Girl I definitely shed a couple of tears at the beginning of this vlog for the simple fact that I identify with everything you said. Being a home owner and single parent is no easy feat and can be very daunting. Down-right difficult. I definitely have had melt down times or days where it was imperative for me to unplug from things for a few minutes. But let me tell you this sis, since I’ve subscribed to your channel all I have seen is you crushing it. I don’t know where you get that gusto from but you got it. YOU ARE DOING GREAT!!! Keep it up girl. Keep praying trusting the Most High God and doing the work. You Got This Girl but you just needed a reminder. You Got This! Blessings to you and your babies
I have been a single mom for most of my son’s 16 years. Been a homeowner for 20 years … when things go bad, it seems like everything falls apart. It shall pass 🙏🙏🙏
You needed that cry. I have a husband and 4 kids but I’m the only one doing everything at all times. I have had a day or two where I just need to go in the room and talk to the Lord alone.
Shyvonne, I watched your video last night while in bed but I had to come back on to leave a comment. I literally cried and cried listening to you talk because I have had meltdowns like that before. We as mothers get tired because we carry the weight on our shoulder but we need help at times. Please get your rest and try to keep your blood pressure down. Do what you can and just take it easy. Love you.
It is okay to cry 😢, it's okay for the babies to see this part from momma. However, this helps them to understand that life itself get the best of us. I am praying for you, sweetheart, and the babies, all of them as well 💕 blessings to you, shavonne
Thank you for uploading this video, I needed this. I can relate to you so much in the chapter of life I’m in. It’s hard! But I’m glad I’m not alone! I’ll be praying for you as well❤
Love you Shyvone, you are a wonderful person I’ve been following you for years and hugely admire you and how hard you work. Be kind to yourself, something us moms don’t do enough of. 😘😘😘😘
Mama gets TIRED TOO! We push ourselves as women to be everything at all times to everyone. Last week the Bible study theme was REST! God commands us to slow down and rest to refresh ourselves so we are ready to do the work He has for us. God bless you and your family. Better days are ahead for sure!
Prayers for you and your beautiful family.. I pray against the spirit of anxiety.. depression and confusion... I declare peace.. Clear mind.. And the voice of god over you and your family. We all get overwhelmed at times.. I just want to say do your best and remember you are only human.. you are beautiful.. Strong..a woman of God and I praise you for the amazing job you are doing!!! GB 🙏🏼🩷
Girl I known what you mean!!!!..... sometimes we as mama's get over whelmmed and that's ok!!!! You have a lot on your plate for sure but just know the God is right there with you and the kids, love how you are showing them the meaning of being responsible people , you have a lot to be grateful for and you say it all the time giving God His glory,,,, the Devil don't like that, but you keep giving God His due and you will truly be Blessed as He is doing for you and your kids!!! Stay encouraged you are doing a great job!!!!! Thanks for sharing!!!!!❤😊
As women we try to do it all. It gets stressful at times, and you just have to cry to let it out. If I can't do it all, i will wait for another day. Mental Health is important.
Hope you’re feeling better. I used to cry in the shower when my kids were younger so they wouldn’t see me. I was a struggling single mom and got overwhelmed the same as you. Chin up, you’re a great mom and you’re doing a great job!😊
You needed that release! It was building up for a while, you’re overwhelmed and your mind, body and spirit needed that “me/cry time”. Oh! What a release it is! That wasp was the straw that broke the camels back so to speak. Please take time to relax and take time for yourself. We lifetime loyals love both you and your family very much. Take care.
You have a tremendous load on your shoulders. Hopefully the children will see that Mom gets tired sometimes and will rally around you during this time. You are awesome.
Oh I understand completely..I had this happen about 2 weeks ago. Nobody hears your frustration but wants you to hear them. It took me to break down and cry for my husband to hear me and say he was sorry and he did not mean to upset me and he can do better. I needed that. Hope you feel better. And it is ok to cry
Awww Shyvonne. It never fails, we always put the world first. We MUST take time for ourselves, since we know that nurturing is in our DNA it is imperative that we rest our mind, body & sprirt (your godly triangle, when 1 is struggling they all are) in order to continue the nurturing (cause we're not gonna NOT care). You have a lot on your plate, please allow yourself at least 2 days per month to rejuvenate, they don't have to be back 2 back. It may be difficult at first but consistency is the key. You are loved by many family & friends and they need you & would love to keep you around. I pray for your blessings peace & solitude. YOU ARE WORTHY & YOU ARE A BLESSING!!!
Aww i know the feeling i have a older home and if its not one thing is another and i cryed in the shower for a hour i wanted to just walk away but i knew i couldn't my kids needed me so i remember what my mom said to pray while those tears r running down my face God will hear u pray until God sends u the words u need to hear to heal your heart God got u 🙏🏾❤
Hi Shyvonne, its good to cry, it show god that we need him and the girls need to see that their mom is human and even though she is strong she has feelings too. Slow down sis. We all have days like that and it’s ok. Release those tears and don’t keep it inside… love you, Blessings to you🙏🙏🙏
From one Mom to another, I’m here to say you’re an amazing Mom ! Being a parent is one of the hardest jobs ever , and us doing it alone is even more tough but you’re doing a damn good job and I’m inspired by you!💖
Hang in there sweetie! After raising 4 daughters and 1 son( all in their 30s and 40's) I will tell you, there will be more tears. Girls! How many times had my son said "mom, those girls are CRAZY,!" ❤
I've had plenty with one child, I can't imagine 6 different personalities, your ex husband is your ex Shyvonne, but he is also those kid's Dad... He should still be helping you care for the home they live in. You are right to be overwhelmed 💐
Don't know what's up with the bees n hornets but they are building nest in shrubs..my son got stung a few days ago too on his hands. I wondered when you were gonna cry..Lord knows you have been thru a lot..and also with the house but we are overcomes..bless your heart..and learn to say NO..get their Dad to help out too..❤
I love that hair style on you it looks so beautiful. Love your channel and videos. You are so inspiring and you are killing the single mom thing hun. Props to you!
Hello from Canada 🇨🇦! Crying, screaming, and cussing is all okay sometimes! You are a wonderful mom and human! Crying is okay, sometimes WARRIORS have to do it!❤
Shyvonne you're such a GREAT MOTHER...It's okay to cry sometimes... You're just cleaning it all out. Praying for you ...God got you and your family 🎉🎉🎉
29:39 Shavonne God gave us tears for a reason. You have been pressing for a long time; you needed to cry plus bee stings really hurt! God bless you. I remember when my daughters were home and I had a trip planned. Well when I was due to leave the next day , couldn t find my plane Tickets. I busted out crying. That was ok . My kids still remember that day. We laugh about it now. We are human !❤
I'm glad that you're feeling better and I can agree with you that sometimes things can become overwhelming. My advice to you whenever you feel that way again, just go to your room and kneel down cry out and pray to the Lord because its just the enemy bringing confusion and strife.
Sweet girl you needed to have that release 😢 you are ALWAYS taking care of everyone-everything! Do not take it as a sign of weakness, but as a woman that rocks it daily and needed to let go and say enough. And I’m so sorry for the ignorance of ppl that continue to see color instead of a strong, independent woman with beautiful children😢 there is no place for hate, but it rages and it makes me soo mad 😡 Stay strong beautiful bc you rock and the world needs more woman like you ❤
Hi Shyvonne, I will keep you in my prayers. You needed that cry and do so much for everyone. It sounds like a terrible day and time. I’m glad you had the wisdom to share with Yanna about that area. It’s sad to know people are still with that type of mind set. A person can take but so much. I hope this week goes a lot better for you ❤.
I am so sorry. After listening to you, realized I needed to give you some grace because I’m one of those people always rolling my eyes about the spending. But I get it now. It’s your form of release and we all do what we gotta do to make it through the day. Spend intimate time with God and trust God for direction. There is a way through and a way out.
We all new this was going to happen to you sweetie, the kids need to help you . Your overwhelmed. Your human, it's time for you to have a family meeting with your ex with all the kids .
I’m so sorry you had to go through such a horrible experience of a wasp sting. I pray for better days moving forward for you and your children. Your children are the sweetest. 💕
I feel your pain. I am up there in years, like 60+, and I was stung by a wasp about four years ago on my knee and I am here to say that sucker stung for a good week. Apparently, the stinger was still in my leg and until I got that out it was painful. Feel for you!
😭So sorry! You needed that release tho.Y'all All did! Pray continued healing for you and how great they were able to refer Ayanna to a closer clinic🙌🏼 Oh yes we know where we aren't comfortable or welcome😩 Take it easy. Glad you got to express yourself You do SO much for and it is a lot for one person to keep up with. We applaud you for the way you do it all, but also know heroines need a break too🤗💓🙏🏼
I'm praying for you, this breaks my heart. I can't understand when relationships ends, why do they breakup with everybody, including their children. I admire you, my daughter is battling the same thing. I've lived through this also, people want to make package deals with you, while their children suffer. My husband has never supported "our" children, who are now, 29&34 . You got this, because you have God ❤
Omg, I'm so sorry that happened to you. You needed to get that out; I wish I could hug you. 🤗🤗🤗🤗 you need a spa day or two, hon. I'm from the Bronx, and I don’t do bees, wasps, snakes, or spiders! I would have called Swat, the FBI, and the National Guards. Lol, you're so brave to have handled that on your own.
Take care of yourself. Stress is a serious issue when it comes to your health. I just lost my dear husband and I know being stressed out had a lot to do with him.
Shyvonne i havent watched for sometime. Just want you to know you look marvelous! So glad you are thinking of yourself. I know you have made some important changes in your life and you have lovely children and a great deal of responsibility. Kudos to you and cheers!
Watching this makes me wanne cry for you. I'm getting tears in my eyes. I feel your pain. Keep praying and ask God for strengt.🤗's and 😘ses for you all.❤❤
Shyvonne I have been watching you since Covid when you redid your backyard in your old house. I really enjoy watching you because you are such a strong woman and I admire that. I also have five children so I understand what you are going through. Lastly, it’s OK to cry, if that’s what you need then I think sometimes it helps us. I just want to encourage you and say you can do anything you can do all things and it will get better.
Everyone needs a release,you are a strong beautiful woman and a fabulous mother. Never feel bad about needing to let go sometimes. Stay strong you are fabulous.
Shyvonne I have been worried about you for quite some time, I had a feeling a melt down was coming, but ''without tears, our soul wouldn't have rainbows'',💜🐨🌈 I am very happy that you are doing okay now, but please take it easy with yourself. always watching from Australia
I am praying for you, you have a lot of your plate. And sometimes all it takes is for that one thing to bring us to that cry that we so desperately need. Maybe you need to cry a lot more often. Don't let it pile. Go to God, He is concerned about the things that concern us. I think you are an awesome person. Don't know you personally, but I do believe you practice what I see you preach. Hang in there. You did the right thing, you called their dad, and you talked to your mom. It definitely takes a village. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.
I got stung 9 times by wasps while walking my dogs a couple of summers ago!! They were everywhere!! I HATE WASPS 😡 Wasps are jerks. Bees serve an important function but wasps? They will sting for NO reason and it hurts!!! I’m sorry Vonne😩. Sometimes life is just EXTRA! I know what you are feeling BELIEVE me! You are only human. We aren’t super heros as much as I wish we were. We can only take so much. I’m glad you let it all out and that the kids witnessed it. It’s ok for them to see what Mom is dealing with. They are good kids and you are a great Mom❤. You’re going to be alright I promise. Deep breathes. Please know I’m praying for you all. Peace and Love Strength and Wisdom ☺️🙏🏻✨
When I say I felt every word you said 🙌🏽I promise you I’ve had this type of day and I have two teenagers and semi grown child but lord when these are the days you got to fall on your knees and give it to God! I am praying for your peace of mind !!🙏🏽Love you sis take care of you first , it’s time them kids that house is going be ok 👌 you have set the foundation and the blueprint and when your not there. Oh, they will do it and get it done.
Home Depot Trip!!! W.H.Y. Trap for wasps, get you 2 if you need it but they work great! Amazon also has Wasp nests decoys that keep them away cause they're territorial. Good luck mommas! A good cry is needed sometimes so don't feel bad.
Life can be overwhelming but God didn't bring you this far from where you was just to abandon you it's going to get better from here I'm praying for you and your beautiful family 🙏
You had the right to feel like you did you are an amazing mother and woman take the time you need for yourself Shyvonne you are human i had a meltdown the other day too because i feel like im the only one that has to do it all love you to the moon and back
Shyvonne, for every tear that falls from your eyes God sees them and he will wipe them away! Please know I'm praying along and for your family! Blessings!
Aww Dear, you were OVER OVERwhelmed. All of your bottled up emotions came out. You guys needed to empty your soul❤ and a good cry will get you back on track, and it's ok to not be super mom for a few hours or even a day!!! " and what the fudge nugget do he mean it's a lot of yall"...see yeah no! Places like that exist more than ppl think. Sending you lots of love !!!
Yes I know they still have people like that in some cities.. So sad! I know it must be overwhelming dealing with kids and their issues, I have 2 kids a son that’s 34 and a daughter that is 27 years of age, and sometimes they go through things that I have to deal with even though they’re grown their still my babies, they don’t know but I go in my room and pray and just cry to myself and pray and pray, and after that I feel good. Crying cleanses the soul and God knows what’s best, so I go to him and just cry out and after that I feel great… I’ll pray for you hun, you are a great, great mom and don’t ever forget that!!!
So sorry that you had such a day. 😢 You absolutely deserved a good cry, you do sooooooo much! It’s good the kids got to see you cry and see you’re human as well as a fabulous mummy!! It also gives you an avenue for a teaching moment, it won’t be the last time Ayana (sorry if I spelt it wrong) is put in similar positions and I’m sure next time she’ll hope she’s able to cry and handle it at the same time. Maybe after consoling the person she encourages them to relax by maybe going on a walk just around the block, or drinking a bottle of water, or giving them a cup of ice to suck on, or taking their hands and praying with them. No ones perfect and none of these ideas might work, it’s just random ideas I could think of to bolster her already amazing confidence. ❤
It was coming sis, you are always pouring out!!!!! The only way to get filled is to entry your cup completely. Those tears are just temporary relief!!!!! God hears you!!! You need at least One day w/o plans… just go with it!!!!!
Ohhhh Shyvonne it’s ok sweetie, your strength amazes me! It’s okay to have a good cry sometimes, then bounce right back up! You are an amazing woman! May GOD bless you, he gives you strength that conquers all, love you friend!😅😊😅😊❤😅😊❤❤
😢 I’m just catching up on RU-vid after the holiday week. I wanted to hug you so bad!! You need to buy those blue mats for your kitchen. They would look so pretty and cheerful!! I had wasps for 8 years always returning to the scene of the crime right out my patio door. I tried everything recommended on google. This year I saw ‘Geranium’ scent on the list. It evicted them all, I had Mrs Meyers Geranium all purpose cleaner. I doused dryer sheets with it and stuffed them in places I saw them. 100% gone. I seriously can’t believe it. Again, get those blue rugs! ❤
Sending you hugs and prayers! I'm sorry you had a really really bad day. Sometimes you just need to cry and get it out and it makes you feel better. I don't cry much either but when I do its a thing.
Oh my Shyvonne bless your heart ❤️ everything dose get to much sometimes, and as a mom you are allowed to feel how you did , I have watched you for years now . Your a fantastic mom and an inspiration to others on utube please be kind to yourself huni . Blessings to you and the family, lifetime loyal ❤
Hey Shyvonne and family! I hope you’re feeling better,that was a bad sting you got! I have had some of those days like you had and I know the best thing to do is just let all that out and you feel better! You let it go and moved on and that’s what matters! I hope you and the kids enjoy the rest of your summer!❤
Baby girl you're going to be okay and it's okay to ask for help which you don't like to do and if you continue to hold stuff in and don't ask for help when you should've something like a bee sting will make your whole world come crumbling down. I think you are an amazing woman intelligent, inspiring, and beautiful BUT you have to ask for help sometimes you can't do it all by yourself all the time. Love you and your family and I always want the best for you, ask for help baby girl please.❤❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing. Everyone thinks single moms are super women because we make everything look effortlessly and easy. We get tired. We get overwhelmed. We are human. Sometimes we have to allow ourselves to just break for a moment. I am praying for you and your family. Remember you aren’t alone because God will always be there for you.
Sometimes you have to cry it’s good for to cry a lot of things are building up inside it’s okay I cry when I get overwhelmed too l’m praying for you Shyvonne
Mama definitely get tired and overwhelmed especially when u have big family it’s a lot more things we have to do I have 5 kids and they are older but I still feel most of the time like I don’t want to be here cause it’s just so much I sometimes even tell them I’m going pack up and leave you all here cause it’s seems like we are still doing everything by ourselves with no help from our kids unless we fuss and who wants to fuss all the time no mom wants too but I definitely feel you iam a full time housekeeper and I hate to come home to my house a mess it stresses me out so bad so listen hunni I definitely with you we got this just know you are amazing mom and you are doing your best ❤
You had to get all those emotions out because you are overwhelmed and stressed but you gotta get it out shyvonne because really you technically had a nervous breakdown 😢I’m so sorry you went through this
Hello Shyvoone, and family. Crying at times, can be good for us. You was very overwhelmed, and letting it out,with tears, and that alright. I pray that you are feeling better. You're such a beautiful person,with such a lovely spirit. It's alway's a pleasure watching your video's ❤❤
