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I know what I want to do, so why don't I do it? 

Conor Neill
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Why We Don’t Do What We Know We Need to Do
"The problem is that many change efforts are based on the assumption that all you have to do is to explain to people that their life could be better, be convincing that the goals are worth going for and show them how to do it." David Maister, Strategy and the Fat Smoker
We don't make most changes because the benefits come later, whereas the pain (of self discipline) comes immediately. This is not a good deal for the emotional, instinctual part of us as human beings.

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@ygymraegywrarf2028
@ygymraegywrarf2028 4 года назад
Great advice again Conor. The message is always amplified by your likeability as a person. Being a coach is not really on my radar, other than coaching myself to change, but who knows in future! I am learning to change my beliefs as to what's possible for me to achieve in life. Your videos are definitely part of the mix!
@ygymraegywrarf2028
@ygymraegywrarf2028 4 года назад
@@ConorNeill And a happy Christmas to you and the family as well Conor. Keep the videos coming in 2020!
@legendjimmy3906
@legendjimmy3906 3 года назад
I guess im asking randomly but does any of you know of a way to log back into an Instagram account?? I stupidly lost the password. I would appreciate any assistance you can give me!
@izaiahtyler3385
@izaiahtyler3385 3 года назад
@Legend Jimmy instablaster :)
@legendjimmy3906
@legendjimmy3906 3 года назад
@Izaiah Tyler thanks for your reply. I got to the site through google and im in the hacking process now. I see it takes quite some time so I will get back to you later when my account password hopefully is recovered.
@legendjimmy3906
@legendjimmy3906 3 года назад
@Izaiah Tyler It worked and I now got access to my account again. I'm so happy:D Thanks so much you really help me out!
@alexanderlyon
@alexanderlyon 4 года назад
So great. I do often ask myself, "Is this worth the price?" Most people (including myself) don't realize the high cost of doing most things that are worthwhile.
@umbertocalvini7429
@umbertocalvini7429 4 года назад
Merry Christmas to you from San Francisco 🎄 lesson learned : Easy on myself, life will be hard. Hard on myself, life will be easy 🤗🤩🥳🎉
@shivamtyagi5783
@shivamtyagi5783 4 года назад
I can relate to your video from the book "Atomic Habits" which I completed last year around this time of year only....... and here I am with a much better physique....... Thank You for the reminder😁😁
@Kodreanu23
@Kodreanu23 3 года назад
I've heard once quote "Can't fake the shake" - related to weight lifting. Meaning: you can't fake when you can't push any more. That shake, when body gives up, body will tel you, not your mind.
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 3 года назад
love that quote... so true.
@MindsetMediaPteLtd
@MindsetMediaPteLtd 4 года назад
Conor, this is a brilliant video episode. Words cannot describe the nuts and bolts that you've expanded on Maister's wisdom. This one piece of advice alone is worth a million dollars in change management and coaching. Thank you, thank you for taking the time to share this practical wisdom. "Can you just take one step?" ... the killer question.
@judededude
@judededude 4 года назад
Amazing content as usual ! One step at a time, reminds me of the saying... A Journey of a 1000 miles starts with one step! Pushing through the pain is important. Thank you Conor
@walidbouguima2771
@walidbouguima2771 4 года назад
Clear, concise, and comprehensive as usual! Thanks a lot. Have a good one too.
@ricolerio
@ricolerio 4 года назад
Thank you Conor, just what i am pondering today. Why i cant do it but i know this is one way to achieved my goal. You never fails..your words are inspiring and motivates.
@nicoyou11
@nicoyou11 4 года назад
This is a daily struggle for my kids to understand this message... They see only the end result, be a millionaire, be Messi, have six packs, ...
@fourthreetwo_8378
@fourthreetwo_8378 4 года назад
Thank you! Just one step at a time! This is actually super good advice, the other people say you gotta fight and go through pain and sorrow and suffer and all that but really, you’re point of stopping is if you can’t physically put one more foot forward. Just one more little step is way easier to comprehend than the vast future ahead. Thanks for sharing I got a lot out of this
@CliffordStarks1
@CliffordStarks1 4 года назад
Knowing the importance is truly powerful. Great advice as always friend!👍
@CliffordStarks1
@CliffordStarks1 4 года назад
@@ConorNeill Yes, would love to collab if you would be interested 👍
@nissrine5452
@nissrine5452 4 года назад
Greetings! I've just discovered your channel. I really like the content. Go on sharing with us such things for us to improve ourselves and live a better life! Thanks a lot
@cruzcastro1252
@cruzcastro1252 4 года назад
This is another awesome video Conor! keep sending these sort of invaluable messages. All the best! Cruz
@AhmedIbrahim-tx1ox
@AhmedIbrahim-tx1ox 4 года назад
I love you sir. I wish you a long, happy and healthy life. I wish that there is an Arabic subs to all of your videos so that your words reach out to all of my friends. Keep going sir and enjoy your life.
@gee-wizz.5050
@gee-wizz.5050 4 года назад
Wow! You just gave me such a valuable key! Thank you, from the bottom of my heart! Liked, subscribed, sharing, keeping, and now off to take a look at your channe! Merry Xmas, and a happy new year! 👍👍👍
@zeehuss7275
@zeehuss7275 3 года назад
This advice is gold.❤️
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 3 года назад
Thank you 🙏
@menuchahats6760
@menuchahats6760 2 года назад
Very important point to consider, he had what it took to attempt 3 times and to plan a forth time . To that kind of determined person, the wife's advise would be helpful (suggesting a technique). I shall figure out what is blocking me to become that person in the 1st place . Thank you again.
@sheilacoughlin8613
@sheilacoughlin8613 3 года назад
the concept of committing to a lifestyle change seems to start making the commitment more valuable and hopefully diminishes the temporary discomfort of the disruption of change.
@matthewbrown6163
@matthewbrown6163 4 года назад
Procrastination Is Your Biggest Enemy !!!!!
@muhy9247
@muhy9247 4 года назад
Hi, Conor , I am a new subscriber to your channel and glad to hear your valuable advice in this few days I learn alot motivate me to keep following you and change my life style too
@hannaraoul7731
@hannaraoul7731 2 года назад
Hello and thank you. Yes, commitment matters the most, to me too. I'm at the very beginning and I have already registered all 6 minutes of the 1 000 hours you've mentioned in one of your talks :) Many things on my mind and certainly too much. But I want to thank you for your video that I listen every day. Regards
@amarhassan1060
@amarhassan1060 4 года назад
Thanks Conor....Wish you a great holiday season .....
@michaelpapyrakis3132
@michaelpapyrakis3132 4 года назад
Great and motivational as always Conor, have a lovely time in Ireland and don't forget how much (and so many) enjoy these gentle motivational boosters....thanks again
@subramanyamkqazplm
@subramanyamkqazplm 2 года назад
Just love your videos Connor.. I have been following most of your videos and trust me it just changes the way you look towards life and goal setting in a positive way..
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 2 года назад
Kind words, thank you 🙏
@scottward5957
@scottward5957 4 года назад
That’s exactly right. Great presentation. Good talk thanks
@tracking9201
@tracking9201 4 года назад
Egyptian temple lifted up and gifted to the country of Spain! OMG!! How the Egyptian government gave such this commitment?! It’s unbelievable! Lots of my country’s monuments are existing in Europe “France, Germany, England,...”, even in a museums or parks as seen in that video. What’s wrong with keeping all in place?
@lubnanaeem6928
@lubnanaeem6928 4 года назад
I just wait for your video. Luv your ideas and concepts .being following you for long time .you are truly a teacher ❤❤❤
@UncommonSenz
@UncommonSenz 4 года назад
Great insights...merry Christmas Thank you.
@vrdacosta00
@vrdacosta00 4 года назад
Full agreement with your tips!!👏 I wish you a Merry Christmas and an Happy New Year!🎊🥂🙏
@chirag2892
@chirag2892 4 года назад
Mr. Conor great fan of your videos. I know this dosen't matter as you message is very clear but Looks like Ranulph did it in 3rd attempt at 65 :) Love your videos sir :)
@abcdefg208
@abcdefg208 4 года назад
Your so right
@muhammedhalava6591
@muhammedhalava6591 4 года назад
Thanks Conor it is lovely inspiration and I hope you and your family have a merry Christmas and happy a new year.
@jitinder11
@jitinder11 4 года назад
Thank you
@lesliehilesgardener6959
@lesliehilesgardener6959 2 года назад
One day at a time that is good 👍 🙏 we'll be there for the long haul
@scottmesh
@scottmesh Год назад
Real nice one Conor
@corryjookit7818
@corryjookit7818 4 года назад
I'm in trouble now re my response to another person's remark to you. I saw that you responded to their response Conor, but now I've come back to your post here. Perhaps I should not have said a thing, but it is truly something that can be changed. It's also less painful than rosacea can be, for some.
@mamysy6574
@mamysy6574 4 года назад
Can I translate the video into Arabic? I can’t understand more. I saw a translated video. I liked it so much. I would like to learn from your experience more if possible.
@Violetta1912
@Violetta1912 4 года назад
Really great advice, thank you 🙏🏼
4 года назад
Thank you for great advice and great video.
@bobvansand6346
@bobvansand6346 4 года назад
Yesterday i saw documentary about climb of everest, step by step indeed, in the present, thanks for yr profound sense of helping others! bob🇧🇪happy newyear to you! How is yr droneskills? I see u enjoy it, no? Its nice to see, makes yr talk adventurous! 😀 Belgium is a fan🍺
@sallymusungu8983
@sallymusungu8983 4 года назад
So profound. Thank you Conor!
@asominader9850
@asominader9850 4 года назад
Can I just say that I missed you, i miss your smile and sweet face , Madrid is so lucky to have you, I appreciate the videos you post so much as a person living in a third world country that's currently at war that have no access to you're knowledge and wisdom other than this channel, now my dear I have a really important question for you, how to deal with fake leaders giving you serious job offers at first , so appealing and tempting and make you choose and commit to them then they fail to proceed with action, I had a couple of offers from a well respected people and firms that had no respect to their wards, is it because am a woman? What is it that am doing wrong ? I really need you dear 💔 merry Christmas and happy new year my love.
@jjhernandezcloud
@jjhernandezcloud 7 месяцев назад
What’s if you don’t know what to do with your life? And it makes you depressed?
@nitinkymar9468
@nitinkymar9468 4 года назад
Thank you sir for your videos. I am blessed to get your videos. Merry Christmas sir and keep putting your videos. And sorry but 'HALA_MADRID'😂
@gmnunumra10
@gmnunumra10 4 года назад
Thank you sir... For great
@adityasatpute4337
@adityasatpute4337 4 года назад
i face this problem everyday
@sarikasharma1716
@sarikasharma1716 4 года назад
@@ConorNeill 0:20 those words of every coach 🙏u nailed it conor .anyway just want to speak English so wonderful as u
@kingskiller1253
@kingskiller1253 4 года назад
Happy new year Conor
@anaheedwd7470
@anaheedwd7470 4 года назад
I will start to be what i want to ...and realy hop i can make it
@iamedis
@iamedis 4 года назад
Conor, could you give some advise for new leaders, that are just starting their carrier, being promoted to leader or manager role. What can they do to start easier? Read books? :)
@flaviamatovukiweewa1715
@flaviamatovukiweewa1715 2 года назад
Great question. I wish he could respond to this.
@DanielaKillus
@DanielaKillus 2 года назад
Fantástico!!!
@al-simra6581
@al-simra6581 4 года назад
Hello sir, I am from Iraq and a good follower of all your clips, but, if you add the Arabic language to your clips through the settings or through the montage, it will be better for us ,, I wish you a happy life and long as you keep God
@xrpgorilla1742
@xrpgorilla1742 4 года назад
I want and want. I slack so hard and want so much. In the end every fail I had was me not pushing myself hard enough. The saying nothing is impossible. Is very true. When you really use your mind that god gave you. It's insane what you can accomplish. I've been so fucking lazy and complaining and bitching. Bunker down and hide out if you have to. Do small goals to get to your big goal. The best fail is believing in your failure. Change your attitude and look at it as a lesson. It could be anything from losing weight a job to get more money a girl. It's already in your head and you know what to do. Just do it. God gave you that. The evil is easily and easier to do and slack off. I let laziness control me. It ruined my life. The truth is money is garbage. Health and confidence and believe in yourself rules all. A very strong confident mind can walk the earth and get everything it wants like a jedi knight. When you find yourself you really dont need nothing. Food? Your not here to eat . You only need a bit to survive. Money wealth ? Do you really need that much? It would be nice to live the life of a billionaire, truth is , why. The best feeling you will get is to give to others in need. We live in a world that makes people sad and feel like there left out of something we are missing. We aren't missing nothing. The truth is. We are missing and we forgot what family and friends. The value of them is priceless. I lost everything. Health and confidence in yourself and knowing who you truly are in your heart is everything. Ive seen the worst and best in people. The best I've seen is the most broken down people give more then take. I've been rich I've been poor. What's crazy is when I had nothing I gave more. When I had to much I didnt want to give. In the end I realize. Give it all away. As a human it sickens me what we become. I love the usa. We have so much people dont realize how good we have it here. I'm ranting lol. To many drinks . I got stuck on this. Any way we are all blessed. It's all in your mind. No dream is impossible keep pushing forward. Everything will pass. Good times bad times. In the end be happy to be alive and the world around you. I think we focus on the bad times more then the good. Turn your tv off and hug your niehbor. Your community. Stay awake. Anyway it's all in your mind . Use it dont lose it. They attack your mind everyday because they know how powerful it is. You are a god in yourself use it. Pray for peace
@bellastar1299
@bellastar1299 Год назад
Thank you for this! I pray you are doing well 🌹🦋
@michaelpalmer4387
@michaelpalmer4387 4 года назад
Watch Frozen 2. This is the message of' 'The Next Right Step'. If you can't see the future, just look to the next step instead.
@user-qf9vx6dm5x
@user-qf9vx6dm5x 4 года назад
Conor,l appreciate you.you have made such a great point on this problem but l have a constant question in my mind.should we try to change people who we love.not exactly changing ofcourse we can't change anyone just giving a piece of advice to them in order to put their lifes in an order.my problem is what if they aren't willing to make this change.what should we do? Thank you for your advices!
@antoniomolina3867
@antoniomolina3867 3 года назад
Conor, I miss your classes !!! :-)
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 3 года назад
Kind words, thank you 🙏 and I miss seeing the faces of participants!
@antoniomolina3867
@antoniomolina3867 3 года назад
@@ConorNeill Mmmm... You made me think... You are right, something relevant (and deep) is lost when we communicate today through these kind of social networks. So we don't react/communicate to other person's ideas or comments but to abstract regurgitations of unidirectional flows of data that we interpret... Are we losing the ability to communicate, then? A parallel example is how we are losing our ability to READ, now it is hard for us to read a BOOK for more than 10-15 minutes because we are used to the instantaneous immediacy of screens... This is scary,...
@nancymik6508
@nancymik6508 3 года назад
I love Madrid
@marialuizaacerbi6579
@marialuizaacerbi6579 4 года назад
Professor I've used this video of yours in one of my student's final essay..The title I wrote was...(Do you believe that when someone sets small tiny achievable goals and look once at the summit, aiming something that is always possible for his/her mind, one can achieve success going step by step towards it?). Thanks for the eternal, positive and astonishing inspiration of always...MARIA LUIZA RODRIGUES ACERBI Rio de Janeiro.A far far away place (laughs) quoting Fiona's castle.
@malak36300
@malak36300 4 года назад
Thank you 👍 We want arabic transaltion please From egypte 🇪🇬
@user-vl7xm3fv7f
@user-vl7xm3fv7f 4 года назад
I love you from Egypt 💙💙💙
@khawajakashif1476
@khawajakashif1476 3 года назад
A big hello from country Pakistan
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 3 года назад
hello Pakistan ;-)
@rinku1873
@rinku1873 4 года назад
Great Video Connor, please tell me the name & author of the book that you are referring to in this video.
@corryjookit7818
@corryjookit7818 4 года назад
Happy Christmas. Conor . Did you receive your education from religious order ? I don't know why I'm asking. Now I've typed it I'd still like to know. A case of looking straight ahead at the horizon and imagine it in small pieces. Proceed.
@corryjookit7818
@corryjookit7818 4 года назад
@@ConorNeill I thought so Conor, that previous life does show and why not ? If it didn't it might have been a waste of time. The lovely lilt of course, is very charming, and your voice so soothing. Thank You.
@jackjohn6440
@jackjohn6440 4 года назад
Keep going SIR
@paolazo-l4790
@paolazo-l4790 4 года назад
a walk in madrid?
@cindyeyler
@cindyeyler 3 года назад
💯👍✨
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 3 года назад
Welcome to the Rhetorical Journey!
@hudayounis9832
@hudayounis9832 4 года назад
I love you
@barak363363
@barak363363 4 года назад
He does videos well
@deaddrink9150
@deaddrink9150 4 года назад
Great video. Something wrong with your nose?
@corryjookit7818
@corryjookit7818 4 года назад
@@ConorNeill Rosacea can be sorted out with some treatment. Speak to your GP about this, consult a herbalist if you want. I'd buy a jar of exfoliating cream and use as directed, but the best plan is probably Liz Earle who's in John Lewis and online. Her potions and lotions are all natural and have no parabens and other nasties in them. Cleanse and Polish is absolutely the correct thing to use. Buy muslin cloths too. Liz is a lovely woman and I've used her products. I hope you don't mind this small piece of friendly information. Go Conor Neill !
@lesliehilesgardener6959
@lesliehilesgardener6959 2 года назад
Jehovah has already forgiven me
@anandshethi8742
@anandshethi8742 3 года назад
🙌😍🙌
@safiullahnaseri6768
@safiullahnaseri6768 3 года назад
At least make one good video each week it will be a great lesson to your all audiences
@ConorNeill
@ConorNeill 3 года назад
Have a great day ;-)
@GravityGamingCo
@GravityGamingCo 3 года назад
The Bible.
@flowerslovepower8614
@flowerslovepower8614 4 года назад
Thank you
@mamysy6574
@mamysy6574 4 года назад
Can I translate the video into Arabic? I can’t understand more. I saw a translated video. I liked it so much. I would like to learn from your experience more if possible.
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