I Don't Care What You Do 

She never spoke about the things he bought her, the places he took her too or how he use to dress. But of his character and how he treated and loved her - and that - is true love. That is what you call a soul mate. Be not saddened that it ended, but be glad that you was given the privilege to experience it. Wishing this sister nothing but the best

I don’t think I’ve ever heard a woman speak so publicly about the positive qualities of her guy like this rest in peace, brother

This is the husband and I am growing to be. I want this. 7 deployments and Chronic PTSD have set me way back...but I will become this man.

First time i heard a woman talk like this about their husband, flowers for her honesty. ♥️✝️🙏🏽💐

This is how my uncle treated his wife. He passed away yesterday at 94 and she's 92. Good bless Judge Tolar❤

"He can hang me over a cliff and I wouldn't worry" now that line alone speaks volumes.

She's blessed to have experienced that kind of love.

Men value respect above all things, what a wife👏

Not many women speak of their men in such a great light. Bless you sister.

" When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure."

I feel sorry for that dude! 💯

You got a lot to give God thanks for. He is a real man.

"He's that Brother" really hits different when you hear it from the woman who loved him. Respect to you both

I love hearing her speak of big E. Always so much love when she speaks of him. She spoke highly of him while he was alive and in his death. Just beautiful ❤.

There is nothing more precious than a partner you can brag on, not about what he has, not about what he purchased for you...but about how he shows up for you.. safety... security... protection...love

The way she speaks of her husband’s character is beyond beautiful ❤

I love how she just GENUINELY loves him. It’s a rarity to find your “soulmate”. It’s such a blessing when you do.

I married that same man. 17 yrs happily together. I'm so thankful.

"He can hold me by the Ankle on a Cliff nd i wouldn't worry, CUZ HE IS DAT BROTHER".. U hear d respect nd Admiration she has for him in dat simple Statement. May We Get to b there for our family. Bless Him.

When I heard he passed I was so hurt for her and I don't know her but I know those types of married couples 🥰 she absolutely loved that man to death.

What a Godly man she's describing. So beautiful. This is love.

Judge Toler.. I found THAT and I treasure him with all I have. I FELT THAT, Prayers for your peace and hope you are doing well. He is always with you, until you meet again ❤

She was so blessed. Condolences to her and family.

This is my husband too! Took me 41 years to find him but he’s mine now and life is good! Don’t give up ladies! Perfect timing is everything! Gods time!

My husband is like that...the day we got married he said..."you will never regret marrying me" and oooh boy he was sooooo right ✅️ 💙 ❤ such a calm, polite and very patient man of God who loves his family and i thank the Lord everyday for him and my children ❤️

I grew up seeing my parents having absolutely insane fights, punching holes in walls screaming and crying, when i was 6 they broke up and both used me as a weapon against one another until I was about 16/17. They would still try to use me against one another and I told them both to shut their mouths and that I dont want to hear anything out of either of them about one another because I was beyond caring at that point. I brought that into my relationships even at the same age of 17 onwards . Today, I have not screamed or shouted with anybody I've had as a partner. Its not worth the heartache, if you make me feel like I want to scream at you, then I don't want to be with you, I talk it out and I tell them how I need them to support me and I'll support them and if we disagree about things to tell me and we can work out a resolution, if you're mad at me or im mad at you we need to leave eachother alone for a while and we can talk when we are cooled off but we will not fight and if you scream at me or try hit me or anything like that you wont get any reaction from me and I will not engage, usually at that point I'd be considering if we should even be together. So far, everybody I've had a relationship with I've had clean breaks we can still talk and there's no bad blood, if things stopped working we went our separate ways and we can stay distant friends. In a way im glad I grew up the way I did with insane parents. Nowadays, things are a lot smoother, and I have a good relationship with them and have forgiven them for what happened and they are positive figures in my life who support me but I wouldn't want my kids to go through it and I completely refuse to let someone im supposed to love control my emotions like that. Fellas, if your partner and you are fighting every week and screaming and shouting every week its not normal, girls are very emotional and they know how to push your buttons, put the pants on in the relationship and be the bigger person, if it doesn't work leave, even if it hurts. Every time things get worse, they will become the new normal. It's simply not worth it.

You are blessed. He is you peace in the middle of the storm and your blessing!!!!! ❤❤❤

"If you need me again, I'll come back"... That was powerful 👏🏼👌🏼💪🏼

She is speaking on what we should ALL be able to speak on in a partner. PERIOD

❤so precious and beautiful to hear this about a brother. He's awesome, care him.

I always come back to this video every once in a while ❤

That Judge married an angel. She was truly blessed to have had him in her life. Enjoy the memories Ma'am. When you speak of him the love rolls right off your lips.

Its beautiful to hear a woman praise her man like this. Men respect that

The way this woman describes her love for hers is amazing ❤, that energy is hard to come by

Rest in Honor, Sir. Their love was a beautiful thing. ❤️

This is how all men should want their wives to feel about them. I love this, she genuinely adored her husband.

I pray one day I find someone who feels this way about me😢😢😢❤❤❤❤❤

Wow! He was your Angel! You are so blessed to have had him, what a gift! May he rest in peace!

She the Realest❤👍🏽💪🏽💯

I need a husband like that!! Your the best Judge 😊

May his soul Rest in Peace. Another beautiful reflection of what a humane man he was. You can’t buy that. You can’t. Stay strong and stay blessed,

That woman right there knows she found not a king not the king she found HER KING. She loves him to her core because she knows that man will do anything and everything for her to feel safe happy and loved. I found MY QUEEN and i had 8 perfect years with her before i lost both her and my 3 year old son in a car accident and ive been broken ever since. To this day i would trade my life if it meant both of them were safe. I will love you forever Daina and Jr and ill see you soon For those that will ask what i mean by the last sentence I was diagnosed with terminal cancer and they are trying everything to keep me alive but the prognosis is i have about 2 years give or take a few months.

People like that are super hero's, but they are the ones who are struggling the most. They just don't show it ❤

That's a man from God! God bless you!

That’s a man that truly loved his woman!!!

She’s able to speak so highly of her late husband who was obviously good to her warms my heart. This was an example of true love!❤️

GOD BLESS THE MEN WHO KEEP US GROUNDED!!!!❤❤❤

I'm praying for your comfort. I love you. You remind me of my older sister, I respect u and don't even know you. I love the way you conduct yourself. Very professional

I want to be talked about like that, so I will start change today.. so beautiful, everything you do in life matters, blessings to all

She took his death extremely hard. I pray she has strength to continue to be the beautiful soul she is.

I needed to see this all week. Sometimes on the internet you get tired of hearing negative stuff about relationships. It is wonderful to hear someone speak so positively of their partner and especially a woman speaking highly of her man.

She's describing a service dog. It's all about her, her ,her...

She always speaks so highly of him. You can tell she loved him deeply. 😊❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

He is that kind of guy who listens to all your ups and downs and never criticizes you but is always ready to help you at anytime

Thats a good man.

I’m so sorry for her loss, but I’m so happy she got to experience this type of love. My husband is this type of man and I love him with all my heart and we show each other love daily! It is such a gift that I would treasure forever.

Every man wants his woman to speak this. Highly of him ..beautifully spoken

My husband is your husband's twin. He's 6’3 280lbs and built like a linebacker, but a gentle giant. He doesn't even like to argue. ❤️

Love to see when a woman doesnt bash her man to fit in. Great to hear and see

Ooooh, this brings tears. Married to a gem. RIP😢❤❤❤

That was my William. God called him home 3 years ago. Godly Man, Protector, Best Friend, Confidante, Lover, Comforter, Great Father. I know how she feels. To all the young ladies. There are STILL men like these out there. Pray. And don't ever give up.❤❤

That's the kind of marriage I am talking about ... He had the Perfect Peace from God ❤

That is a God fearing man. There rarest breed of man our generation is lacking. Thank you for sharing.

Am proud of this woman. Your voice is stronger how you explain him. You really had one in trillion. That voice is enough to know him. Cheers

I love how she speaks about her husband!!!! That’s so real and genuine ❤❤❤❤

How she talks about her solemate gives me hope that ppl like her still exist 🐺🐺💪🏾

Powerful good stuff right here. Honor and respect to the strong men out there holding the world on their shoulders.

Thank you for sharing. We ALL need a rock. I’m so happy that you found yours. Namaste.

She found a true man of God. My wife tells me she appreciates my inner strength all the time.

She's blessed to have been loved by a good man...hard to find a good guy and I know she misses him...

❤❤❤❤That’s Love, Trust and Commitment in its purest form. “He can hold me by the foot over a cliff and I wouldn’t worry!”

God blessed him with the gift of temperance, peace, gentleness, and a beautiful down to earth and real woman like you. He had been given a double blessing.

So beautiful to hear our sister compliment her man

Praying 4 her, she had a SOUL MATE!! Not sex mate or walking wallet. Most are looking for.

He knew little is BIG CRAZY and you must be on my crazy lady.....side😂😂❤❤

We need men like this, and we need the women that appreciate them! That was nice to hear ❤

He said if you need me again I will come back. That brought tears to my eyes. Love is a beautiful verb

Sounds like my Daddy❤😢I miss him so much!

Brought tears to my eyes God sent her the man who knew how to love her the way she needed to be loved 🥰

Know what makes it better? That you actually notice it. I wish my girl noticed these things. Proud of you girl and love you for it

I feel such compassion for her, because she really loved her husband. I know she misses him so much you can see how sad her eyes are on her recent videos

YOU MARRIED A REAL MAN JUDGE.💐❤️🤲🏿🙏🏿🌹💐❤️🤲🏿🙏🏿💐❤️🤲🏿❤️

As I listened I was just overwhelmed with emotion and the tears just begin to fall.., because just the thought of experiencing an unshakable, unbreakable, unconditional love is absolutely amazing❤❤❤

I would say there’s many great men like him. There’s just not as many women praise their man like this.

That was a nice way to publicly tell a personal story without getting too personal!! Love it!! ❤

I married the same kinda guy. There is nothing he want do for me. I thank God for giving me that kinda man. I am so BLESSED.

Preach Queen 💪🏾🙌🏾Takes wisdom to know a real man’s presence don’t always come with a roar some of us move in silence but accurately 👑

May her husband Big E rest in peace. Hope your heart is healing Judge Lynn

May he rest in peace. 🙏🏽🕊🪽

Lucky woman, great man. Tuff loss. Irreplaceable. True Love.

girl!!!!im in tears

These kind of men are priceless...the lady too,She's got a beautiful soul to be able to appreciate a good man

I'm so sorry she lost her husband. He really was the perfect person for her. She had so much admiration for him. She was blessed. Good man. Wish for her that she had much more time with him. 😢

I had one of those...mine was 6', but he was a Man of God. I lost him to Covid in 2020😢

This brings tears to my eyes ❤ that's true love. I love how she speaks highly of him. Strong black woman & strong black man. Black love 🤎 x

I to married a bottle of Valium. The are the most trustworthy steadfast and dependable men to have!

That's what you call love❤❤❤

GOD BLESS YOU MY DEAR JUDGE AND SISTER ALL THE BEST TO YOU MAY HIS SOUL REST IN PEACE 🙏

I can see how great her loss is. God be with her ❤🙏

I love Judge Toler! It truly broke my heart when she lost the love of her life; such an amazing man!!! ❤❤❤