I Could Be Evicted From My Home | Hoarders S1 Ep4 | Only Human

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Documentary shining a light on the many and varied reasons why people hoard, bringing in cleaning professionals and house clearance expert to help them. Deep-cleaning experts Caz and Tee arrive to helping clear Paul's cottage in Bath, but with rat droppings in the dining room and maggots in the master bedroom, it's going to be their toughest assignment ever.
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@dianethompson2458 2 года назад

These cleaners are such wonderful people. The hoarders are so brave to ask for help. Hoarding is a mental illness and these people deserve help. I have anxiety which is also a mental illness. I saw a therapist and am doing well now. There should be no judgement of people with mental illness just compassion and help.

@Sinsteel Год назад

They don't ask for help, something critical breaks or the council intervenes, and they're forced into a corner and other people have to come in and clean up after them. I know they have an illness, but that's still the reality of the situation. I feel sorry for people who get paid low wages to clean up these people's filth.

@sonjastarr1364 Год назад

MANY of them ask for help. Please don't think the TV show has the only ones in the world. Just the ones that make the best tv.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@Sinsteel Exactly, the truth, its called ''only human'' well the people DOING THE WORK ARE HUMAN TOO.

@QuazzyDucks 2 года назад

"Maybe I don't want people 'round because I don't wanna lose anybody" - I love this quote

@denealeyork 2 года назад

Poor Nigel- he’s such a sweetheart. Losing his partner just devastated him. This hoarding is much less than last time and he’s actually using the sewing machines this time.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

Yes, but did you notice he moved and the plate collection is gone. I fear he spent all the money. Perhaps he needs to address a shopping addiction also.

@212729h Год назад

@@LisaMaryification Ya I remember his old house . He has moved for sure . He also had a neighbors house where he used to go and shower and eat . Sad really .

@mojopika Год назад

I remember him too, he was such a lovely and there was a poor sıck cat…he should have been continued to therapy😕maybe he wasnt able to

@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm 3 месяца назад

NIGEL WAS ON ANOTHER SHOW CALLED " THE HOARDER NEXT DOOR". HOPE HE GETS THE HELP HE NEEDS, HE SEEMS SO SWEET.❤❤

@michaelclark4043 9 месяцев назад

I TOTALLY AGREE with comment 1220. There's the accumulation of useful things and then there is the pileup of garbage, dirt, filth, and crud. They're two different things all together. 😮

@charlieking8703 3 года назад

Eh? Nigel again? Bless his heart. I thought he was getting better after watching him on 'The Horder Next Door' back in 2012 I just wanna give him a big cuddle!

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 года назад

I thought he looked familiar.

@Berven-gf9jq 2 года назад

He seems like a really great guy, 🙂 Sorry to see that he is back in his bad ways.

@AnaComesonotante 2 года назад

He moved houses hasn't he? I remember the blue and white plates he had on his kitchen's walls and i really like them :)

@Contrarymary853 2 года назад

I had high hopes for him. Very sad

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

He didn’t follow through with therapy and I suppose that we all thought that he would change after the first time.

@theresekatie4841 2 года назад

The weirdest thing I find about most hoarders is that they don't throw away actual rubbish.

@justkiddin84 Год назад

Yes the worst ones it’s all garbage and filth. Once the piles get high, they can’t tell which bag is trash and which one has the bills. They have a new category for folks who live in extreme filth-Diogenes Syndrome.

@CherieDeDieu 3 года назад

Sad for my Kenyan sister Esther....hugs girl. Hope you are better now. ....plus how sweet is George! Bless him.

@jarrodbarkley9061 2 года назад

I thought Stelios helped Nigel! Omg, he's back to square one. Jesus. He clearly needs ongoing psychological help and a weekly cleaning service. He obviously can't stay "normal" on his own. He STILL doesn't realize how bad he is. He needs constant hand-holding.

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

I agree, I wish there was a form of support -- like alcoholics anonymous for people like this -- because this really can be a lifetime challenge where they need help to stay on track.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

Exactly. And what I find confusing is the show 'credited' the Declutter Divas' yet they seemed to exasperate the problem by stating they need to be 'firmer' with him. Why should they? It's not their fault he didn't continue therapy. It was irresponsible of the show to skirt the issue that Nigel has not continued therapy. I get the same sense of 'tough love' from this show's doctor. She didnt say straight out 'Nigel, you need continued therapy'. It was very superficial. I suppose Stella's didn't want to be mentioned in this show and the show decided to put the responsibility on the cleaners. Which was a missed opportunity for the show to really tackle Nigel's issues. The point was completely missed. Also, did you notice he moved from the house he shared with his previous partner to an apartment? That means he probably spent all the proceeds from the house sale on yet another hoard. That is certainly not honouring his late partner, Sid.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

@@zxyatiywariii8 He mentioned that it seems people don't understand no matter how much you try to explain. Which people? His relatives? Doctors? Is he busy explaining away his hoard and why he can't get better? It seems like the only person who doesn't understand is Nigel himself.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@LisaMaryification Nigel is a complete mess, he needs THE LORD JESUS.

@lesleyhughes4969 3 года назад

All the helpers were empathetic. Well done

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

I love these British helpers! I'm American but some of the American de-cluttering services can just overwhelm these people -- the American helpers show up with a fleet of trucks labeled _"Got Junk?"_ and ten or twenty people who don't seem to understand that the stuff is a SYMPTOM of mental illness. So even if they clear out all the junk, they haven't treated the CAUSE of the problem, and then the person relapses. This is much rarer on British shows. Whereas there are many, many Americans who end up re-cluttering like Nigel here. 😞

@justkiddin84 Год назад

Yes, I liked Hoarding: Buried alive better because they addressed that and stopped if the person wasn’t dealing well, unless there was no choice.❤

@TheMigityMac 3 года назад

What shocks me is how many adults in Britain sleep in tiny children sized beds? WTF. I've been sleeping in a double since I was 7. Glad to see people getting help. Extreme cleaners should get the noble peace prize, they are heroes.

@doomergirl3981 3 года назад

well the rooms are very small , i dont know where you live but the houses are not so big as in north america.

@WillowJordan1979 2 года назад

It's a cultural thing. Americans seem to have massive beds, while Europeans sleep in narrower ones.

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

@@WillowJordan1979 Ah, is that it? I'm American but my parents were immigrants and I've always preferred a small bed, not only because it takes less space, but it also takes less work to make my bed, and the bedding is easier to launder because it's not so huge and unwieldy, and a smaller bed feels more cozy somehow. Of course if I were married I'd want a larger bed, but not as a single woman. I guess it's a cultural thing.

@WillowJordan1979 2 года назад

@@zxyatiywariii8 Yeah, that makes sense. Both have pros and cons. I think somewhere around the 2000's, they started selling "Jenkki" beds (Jenkki meaning American, it's derived from Yankee). These beds are wider and often lower than traditional Finnish beds. I'd like to try one, but what you said is true too, it can be easier with a smaller bed. It's light to move and clean under, and the bedding is smaller.

@Miss_ESL 3 года назад

Kaz & Tee are my favourites. Love them!

@alexanderplatzberlin3940 3 года назад

Ah, more Chaz & Tee- I love them 👍🧡

@deezildee4556 2 года назад

Nigel needs regular visits from the local crafting group. They would go nuts in there, it's like crafting heaven. These helpers are like angels, they are gentle yet somewhat firm at the same time. The slippers by the bed say a lot to me about how they approach these monumental tasks.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

Being soft didn’t help him the previous episode over the hoarding and they should’ve been much more aggressive about his issues.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

His problem is his life TOO SOFT he is like an 80 year old lady, He doesn't need them he needs discipline, a reality check.

@syafiqahsyazanar1814 3 года назад

Though Nigel's partner is no longer with him, but I think the cat needs his attention as well. The poor thing is confuse and doesn't know where to go to do his/her business. That poor thing just sleeps where he or she can and does his/her business at places that he/she is able to.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

That's a new cat. He had a white and black cat before. Perhaps he shouldn't keep cats until he gets his hoarding under control.

@feingetarntesfischfilet4841 3 года назад

It especially takes the cleaners a lot of guts and humility! I wouldn't do it, especially not a second time. 😳

@feingetarntesfischfilet4841 3 года назад

@@evanovak7761 ..what isn't❓😄

@codyminecrack248 2 года назад

Fair enough of a comment.

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

I wish there could be a support group for these people, like Alcoholics Anonymous is for alcoholics. It can be a lifetime challenge for some people, and they need help and accountability to prevent them from falling back into their addiction. . .

@martinasikk6162 3 года назад

The hoardering is too much things, then the disarray, then more things because you don’t find your possessions, then the dirt and dust because of the disorder and the mental stress of the inhabitant. A vicious cycle. 🇸🇪🇪🇪

@wellhello1603 3 года назад

Nigel needs a cleaner, if he cant do it himself, he needs someone else to come once a week and keep his home clean. I feel bad for his pets the most, they were looking horrible last time and he still cant provide a decent life to his pets. Maybe they need to be taken away if he cant take care of them.

@peggypeggy4137 2 года назад

I feel sorry for the pets too. I know my cats are much happier when the house is tidy. You can see it in their faces. A little off topic but... Some friends of my friend are animal hoarders. They have 90 cats. They have a cat rescue mission but they are not interested in homing animals. Their $ that they raise just goes to maintaining the cats that they keep. I feel sorry for the cats

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

WRONG HE NEEDS TO GET UP AND BE PRODUCTIVE, why does an able bodied man need cleaners???

@sazennonumber Год назад

These home owners are all so sweet. They've been hurt and kept it all inside. Hoping with all of my heart that they feel better and keep their lives simpler and freer and happy. 💖✨

@sophiegolden 3 года назад

I remembered Nigel with Dr Kelios, he looks always so sad...

@coolrunnings3 3 года назад

You mean Stelios?

@sophiegolden 3 года назад

@@coolrunnings3 yes

@reginaldadonis3525 3 года назад

i realize I am pretty off topic but does anyone know a good place to watch newly released movies online ?

@tuckeraxton9064 3 года назад

@Reginald Adonis lately I have been using FlixZone. You can find it on google =)

@joeyarchie8295 3 года назад

@Reginald Adonis i use FlixZone. Just google for it =)

@Allieari 8 месяцев назад

I'm surprised that they didn't evict her sooner. This has gotten to an extreme point that they had to of noticed sooner.

@GeeEee75 Год назад

Why are hoarded properties often also so dirty? Genuine question. Assuming you can get to the sink or toilet or stove, why not clean it? Like, the dirt presumably isn't something that they think of as a precious possession?

@aquablue3880 3 года назад

Watching from Kenya,i hope Esther was able to move forward.

@blueberry_pie 3 года назад

I'm a hoarder too, i hoard hoarders' videos on youtube.

@marijkekuit6449 3 года назад

So am I

@Kim_gs1206 3 года назад

Mental hoarding😉 lucky we're able to store things in playlists etc🥲

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

14:53 _IMPORTANT!_ ⚠️ If you're in an area where asbestos is present, you need to cover your hair as well as wear a mask. I have long hair myself, and I've worked in areas with asbestos, and those tiny fibers can get into hair and then you can breathe them in. So I always kept mine covered and she should too. Even if she washed her as soon as she got home, the asbestos can be inhaled in that short amount of time. I do know it's hot and annoying to have to be completely covered when you're working, but it's extremely important in the case of asbestos (also anthrax, which sporifies and has an affinity for clinging to hair).

@CG-vd4nu 2 года назад

"Within the black community and in black culture, there's no such thing as hoarding." The Black Community consists of 58 individual countries & territories in Africa alone and seven separate cultures in South America & the surrounding islands. The statement made here about "no such thing as hoarding in Black culture" is tantamount to erasure.

@thetwitchywitchy 9 месяцев назад

OH MY GOD NOOOOOOO!!!! I recognized Nigel IMMEDIATELY!!! The first time his home was cleared it was on video on this channel!! Oh my god my eyes went WIDE OPEN when the narrator mentioned Sid and I was 100% sure it was who I thought it was, oh my god that broke my heart to see he went back to hoarding… he seemed like he was definitely going to do better after that first time with all of the therapy, but I know with many hoarders once the therapy ends and people stop checking on them they tend to relapse. God that was so upsetting to see him on here I hope he’s doing okay…

@pcpl_meladjb_alpha4154 3 года назад

hoards are unshed tears.

@titajuwita9073 3 года назад

i just feel there is a sparkle between the old lady and the old man 😀

@SuperBommer1 3 года назад

They share a disease

@sarahr306 3 года назад

😃👍🏾

@613miami 2 года назад

Why are so many hoarders also unclean? If you have cooked a meal throw out the food prep stuff and then wash pots and dishes after the meal. If not everyday at least twice a week, which makes it much harder

@teem9010 2 года назад

depression drains your energy. also sometimes its like you dont care as in "whats the point" then the person has a short time of clairity, looking around feeling like they need to do something to get things in order but then they are overwhelmed and anxious. its so sad really

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@teem9010 It is all in the mind, their emotions run them, go for a walk, pray on your knees, read psalms in the bible. GOD IS STILL IN CONTROL.

@DianaStuckert-y4x 9 месяцев назад

I don't understand removing Nigel's nitting and sewing supplies. Won't that make him need to get more and possibly start hoarding again?

@batirtzeurkiaga1716 2 года назад

Wow...... I've been watching this kind of programs for a couple of days. At the end they all teach you that it's not the stuff; it's the memories you can't let go of, the isolation and sadness. These people do need help. 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

Yes exactly! The stuff is just a symptom, they need psychological help to feel better themselves, so they won't feel compelled to hang onto so much stuff out of loneliness and sadness. 💔

@momof2momof2 2 года назад

It's one thing to have a few of one thing neatly put in its place , but filth, clutter, items just thrown around and disaster is a whole different thing. I like the therapy of the hoarders visiting other hoarders. I think its very eye opening for them, brings them out of their bubble. Claire might want to think about dressing a bit more modest/professional when visiting people.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

Who cares about what she wears? Besides that , the clients may be more open with her because she’s not “professional.” It always helped the residents who lived at the homeless shelter that I worked at.

@jennifermorris7986 2 года назад

Oh no - poor Nigel! The recidivism with this disorder is so high. 6 weeks of treatment with Stellios and a full declutter wasn't enough :( Maybe ongoing therapy is needed?

@jacqueline6926 2 года назад

I knew I had seen Nigel before...

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

It sounds like he’s desperately clinging to hoarding being classified as a mental health issue as an excuse for why he doesn’t improve.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@sarcasticallyrearranged AS AN EXCUSE TO NOT WORK AND GET A MONTHLY CHECK.

@chroniclecobalt338 2 года назад

I’m so used to the American version of this show that these houses look relatively not that bad

@christinebutler7630 Год назад

And the people are so darn sweet. I'd love to sit and have a cuppa with these folks. Can't say the same about many of the American hoarders; some of them tend to be bitter and angry people.

@chroniclecobalt338 Год назад

@@christinebutler7630 Them and the hoarding specialists😭

@stacys8729 Год назад

I think maybe they just have less room and less privacy? (Or maybe the tv standards there won't show buckets of human waste stacked up and dead animals.) The American version also includes animal hoarding, and horrible infestations of rats and roaches. Comparatively this is a more pleasant and easier watch.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@stacys8729 You don't see England as it is you only see what they show you,

@aggyndungu Год назад

Esther my dear sweet sister, miss you so so much. Rest with the angels sweatheart🤗😢

@banditpoon714 Год назад

Sorry for your loss 😢

@eastfrisianguy 3 года назад

Nigel again? Oh dear!

@lindahubert8961 3 года назад

Yesss! Hope never see him again next year...🖕

@samanthaabreu782 2 года назад

There's s many ways people deal with loss. When I lost my mom it was completely the other way, I just wanted everything out, I couldn't even have the clothes I wore ar the hospital. I donate almost everything I had and nowadays I have a lot less things.

@herdagriffin1220 3 года назад

I may be wrong,but there is hoarding.but stink garbage and urine etc,is something else

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 года назад

Yes, occasionally you ser people on the show who have things stuffedonto boxes even if stacked to the roof andnot really seriously dirty even if dusty though there is high risk of mold problems when a room is overstuffed so ventilation doesn't work as intended. The previous hoard of Nigel's was somewhat organised in boxes but the cats had used the boxes with neatly packed collectible items as litterboxes.

@veronicamckenzie3711 Год назад

that one woman admitting to going into someones backyard backyard because there was a bunch of stuff and just taking it "the gate was open" WOMAN WTF

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

that is stealing.

@cassandraknight8804 2 года назад

Thank you, I love these….more please

@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm 3 месяца назад

A GREAT EPISODE

@cathyabrahamse1929 3 года назад

My sister God rest her soul was a horder but her place was not filthy.

@india1422 3 года назад

Omg. I share all of Nigel’s hobbies plus spinning yarn. I have seven sewing machines.... but I keep things in check

@susancavigioli5148 3 года назад

I also remember Nigel his first time with Dr Kelios. I ask myself that has happened to his, almost family, friends of that first video of his hoarding problems of that period!?? 🤔

@susancavigioli5148 3 года назад

Tu bee truthfull after seeing Nigel again, I no longer know wther to belive those stories or not!!!! It surtanly disorients me, that's for sure. Someone who already has a disoriented mind, can only do more damage!!! 🙏😭

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 года назад

Has he moved and not in the same house any longer?

@thisbeem2714 2 года назад

Looks like he has moved. He seems sadder than he was before.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

@@johannas.l.brushane2518 It seems he was still in the home he had previously shared with his late partner because his partner's plate collection was still on the wall in the first show. However, in this new apartment there is no plate collection. Sadly, it seems he frittered away the proceeds from the sale of the house he shared with his late partner on more junk. It seems he has a shopping addiction he needs to address.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

They probably were tired of trying to help him and stopped visiting like they usually do.

@ladybug7967 2 года назад

It’s loneliness and emptiness that leads to hoarding. Seek God, dear people. God is Love and Peace. I am not talking about religion, I mean personal relationship with the Creator. Seek God and His righteousness.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

We live in a society that encourages materialism. Things replace people. Making money to buy those things is considered success. I'm not trying to be hippy dippy but take away the stuff and long hours worked to buy that stuff and what do we have? Just a lot of lonliness.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@LisaMaryification NOT TRUE AT ALL, I have the Lord and I have what I need materially. HE chose the homosexual lifestyle, now he has no sons to visit him no daughters no grands, He needs Jesus.

@BUGt95. Год назад

This is all very polite. I'm american only ever watech tye American version of thus show. Very different.

@datchaanimalsheltermoldova1980 3 года назад

Nigel moved, last time he had a different home and filled with beautiful collections, now is mostly junk

@wellhello1603 3 года назад

true, wonder where it went

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 года назад

I was thinking he may have moved partly because the old house was too big and maybe filled with too much memories?

@nosteponsnek4824 3 года назад

Has Nigel moved? That's not the same house, his front door opened onto a street before

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 года назад

I was thinking the same?

@jacqueline6926 2 года назад

@@johannas.l.brushane2518 Me too.

@mitchybee8258 2 года назад

I love those cleaner’s…. And Esther really touched my heart ❤️

@gillianbrookwell1678 2 года назад

These hoarders always have some excuse for hoarding, yet 99% of them rehoard over and over again. There doesn't seem to be a cure for these individuals. I remember Nigel (with Stelios) on previous programmes, and he must have had his hoard cleared at least three times.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

Nigel needs ongoing therapy. No question.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

Seeing the follow up episodes of how they go right back to hoarding makes me feel even more for those who have family that have repeatedly tried to help and finally give up on them.

@virginiafry9854 3 года назад

Esther should not lose her home if there is asbestos in the roof - she didn’t build the property!! Janice has probably had a left mastectomy with clearance of the lymph nodes in the axilla, causing swelling of the arm.

@ingeborg-anne 3 года назад

Oh Nigel! Bless his heart! Send Stelios to him so they can get to the root of the problem!

@feanorian21maglor38 2 года назад

Stelios did see him before, and he got rid of a lot of his collection and hoard, but he went back to this. So sad.

@bjmajor 2 года назад

@@feanorian21maglor38 Which proves to me that no hoarder is really "cured"; it's one day at a time for them, just like with any other addiction or compulsive behavior.

@feanorian21maglor38 2 года назад

@@bjmajor Yes, very well put.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

@@bjmajor Or regular therapy, on a weekly basis. No shame in that if it helps one live a productive life.

@camrenwick 3 года назад

Nigel needs Miss Miranda once a week to do some cleaning.

@fabienneclavier5984 2 года назад

Who is miss Miranda?

@lauraann7816 11 месяцев назад

It effects me physically, socially and mentally-- so true. Socially is very important too-- as humans we usually tend to want to be social including hosting friends in our home. Hoarding can make you pretty lonely. I am a couple years late on this video, but I hope they are doing well today.

@breezyc78 Год назад

Hoarding 🤔 This one just looks like a Big Mess

@Navyyy9 3 года назад

How many house does he have??🤔🤔 in previous episodes he collected antique plates and in this clothing materials 🤔🤔🤔🤔 what happened to the plates he hoarded??

@eeshaanchan1057 3 года назад

I think it's the same house. And I was just thinking about his beautiful collection of antique ceramics too! I wonder if he let go of it because it was too painful of a reminder of his boyfriend or some natural reason came up for him to have to let it go. Because again in this episode like the last he does not have any pictures of his boyfriend up anywhere. Or they might simply be upstairs.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

It looks like he moved to an apartment building. It's not the same house. He must have sold the other house. And that was his late partner's plate collection, not his.

@dawnfayette4873 2 года назад

Ok Nigel what's up with the cat? Fleas or thyroid or what? Either can be treated. Not ok for kitty to be greasy and itchy all the time..talk to vet. Even if you can't fix it completely you can manage it. If your cat was completely bald a couple of months ago and you are managing it, my apologies.

@carolinemugo1617 3 года назад

Sad to see Esther, she should visit Kenya for a long holiday, take a break from Europe

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

and stay there.

@Anesa100 10 месяцев назад

I can understand "hoarding" but it's much harder to understand filth ;/

@MDeLorien 2 года назад

Nigel needs someone to help him once the week to keep his flat clean. 😊 he's a sweet guy

@sandygrogg1203 2 года назад

Someone..Get that poor woman a good bra! She;ll feel so much better…

@Ad-Infinitum 3 года назад

They threw the suitcases out to create a bit of drama. I've noticed that sort of thing a lot in these types of shows, as if the process isn't stressful enough for them.

@zxyatiywariii8 2 года назад

The American ones are sometimes much worse, there's one where the "helper" mocked an elderly man when he wanted to keep an old punching bag because he'd been a professional boxer when he was younger. She said, "You're going to use that? You can hardly even walk!" and he started to cry while trying not to cry. I felt so sorry for him! 😢 Even if the bag needed to be discarded, she could have been kinder about it. If she ends up being in a wheelchair when she's older, she wouldn't like being mocked for what she can't do. 😡 I would've encouraged him to give it away saying something like, "Just think, if you donate it, maybe some teenage boy -- who can't afford a new one -- can use it. You could be helping a young boxer train to have a great career like you did." Something positive. Negativity just exacerbates a hoarding problem.

@tiashiraz8430 3 года назад

Esther’s flat was so grim even after being cleaned......🙁

@christinaroberts7311 2 года назад

Badmine

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@christinaroberts7311 WHAT EXACTLY IS BADMINE?

@michaelclark4043 9 месяцев назад

Às I've said in previous comments elsewhere, I couldn't do what those cleanup people do and not get sick to my stomach! You'd have to have nerves of steel and a strong stomach. I have neither, so I probably wouldn't last 15 minutes!😮

@stephnjesh563 3 года назад

Esther jameni😂😂😂

@katenderu1758 3 года назад

Amechoma

@trishatrish8478 3 года назад

@@katenderu1758 bana

@dboyd1651 Год назад

Wait. I thought Nigel was getting help from Stelio Kiosses? Why is he on this show getting help from another hoarding therapist?

@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm 3 месяца назад

EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING.

@kimberly8185 2 года назад

Nigel is such a sweetheart 💕 ❤️

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

His cat probably doesn’t feel the same way.

@nicholasschoonbeck6866 2 года назад

People really don't understand how mental illness works. Loneliness is just a way to describe depression, & for her, living in a hoard without really noticing it, is a sign of serious depression. People should also understand that having a mental illness or struggling with your mental health is NORMAL, it doesn't mean you are broken. Most people can't go through their lives entirely alone.

@jenniferreel656 2 года назад

I love all the people who were on the program. They all seem like such nice people!! 🙂

@reginalluch4030 2 года назад

Nigel sold your and Sidney’s china collection and moved to a smaller place. Still using Sidney’s death as an excuse. I’m sorry for Nigel find out what it really is. Where’s Miranda your alter ego??

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

I agree. The truth was not examined and so Nigel will keep hoarding.

@1993trish30 3 года назад

Makes me wonder, what's their source of income? 🤔 I have two jobs but can't afford further studies. 🙁

@martinasikk6162 3 года назад

Probably work/pension/inheritance. As other people. They function ok outside the hoarded home. 🇸🇪🇪🇪

@datchaanimalsheltermoldova1980 3 года назад

Most of the things are trash and recyclables...

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@martinasikk6162 THINK AGAIN, THEY LIVE ON SOME SORT OF WELFARE,

@Karenanneseven Год назад

I love Esther ❤

@shettikkawoods Год назад

Nigel ❤️as well... I'm a knitter ❤️crocheter 🧶as well 🌻

@queenofthemultiverse4021 2 года назад

Did Nigel move to another place? Thought his place looked different.

@unknown-ud4yk 3 года назад

I wonder how much money these collectors could earn if they started selling all these items 👁️👄👁️

@martinasikk6162 3 года назад

Probably work/pension/inheritance, as other people. They function as other people away from the hoarded home. 🇸🇪🇪🇪

@india1422 3 года назад

Probably not very much

@johannas.l.brushane2518 2 года назад

They could probably get some at Ebay for instance though they seem to be much of a procastrinating personalities.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@martinasikk6162 Do you even bother to read the question or just type work/pension/inheritance everywhere?

@youtubefaves6365 Год назад

Wasn’t Nigel on “The Hoarder Next Door”? is this post his meeting with Stellios Kiosses? If yes, then that doesn’t speak well to the whole “trauma and loss” theory. Or that 6 weeks is just not enough therapy to cure this disorder.

@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm 3 месяца назад

YES HE WAS ON ANOTHER HOARDING SHOW

@Xochil1986 2 года назад

First of all no one deserves to have so much if they can’t keep up with it

@tsilsby888 2 года назад

So much kinder and gentler than the Hoarders show in the US.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

Too bad that the lack of urgency and directness doesn’t ultimately help them since Nigel was previously filmed having his hoarded home cleared out.

@beatricewavinya1679 3 года назад

Esther umeamuaje uku?wah! Acha tuongee kiswahili wasituelewe

@trishatrish8478 3 года назад

Nashangaa juu hii sio tabia yetu ya kawa..ama ni juu ako peke yake

@roguenrawwellness7682 2 года назад

I think they need a support network like AA or NA cuz Nigel keeps saying he’d love to know someone like him to get support from someone like him. They need help.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

I think he’s just wanting someone who will help justify his reason why he’s hoarding,but,it ultimately doesn’t do any good.

@petterituovinem8412 3 года назад

Why did the old lady wore that weird glove?

@adrianaschmidt2399 2 года назад

Medical condition, if you notice her full arm is swollen

@jenrich111 2 года назад

Ester that floor is bloody revolting. That is a blast-zone! How do people walk all over clothing? It is severe despair and mental illness. Dont collect other people's tat. What do they actually learn?

@vesnasuselrozman7659 3 года назад

I think its not always hording, sometimes they just dont clean and organized and that I dont understand. How can you pile newspapers and garbage and cat pups on your flor...use all your dishes, never wash them and stop useing your kitchen. That is not a hordering, for me its a lazyines, not to clean after yourselve dishes or toilet. At least that should be clean even if your home is packed from flor to siling. You should see my moms house 3x150m2, she is 81 now, never throw away things. Keeps her buisy to clean every day for few hours. we do only garden and flowers and wash windowes. I do horde but I also clean and for no cleaning theres no excouse, sorry.

@kimberleybarker3922 3 года назад

You are missing the essence of the problem. It starts with collecting, which becomes a hoard, which ultimately causes the person to become overwhelmed and often anxious and depressed and THAT'S when people stop doing the every day tasks. It's not like someone wakes up and thinks 'i'm tired of cleaning, not doing that anymore.' More than often these were house proud people in the past...

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

You are correct, of course. I am a minimalist. I tend to get rid of almost too much but yes being clean is paramount.

@yah-yahsophia9403 3 года назад

He's using his partners death as an excuse. He likes the attention. Twice on TV.... I remember the state of his previous cats, poor things. He's selfish and uses the excuse of mental health when actually he's just plain bloody lazy

@YourJulietnet 3 года назад

I agree. What a waste of energy and resources. Somebody else could've been helped.

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

And he got a new a cat! The last one had stuff running from its eyes.

@maikodzamukashvili2971 3 года назад

მე პირიქით მემართება,ზოგჯერ საჭირო ნივთსაც მივაყოლებ ხოლმე😆😆😆 ნაგავს.

@baigo7265 3 года назад

Question, is hygiene not being taught in English schools?

@adrianaschmidt2399 2 года назад

Why "schools" It should be learned at home.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

School has to teach even that?

@baigo7265 6 месяцев назад

@@marilynwillett804 Sure. Many parents don't teach their children nowadays.

@waroshoking5515 3 года назад

WaKenya wa UK

@johnlal1413 3 года назад

Why do they do that?

@kiokokoffin Год назад

nigel, poor guy 💔 i want to hug him

@roguenrawwellness7682 2 года назад

They really need a friend Nigel hoards because he lost the love of her life she hoards because the only people she speaks to are shop owners this episode is a bit heartbreaking they really just need someone.

@katarina1852 Год назад

Nigel’s cat probably uses the corner of the floor because of the hoarding and perhaps the litter box isn’t kept clean. I think Nigel is very talented with his knitting, crocheting and sewing and could open his own boutique selling his wares.

@sarcasticallyrearranged Год назад

Would anyone want to buy filthy and smelly items?

@katarina1852 Год назад

@@sarcasticallyrearranged I wouldn’t. He’d have to keep his product and his work far away from his house.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

HIS knitting would absorb the odors of the house and not be clean.

@justanotherday1205 3 года назад

wth did i stumble on

@henrybertolette2496 2 года назад

Keep off your

@LorraineMatthew-oe3mm 3 месяца назад

???

@elen2662 3 года назад

I feel sick of these people

@shettikkawoods Год назад

I wish I was her neighbor 🙏🏽🤗🥰, I'll help,be gracious 🦋 amicable ❤️ and do what I love to do... OCD cleaning 🧹👍🏽 and having her home enjoyable for chat,tea 🍵 and cakes ❤️🤗🌻

@anniedjaswadi 3 года назад

Is not a human live there is an animal, is better clear out.

@pamelakain4879 2 года назад

Nigel knows the game 🤬 it sometimes they're just selfish lazy #@+&

@LisaMaryification 2 года назад

I agree. It seems Nigel's problem is more dishonesty than hoarding. He's still using his late partner's death 12 years ago as an excuse. It seems he sold the house he shared with him and moved into a rental and spent all the money on junk.

@marilynwillett804 6 месяцев назад

@@LisaMaryification BINGO. AND FOOD. he doesn't show you the restaurants he ate in.