I just came from instagram after seeing one blog post at my reels and I went to check her page and then see her crying then I rush down here to watch the video 😢
Just talk, talk, talk. What happened to her? From the comments she is dead already so how can somebody help? I just listened to her story and l feel l could help in a way but now that she is no more, it is of no use again. Thanks
@@makafuimansanassar8862 you are sick in the head, the world doesn’t cater to you. if it’s too long DONT WATCH. how dare you say the woman who is gone should’ve cut to the point
This is why I don’t allow anybody around my kids or in my house. I don’t care family or not because people are wicked 😢 everyone failed this girl even her family and it’s sad!!
Parents should genuinely surrender to Jesus Christ,live Holy and fear God,also teach their children like wise.The world needs Jesus Christ for he is the only way out.Thank u.
I swear many people are like that in Nigeria. Many people in position do this..especially when they see your desperate and needs help. This lady is intelligent.. God will make a way for her
This show is more than ‘iriri aye’. Too much is going on in this life. Parents pls watch your children, talk to them. When you notice things, pls ask. Be their friend…. This is too much.
Thanks so much for what you’re doing Dr Biola. I want to suggest that when this people reach out to you, you can refer them for therapy 1st. When it’s now clear that they have healed and they don’t mind sharing their stories, then you can bring them to world view. They need emotional/psychological healing 1st and that’s why they have reached out. When after spilling everything and there seems not to be a kind of “permanent solution”, they might lapse into depression and suicidal ideation. May God continue to help you in this your ministry of recovery and restoration in Jesus name
You hit the nail on the head. Telling their stories is just the beginning. It shouldn't end there - Counseling, Therapy, Support groups / systems, education etc
Infact the mother is the originated of the whole issue because you find out that you are not welcome in a house where you had children you then you should leave the place
This is so excellent. Awesome indeed! A wonderful mediator. All she need is a good counselor who will help she through. More grace and blessings on the owner of this life-giving platform 🙏
This woman has been destroyed and needs help badly. As for the Uncle, he needs to be prosecuted and pay this girl damages for abusing her over the yrs. Too sad a story.
So sad I went through molestation too But thank God I got healed miraculously 🙏🙏🙏 I opened up to my mum early Thank Gifford the secondary school I went to They use invite motivation speaker so I got touched and spoke to my siblings and mum Since then my heart was freed
Hello everyone, all I can say is that no matter what don’t let your children stay with anyone take care of them yourselves, please let your children be free with you.
Abiola please be strong, you tried to help. Please may I suggest that in future, you let people with such level of Trauma, who have lived with their pain share their story with you and your team, by all means record it, offer them therapy and all the support you can provide, behind the scene, then whenever they feel ready, you can ask them to come public and the video of the first interview with them could also be inserted. God will continue to help you. You can also solicite online for people who can offer support, financial, medical, advisory, and therapy to patner with you, so you can have a private pool of professionals and humanitarians who are on hand to support with such private and sensitive cases.
If you've been abused as a child before and threatened with death you'll know how painful and devastating it is. You'll wish death will take you away. Some of us met good people along the way and healing begun❤ May her soul rest in peace😢
Everyday communication with your kids is very crucial. When they get back from school and ask about their days. Did anyone touch them. They need to know about bad touching from family and strangers. May God heal this lady 🙏
Everyone failed her😢😢I really feel pity for her may her soul rest in peace 😭😭😭😭and for those people who turned her life to be like that will suffer for it by God grace
If you haven't been abused as a child,you can't ever understand her pain,the trauma is endless most times. Nike,im so sorry that life was so unfair to you .rip angel💔
Abiola, you are a good person . Don't blame yourself on any thing. You really show her love and you did make her feel that she can beloved and her pas doesn't count. Just keep up the good in you. May God fill you with wisdom and understanding in jesus mighty name. Above only will always be your place❤
Aunty biola this is not sucide....it is murder case...Jerry, her sister, the male actor she mention in the hotel.. someone killed her by forcing her to do so ....pls iyabo ojo( cos na only her I trust) should fish them out they need to be jailed forever. Pip Nike❤
See the chains of the abuse , it’s so long . Many kids were involved , from the uncle that started with her to the step sis that violated her to her on the little boy , her to the innocent Rebecca etc , many damaged kids at the end of the day. God have mercy
And what if they have similar story as Nike's. What if they were molested just as Nike also molested the 6yrs old boy when she was 9. It's a case of all wrongs... The family failed
Dear Nike, you're blessed. I rarely watch long online presentations, but yours got my attention to the end. I so appreciate the Talk to B family in their bid towards humanity and life. In addition to whatever the family has to do for you, knowing your true identity in Christ will permanently heal, restore and fully equip you, not for yourself alone, but also for those that have faced similar trauma and will be privileged to come your way. Dear Nike, there are some teaching series that could be of utmost help for you now. If you need to know more about it, do well to get me informed. Bless you!
Omoooo I turned down a job offer on the island because I’m used to prepping my kids for school and going to pick them after closing too cos I can’t imagine someone abusing them like ‘’I fit m*d ooooo May the Lord heal you dear Parent pls let’s be 100 percent in the life of our kids It is well 🥹
Likewise me here too, I have too quite my job because of my children. Because I always pick them late, most times is my son will last in their school compound😢 sometimes I will be gotten there 6:30 pm or to 7pm almost everyday😮😮😢😢
Honestly doctor Abiola Adebayo has really tried her best for this lady Well-done ma may GOD continue to bless you ma may her soul continue to rest in peace and may GOD forgive her
This girl has given me the answer to a question I have asked for so long. How is it that paedophiles serially abuse underage girls successfully? The answer is that these molesters manipulate these girls and get them addicted and to willingly cooperate with them. This is why they miss the abuse when they are separated from the abusers. And this is also the reason they don’t tell their mothers about this abuse. They always say they don’t tell because they feel no one will believe them. But the real reason they don’t tell is that they feel guilty for cooperating with the abuser, instead of raising alarm. It’s a complex psychological trauma which is difficult to explain. Eventually these girls become seriously sexually perverted and promiscuous as they get older. How can one explain getting dogs for sex. This is serious perversion which is difficult to explain. They may eventually heal through psychotherapy. Many carry this emotional scar for so long and sometimes into marriage. Mothers should pay close attention to their daughters from a very young age. They must win their confidence and trust. Under no circumstances should they allow them to be exposed alone to males, no matter how closely related. If this is done sexual predators will never find opportunity for their shameful acts.
Not only daughters. Sons too should be protected. I am blessed with 3 kids and they are all boys. But I protect and observe them as if they are females. Boy children are also molested these days. As parents we need to be very watchful and prayerful
For you, the narrator, confidence, standing for yourself. "All die is one die." Be fearless. You can't do that when you were a child, but at a certain age, you should be able to stand up and report what you went through to your mother at least.
The truth is her mom suffered in her first marriage, got married to a well to do man taking care of her and in turn, she earned hatred from her senior wife, the senior wife’s children and her own previous daughters to extent they passed it to her only left daughter of the well to do man. No love but enviness, bitterness and pain
Biola. Your platform is becoming an Evangelism platform where souls are regenerated for Christ. God will bless you and your home. Greetings to your handsome boy.
I swear mothers please take very good care of ur kids, especially girl child, pls let's talk more to our kids, feed them with the world of God and let them be free with u...May this lady soul rest in perfect peace 😢🙏
Well done for the work you have been doing. May Nike's Soul find peace with her maker. Please henceforth, expand your backroom staff. Collaborate with law enforcement, social works, therapists and counsellors even clinical psychologists and psychiatrists. In addition, you should employ tact when engaging with victims such as Nike. Interviews should be as discrete and anonymous as possible, no camera facing, in a darkened room and voice altered. Please for her memory, write a petition to the Police and let investigations be carried out. Those unfortunate souls should be brought to justice
Are you sure they didn't take this lady's life? She came for help, she said "i want education"....she genuinely wanted to live a good life, how can she take her own life when she knows help is on the way? Kai! Nike rest easy😢
That actor and actress needs to be exposed. This lady shouldn't have taken her life. It's so sad. Well done Dr. Biola, may Almighty God continue to uphold you.
U see polygamy run away from it❌❌ no peace of mind,no joy no love .... Just chaos chaos and chaos😢😪😭... Her parents failed her woefully ❌❌😪 Rest in peace nike 🕊️
😢 so sad, Nike it is sad you ended like this, you tried to make something out of life. Rest in perfect peace, Amen. Shame on Jerry nd his Sister, I pray karma catches up with them but how I wish they had the chance to repent nd beg for Nike's forgiveness
She also needs coaching on how to be a professional interviewer cause some of her approach with the questions she asks are not tactful at all@@adebolaadesewaayomiposi5860
Exactly my thought, she really needs them to be in her crew cus some people don't worth roaming/walking freely on the streets. I pray God forgives Nike's shortcomings and give her eternal rest 😢
There are so many deep layers to her story it is beyond painful. I pray that Gods judgement will fall on everyone that abused her and I pray for Gods healing for children she also abused not knowing the damage it would cause.
She killed herself because everyone in the family knows all about her traumas and secrets because she mentioned everybodys name and they all knew what they did to her.
Una don start for RU-vid again , but ship that sold millions of Africans through Atlantic slavery name Jesus could save them, if the poverty in Nigeria
In a recent interview, moderator Biola excelled in her role, displaying a remarkable ability to navigate sensitive topics with grace and empathy. Throughout the interview, she provided assurances that fostered a sense of safety and trust, allowing for an open and honest exchange. The guest, Nike, shared her story with brutal honesty, offering a raw and unfiltered glimpse into the immense hardship she has endured in her short life. Her candid revelations highlighted the harsh realities of the world we live in, painting a poignant picture of struggle and resilience. Despite the adversity she faced, Nike’s narrative serves as a powerful reminder of the strength it takes to share such personal experiences. The interview left a lasting impact, evoking both empathy and a call to action for greater compassion and understanding in our society. May the Lord have mercy on her soul, and may her story inspire us to create a more supportive and caring world.
To be honest wit u biola, i cnt lov u less. I lov ur person, ur level maturity, ur counsel, ohh myyy..... I was close to tears 4dat lady. I lov everythn ure doing. May God bless u & enlarge ur coast in d Mighty Name of Jesus.
It hurts more knowing all plans for solution and healing in place for her. And she ends it all. May your soul rest in peace. Rest on. Thanks to Aunty B for this great platform. May God bless you...
I think parents should a permanent day like we all choose Saturdays for OWABE for our children to have a chitchat with them, to know what if going on with their life’s. All this happened because of parents negligence……. May God help us all.
