Mothers are the best gifts to us from God they can see a lot when seated than what we as children can see standing,,,I've bn in two r/ships that my mom(specifically) never approved of,,,the 2nd one according to me was the"ideal"one but I thank God I walked out n now I'm set married to a servant of God a man that's after God's own heart...NB like Vivian I held them both down n got their backs when they weren't okay...