i too have a fear of failure. But someone said, "you're not really afraid of failing, you are scared of people's opinion on your failure" and that hits me. Better to try and fail than not at all
This is why i cannot achieved my goals. I thought i have this fear of failure but then what exactly i fear is what people, society will think about me if i fail.
Yours ago, my wife and I went to Spain and visited Salvador Dali's museum in Figueres. In a short film, I heard Dali say, ""Lo que busca está en su alma." It translates to "What you are looking for, is in your soul." In my mind, that says it all. Thank you, Maria, for the reminder.
1. Feel the fear (Fear of failing < Fear of not reaching your potential). 2. Embrace the cringe. Do it anyway. 3. You don’t need to have it all figured out. Just have the first step in mind. 4. Discipline is the highest form of self-love: Be consistent. 5. Never stop learning. Leave the room if you’re the smartest one in it. 6. You cannot outrun your inner battles. Work on your emotional and mental wellbeing. Journal or go to therapy. Recognize your worth. Love yourself.🤍 It is all about the journey. Embrace it with all the ups and downs and you’ll find you are capable of achieving more than you’ve ever imagined. 💫
I turned 30 this year and i felt so lost all of a sudden. Felt so left behind and…. stuck. This video resonated with me so much! I’m also trying to rebrand myself in 90 days and I’m so scared. Thank you for the wonderful insights! Much love from the Philippines xx
@@maricelgomez6168 Ahh hello fellow Pinoy haha yes, I 'm still doing it! I'm a month into it so 2 more months to go. Mentally, I'm in a much better state now and much more at peace now
oh maria, i just watched this amazing, amazing video of yours casually while folding my laundry, but oh, how did watching that affect me. i thank you from the deepest part of my heart for everything that you’ve said in this video. i might seem a bit exaggerated, but believe me when i say that among all the many, many videos that i watched through my journey of self-love, yours was the one that resonated with me the most. the way you spoke and what you said-literally everything about it-made me feel so emotional and so... fresh. so new. i hope you continue to be happy and at peace with yourself, and i promise both you and me that i will continue to work just as hard for myself too. thanks again 🩷
What the heck, you only have 8.55K subscribers?! This is top tier content! I really like how you went through the points, and I really really love your aesthetic! In addition, I am also someone who’s afraid of failure AND not being perfect. I struggled with this mindset for such a long time that I saw myself crumble in 11th Grade. However, I took this summer break as an opportunity for myself to grow and worked towards my mindset, journaled more, read books, increased my productivity. I now go by the ‘I see it, I like it, I want it, I got it.’ mindset and believe me, with that mindset, I was able to land not one, but TWO internships for myself. As for failure, we don’t fail because we aren’t enough, we fail because we can then find another way, we always do. Keep up the great work
I really want to say thank you, my dear. I was feeling lost and a failure. And I will never reach my goals. I will remain a failure all my life, but your words now made me realize that I can change everything if I want to, thank you.I wasted two years of my life in secondary school because I want to reach the goal that I have in my mind. I felt that these two years that I am wasting now are the end of my life and that I will never become successful, but I promise you that I will not stop and I will get where I want, thank you .
it's never too late, for real! :) I was the first time at this point in school and I was successful. it sure works for you too. 🌻 and I was in your situation for the second time (at the age of 24) and after almost 3 years I remembered it again and believe in it. I would even like to renew my life every 3-5 years before life forces me to do so 😅😁 Greetings from Germany 🌻 (I used Google Translate)
Maria, it's my first time seeing your channel and this is the first video, I loved it and you inspired me and gave me motivation to start the first steps of making my goals came true , you're right, if we care a lot about what other people say we wouldn't achieve anything, getting out of our comfort zones is the key ❤
One thing I would surely tell you that your communication skills are way better than before and on camera work is very good as well and your aura is also peaceful, it is beautiful feels incredible ☺️
Girl, you put words about the true goal behind self improvement that are such a good reminder. Most of the time when I see those kind of videos on my feed I don't watch it 'cause it seams unhealthy to change to become ''that girl'', but you explained everything in a way i've found really intersting. Thanks I needed this perspective
im going to try and be more consistent for the next 6 months and hopefully get monetized on this because that is my dream i am only at 299 right now hoping to reach 1000 and the 4000 hours by the end of this year and this motivated me more. hope the right people find me and help me to my dreams, subbed to you because you were great to watch! hopefully i can be where you are one day too! fingers crossed!
Cant describe how your one video and tons of wisdom is going to enlighten my journey. I am at crossroads right now, trying to figure it all out and taking hard decisions for myself. But you made me have faith that it isn't the goal but how you empower and put yourself into it daily
I am in very struggling phase of my life, balancing my passion with 9-5 job and also living alone 2000 km far from my home. But I'm happy that I'm doing productive things. There is anxiety,fear, frustration, still❤
Then you are the biggest failure. People in India are not getting jobs after spending tons of money in colleges. And you are not even greatful that you have a job. Seriously people like you should never get success
i rarely subscribe. but i was ought to after watching this. the truth here and the inspiration you send through this video is impactful. here to more years of progress
LOVE IT and I am on my journey of becoming my best version too. I hope and I believe in 6 months looking back I will be mentally, physically and emotionally closer to my best self I have ever been
Being authentic is the only way you will have peace with yourself and attract real people who love you for who you are. Amazing message and beautiful video !!! :)
Hey Maria, I wanted to thank you for sharing this kind of content. I didn't know that it would make me cry and self-reflect about what I've done in the past few months. Thank you.
I was feeling low, came to my room and opened phone...see what I found❤️. One of the best videos I came across in recent times. I have started working on myself Ill come back in 2025 and im gonna share my strongest comeback🙌... Tysm gurl❤️.This is not a motivation its a life lesson🙌
1. Fear - can be avoided by talking to yourself and self postive talk ''be impeacble'' 2. Embrace the cringe - people might judge you but it took huge courage to built it. 3. Just have the first step ..... Things will figure it out. So you don't need to have it all figure out. 4. Discipline is the biggest difference you can make in your life. It is higgest self love. 5. Never stop learning - learn always and all - ways. 6. Fight with your inner battles. Be honest to yourself for improving your life.
This was so amazingly filmed and edited! I just restarted my channel 2 months ago, and I resonate with everything you said. I still worry about failing even after putting in so much effort, but this truly encouraged me to not think about that and keep pushing through. Thanks for making such an inspiring video~!
I love the narration of the video. I love how authentic you are! I can totally relate to everything you are saying , as it's what I am currently feeling . I want to change , "feel the fear and do it anyway" as you said. Your video came at the perfect timing :) Thank you , El xo
I love how you just calmly explain your journey!❤ I'll always remind myself that discipline is the highest form of self love whenever I feel like giving up! Thankyou Maria!!❤ (A new subscriber here)
Such a beautiful real video :) thank you for sharing this! I'm now on my journey of freelancing, I've been doing it for over a year and I still am not where I want to be. I feel constantly that what I do is not enough and sometimes I have to stop and think of what I've already achieve because as you showed, there is no end to this! Btw. half marathon is a great goal just to challenge yourself, I think I'm gonna do that next year. Thanks!!!
thanks for sharing your experience! You’re right, it can constantly feel like it’s not enough but when we focus more on what we have achieved, we see the positive side and that can help us keep going🤍
Inspiring video .These days my motivation is very unstable , after watching your video i felt it's worthy to do it because i'm doing it for my sake soo. Maybe i become lazy after failing repeatedly but i should remember if i stuck with this feeling of procastination then my dreams will be dreams forever that's why i'll definately get out of this s*it soon by working on myself. Appreciated your efforts in shaing your journey and feelings by recording the movements in your life .
Hi Maria! Your video resonated so much with me and with the timing in my life. I've going through some big life changes and you made me realise how important it is to self reflect, and although i think we all know deep down that change starts with us and by working on ourselves, hearing you say it just woke me up again and made me want to actually act on it. Thank you for that :)
I needed to hear this, and how fortunate it is that it is exactly something I needed to know. Thank you for sharing your valuable advice as I am also facing these issues but had no one to guide me. I am glad that this video reached me! Loads of Love and prayers for you💕
Me before 2 years : Let's try ,it will work Me right now : I am stuck , I am doomed , nobody loves me except failure (Sometimes it doesn't and you feels like you are behind the time and everyone of your friends are achieving ,but never give up it will work one day [I HOPE SO 🍀])
I completely identify with this video and it's motivated me to focus on personal growth. For too long, the fear of judgement has held me back, but I'm now actively working to break free from it and move forward.
I can relate to your fears and failures a lot and yes I'm subscribing to hear more from you. This was a motivation for me to create a similar video after 6 months. fingers crossed
I love everything about this video! The way you explain what we’re all feeling while trying to change our life is so beautifully put and also comforting somehow❤
I want to be like you.Now I am changing myself,getting out from the comfort zone,facing the fear.I think i will change in the upcoming 6 months like you.Thanks for the video.
Very well made this video, Maria. Great work with so many details in the video cut, sound, angles, lighting. And sooo much wisdom in the few minutes. I feel what you are gone through. Absolutely motivating. There es something even greater ahead of you. Wish you all the best.
Feeling low for the past couple of days loosing my hope for everything because nothing is going the way i wanted to planned this video woke me up again 😊 I am a new subscriber
I LOVED each and every word that came out of your mouth. I felt all of it to my bones. It was like you speaking my mind & soul. Proud of you for facing that fear that we all have in us. Keep going. Thanks for motivating. Will keep rewatching this video whenever I’ll feel scared.❤️🫶🏻
wow, what an inspiration, this is the change i am planning for quite some time now, but coudn't start and as they say you attract what you think all day long, and so i attracted this video and I am grateful to watch this. Thanks Maria, I could see me in you changing my own self. With so simplicity and rawness you shared your journey. Even I have started my youtube channel on spirituality and healing, mindset manifestations, doing a job as well. I know I am gonna make it big on youtube one day. Please do make videos on : "HOW YOU PRIORTIZE YOUR STUFFS OR HOW TO MULTI-TASK with so much on plate". Wish you the best 🤗
same thing I did 9 months ago it's fascinating how we are totally different person but our realisation/lessons are exactly same which means anyone can change their life if they want to.
🙋 Hey sis, As I was watching your video I felt a connection throughout, like I can resonate with all the things you said. 1. Be it highs or lows we keep pushing ourselves towards our goals. 2. Another common belief I discovered about self-love, here's my version. Self-love isn't just about accepting yourself the way you are, but working on yourselves to be the best version, cause you wanna witness your higher self. MORE POWER TO YOU... on this journey of self-discovery, self-love, personal development, discipline and empowerment. 🙌 Lots of Love 💓 & Light. ✨
For some reason RU-vid algorithm recommended this. And i would say thank you coz it felt someone is speaking what i have in mind. Thank you for making myself feel a bit lighter :)
I Can clearly resonate with you, I thought moving into a different city to start masters didn't help, thats when I read mountain is you, opened up that the mountain was always me and then i just started doing. Thanks for this reminder.!
Thanks. I really needed to hear, "in 5 yrs, will I regret not trying or will I regret failing?". So happy for you sis and I pray you get all the goodness.❤❤
"Six months ago, I decided to change my life, and today I’m living proof that it’s possible. If I can do it, so can you! Small steps every day lead to big results. Let's make it happen!"
