@@zumitomoe yup, it's in the description for some of the vids and a lot of these actors like the lady on the left have been in other videos as a different character. She also mentions it in the full videos, these are only clips from the show. Vonda only just recently got elected as a judge, this show was considered community education and helped her get her name out there and advertise her private practice as a family lawyer.
I completely agree I've seen it 1st hand. Listen to people when they say they don't want the kids the mean that. As a parent I promise you it will be days you can't stand your children but I promise your love will always out way whatever other human emotions you may have. Because a loving parent 1st 2nd 3rd and 4th thought is always their kids then everyone else.
I totally agree because there are a lot of people who have children and they murder their kids because they don't want children! Or are they abuse their children physically and emotionally.. and that would tear her sister to pieces is she gives those kids back to this empty woman and then she does something to those children. But the judge should make her pay child support for those children I don't care what her situation is if you don't want the kids and the kids are with the aunt then you should be giving her money to support your children and social the fathers
Those kids are in danger with a mother like that. “I don’t want them” is a big 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩And that creepy smile at the end says she is a box of fries short on a happy meal.
DO NOT force visitation or for her to ever take them back. She's literally telling the world she doesn't want them. Believe her or those kids will end up hurt or dead.
Yeah, I can agree to forced therapy to find the root cause of why she suddenly didn't want her children anymore sense a lot of the time it's mental/hormonal.
It is.I wanted children but couldn't do to a health issue, and to have the Blessing of having them ,I just can't understand. These children will Google this and how is this going to make them feel.
I’m just seeing this for the first time. I’m with you, this is just sad. I hope her children never watch this program and hear their “mother” say, I don’t want my kids. What a horrible thing for anybody to hear. She’s absolutely pathetic!
She has SUPER flat affect. She's either ON something, or she NEEDS to be on something. Notice the Aunt is in NO way asking to give them back? She KNOWS the mother is unstable. They can actually officially "place" them with the Aunt through the court system, and that way, the State will help them. They will get things like an assistance check, food stamps, free lunches, and so on, to help that Auntie out, and she 100% deserves it for taking those sweet babies on. She's a definite hero in this story. If she hadn't stepped up, those kids would go into foster care. I hope things work out for that family, and that mother get some help. Something is definitely not right with her.
The state doesn’t have to place them in the home for her to get assistance. As long as they are living with her and she is providing for them, regardless of who put the kids with her she is eligible for assistance as long as falls within the income guidelines.
@@shannonangel3980 I was thinking that exact same thing just the way that she is smiling as the judge is talking to her about her kids she is showing no care in the world she has not once asked sister how are the babies if they needed anything I cannot imagine bring a child into this world just to give them away especially when her kids going to remember that they’re her sisters now
The really flat affect throughout made me wonder if there's something significantly wrong neurologically. Then the psychopath smile at the end gave me chills. The kids should not be put back in her care, ever.
She doesn't look normal. I think she is on drugs or something else... How can someone not want to have kids of their own 😢😢😢. When there are people who are trying so hard to have kids by going through ivf and other stuff.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h I'm one of the rare people who doesn't want kids at all. And i made sure i can't, not the natural/biological way. I don't plan to get married either. Telling this to potential partners made them decide not to be with me and i was ok with that. Not having to care about kids or a spouse made my lfie less stressing and honestly my pets are enough for me, never really been a people's person. I had people showing me their kids but the parental instincts/feelings never activated. For the court case it's better they stay with the aunt. If someone doesn't want kids, or not anymore, don't force them, the kids could end up really bad, or even dead. I saw cases of parents ending the lives of their kids because they ended up having them and hating them (for being born and/or other reasons). Some were pressured to have them, because on the views on abortion. Prevention is best, but not everyone thinks of using it.
@@TeenieYoso-o8h I agree having kids and not wanting them is super sad, and saying it so heartlessly makes me think that the person needs help. But it’s still very normal to not want or have them at all. :]
@@phoenixxmatrixx3769 as a woman who have been trying to get a baby but can't get even after going through all sorts of medical procedure it hurts to see people getting kids and don't want them 😢😢😢
@@DaeneiracornSo the aunt is forced to take them? The aunt has a life to, having to all of a sudden start taking care of kids is going to severely limit her life.
I would take my niece's children and in a heartbeat if anything happened to her. And raise them as my own. I honestly don't know how people can just drop their kids off and not look back. Or if they are even needing just a little help with their children for family members not to step up and be willing to help out in all I have no clue how people do it. My own family is messed up I'm adopted and my Adoptive family is not helpful of whatsoever. The only one in my adoptive family that is helpful and has been there in times that I have needed them is my niece and that's it. We are more like sisters than we are anything else.
Yep. I've believed this for years. I'd rather regret not having them than to regret ever having them. And this is coming from someone who didn't want them for 10 years and then became open to motherhood after I met my husband.
It's unnerving how calm and unbothered she was by that entire case but then it was like a gut punch with how happy she looked standing up. I hope that she never has another kid because holy shit there is something seriously wrong with her.
I was reading the comments, and I was like WHY is nobody talking about this ?! I wonder is she is psychologically alright... I think the judge was wondering the same thing tbh
Oh , l have rejection --- abandon issues from my mom over 43 yr.s now .......she chose a terrible , abusive , " Christian" ( BS). Man over Mr and my sister , ..... I could see he was bad news , l begged her to ditch him ....she not care , l moved. In with my dad and fond out yr.s later other " things ". That happened .....still deal with this , the guilt and pain every day .....she never apologized , or explained it .....just acts like it never happened !!! I missed a trip to Europe with her and sister , because l was the "rebel " who moved out Bec. Of that bastard !!!
@@feliciajohns4148 right she decided after having them!! Some people really need to be thinking before having these kids… This is some shitty mom who is lucky I wasn’t the judge . I would have had a lot more questions to ask like where’s your brain and heart at?!?
My mother did the same thing to myself and my brother. The damage to this women's children will be life long and describable. No one ever gets over not being wanted by a mother/parent. The selfishness in this woman is overwhelming.
my mother sent me to live with my Grandma. The last words she said before I left was "I'll see you in two weeks." That was in 1972. The next time I talked to her was 1991. 19 years. I chewed her out and hung the phone up on her. About a week later I got a phone call from the state police where she was living. She had handcuffed herself to her steering wheel and drove off a pier into a lake. The note that was found in a water tight bag said "I never wanted you anyway" along with my contact information. She obviously was not mentally stable. Looking at this mother, I think the same thing with her.
No one put a gun to her head to bear those kids. If she goofed the first time with the father of her daughter, then she could have been careful with the father of her son. These people have no sense. And took advantage of her sister, and still have the nerve to give her a dirty look towards the end?
The fact the sister wants financial support instead of making the mom take the kids back tell me that she know the kind of person the mother probally is. Glad the aunt have the children.
I was in total shock at this woman cause she is in a world of her own. The children are so, so lucky to have a Aunt who loves them and looks after them. Their mother needs some kinda help.
*SPOILER ALERT* The people in these videos are all actors! So the odd behaviour of the mum was dramatised meaning no need to do any armchair psychiatry.
@@lebowski3767 Evenstill, we don't know as to how far it was dramatises as sometimes that's not even needed. Some people are sick or psychotic & maybe that's hard to even act out, meaning reality might've been even worser. The fact it's based on a real case is disturbing & sad to those involved. It still means there's a family that went to something similar or maybe worse. These kinds of things is not what'd you wish for anyone to go through. People react as imagine this being reality, it's not an impossible reality & in truth it could be way worse in reality.
I was thinking it’s probably best for the kids because, all the stuff lI’ve seen in the news where moms kill their babies! Is prob best for them. You are right
@@melvinawright Dad's? Really now? Mom's a 304. Those dudes probably knocked her up during one of her many drug/alcohol-fueled parties she attended. "Dads" are smart to stay far from this shit. Kids aren't suffering with auntie and getting that trash 304 mother to kick in some funds. Leave it as it is. Them kids already have enough to deal with. "Dads" probably don't even know they have kids by this filthy trash. Why bother them now about it if it wasn't that important to her? It was mentioned in this channels' bio that there are actors involved. Actors or not, this show is about what actually happens and takes place in courtrooms like this all across America and scenarios like this are commonplace. You are seeing what really happens. So reaction is still based. Actor or not, the results were the same with the real people involved.
I too could sense drugs. It is very sad for everyone involved and neglected. I hope she gets clean and you’re definitely right, she should not be involved, not at this time.
Just wanted to tell you, I'm so sorry for your loss. losing a child is the hardest thing to have to go through. I hope you will find peace, be comforted, feel love, and experience joy again in your lives!
So sorry for your loss, but if it lessens your pain any at all, at least is less triggering, the litigants are paid actors. Look at the video again aroubt the 10min 29 second mark and pause to read it. Though this does happen in real life, that not a real mom talking about her kids. I'm so sorry this triggered you. Wish you hope and healing ♥
I’m sorry for your loss. My husband and I lost our son on the 29th of January. He left behind a three year old daughter whom he worshiped. I would have given my life for my son and would do the same for his daughter.
I am absolutely astounded how emotionless the mother was. It was only after judge confirmed when she was supposed to be graduating that you saw any life in her at all. And think the judge read pretty quickly that the kids were way better off staying with the amazing aunt. Even if she did want them I would definitely be concerned about sending them back. Her lack of emotions and care factor in general for her own children has me flawed and speechless
something else is going on. perhaps the mom was on drugs when she had the kids so she truly doesn't want them. She got pregnant when she was strung out, didn't terminate the pregnancy and now she's coping as best she can. Perhaps she was beaten by the father(s) of the kids. I worked at Social Services and once you've done that, it will FLOOR you to find out what's going on underneath the surface.
She definitely acted like something was suppressing her. My first instinct says drugs. I can't otherwise fathom her actions and emotions here. I get wanting a break or vacation from your responsibilities, even parental responsibilities, but "I just don't want them anymore"? That's unacceptable.
None of it's real. It says at the end this is all ficticious. She's not even a judge. She's an attorney and makes these videos with actors based on real cases.
@@dreadpirateroberts5239 they're based on real cases which is still very concerning, because her responses really showed how much she didn't want or care for her kids back
People give their kids up for adoption every single day and thats accepted but when you watch this reenactment everyone freaks out. Only difference is she left the kids with her sister. Not sure how one can be okay in peoples mind as the other is not when they are both the same thing just different in how the parent went about it.
As disturbing as the mother’s indifference and lack of compassion is, I want to acknowledge the aunt’s selfless willingness to keep the children as they could easily become wards of The State if the aunt also decided that she didn’t want to continue caring for them. The mother clearly has mental health issues that aren’t addressed in this case, and the children would be in danger of serious neglect in her care or perhaps worse. My hats off and tremendous respect to the aunt-may she be blessed financially and granted the strength and perseverance she needs to raise her niece and nephew. And I also hope that mother gets the help she needs and is able to heal in the process. Maybe one day her relationship with her children can be reconciled. There is always hope.
I'm sensing sever depression. And people who say kids can't and won't that. Either have support and a perfect little life, or simply never had kids. It's written all over her face that something is wrong. Hell if she commits suicide, I won't be surprised, and most folks will be saying "good riddance" rather then see her side. Where the fucks the father at? He needs to pay that other half, as I would refuse to even do a job after hearing that verdict. It's true, she could have put them for adoption and can still do that I believe. But I get the feeling she was pressured into motherhood by carrying the babies to term.
@@BlackRose85789 i agree. There is a lot of disassociation. I remember being completely disconnected when i was depressed enough. I never stopped caring for my kids but everyone isn't the same. Her vibe is super wierd though. Something is definitely off.
I agree. CLEARLY this so-called "mother" has chosen her boyfriend (which I GUARANTEE YOU is still with her) and her schooling over being a mother. She just said "I don't want to be a mother anymore" and dumped her children off at her sister's house and expected her sister to be Mom now and let her have her life with her new man. I pray these poor children never watch this video and learn how vile and selfish their "mother" is. God bless this auntie for stepping up and protecting them. They SHOULD NOT be with this "Mom" and she absolutely should be made to pay every dime of that $700 for child support.
Unfortunately, I really doubt that mother is going to pay her sister. The way the judge had to keep asking if she understood what was going on really highlighted something being off about her. She'll probably just refuse to pay saying she doesn't have it. The sister will either have to sue to have the mothers wages garnished or do without. It's sad because I'm sure the kids don't understand why this is happening to them.
America must be really expensive. 40k dollars is about 32,000 pounds in the UK which is significantly higher than Minimum wage here. A minimum wage UK wage would be equivalent to about 23k dollars!
@@bbr6444 I could easily pay my mortgage, run a car and go on one holiday a year on about 32k here and still save on a dual income household but we do have the National Health Service which is deducted at source along with income tax here so you lot need to also purchase medical insurance
My mother was a narcissist. We were to be seen and not heard. She told us to NEVER have kids, they run your life, nothing is ever about you again and life sucks. So, my brother and I never had kids.
That woman is creepy; there is something seriously wrong with her, and the children should never go back to someone that dead emotionally. If I were the sister and I loved the children - as she obviously does - I would sue to have them permanently in her custody for their protection. Anyone who has that little regard for her responsibilities - and her children - could easily open them up to all kinds of harm and/or abuse, if not at her hands at the hands of others.
LMAO "Are you ok?" I was wondering the same thing the whole time. She definitely seems a bit off, and I think the sister knows more than what she's telling.
Totally agree, There is something really wrong with that woman. She is almost totally devoid of emotions and the ones she does show are weird and inappropriate. The way she smiled at the end really creeped me out.
Her affect is completely off and it is as if she's in a permanent comma/stupor and couldn't care less. I'm hoping they really make it big with the help of her lovely sister..what a disgrace to motherhood!😱😱
No it's not, I don't don't kids. Do you have any idea how many people have tried to shame me if this choice. I have faced discrimination because of this.
its not even a matter of wanting them, she created them and is required to taken care of the. She simply lacks responsibility which is a poor character trait of hers.
This is what happens when an undiagnosed sociopath has children. They lose interest and pawn them off on relatives, or sometimes strangers. Like fucking hamsters.
This is why women should be able to get their tubes tied regardless of how many kids they have and how old they are. Less kids would be born into families that don't want them.
I only found this channel only on Saturday. and I'm so broken. I knew people in my Country have been doing this for years, but I didn't know AMERICANS are doing this. The attitude of the women, mostly, is so egregious. I watched quite a few episodes, and, the one where the new wife came to court in lieu of the man, and asked the judge why must her husband pay for his kid with the ex. I was floored. Ended up almost like $1500 +. And, I love ❤ this judge, Vonda. She sees right through the nonsense.
Try not seeing or talking to you 6 year old son since he was 6 months. Thats how long my boyfriend and i have had custody of our son. I dont have bio kids of my own but damn kids need love and attention its not that hard. I have helped raise two nephews that are grown now and a son now. I did it when i was 18 i use to love to go party and everything but when my brother got custody of his sons i knew right then and there my party days were over because they need me more
This woman needs help. She does not seem too present at all. In fact the most emotionless person I have ever seen. We need to pray for these kids and their aunt.
The “mom” didn’t seem too upset about all of this. Just have the sister adopt the kids and be done with the mom. Ohh, why isn’t the one dad helping out financially? Does he know what’s going on??
If the sister adopts them then she won’t be entitled to support from the parents. It’s better for her to have legal custody until she’s in a better place financially
Tina, WTF are you talking about? If the "smart" sister were to adopt both kids then the "real" mom would not have to pay child support. Also, no where in the video did the "smart" one even mention adoption as a possibility. Just maybe she does not want long term kids either. I just wonder what family dinners are going to be like during the holidays in 10 to 15 years from now.
The biological mother seems so disconnected from her children that I'm wondering if there are any existing psychological issues. (My first thought was drug use due to delayed reactions and responses, as well as inappropriate smiles.) The only time she showed any emotion is when the judge set the amount of child support at $700/month, she seemed to wake up then! But whatever the underlying issues are, it's definitely in the children's best interest to be raised by someone who actually loves them, not sees them as a burden. Pay your child support, woman, and be thankful that you have a sister who is willing to take on your responsibilities.
Postpartum depression can hit years later, could be a cause for the disconnect. Or she could’ve even got it after the youngest and then never got treated so it’s a lingering issue. Whatever the case, those kids are better off with their aunt
Not everyone is meant to be a parent. When someone is obviously not in the headspace for it, pay attention. This is what makes people straight up disappear or do something even more heinous.
“I don’t want to have kids.” Lady, you already have kids. This is the statement someone makes BEFOFE they have kids when they are deciding to leave a childfree life (like me 🙋🏾♀️).
I honestly feel like she might be struggling with depression or some sort of mental health issue. Her sister is defending her and saying it’s easier for her, so she might know something that’s hard for her sister to share.
That's an optimistic way of seeing the situation. Clearly there is something going on. It is also clear that her sister loves her. I hope and pray, as a Christian, that whatever principality is at work here will be addressed and broken so they will all be healed. The Lord says, “Can a woman forget her nursing child, And not have compassion on the son of her womb? Surely they may forget, Yet I will not forget you. See, I have inscribed you on the palms of My hands; Your walls are continually before Me." Isaiah 49:15- 16 NKJV
I know she is an awful mother but I also think she did the next best thing for those kids... Being raised by someone that very clearly did not want you around is.... A lot.
She’s selfish and inconsiderate. I’m sorry but if my sister did that I would return to sender. She opened her damn legs and decided to have the children but now she doesn’t want to be a mother anymore so she selfishly dumps her kids off with her and and says I don’t make enough money to pay child support. I don’t think so. That is crazy 😜
I can't understand how someone can carry a child for nine months Xs 2 and then decide they don't want the kids anymore. It's hard for any mother to process the responses coming from this woman's mouth. Thank goodness her sister has a kind and loving heart. I believe this mother was in some type of accident and injured her head.
Im with the judge. But at same time the karma will hit 100 x worse those kids will not call her mom she will see them grown and looknat her like a stranger. Belive me. My aunt is my mother far as im concernd im 28 and look at my birth mother like a total stranger.
@@MayTheOddsBeInYourFavor Yes, thats actually the case. Theres so many statistics that verify that such as the median american wage being 20.17/hr, nearly 15% of children in the US dont have food security (meaning they dont have reliable access to nutrition), over 20% of american renters, and growing, are behind on their rent, the amount of people becoming homeless increasing about 19% in the last couple years...Theres a lot of statistics point to the average american living paycheck to paycheck, which also isnt something new to the last few years
@@thaloblue Yeah, duh. That’s why I said it. The average American is fucked. I don’t even know if 40k counts as LIVING paycheck to paycheck so much as limping along
This younger sister became an instant mom from one day to the next. Her life completely changed from one second to the next. This young lady isn't the aunt anymore, she officially became a young mom out of nowhere. She's not only lovely & beautiful, but she's a hero. A hero doesn't always wear a cape. My aunt took me in out of nowhere back in the days, so I can relate to the children.
If I had to wager a guess: the mother was feeling overwhelmed by work and school and decided to drop the kids off with her sister for a while to have a break. During this break she was dating some guy (had time for that) and felt like her life was so much easier without kids, hence she didn’t come back. Maybe she’s right in dropping them off. It may be she recognized she’s a terrible mother. Still owes money to her sister regardless.
She can’t give any money for her children because she needs it for her schooling. What’s bizarre about that is her saying that in court as if that’s a legitimate reason for not supporting her children. Something’s not right there and the children wouldn’t be safe with her. Bless their aunt for being willing to take them, but hopefully she won’t have a problem getting the money out of her sister, but I think there’s more trouble ahead where the support is concerned.
@@ASH_ketchum_99 what's wrong with being "emotionless"? Society gives women the blues about their emotions. Women and their hormones, women and hysteria, women can't lead or be logical due to their emotions, etc. Yet, when a woman is as you described, it's still a negative. Why is that? 😐
This is someone saying “I just don’t want kids anymore”. There’s a lot she’s not saying. I’m sure it has a lot to do with her mental status and she felt her kids were best with her sister. As hard as it is to understand, we’d all be judging this woman if she neglected her kids or harmed them in any sort of way and saying “if she didn’t want them why didn’t she just give them to someone who did”. This decision potentially saved these kids’ lives
The audacity of this women to say she doesn’t want her children and that paying for school is more of a priority then helping financially for her kids ?! Out of control
The whole ending gave me chills. Something’s wrong with her for sure. She seems empty almost suicidal. She’s definitely hiding behind her job. It’s something bigger to this with her I can feel it.
Her job is to portray a mother on TV, I read the disclaimer at the end of the video and these are all fictitious stories. Vonda B isn't even a judge smh
I watch Judge V for entertainment & educational value but once in a while I'll see a sad case like this & forget these are re-enactments with good actors. I think Ms. Vonda is running for Judge in a Texas city. As of yet there has been no results. Maybe it's because I'm a Texan but I find these case episodes enlightening.
My grandsons mom did the same thing to me. I took him in when he was 8 and raised him. She NEVER gave me anything to help support him. He is such a smart child. He graduated from high school then enlisted in the military.
What she shoulda said is, "I'm not sure you're ok. I think we need a psychological evaluation before I issue my final ruling." Be afraid, be very afraid.
This mother’s detachment is unbelievable. And yet, it’s probably safer for the kids she isn’t in their lives. The judge’s composure in this situation is commendable. If I was sitting there in her seat, I’d make that mother pay a lot more money for support than what she’s being required to pay.
Never sign the birth certificate or child support papers and never adopt another mans child. Never allow a single women or a single mom with a child move into the home you own. Never get engaged to a women who said that she would never sign a prenup before the marraige.
That was my only thought - imagine being her children KNOWING their mother doesn't want to raise them. She seems high as a kite and has vacant eyes... I think they are better off with their loving Aunt!
I doubt that they didn't even really get a chance to know their mom. They will always know auntie is their true mom. They might be furious at her behavior though. But heartbroken isn't likely
I hope when these kids grown up and it's graduation day they definitely thank their aunt and tell her "you're our real mom!" Btw when Judge Vonda B said "I need to hear this." I lost it 🤣💀
Love the sister wonderful woman....amazing woman, as a single dad of an 11 yr old the moms attitude boggles my brain and crushes my heart for those kids. Sis saves the day tho and all praise due to her
Man, there is something definitely wrong with the mother! 😱 It's like she didn't fully grasp anything that was going on! 🤔 I still don't believe she thinks she's going to have to pay $700 a month to her sister! 😲
“I just didn’t wanna have kids” MAAM they’re 4 and 7. It’s a bit late for that! 🤦🏽♀️ Much respect to the aunt for saving those children. Can’t imagine where they would be if she wasn’t there to pick up the pieces.
She makes me so mad. Did she really think she'd just get to toss her kids to her sister and then be all "WEEEE! No kids! I'm free!!" Like... no sis, you still gotta pay for these kids, if you didn't want kids in the first place, you should've either been on birth control or told their dads' to wrap it up. You had them kids and you don't get to go scott-free just because you dropped them off with your sister. Now you gotta pay for them and no, "I don't make enough" isn't an excuse 🙄
Honestly this mom is a total A$$/e,dumping her kids on her sister and saying going to night school is her priority and she cannot afford to give her money.the aunt is great for keeping the little ones and not putting them into the system.good on the judge for telling her she needs to pay for her kids.
I COMPLETELY understand needing a small break from small children! It is exhausting. But never in my wildest imagination would I have wanted to give away my children. Thank heavens for this sister!!!
I thought the same thing the entire time. DEFINITELY do not give those children back until the biological mother has been seen by a psychologist or LCSW.
I saw this yesterday and was in shock. It seemed like the children's mother couldn't understand what the problem was and said she couldn't afford to pay her sister child support. She suddenly decided she didn't want children but wanted to further her career instead? Unbelievable.
As an aunt currently caring for my teenage nephew in addition to my own two teenagers I feel this woman's plight. It really is expensive to care for a child not your own when you're not receiving help from their parent(s). I hope that birth giver (because mother is not something I'd call her) grows up and realizes what she's missing. You can't relive your children's childhoods. If you miss it, you miss it. And they'll resent you the rest of their lives for it.
@@rhiannondelarosa8675you deserve to get child support for your nephew. Please take it to court. There are lawyers that will work pro bono (aka for free).
I have 2 young kids and I can't imagine having to give them up. She doesn't look like she is feeling anything for them, it is heartbreaking. They are at least lucky to have a loving aunt who wants to care for them.
Judge, you are an awesome person 👏👏👏 I have no idea how you manage to be so patient. There is something wrong with this lady, you were right asking if she was ok. It would be better if she got a psych evaluation
Auntie please keep the children. Mom definitely doesn’t want them and if she gets them back, there’s no telling where they’ll end up. You’re already a great MOMTIE! Blessings to you and both children.
At least she gave them to her sister who loves them and didn't kill them. I commend her on being honest and keeping them alive to grow up. Yes it's bad but also a silver lining in the end. Just pay the child support and maybe 1 day she will do better
I don't believe she's going to pay her wonderful sister any child support. I'm glad she said how she feels on camera and the judge let her have it. The kids will see that she's selfish so they know it wasn't their fault she walked away from them for a man. I'm glad he dumped her like she dumped her kids.
That was exactly what was going through head also, this might seem bad but instead of those kids leaving with a monster, they better off with her sister.
u can’t just have kids and then decide to drop them off to someone else. she had TWO if this wasn’t discussed beforehand that’s unfair and irresponsible
no when she meets a new man who love kids she will use them as bargins or when life gets tough she will go find the kids to take care of her...definiation of letting her off the hook and using the sisiter as a door mat. terrible.
This is insanity! I live in a town I hate, working 70+ hours a week in 100°+ weather everyday all for my kids. My kids are my reason for everything! This lady doesn't deserve to be breathing the same oxygen as the rest of us
You said it correctly cause I will do the same thing for my son she needs to be locked up she doesn’t deserve her children I wish her all the best she could care less about her children fashion can’t be that serious somebody needs to get her some help hopefully she misses a payment cause she needs a WAKE UP 🤬🥺
No she should of just put them up for adoption...she probably don't even know she can do that....there's nothing wrong with wanting to focus on yourself
Exactly, but if you read all these comments alot not all but some ppl want to give her a pass stating mental health issues, maybe she's just a bad person. Yea women can be bad ppl too, and selfish 🤦
As an aunt currently adopting my nephew, my heart breaks for these precious babies-thinking about how they’ll see video of their mother saying she just didn’t want them anymore is going to cause them so much sadness and confusion. 😔
I saw a mom bragging about how she called CPS on herself because she said she was done with them. It made me angry and I hope her kids never come across that video.
It's definitely going to hurt them, but they should be glad & grateful she at least managed to entrust them to their aunt. Maybe their mother silently died the day she dropped them off & they can tell this is no longer their mom, at least not the one they were familiar with if she was very involved & caring before, but dang this is still painful, scary & heartbreaking.💔😭