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narc energy when they know that someone is happy/moved on, they always try and “hang on” or show attention to the person to keep them in the loop... always got a dodgy energy from this guy
Damn people here YEARS ago telling him leave it alone & then she makes a video now in 2022! DECEMBER 2022 !!! And he’s still hitting her up!!? What a weirdo. Talk about “the one that got away” sheeeesh 🤦🏻♀️
Why are you still giving a brief relationship from your past power? Let it go man. And for goodness sake don't get re-involved in a bad thing. "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt.
I don't think from what he says that it's not so much giving the brief relationship power,as the trauma it caused him on a large scale that has power. People think only people like soldiers can experience PTSD,but that's not true. If the trauma you have suffered is sufficiently bad for you then it can happen. I hope he is not considering sitting down and discussing this with her though. That would not be beneficial at all. She seems really unstable and still too this day seems that way.
dude reminds me of when i have nothing to write so i start going round in circles to make the essay sound longer and then forgetting my point and none of it even making sense😂 look it's been so long, why are you still making videos about her. move on! so what she text you. you don't need to come to the internet to talk about it if it's already over and done with. i know this video was uploaded 2 years ago but just don't give it any thought anymore . she's happy and has a kid, fiancé and pregnant with her second child. don't bother her or make videos about it. the beef is gone. go live your life man
he dated & manipulated/emotionally abused this other youtuber like two years ago. she’s moved on and even pregnant now, but it seems like he’s still caught up in it all.
17 mins about nothing .... Okay you feel traumatized, we got it and I am not sayin' that it should not be taken seriously BUT the majority of the video you were repeating yourself over and over and over again... It has been 2 years .. I think it is a lot of time to think about yourself and analyse what had gone wrong but also what you have done wrong and improve it .. however, I got feeling from this video that you just try to do the victim of the situation ... The fact that you use the screenshot of DM as a thumbnail... like really? .... like a child to only get a views ... I am sorry, I do not say that you cannot defend yourself but ... do it in some order ... because everything you said in 17 mins, I would have cut into 5-6 minutes ...
You come to understand the older you get there are some relationships you go through and realize it's time to move on. You experience life and also grow as a person.
Crazy i'm watching this because i understand where you are coming from because i was in your shoes not too long ago and same situation with an ex (different scenerios). I was driving myself crazy because my ex tried reaching out to me to but he was not able to get in contact since i had him blocked & i did not want to hear it. He has his own family. 2 months ago i reached out because there was a message i needed to send to him and it was explaining how things went and i made my PEACE & have moved on. Wether he saw it or not i'm good now! You made your peace but it is time to move on & wish the other nothing but peace, health & blessings. You'll get yours one day right now you're coming at peace with a chapter in your life to start a new one.
Honestly I don't even care who did what and who's to blame and who is God forbid who is an "evil monster", I'm just so tired of this drama. Both of you gotta move on.
As a long time follower jarl, let go of her. For your own sanity and mental health. You have grown sooo much as a person and as a personality since what happened and to go back to that darker part of your life could end up messy. Coming from a friend (that you’ve never met or have any idea even exists but a friend regardless) seeing you be essentially “attacked” was heartbreaking to watch, you are such a bright, outgoing and loving person and the fact that you got cancelled even when you weren’t in the wrong breaks me. Love you Jarl, please just for your own good stay away from that, stay happy and healthy.😊❤️
I would recommend using this time to pause, reflect, heal, and move on. Age can mature someone but it's not going to change who they are at heart. You have an old soul and need to surround yourself with genuine people. ♡
Jarl, I have been a long term follower and I witnessed all the crap that went down with this and saw what it did to you. My advice, move on, never go back. I truly believe she is messing with your head and you don't need it. Find someone new that makes you happy. Move on. Your not a bad person, I honestly believe in you. She is not the one for you.
So I see this DM was a message from a friend a closure in to get things out of the way in clear the air of any unnecessary buildup I see so best of luck getting over that hurdle and moving forward with the rest of your blogs and videos
We don't always have to comment our thoughts. No one can comprehend what he is going through. He was put under a microscope a lots of lies were added to his persona .
It's quite insane how much you can learn about someone in just a few minutes on youtube. A friend of mine told me she likes Simplynessa15 on youtube and I didn't know who that was tbh. So I looked her up and saw your face on the search page- unrelated I thought at first. Then I watched your Harry Styles video and thought you were super funny, energetic, and chill. So I subbed! I then circled back to nessa because that was my original query. After a few clicks on her channel I find that I'm 2 years late to RU-vid drama that has since been put to bed (at least I think so). And what sucks so bad is that I want to support you both separately because you have engaging content, but the views don't match. You're absolutely right that people who discover you from this point on will at one point or another question the incidents involving you, nessa, and fei. There are 3 sides to the story- Yours, Hers, and the truth. And while none of us in the audience will ever truly know, the damage has since been done. I don't expect a response to my super late and lengthy comment- i'm a suuuuper small youtuber who enjoys watching other creators is all. But, I do hope that you are still working on better content, healthier choices, and even if you did do those things i'm pragmatic enough to understand that people grow and change. The internet however, never forgets. And Lastly, I'm just hoping for your own mental health and well being that you do not fall apart from all of this. I say that because I've noticed that you've been silent on here and IG. I'm not saying I don't believe her side. And I'm not saying that I don't believe yours. I actually am just trying to be impartial and share some sympathy as kindly and sincerely as possible. Take Care.
A lot of us have gone through similar experience. As humans it is in our nature to make mistakes and learn from them. Don't worry about the past. As far as my knowledge goes we cannot go back. Don't worry about what others think. Their opinions matter only if we let them. Only you know who you really are.
It's in the past, sweetie - don't let it take charge of your present life You have grown so much in the 2 yrs since all this happened and you don't have to excuse ANYTHING! to the rest of us. We are on the sidelines of your life and do not need to know the details. Being you; in focus, as a RU-vidr will always be easy pickings for some people. DO NOT get caught up in the bullshit, the rest of us are still here, we support you, we enjoy watching life through your eyes and hope that you are okay. Stay safe - knuz fra Danmark 🇩🇰
one minute he's back then its awhile till he makes another video its sad we don't get weekly videos anymore. More of you would be nice. hope your doing good please make a video soon
Much love jarl you motivated me to grow my hair out... Went from no hairstyle ugly random hair to looking amazing and actually being able to have a clean hairstyle😂 really appreciate it bro!
You were going to say “you as a normal person” when referring to cancel culture and it being the worst thing that can happen 🤣. I’ll just go tell my best friend who was hit by a drunk driver and now has permanent brain damage...it could be worse. She could be internet important and “cancelled” 🙄. Your inflated sense of self importance is borderline buddy. Keep an eye on that!
Stay strong brother 🤙🏼 no one should ever judge you. People weren’t there to see both sides of the story and you shouldn’t judge a person based on someone’s opinion. It sucks that some people only go off of what one person says
@@SpiritLopRabbitry what evidence I’d there that her “proof” was authentic and not tampered with? Anyone can edit and manipulate txts, screenshots, voice calls and zoom calls. It all comes down to how well you know the person. I’ve been following Jarl for about 5 years now and can tell he’s a genuine and humble dude, but anyways you are entitled to your opinion as am I. So it’s in the past no need to try to cancel people. Just do you and live life to the fullest and stop the hate and negativity! Positive vibes only please! I hope you have a great day and keep making choreography videos 🤙🏼
@@olegboomin Vanessa isn’t the only girl who has came out and said this. There is another RU-vidr as well who knew jarl and jarl tried to clout chase them too. Just cause you watched him for 5yrs doesn’t mean you know him. You know his persona. These woman personally knew him.
My advice to you is don't waste your time looking back because you are not going that way. Try to forget about her. Find someone from Norway so there is not gonna be a language barrier and any cultural differences neither. Not at all but most girls are like that, I guess she couldn't find anyone love her the way you love her and she ended up writing you again. Stick to the beautiful norwegian girls and never let somebody to use you. Decision is yours..
Hello Jarl, People are going to believe what they want.to believe. Truth unfortunately is relative. Don't open this can of worms no good will come from it. Let it die on it's own don't fan the flames. People hate you for other reasons, your young, your handsome. And your making your dreams happen. Don't stress it.
I love that you have the power to sit down and talk honestly about things that are going on in your life or bothering you with your viewers. We might not be able to help you straight away, but we do support you!👏
I follow you I think for years now even befor HER and you bring a little sunshine to my life every time I see your content. I could nevet believe that you could do shit like that, I new you from your videos obvy but your not like that and Im sad that people see you that way, 'cause nobody should feel like that for something he/she didn' t do also happy that you were able to past that and standing up for yourself... I hope one day I can see you in person and tell you how you changed my life, after a horrible brakeup. This place is a happy place hope you get better amd bette❤️❤️❤️❤️
This dude used to be one of my favorite RU-vidrs, godamn sad he quit RU-vid Goes to show people, regardless of who was at fault, relationship drama makes people quit their passion 😔 Miss you Jarl, hope you had stayed 😪
Hindsight is always 20/20. I’m an og follower and remember when her stans were dragging you. As a follower I personally felt weird about the situation. For one it seemed to come out of nowhere 🤨And secondly I wanted to stand up for you, but it almost felt like you “disappeared”. Maybe this is only my experience, but it felt like ever since that situation it was a long time until I felt that connection again that I had with your earlier content. I get that being cancelled is very traumatic, but none of your actual fans cancelled you 😑 Idk if I’m making any sense, but I personally felt like I was punished as a follower for what her stans did, because it almost felt like I had ‘lost you’ in a sense...🤷🏽♀️ Idk but the past is in the past, we can only move on and try not to make the same mistakes.
Hi Jarl! It is valid to forgive because that way you free yourself from a negative feeling that hurts you but the best thing is to get away from a toxic person like Vanessa who did so much damage to you. Release that emotional bond with her and free yourself! Be happy with yourself and the person who complements you will arrive! Forgive her but keep her out of your life, it’s better for you!! 🤗
I've been a follower of u for YEARS and I've seen what you've been through and I'm so sorry for all the trauma and the way it hurt you but just remember that we've been here and we will always be cuz f*ck what they say we know u and we know your kind heart. But I think it's time to let this thing go and also let go of the people who keep asking and pushing you back at that story and bother you. You are more than stories from your past and if they can't see your worth, boy they're stupid. Hope you recover from that soon❤
I'm only here watching this because i watched her video from YEARS AGO. What she's saying sounds a whole lot more convincing than what you are rambling on about. I am not saying you are a bad guy because I dont know either way but you are going on and on about something you say is in the past. Doesnt sound like its in the past for you if you want an honest opinion.
I'm really sorry this happened to you and I hope you can heal from this and live a happy fulfilling life. I know this isn't the point of this video, but I believe you and believe that you didn't have bad intentions.
