It seems artists tend toward the meloncholy and are often overthinkers which is why art is so cathartic. Creating gives our minds peace for a little while. It brings out the beauty within that some of us find hard to see. At every age we are critical of ourselves then look back years later and say, "I was actually doing well and did not see it". What art has taught me is to just "Be." Be in the moment and accept yourself and love who you are and who you will become and someday you will look back with approval and also in the mirror with approval.
It’s hard for me to find friends who are interested in art or anything at all. Where I’m from everyone my age are only into the fast paced lifestyle: going out to clubs, partying, and drinking. So it’s hard to find likeminded friends who enjoy art and understand what it’s like to work on projects and have career goals. It does get lonely sometimes 😫😫😫
I was lucky enough to find friends who likes to draw irl. Although university and internship has been busy and we started drawing less and less (probably even lesser when we have full time jobs) but we still occasionally chill and shared together what we have drawn. Hope you eventually find a friend like that because it is really nice just to have that friend to share
I feel the same though. I like to be at my cozy place reading books and painting. Wheres all my friends love to party and clubs and drinking. Which make me lonely sometimes. And i start missing a friend who loves reading or painting or just have a chat with me 😔
Stay strong, Artist. I’m about to make the same leap myself as I’ve essentially been living the same life as a Creative Professional for quite some time. It’s very challenging and down-right heartbreaking at times. I can attest that God/life has provided me with some much-needed oases when I needed them the most. Stay true to your creative integrity, while also taking advantage of any “divine” opportunities or breaks that come your way, your work and contributions will show it.
True. Not to be burnt out. Striking a balance between work and hobbies. I'm also an artist and sometimes you just keep Creating non stop. Taking breaks, go do something different.
Hey♡ I wanted to let you know, that I've been here since your very first video and love your work and channel. Thank you for inspiring and motivating so many other artist all around the world.♡♡♡
I completely relate! I used to think that being an artist and an introvert went pretty well together, but lately it’s something I’ve been struggling with - thank you for the reminder that taking care of yourself and the things in your life is just as important as making art ❤️⭐️ also i absolutely love the paintings you did in this one!
I think this is the same way I always try to reason that it’s ok for me to live like this😂I’m an introvert, an artist, and I work ALONE (and that’s a good thing, right??) we need to take breaks and actually spend time with people in real actual life.
I still enjoy being an introvert and it especially helps me get painting done! But, yes, we all reach a limit and need to spend time with others and enjoy relaxing hobbies! :) ❤
I relate to this. During the winter months, (I’m full time artist) I spend a LOT of time indoors and i have to remind myself that I need to step away from the studio and spend quality time with my family. The next step is getting back to and hanging out with friends- irl. It’s been a hot minute😢 I hope that you get to spend that time with your art friends that energizes you and helps you remember to have some fun❤
I'm an introvert who went through this and thought becoming an Ambivert would fix it. Nope. In the end, extroverts expect you to show up when they want to, pull you everywhere where you are expected to be seen, they want you to say meaningless things that they expect to hear. Introverts, we don't just say thoughtless things. It comes deep and we are sensitive no matter how we try not to take it seriously. You are alone but you are not lonely. If you love the art you do, you are beyond happiness. This is the same with me. I could not care less whether the world will burn hahaha I'm in my own happy place with good amount of people that supports me 😊
Amazing vlog! I love both the still-life and portrait ❤. Piano was very nice as well. You have so many passions and seem to be squeezing all you can out of them. I’m glad you’ve found a way to navigate loneliness. 😢. Thanks for being so relatable ❤️❤️
Am artist to and yes u need balance in life, I noticed that the best thing for us is to have small group of people that we comfortable around and r true friends to us
Thanks for the important reminder to maintain balance in our lives. Making art can be a solitary experience, but it doesn't have to be! Connecting with other artists is an essential part of the process. There are practical advantages like exhibition opportunities, skill building, and mutual critiques, but there are equally important reasons like morale-boosting and helping others who might just need an encouraging word. We see that happen every day at our stores- our role as a community hub for artists is something we're very proud of!
Thank you for posting this video. I love the storyline, showing us process and your square space. I’ve been painting on and off for years but hadn’t had the confidence to make it a full time deal. I now am in the position of being able to do that . I live in the redwoods of Big Sur California. It’s beautiful and I recently moved here with a partner who is supportive. This week I created an actual studio. For a long time I’ve been working in tough environments that are not conducive to a cozy atmosphere, but I still made art. I’m finally allowing myself to be creative. It hasn’t been easy! I cut out old acquaintances who didn’t serve a positive position in my life and I start from a clean slate. I’m in production mode now. I think socializing won’t be so good as I am setting up my business. I think you did the right thing by not socializing and working on your art actually… you have a lot of product. I am really introverted now but when I get around the right environment I do enjoy ppl. That being said, I don’t want to connect with ppl yet. Yes, I do get lonely but I’d rather be art focused and have a good amount of work ready. I like to make cannabis oil and paint. I also enjoy joe dispensa meditations and a balance of regular exercise. I drive down the coast and get to the beach, this is how I enjoy myself currently. In the near future, I will join the art community and connect more. But again, I feel as though having enough art and business set up will fascilitate my outgoing nature
it deff is an empty promise.... if something you doing does not work out does not mean that if you persue it long enough itl be better sometimes you need to change what you are doing and see how that works out
I’m currently suffering from burnout. It has caused me to stop painting. I haven’t painted in 3 months. Every time I look at my paints and pastels I feel so sad because I just cannot bring my self to create… 😢
Wow, what a beautiful video. I'm laying here in front of a roaring log fire with a herbal tea and watching your video. Such a wonderful choice of music too whilst you paint. I feel very relaxed!
Thank You Ashleigh for sharing your thoughts. I have also enrolled in some Art classes to make some art friends this year! I think when I nuture myself I like to treat myself to some little things such as a walk on the beach, some nice handcream and a special treat at the local bakery or some new Art supplies lol
First of all i used t feel lonely when i was studying at University. Until i met my husband. When you marry your soulmate then it gets better when children grow up. I went through so many challenges, spiritual WARFARE, paranormal stuff, black magic done on me. All sorts. I have become STRONGER through the Grace Of everything GOOD. I had to change many habits about myself. I am Greatful that My Husband and children are my friends so I don't feel lonely. However I have stopped meeting certain people and don't open the door to them/ let them in- so much PEACE NOW. I teach others what I know. I had a spiritual awakening years back an discovered things about myself and people. Reading is important because it REVERSES dementia. Yes there is a limit - for me Art is my other friend aswell. Being Creative is VERY IMPORTANT
Your piano playing is really good. You should consider recording using the line out (not through the speakers）and it will sound much better. Looking forward to your next performance! Greetings from Oslo, Norway.
Hi, i just found your channel and watched a few of ur videos and fell in love with the way you filming. Its so beautiful..the angle, lighting, colors, your paintings, all of them looks so aesthetic. Also the audio such as the backsound and the way you speak is so soothing. And makes the audience enjoy the video with relax feeling. You know how the world nowaday is so tiring with so many rush short videos around. Feels like our brain is filled with too many informations in such a short time 😅 Anyway, did you filmed it by yourself with tripod or you have someone else helping you film it?
Hey Ashleigh, greetings. I hear what your saying about the problems of being an artist and also about being somewhat introverted and finding the combination of the two I'm some way making your need to make friends or acquaintances rather a complex issue. However, I wish to tell you to embrace your introversion, because despite what the extroverted world has to say about us, introversion is a natural trait and involves people like us having a rich inner life, which is generally why we become artists, poets, writers, musicians, psychologists, etc. Our creative nature's allow for self expression which is our voice to the world. And yes, it embraces loneliness and isolation and causes us to take time out to recharge our bodies and our minds. This is the normal way for us to get our energy, from the things around us that gives us pleasure and deepens our insight. Extraverted people are the total opposite, as they get the majority of their energy from being pin the presence of others, in the playground, in the workplace, and in their need to constantly socialise with others who are equally like minded. So both are natural traits. Nevertheless, it is great to have some friends who share your narrative, and it may be helpful for you to join an art club, where you can go once or twice a week to share your art with like minded artists. Also please note that you also have built up a community of people on RU-vid, who love to follow your progress and are willing to chat via RU-vid any time you want feedback etc. By the way does hubby share your concerns for wanting to meet with friends? Why don't you set aside some time to go out and be with others one or two evenings a week. Take care now. Love your paintings, and video diaries. 🌹❤️💯👍😂🤣
i paint every day. every free minute of the day. i never ever feel lonely. not one second. the act of creation, the magic of colors is so much more fulfilling than losing time with people. My case might be special though, i spend far too long down the rabbithole learning how the world really works, and that left me with that i really really don´t like people. Most of them, sadly, are soulless empty padding for this simulation we are experiencing. Like NPC´s. Little side quests. Art is life.
Когда я понял, что находясь с людьми мне скучно или одиноко, я перестал с ними контактировать. Вот уже 3-4 года я не вижу никого кроме семьи, и то с ними не часто и до сих пор задаюсь вопросом, как можно скучать и чувствовать себя одиноким, если у тебя есть интернет и твои любимые важные дела. Тперь я понял, я на своем месте)
Working on a PhD in physics, run a small indie video game studio on the side, currently writing a post-doc proposal to NASA, also take ballet classes 3x per week and practice daily, etc... When this degree is done, I'm never working more than 40 hours in one week again. Ever. Passion is not a virtue. It's a curse... xD
I feel you. It’s challenging to find like-minded friends who also loves making art. In the meantime, I’ve accepted the gift of solitude and reframe loneliness to enjoying my own company.❤
try to join a martial arts place or boxing gym.. this was my road to finding many people. not to mention the self-confidence +. the key is to find a solution, if not we're just complaining and victimizing ourselves. at any moment, life can change.
Спасибо за видео. Для Вас небольшое стихотворение: Смотрел в окно, туда вдаль, Там вдали, черный ворон, Кружил, кончился этот год. Ом Мани Бадме Хум. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
For anyone suffering loneliness maybe consider getting a dog. If you adopt an extroverted dog that loves other dogs/people you will have plenty of opportunities to chat to other humans in the local park/green space. You can always foster rescue dogs until you find the right dog for you.
I literally started my youtube channel so that I'd be motivated to complete the activities that I was too depressed to do. To cultivate the community I lacked in my life. I’ve had to overhaul how I approach work/habits by practising mediocre consistency. Now I try to put in consistent 50-60% effort into my habits that give me stability (ex. journaling/working out) - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on my channel. I hope to find people to motivate me and I could motivate in return. It’s been really fulfilling so far. I succeeded in the corporate world/uni by not taking care of myself. I’d like any future sucess to come from taking care of myself and I would like the work I’m putting into myself will nurture the creative side of me I’ve repressed for so long. Loved the video
I'm so glad I'm not alone in this 🥺I also let my art stop me from making friends and I'm trying to change that, thank you so much for sharing this kind of content!
Thanks for sharing your emotions through your art work and hobbies. I have also related with your passions. Sorry to say that I have been suffering from cancer since two years.but right now, I am feeling well with your work n your beautiful presentation.
Hi Ashleigh…all is so true. Frequently I will spend many, many hours on not just the underlying drawing but also the finished painting. It can be draining so I ‘lower my periscope’ so to speak and just work on ‘unimportant’ sketchbook painitings or drawings since they will never be offered for sale or exhibit. 😊
Its ok painting is your passion and your passion always will demand some sacrifices like loosing some old friends but this same passion you will gain more friends through it. loneliness is not the absence of people around you ,this always be the most sacred moments in time that are very personal and private and is not for multitudes but for those who enjoy be with you
I think that social media brings a lot of pressure, because the exportation of your work. And if you make a hobby to a professional level, than the pressure comes. You must pay the bills, the administration of your business and normal life goes on. So I going on to a slower level, and work maximum 2 evenings in a week. No work on the weekend and the holidays and treat yourself for a nice dinner, spa or something else.
Hi Ashleigh, I really like your volg that got me started in oil painting, so I was wondering how you paint, how many layers do you do on your paintings and how to apply the fat on lean rule? A little hard to understand at first 🙂
I support the philosophy of Solophilia; appreciation of solitude. I wish i had more time to myself. There are so many crafts which require quiet times. Solitude makes me value my social times more.
I think the best way not to have a burn out is to have pets in your life, especially the onew you can save from a bad situation. They will give you so much love❤️
I love how calming your videos are ✨ even the painting process and yes we can clearly see that you improved a lot since you started your channel 🐾 please keep creating we love your work
Love your videos! You are a very good artist and sensitive.. What you say is close to the feelings of many people, you are an artistic and emotional stimulus... Thank you 💖
We can be friends, cause i too have done this. You get so focused as an artist because our craft takes so much time to perfect and even more time getting it out into the world. You get so into it that even if noone is around you, u still feel fulfilled even if lonely
ok, so i have not much of a life currently other then helping my parents or my brother with lesser jobs sometimes (i am still a skizophrenic as well but i am improving). However i am interested about artwork because of my sporadic very magnificent artistic imaginations and sometimes dreams as well (more like occasionally). I cannot draw, so right now i am in the procrastination phase to some extent however i have bits of designings of artwork in imagination during the day, and also i am pouring bubbles quite well in various liquids (which i am not filming). with this lacks schedule i am not so much burnt out or when i feel bored of some videogamedesign i considered i move on to noting a bit from other videogame designs, this way there are bits or chunks of videogames' design notes numbering 96 already.
