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@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
Henya You are not weird. You are normal. You are just in a world that follows different norms. If neurotypicals were The minority, They would be the ones deemed weird. We Just have a different neurotype.
@GinatShefer
@GinatShefer 11 дней назад
I’m so proud of you! I assume it’s not easy to share this, but I’m sure it’s going to help a lot of people. Thank you for being so brave and open ❤❤❤❤❤
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Thank you so much Ginatush! Love and appreciate you so much 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
@osamaburashed5187
@osamaburashed5187 11 дней назад
sorry to hear that, it took you so long to get diagnosed, we love you Henya, you're such an amazing person, sadly in these days most kind people get mental issues, we love you so much girl
@-wi7ci
@-wi7ci 11 дней назад
Glad to see you again, Henya ❤🎉
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Glad to still have you here!
@theamethystlamb
@theamethystlamb 9 дней назад
Thank you so much for sharing all of this, Henya! I learned I am autistic a few years ago, but really want a formal diagnosis due to how many people try to diminish self diagnosis. As soon as you mentioned Embracing Autism I searched it and was delighted at all the assessments they have available! I'm going to look into their pricing for a formal diagnosis now since I've been unable to afford it from American sources. You're amazing! Thanks again! ❤
@dreaming222
@dreaming222 11 дней назад
I'm happy that you found some answers to the questions you had for so long. I always wish you peace and health mentally and physically. You will always be an inspiration to me, and I'll always be one of your biggest fan girls forever, lol your new chapter is beginning.. and best wishes and prayers for you and your family staying safe. Much love Hen xoxo
@onestrangeanimal3212
@onestrangeanimal3212 11 дней назад
Welcome to the tribe! I also got my autism diagnosis as an adult. I'm so happy that you've finally found the answer to so many questions! It definitely is a relief. You really put a whole lot of effort into it. It's sad that you've had to do all that work in order to be listened to, but you've done it and you can be proud of yourself for it. Take care and stay safe ❤ xoxo
@haveaniceday111
@haveaniceday111 11 дней назад
I'm sorry it took you so long to get diagnosed. I'm 29 and on a waitlist for an evaluation in January. Preparing is a really emotional process!
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Thank you. Good luck in your assessment! Yeah it was such an intense journey. I'm happy to have come to terms with it all now.
@rosemary_weir
@rosemary_weir 11 дней назад
So happy to see this video! Welcome to the tribe, Henya. Although you’ve always been one of us, finally knowing where you belong is like being reborn. I was one of those commenters who suggested you were possibly autistic. I was diagnosed at age 41 with a BPD misdiagnosis. I am also very high masking and still struggle to unmask. There will always be people who don’t understand how you can be autistic but that’s just because they don’t understand autism. Psychiatrists are one of the worst of these groups unfortunately, in my experience. I hope things only get better for you now you know. And if you want to make more videos, I’ll be here to watch them 💛
@Lollypop1226
@Lollypop1226 11 дней назад
So happy for you Henya. This must be such a relief after everything you’ve been through. Your hair and tattoos look amazing btw ❤
@CruisingAlba
@CruisingAlba 10 дней назад
Well done for persevering! What a big step, you must be feeling so relieved. Hugs! 💜
@sarahha6523
@sarahha6523 10 дней назад
Habibti, it's always good to see you, and it's good to see you happy. Thanks for sharing all of that, you're truly inspiring
@plantbasedlizzy
@plantbasedlizzy 2 дня назад
Same here with me! And still now after my well-fought for diagnosis people won't believe that I'm autistic. I also have BPD and ADHD. And have been the odd one since kindergarten too.
@bonappetit173
@bonappetit173 9 дней назад
I’ve been following you on RU-vid for a number of years now, and back in the day I really resonated with some of the things you shared on about BPD. I was even diagnosed with borderline tendencies about 4 years ago. Around 1.5 years ago, I was really struggling and feeling like I just wasn’t able to “perform”, so to speak, at the level that I used to (I mean socially, work, relationships, school, etc) and it was so unbelievably frustrating. I couldn’t seem to figure out what the heck was going on, and it was starting to make my depression much worse. I truly thought I was broken, and that I just couldn’t hack it any longer. I had given it all that I could, and now I had nothing else left in me. I have close blood relatives of mine that are all neurodivergent, and I work around a lot of queer neurodivergent people who would frequently tell me that they felt I was also neurodivergent. I began to do some research, just like yourself… and it was insane how many things really resonated with me. I was still skeptical, but I went to see one specialist about an adhd assessment. He agreed that I was on the spectrum, and I likely had adhd too. I saw him a few times, and he wrote in my reports that he felt I met the criteria. I decided to go for a 2nd opinion bc I still felt skeptical about the whole thing. 2nd doctor had a very similar view as the first doctor, but he was quite gatekeeping about the whole “women being neurodivergent is much less likely because it doesn’t look x y or z”. He wrote that he felt I was on the spectrum, but that it was a waste of time essentially for me to even pursue anything on it (I wanted assistance academically). Sorry for the life story, but I’m almost 33, and I look back now and feel a lot of mixed emotions about the whole thing because so many things correlate to being autistic and I imagine if it was actually taken seriously years ago where would I be now? I guess we can’t dwell on the past, but just be grateful for the future and knowing what we know now.
@AnnaScanlonPhD
@AnnaScanlonPhD 11 дней назад
So happy to see this. I hope this helps you get better support! Love you girlie.
@doodlebug1820
@doodlebug1820 9 дней назад
i watched your vids since the big vegan youtube days in mid 2010s. its really good to see you doing OK. looking forward to videos on the Autism topic. i am sorry for what you went through for so many years.
@tanya8940
@tanya8940 11 дней назад
Hi Henya, I’ve always just thought you are super cool ❤ Best wishes always
@danshibuya6593
@danshibuya6593 11 дней назад
Dear Henya, you are wonderful XXX
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Thank you so much (:
@jaydee25
@jaydee25 11 дней назад
Love you Henya💖
@shulamitkalish3060
@shulamitkalish3060 16 часов назад
I’m proud of you for being persistent and advocating for yourself and for embracing yourself. It’s never easy. And you were so missed. Alsoooo האנגלית שלך בסדר, ממש יותר טוב מעברית שלי 😅😅😅
@mbp9790
@mbp9790 11 дней назад
Shalom Henya! I like your videos. I missed you so much. You are a fantastic wowan. I am proud of you! You are on autistic spectrum: I beleive you.Thank you for these video. I love you very much 💘 Je t'envoie un grand bonjour et de l'affection de France, Paris. Une amie (une femme de Paris)
@m.a.karakawe7713
@m.a.karakawe7713 10 дней назад
Good to see you back healthy
@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
Followed you for so many years and now we have been having similar journeys. I was hospitalized against My will multi times and even though I insisted I am autistic psychiatrists always misdiagnosed.me. A lot of prejudice and misconceptions about Autism by the medical professionals particular in High masking females
@Carry-on-my-wayward-son
@Carry-on-my-wayward-son 11 дней назад
Girl how are you 35 , you have such a youthfull aura ❤️
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Cause I've been vegan for 18 years! But thanks haha ☺
@Carry-on-my-wayward-son
@Carry-on-my-wayward-son 11 дней назад
@@henyaperez ❤️
@Cat-Down-The-Road
@Cat-Down-The-Road 11 дней назад
Thank you for sharing this...Sounds like you and I are one in the same~ both vegan, both have emetophobia, but have issues with sensory (bright lights and certain sensations), and both are (likely) autistic- I have yet to be diagnosed.
@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
Burnout and autistic meltdowns and shutdowns are often mistaken for mental illness. I am actually crying. I remember years ago when you told me about your hospitalizations and I can relate so much with you. Although I didn't know you were autistic too. I lost everything I owned multiple times too. There are great autistic RU-vidrs They have been very helpful to me to deal with C-PTSD and Autistic burnout.
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
I know i just can't believe i was misdiagnosed and mistreated for so long! Sorry to hear you went through the same 🙏💔
@johnny_veritas
@johnny_veritas 11 дней назад
I also wrote a "quirks list". Sensory processing disorder throughout one's life and difficulty reading social cues is a bit a tell tale sign.
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Haha one must have a list of their quirks (:
@EmmaMaria24
@EmmaMaria24 11 дней назад
Aw Henya, so pleased for you, it seems like a weight has been lifted from your shoulders 😊
@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
Bullies are better at diagnosing Autism than medical professionals ironically
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
That's so true and sad 😭
@hunched_monk3279
@hunched_monk3279 10 дней назад
Great video Henya. I’d like to know how you envision your future? Now knowing your diagnoses (Autism, PTSD), have you accepted the life in front of you? I am personally struggling with this now. I have PTSD, ADHD and maybe Autism or STPD, and finally got disability support, and now I’m coming to terms with not leading a normal life (at the moment), with a full time job, good income, own a home, partner, possibly family, etc. I’ve never been one to actively want those things, I have put art, learning, self-discovery first, but I’m 36 now and yeah I’m kind having a low-key midlife crisis thinking about what I will do for the next 50ish years. What about you?
@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
Even with diagnosis everyone still gaslights me too. Or they Gaslight you about your needs. At this stage it is important to surround yourself with people who respect yourself and validate your autistic needs. Thank you for sharing Henya. Be strong. Things Will hopefully get better now
@johnny_veritas
@johnny_veritas 11 дней назад
🙈🙉🙊People's emotional reaction to negative things like limitations is to deny it to cope. "We are mort4l." No we are not, cope time, denial, eternal life, happy thoughts.
@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
I was also just diagnosed autistic even though I knew for decades
@CanisLupus1987
@CanisLupus1987 11 дней назад
I Hope you and your family are safe. B'H These are difficult days for Israelis.
@MariaAguilar-wg9ky
@MariaAguilar-wg9ky 11 дней назад
can I ask what is your blood type?
@magdaprzybysz7144
@magdaprzybysz7144 9 дней назад
Greetings Henya
@johnny_veritas
@johnny_veritas 11 дней назад
🔍 When you get an intense and restricted special interest in autism and that is also a trait
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Hahaha exactly
@MyiniaArt
@MyiniaArt 11 дней назад
@Misterdave998
@Misterdave998 11 дней назад
I remember you ignored me when I said hello to you in Chiang Mai in 2016
@saragarcia9962
@saragarcia9962 11 дней назад
Perhaps she didn't see/hear you, rather than ignored you?
@Misterdave998
@Misterdave998 11 дней назад
@@saragarcia9962 I’m pretty sure she saw and heard me. I think I was polite but I’m not sure . I think she was being rude . But again I’m not 100% sure. I guess women are scared of men sometimes
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
I don't recall this icident but i never meant to be rude, hello (:
@drewblanche
@drewblanche 11 дней назад
Fun fact: w33d causes autism and bipolar disorder 😂 you’re be alright. I have it too ❤
@johnny_veritas
@johnny_veritas 11 дней назад
ASD is a lifelong neurodevelopmental disorder that as far as we know it's not acquired. So if you were not a autistic kid, you don't have the tism.
@henyaperez
@henyaperez 11 дней назад
Ehh not sure about that but cool
@sciadredan5410
@sciadredan5410 10 дней назад
Is it me or is she turning up the quirk to come across as "more autistic"? She's never acted like this before. Reminds me of Helen Anderson since she was diagnosed with ADHD (which she also paid for btw).
@sentohell8535
@sentohell8535 9 дней назад
i've been following her for years and this is just how she acts?
@doodlebug1820
@doodlebug1820 9 дней назад
this is rude.
@sciadredan5410
@sciadredan5410 8 дней назад
@@sentohell8535 It really isn't.
@LaRochePosay04
@LaRochePosay04 11 дней назад
How are handling the political issues in Israel?
@Ana-ls8rh
@Ana-ls8rh 11 дней назад
How do you feel about the genocide happening in gaza? As an Israeli, do you support it?
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