Hey girl 💌 you are so authentic. I think so many in our generation feel the same. I‘ve been in this phase for literally 3 years of don’t know what I really wanna do and since a few months I finally figured everything out and my life changed. First, it‘s an illusion that everyone else knows what they want. We are all going to this phase, some of us earlier, some later and everyone handels this different. Time is just crap. I‘ve always felt like everyone is going on with things and I felt left behind. But when I look back, I wish I didn‘t care about time because everyone has its own speed of time, comparing just doesn‘t make sense. In the last few months so many things happened in my life and I‘ve got so many opportunities that I am now the one in my friend groups that is „leading“ in grown up stuff like business after having no plans and just chilling for so long. So don‘t compare yourself to others, how „fast“ your friends are with their plans. It will not give you the answer, it will only make you feel bad. Second - this phase is a challenge for ONE lesson: to FIND what you want to do and be. Even if it feels weird and stresses you out, it‘s one of the best phases in your life because you have everything in front of you, all the doors are open, you can do literally everything you want. My advice is to step out of your bubble. We all are growing up in our own bubble with the same friends, in the same city, with the same beliefs (mostly from our parents). I’ve found myself and what I want to do when I stepped outside of my bubble (and before that I always thought I know who I am because I was so happy). When you meet totally different people, see other cities (countries, if you have money to travel, seeing different cultures is best education and finding yourself and your mission), other lifes, read totally different books and try everything that is far away from your bubble you grew up in, you will find your perfect plan, even if this sounds crazy. I think if you will just move on because certain steps you just have to do because it is how it is this phase will come up again one day. I know it‘s kinda overwhelming and it‘s a little bit like falling free. But you will get through it and at the end this phase will let you grow. Enjoy it as much as you can. Take a deep breath, you have plenty of time and when you look back in 20 years it’s such a wild and wonderful phase. So much love (from Germany), you will do great! 🌸💞🌟
