In my honest opinion, op brother is his own worst enemy and his parents are enablers of his behavior. So go nc Never speak to your brother and your parents ever again
One time, my brother took it upon himself to show my then fiancé my horrendous seventh grade school photo. Like any good brother he teased me about the picture- nothing extreme, but I burst into tears. I don’t think my brother realized how sensitive I was of middle school me’s appearance. The difference between OP’s brother and mine, he felt terrible and apologized. My fiancé now husband of 17 years was amazing as always.
Don't cut off the parents. Talk to mom like how Dory talked to the whale in Finding Nemo. When she asks what you're doing, apologize and say, "I just wanted to talk to you in your native language." Then, turn on the dad and ask, "So how many lovers do you allow mom to get with? Doesn't seem like you're... big enough for her. From now on, I'll call you Small Twig, and mom will be Bloated Cow."
Story 1 Parents and brother still suck. They demand people to be less sensitive, but then they demand people to be sensitive to their feelings. The mom is still a moron for criticizing OP for how he handled the situation. I hope they end up isolated because they insulted OP's wife. Story 2 These parents are evil. They don't know the true scriptures because they teach against everything the parents believe and do to OP. They need to go to prison where they can experience what it's like to not be in control and be put down by bigger people. I also say the relatives are weak too for letting OP suffer all this time.
Not even just no social awareness; _negative_ social awareness to not know that it is frowned upon to make fun of a woman's weight _on her wedding day!_
2nd story: Yeah, I'm not a good person, so i would have kicked the crap out of the father and made the mother watch, then i would of said "this is what happens when you abuse children, those children grow up and they will wait till your nice and old before coming for you" then i would of said "your line needs to ends, so I'm doing the world a favour by not allowing you the pleasure of being grand parents"
OP'S dad is upset with OP for causing a "seen" Bull Crap! The "SEEN" was caused by the BROTHER and that POS is a horrible excuse for a human! The fact is they raised a Nasty Bully and this shows more about what awful people they and their Darling Baby Boy are! Personally I think the OP should just let them know that they nolonger exist for him & his wife and thanks to their poor choices & the defense of their Bully Boy they will NOT have the opportunity to infect their Toxic mentality onto any future grandchildren.
brother in number one is a twit plain and simple. Parents in two need their hides tanned. The employee needs to go to jail so does dear old dad and did any one expect a priest to do anything worth while? charlatans and conmen the lot.
You should call your parents cowards and someone should make your brother have to drink his meals for a year. We'll see how much his attitude changes then
