and loves you, he's boring so she's looking for drama that's pretty much it.​

That's what she wanted, and in some sick way she was actually hoping he was cheating on her, so that way she can be a victim and leave at the same time. she's the literally the example of modern black women right now, you get girls don't want a man, You want a toxic man, when a man wants you and loves you, he's boring so she's looking for drama that's pretty much it.​

Not really it mean i look and who wouldnt want me

@@myaboyd4916 nah because it doesn’t matter how fine you are . Cant no one HAVE my man unless he already wants you .

I think she means like girl I’m not worried about him

@@ChynaJayde i think she was . Why open the door with nothing but a robe on when you knew the maintenance man was coming .

Nope. I don’t agree. If he’s the ladies mechanic and maintenance man. Trust he doing something. I have a friend in the same situation. And he’s been caught and caught again.

Yep!!

I'm very mature. I just didn't have 2 be on that particular day. Lol

Surely does not🙁

I agree.

She would look better if she didn't try so hard.

@@hi-xf7cj fixing her attitude would lift her even higher! I guess we can be immature at any age...

That’s that makeup Doc. Don’t be tricked by the whodu….

@@hi-xf7cj I didn't do the makeup. It was way overdone.

Thank u.

She wants everything on her terms… Something tells me she’s been like that all her life…

@@bryanbeeman5256 faxx. She'll die lonely. The worse way to leave this earth.

Not necessarily. In some of our black communities we have “my mechanic” or “fix it man”. Sometimes theyre ex cons who can’t get a legit job or retired mechanics or unfortunately people on drugs but can do the job. They’re referred, word of mouth by the Neiborhood elders and such or a man sees a single woman and helps, no strings have to be attached, strings rarely are formed, maybe a father figure, teacher but her insecurities are from herself and I guess her being beautiful at the age she has reached isn’t enough she is chasing youth and she should 🗣️ Forget about it!!!!

Absolutely not. If a woman is say, cooking diner for a elderly neighbor, why would it be assumed that it was a bad thing? Smh it’s quite literally community, and that’s why ppl don’t have community with EACHOTHER now a days smh

Exactly! I don't get the hate for Ms Mitchell. But if she can't handle his "generosity" to other women she shouldve been left.

I didn’t say those who are helping the elderly, disabled or any special circumstances. This is community building. I stated that the conversation would be different if a woman would present her generosity in the manner that he does. He give discounts because of their beauty lol. He may not be cheating, but he is not providing her with security in the way he chooses to display his services for women. Let a man stand up in court and say to another man that if he wanted her he could have her.. The conversation would be different lol.

@@lakeofalltrades- We called them Shade Tree Mechanics

lawd! And good thinking on his part. But I guess his light isn't on either, with all those fake proposals!

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He said when he help women out, that help build his self esteem up. I don’t believe old Otis doing anything BUT tuning up cars, cutting grass… and the pipe he laying is the actual plumbing for the sink and toilet…😂😂😂😂😂

Facts

He clutched his invisible pearls 😂😂😂

He is…

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Yea she trippn. Her own thoughts pickn her apart.

No. The problem was said at the start. She got a man and she’s been trying to mould him into what she wants and it isn’t working. Why the hell are you gonna be with someone when all you want to do is change everything about them…and that’s a mistake far too many women make.

@Burlykim13 The two points, yours and mine, are not mutually exclusive.

she'll be too damn old by then🤣

When is change a bad thing? If a person wants to be with another person and it means being a better person, what's wrong with that? I hate when people say they aren't going to change for anyone and just like him, they wind up alone. The majority of people today don't even know what a real relationship is.

Thank u.

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@@ladielox ☺

Lol lol you’re so on point! And yes, he’s flirtatious

@@shalanathomas7751 LOL 👍

Far too (not to) cock? WTF is that.😂 .

Some ppl stay the same age mentally

Isn't change a part of growth?

The good thing about this forum is that it gives people the chance to see how flawed a lot of people's thinking is. One of the dumbest, stupidest things a person can say is, "I'm not changing for anybody'. So, a person who has a drinking problem or who is abusive to a loved one should continue to be that way? How many of you commenters ever said, "I'm sorry, give me another chance, I can do better or change"? That's why saying you aren't changing for anyone is a very flawed way of thinking. Change equals growth and improvement when it comes to being the best person you can be. There's nothing great or beneficial about being stuck in your ways. Being rigid means a person lacks the ability to compromise and compromise, like change, is a good thing. Class dismissed!

@@nategraham6234 There is a difference when getting with someone to make them your experiment for what "you" (change) want. The other thing is getting with someone and you both want to "grow" (change)together for improvement. Each person has to change on their own because they want it for themselves. Everyone has their own life, if you don't like what and/or who the other person is YOU LEAVE. You don't own anyone. My class is in session to minimize the spread of ignorance.

She’s 71. What change add y’all expecting to see?

I saw that too😂 hilarious!

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Yes he did!

I had to replay it. I’m crying right now at work. 😂😂😂😂😂

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This the comment I was looking for..I screamed 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

LMAOOOOOO the way I replayed it over and over

Don't forget, she's old! Nobody's checking for an old immature , ratchet , ghetto , degenerate who chase down random strange females in a public and confronts them about her man. This lady is extremely childish and needs to grow up , if she doesn't trust him , plain and simple , just leave. Don't make a choice and decision to keep someone apart of your life for 5 year's, then complain about the outcome.

Where’s the accountability for Ms Mitchell? Why has she wasted 5 years of her life in an unsatisfying relationship?

What you said!!!

@@mogetit5999 umph, good point! I guess it's hard out here in the senior-single streets!

@@mogetit5999 being that Judge Star got on her basically the whole episode I didn’t feel the need to comment on her part lol. My opinion on him and Barb is really my concern. Their disrespect was dismissed but, I guess after it’s said & done that’s why she chose to take off all the rings and end the relationship.

Precisely!

Nothing. Just like nothing makes either of them good women.

I agree. The nickname was a bit much and her whole “if I wanted him I could have it” is absolutely not comforting, but I think on his end it really is just harmless. He seemed so smitten with her and spoke abt her with so much love and admiration. I think she has a lot of unhealed wounds which prevent her from allowing and more importantly trusting his love. Rather than expressing her discomfort and asking him to modify his interactions with clients she merely nags and complains bc that may be all she knows how to do, but … it’s not productive.

Maybe it was edited out

😂😂😂😂 Ms 71 can’t attract that man that she wants any longer. She’s 71… no shade, but her best years are behind her. What man that she wants is checking for her? Slim to none. She just can’t compete with the younger women and she knows it. She can’t make old Otis obey her and do what she say. I believe she could a long time ago control a man because she was beautiful, but that’s not the case any longer.

That’s what I was thinking. She’s out there being Angi’s List to the next handyman.

I certainly can & will. My age has never been a deterrent.

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Thank u

I wouldn’t want someone who’s always accusing me of cheating and who won’t marry me around my kids either. You gotta earn that

@@iamnia336 still doesn’t change what I said. It’s been 5 years of it. He could’ve ended it a long time ago.

Just maybe he doesn't have a solid relationship with any of his 5 children.🤔🤔

@@ramonayoung4836 obviously he does because he doesn’t want to introduce them just anyone.

@@susiesolangesimpson2828 maybe he doesn’t wanna end it because he WANTS TO MARRY HER. She’s the one who won’t marry him

Not the "Mawmaw" 🤣🤣

@MrsCentury Correct! Enjoy the man or let him go. She was romanticized by what he could do for her.

Please, she was trying to change him and get all of her stuff fixed for free… When she found out she don’t have that power over him like Barbie does, she had to bounce.

How was she supposed to behave while being maligned? She held herself high and let the world know that if she wanted him she could have but she DONT!

Agree!

So, she decided to get out of a relationship that's causing her stress and it's nonsense. All of us are on the outside looking in. She said she was tired and decided to end it and she's wrong for that?😮😮😮

@@nategraham6234- She’s 71. She don’t have the nerves or the patience for him and his attention needing self. She’s going to be alone or find her another situationship. Maybe a younger-er man to tune her engine eve to once and awhile.

Foreal all the other judge shows have audiences again

Maybe it’s just me but I actually like the virtual audience. It makes the court room look so clean cut!

Probably because it’s mad cheaper😂😂😂😂

Lot cheaper not too, don't think they will do a live audience, ever again

Right

No you don’t. He’ll be everyone else’s “mobile maintenance man.” Get your own mechanic. It’s enough out there. Men like old Otis crave for women’s attention and doing jobs for other men’s wives (for the low low and attention). You’re better than that..

​@@bryanbeeman5256shut up u don't know anything about him from a 20 min youtube video

Thank you! Barbara was very deliberate with her words and their double meanings.

Yeah, but Barbara ain’t touching old Otis. He craves and loves the attention. His speed is a slower woman. Ms 71 called him “easy,” and stayed with him 5 years. Y’all can miss subtext, but I didn’t. Let me break it down: Ms 71 can’t pull them like Barbara can and Ms 71 want old Otis to completely change into a different man. He too easy for her, but she can’t control him and keep his attention like Barbara can. So, she got all of her stuff fixed and now she’s going to get rid of him… BUT, she know deep down he care about her… Sooooooooo, when she need something fixed, she can flirt with him, make him think he can get back with her, and then she can get that thing fixed… Ta-da …..

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😂😂😂 it took me out….completely 🥴🤦🏽‍♀️

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You and me both

Make sure that part is emphasized…. FOR 71!!!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Coo-coo in the head😂😂

That's probably the right thing for her - so she can be happy!

cause people can't be trusted - most of the time - (put our trust in no man-kind)

Yep… Definitely need classes and therapists…

Barbie is just as cute as she can be.

​@@setdrecthx😊

She was responding to when Barbara said she came out in a robe and when she said, “He’s good with his hands.” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

She neeeds to run

So amazing

She just can't dress!!!!😂😂😂

She didn’t mean ugly😂 she meant bad as in “fly”

@@alexisjones65 I meant ugly

she wasn't insulting her, she meant bad in a good way@@latonyawaller7164

the way my head snapped up when he said that. Like excuse me, how far does this surrogacy extend. He was working that aw shucks routine hard but the stuff he was saying was very questionable. I believe Cheryl.

@@Aquaria2291yes

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Ms Barbara fine as hell!! I was NOT expecting that LOL I was expecting an older lady. Also, I like her attitude & how she flipped it back on Cheryl! “If you can beat me rocking, you can have my chair” I GOTTA STEAL THAT ONE LOL

What that guy's cute to u? 😂

If u make it to 71, I bet u will still be trying 2 get your freak on. My worries about pregnancy & I definitely will know what u like & don't like.