The fear of aging and all the crazy surgeries some people do to prevent that. Like remove/tighten the skin on your hand/neck/feet to make it look younger. like everything that’s above the „standard“ and not often talked about.
How lesbians are being treated in the lgbt community, especially now with all the inclusionists. We're often forgotten by our own community while at the same time having to deal with Homophobia and straight men viewing us as a fetisch. Straight men STILL see us as just a fetishis and treats us like that's all we are. Straight women still treat us like we're creeps while saying they want a gay man as their best friend, they treat us like we're predatory when we're not just existing. As I said, it's not uncommon for us to be forgotten by our own community as they always label us as wlw(when they're specifically talking about lesbians, not including bi girls since wlw is an umbrella term) and ignoring our specific history.
Nah, there is so much other Medical needs that women need, more studies on cervical cancer, pcos , breast cancer, hormone issues, menopause, Infertility and so many others. So many medical issues that need to be covered by Insurance but these people get free medical procedures that cost millions. It's really unfair.
Listen lady, you were gorgeous before and you are still gorgeous post op. So sorry you woke up before feelingmlike you were living in someone else's body. It must have been hell. I hope you feel happier now.
SH BT So, you’re telling me you’d rather spend your entire life absolutely hating yourself and body just because some imaginary man in the sky said so?
Quran 31:34 'Indeed, Allah has knowledge of the Hour and sends down the rain and knows what is in the wombs. And no soul perceives what it will earn tomorrow, and no soul perceives in what land it will die. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted.'
SH BT I don’t see why y’all preach the word of go yet waste your time hating on Others life choices. It’s pretty hypocritical of you to judge and hate when the man who you sya died for your sins had experience the same hate you show on to others God is the only one that judges so for you to hate on others is doing nothing but shaming the word of god
She looked feminine before, but the surgery really brought it out so i can see how the small changes really work together. hoping her other surgeries go well too ^^
I think it might've been the hormones that caused the softening of the face so to speak. For some though, it's not enough, especially when it comes to in place bone structures. I agree though, she looks more feminine than I do as a cis gendered woman.
@@mikaylarockwell9171 * you're * transphobic. Like I said, she was already pretty to begin with. * you're* just mad because she was born prettier than you are now.
She said don’t you dare tell me what to do or to be I don’t remember, but you get my point stop!! giving all this damn negative comments, her life her choice her body, period.
If its her life, her choice why the hack it is on youtube with comments enabled. No one cares to give feedbacks on your life, unless you put it on display.
Starr 2020 and no one gives a fuck about what you think literally who asked u dumb ass bitch always wanting people to hear ur opinions no one gives a FUCK about you and she is a female, not a man.
Julie Brossart thats why ur old as fuck and ugly as fuck look at u smiling with those wooden teeth fucking transphobic ass bitcch what do u get from this ... just let people live no one gives a fuck about what U think fr.. u saying that being transgender is a mental illness is so rude. stupid bitch ughh i hate white people
Ville Kotilehto Go fuck yourself. Would you call someone with PTSD a delusional person because of flashbacks? Both Gender Dysphoria and PTSD are mental illnesses and if you say one is VERY invalid your feeding into the idea that mental illnesses make a monster.
@@villekotilehto8890 yeah we know, but its what they want to be called, its just respecting their wishes before they die, kinda like every one else, nobody likes being told theirs no god, and so why should you or we tell them their not male or female
Jacob Cannon wrong these people are never happy next she'll have her but did then get bigger breast then more work on her face and so on and so until eventually they kill themselves... And wih a 40% suicide rare i dont think you can really argue with me.
Joshua Sullivan "these people" are not just people. They're part of MY community. I know PLENTY of trans men and women. Yes there are some who get lots of surgery. But so do cis straight women. There are plenty of biological women who go overboard, and honestly the cis women probably have more work done because they're able to fund it better than 90% of trans women. Most trans girls turn to illegal black market silicone and getting pumped with other unsafe materials then end up getting badly disfigured or worse, death.
Really not trying to hate but I think her face looks plastic and weird now. Before her face looked more natural. Idk if she is doing HR therapy but if so she should have given it a little more time, her features would have softened up and her natural face would be a show stopper.
I can't imagine someone would want to be us as female 😱 we get time of d month, period pain is real, we have to have nice figure nice hair no body hair u name it the list goes on! For male, one bar of soap plus deodorant u good to go 😂😂😂😂
I think what the doc said was great. I feel like not enough people, especially younger people that are trans and have to deal with body dismorphia have not had someone (especially the actual doctor) tell them what he said; that basically 'you're young and have all the time in the world' that's there no rush; because there's been many people that will go to drastic and unsafe measures to get things done ; it should always be safety and comfortability first. But on a similar note, I'm so happy to see a video like this and to know her journey is going well.
When I was growing up plastic surgery was frowned upon. We were taught to accept ourselves for who we are. children are now taught to turn themselves into who they think they are... its disgusting to see.
It’s hard for me to understand why any man would want to transition toward being a woman because we, women, so very often get the short end of the stick on everything. We are viewed as prey, turned into objects, paid less, worked harder, charged more, denied many things, trivialized, not listened to or taken seriously, and then, there are the relational hardships. It’s a man’s world still, and too slowly changing. So why you’d want to be one of us is hard to grasp, though I welcome true solidarity from wherever and whomever it comes from. Meanwhile the surgery came out amazing. I would never think that she had started life as a male. Quite amazing. Very sweet person too, seeking happiness and inner peace & harmony.
well, because she is a woman.. she didn't transition just because she felt like it or something like that(i hope this can make sense lmao), she transitioned because that's who she is inside, because that's her actual identity. man my english sucks, and i really dont know how to explain it but i hope this could make sense to you, i hope someone can come here and explain a bit better haha.
Liz prettier. But more confident you could tell she was so much happier but I thought she was beautiful to start really. I am not done yet. (Also I am not correcting you this is my opinion.
It’s not her job to explain to people why she chooses to do what she does, but I love how eloquently she explains it to everybody. Wishes u the best for ur life, my love. 💗
My god. Yall black people are so proud when You See someone of your color as a doctor or someone with a better job than You. You guys always talk about how black guys have the bigger balls and dicks. And if Like to say no.
@@n7r614 what are you blabbing about lmaoo. are you mad cause the doctor look better than you? nobody mentioned race or black people but you cause youre obviously obsessed with black people and they live in your head rent free.. dont get mad cause people or uplifting their own. youre giving bitter and hater
am i the only person who sees her more pretty at the beginning? but im like at this point where i know that the most important thing is how she views herself and it is really good that she was happy at the end
My Brother is a gay doctor and my Father is a doctor. Mad respect for you’re Doctor while saying, “ If I feel we need to stop; then we gonna stop”❣️ Congratulations on your beautiful journey🌈
@@ranneadams5624 I don't really think it's a phobia since weren't exactly "afraid" of them. It's just that we got a culture that's against a lot of things. In my case, I don't judge or criticize them, I'm not God to be doing that. That's why I'm against those who literally try to kill them, it isn't just their right to decide who can live and who shouldn't. And I just respect and love the others as hard as I can. But deep inside, since I grew up with a certain education, there's a lot of stuffs that my heart can't "endorse". But even considering that, we should never hate on the others because of their preferences and instead spread love and pray for the world. That's how I see it.
@@Karen_La_Patalicorne "Phobia" doesn't necessarily mean "fear". It can also mean prejudice and hate towards someone or a community. And even if the meaning wasn't literal, the word TRANSPHOBIA is defined by prejudice and hate towards trans people. So yeah, it's not a "phobia" as an anxiety disorder (like arachnophobia, claustrophobia...) but more of hate. The same applies to homophobia, biphobia, etc. Hope this helps!
She was already gorgeous before but the work that was done looks amazing! I’m glad that platforms like refinery29 exists so that all women are able to have place to express their journey freely. 😘
Refinery29 oh yeah, I’ve pretty much have been in the know about you guys since the companies inception. Read your articles and on your site daily. lol I love you guys, safe to say I’m obsessed!
Provenia Evermi Did you even watch the video ignorant? The first thing SHE said is “I identify myself as a trans WOMAN of color.” You’re the worthless piece of shit not respecting what pronouns SHE identifies with.
@Provenia Evermi Psychology is an instresting thing and when people give distructive criticism its usually says something about them and not the person they're talking to, if you want help with self confidence theres a lot of videos that can help you here in this platform, dont worry about it girl 👍
I don’t think anyone is telling her who to be. But rather, at some point she has to have inner peace with herself and not constantly finding things to change appearance wise.
I have a honest question. Do all these surgeries help with her, as she called "transnorexia"? Because it sounds like a psycological problem that she's treating externally, with extremely invasive and painful surgeries
Well, if you say so. People should do whatever they feel like it's going to make them happy. I just feel sorry for her, for feeling like she has to go through such awful procedures to feel better.
Jaden Yager these people are never happy, next she'll have her but did then get bigger breast then more work on her face and so on and so on. Sad but true....
I don't have that heavy of a body dysmorphia, but I know what it feels to still see the person you were in the mirror even though you see how you've changed in pictures. I can't imagine how it would feel to have this feeling towards your whole self.
They really did her dirty honestly. Her face looked great beforehand and I could see working on the jaw/ chin some and the hairline but they did a LOTTT and it honestly has kinda... the opposite affects. Its almost more masculine in the outcome than before. I didn't think they would do so much that wasn't needed :/ But then again shes happy with it..I just hope she doesn't look back later on and see what we see and how insanely modified they made her for no reason.
@@Aphixella out of the, some 10 gender transition related surgeries i had over the past 2 or 3 years, id have to say that bottom surgery & FFS were certainly the most impactful 🙂 THANK YOU ❤️💛💚
True. One cannot truly know how that feels, but colloquially, when one says they "feel like a woman", it's to be understood that they feel feminine and they align with an identity that is one of a regular woman. No one can wholly know exactly how it is to be in someone's mind, though.
i completely get what ur saying, but like put it this way, say if u had ur brain put into a males body, u would feel female, bc thats how ur brain is coordinated to think, its tge same for this woman and the actual condition she has is called gender dysphoria, her brain developed differently to her body and so she feels female idk do u get me
Not really sure what mansplaining is. Just trying to provide clarity. If one doesn't like my opinion, they have every right to ignore and move on, or they can listen. Their choice. It's your prerogative to take it or leave it. All the best! :)
This isn't me trying to disrespect the trans community in any way I promise. I only wish happiness and good health for everyone, but I want to educate myself and learn. I've always been a bit confused as to what makes this different from other body dysphorias or mental health conditions. For example, you wouldn't let someone with anorexia make their body appear how they would like it to. How do we know this feeling of not feeling comfortable in their body's biological sex isn't similar to other disorders where treatment is the right option to be healthy and feel happy, since I have heard of people detransitioning. I really mean no hate or harm, I would just like to be educated as I am interested in psychology!
👍🏽 I can't wait for my surgeries. I'm so happy for her. Being A woman of Trans experience can be difficult but we have to be strong and fight for what we need to feel complete.
Are you referring to the way mental health professionals encourage those with gender dysphoria to get surgery while they discourage those with body dysmorphia from getting any physical changes? I’m guessing the reason is because everyone tells cis people “beauty is subjective”. One cannot always trust the beauty standards of another person. By contrast gender is not subjective. There are scientifically defined references between males and females. Professionals know more about what to do to make a man into a woman or vice versa. 80% of people may call Jessica Alba beautiful. But everyone can agree Arnold Schwarzenegger is way too masculine to look like a woman. Mental health professionals don’t trust their beauty standards so they just tell cis people to “accept themselves”. I’m guessing they don’t want more people looking like botched ken dolls.
Honestly, she had a female's face prior to the surgery, absolutely beautiful and now she looks a bit unnatural and drag like. Though I feel that she may never be happy until she starts to truly love the inside and who she is. Either way she's beautiful and I'm glad she's accomplishing things that she's wanted done. That itself is a huge achievement and milestone and I congratulate her for that, not many people have the courage to go and do what makes them happy because of what others may think. We can't let others view and opinions define us, only we know who we are. Do what makes you happy and always stay true to yourself. We only have ourself and one life to live. I wish her luck and the best with her next goal. 💕
I've seen that with others. Prettier before the surgery. And voice is now raspy and deep after that surgery. Insurance pays 250k meanwhile your mom is denied cancer treatment
S O I should have clarified what I meant in the first one, sorry about that. I ended up doing research of my own, mu comment didn’t have all the facts. Let me explain what I meant to say in the first one. DNA changes may be a possible feat in the next 100 to 200(or less) years, but that means for now it’s pretty much impossible. By a sex change I mean the alteration of what’s on the birth certificate. It’s possible to change the sex on the BC(birth certificate) if you pay the right amount. It’s not a smart financial decision, but oh well. I still do stand by my opinion that if someone wants to go by He or She pronouns, we should try and be respectful in the right circumstances. If someone wants to go by They or Them, I’m not in any real position to judge, but I can only remind them that there are only two genders.
@@Nothinghereismeallisnot Its impossible to make the changes. The only change is cosmetics. Yet out of "respect" we have to play along with their fantasy. Women have periods get pregnant, have naturally occurring boobs, go through meno. I understand not all do, but 99.99% do. I find it unreasonable and highly disrespectful to call any man a women who won't ever go thru any of those physical pains real women go thru
S O I get what you mean, I really do, but not all women have periods and can carry children. Some women are born infertile and have medical conditions that prevent periods. With the respect part, I still stand by that for one reason. I am an atheist, and yet I still stand by and have respect for Christians, Muslims, etc., all of which have vastly different religions than me. Me being an atheist, I do not think that god is real, and I think that he’s a fictional character. I have to respect the fantasy that Christians and Muslims have for God and Alah
If I put on a giraffe outfit and tell people that I feel like one, does that make me a real giraffe, or just a man in a giraffe costume with a mental illness?
@@bestestAJ lol. Transitioning has already been proven NOT to fix it, but instead leads to higher rates of suicide. Also, thank you for proving my point. It is a mental illness, so instead of celebrating it, let see more psychiatric help offered to these poor confused individuals. A man cannot be a woman and a woman cannot be a man. Simple biology. They can dress up, take hormones, but will always be the sex they were born with regardless of how they feel. Again, I can feel like I'm a giraffe, but I will never actually be a giraffe.
This is quite literally my dream job of almost 10 years now. I absolutely cannot wait to do facial reconstructive surgery, specifically for trans girls!! 💕
So if I “ feel like a dog trapped in a humans body what would you have to say if had to say I’m a 150 year old man trapped in a 19 year old body would u agree with me ?
To me, it sounds more like a person who is confused, depressed or suffering from a mental illness rather than being a woman in a man's body. If multiple genders is a reality then these people should be accepted exactly as they are . Without any need for surgery . Suicide is almost as high among transitioned people as people before. This, for me, shows that physical change is not the answer .
To these people it is all about you feelings even if you change you face your genitals your body will never be one of the other gender now Matter how hard you try. To your gene structure you are what you are born with and nothing can change that
So awesome to see the change in the look in her eyes after. Regardless of how you might feel about trans people or anyone else in the LGBTQI+ community its beautiful seeing somenone living their life how they see themselves. 💙💗
No because it's funny, to me at least, some may find it offensive, I for one am transgender, I'm using my old RU-vid account because I can, it's the one I use mainly anyway
Excellent surgery results in that there is *no* major difference. Instead it is a softened effect like you went on a very relaxing vacation. *CONFIDENCE* The finest of all accessories🤗
He did much better with her enhancements than he did with Angela Deems.. Imust say this woman is gorgeous and I hope she gets to feel the way she wants n deserves.
I think this lady is so beautiful. Before her op & after. I hope she feels proud of what she has achieved as I think it's brave. I wish her all the best & a happy life 😍
Things have changed so much. In the early Seventies, in one particular program, one had to already look like a woman and also had to have lived as a woman for two years to be considered for what was then called sex reassignment surgery. Also a few years of psychological therapy, both group and individual, was required
