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Right!! Like, y’all 43 is not OLD

Just rude😂

Downright disrespectful 😂

Ain’t James in his 30’s?

He doesn't know lol

She also lists all the reasons how and why they trust each other. To take advantage of that trust is really messed up.

Yes this is craziness that was the first thing I thought of “THAT’S SO ILLEGAL” 😮 just imagine if the roles were reversed and say I don’t know 🤷🏼‍♀️ your dating Bill Cosby and he invites you over and you trust each other and all of a sudden the puddin tastes different 🤔 how would that end??? 👨🏻‍⚖️👩🏽‍⚖️👨🏿‍⚖️👩🏼‍⚖️

frfr it is absolutely INSANE to want to drug someone and think its okay because you love them

Agree 100% You need to address your needs in a consensual way. Having conversation on what your needs are. Naturally doing things that turn him on.

THIS

Facts 😂

Please and thank you!

THIS!!!!

Compared to a 20yo, her skin is probably sagging.

Mine too 😒

Right???? I'm 40 and have dudes younger than him still trying to get in my pants. Like 40 year old are gross and old.

faccts

Dudes like him panic when they get that old and date younger

@@TimTheEnchanter0 Yep

So true. He's acting 40's is death. Then he better get ready for it all to end in the next few years 😂

@@TimTheEnchanter0Leonardo DiCaprio and Chris Evans are prime examples lol.

y'all are butt hurt 😂

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Agreed!

That is her first mistake, asking these two!

​@@deborahkildare9651facts!

I was thinking the same damn thing. Early 30s too. Also ima be banging into my 60s lol

le sigh... the fact is...a lot of men refuse to learn what's common knowledge about our bodies...

I hear you. It was such common knowledge that jokes would be made about it on tv. That a male’s prime is around 18-20, and a woman’s is 40s. Sometimes I don’t know what has disappeared from mainstream culture until times like this. Lol.

@@Ivy94F it's a cosmic joke

Thank you for this, thought I made it up in my head. Lol

Was looking for this comment and it has nothing to do with being "repressed" as mentioned in the video. Thus is why women in their 40s will check for a younger man who can keep up🤷🏾‍♀️😂

He said don't let me know about it🤦🏾‍♀️😳

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That part!!!

& then James: “just cheat! Get a 25 year old ting on the side, just don’t say anything”

Yes😂. Oh to be a child again.

And 25 year olds too

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Not the karmic retribution! 😂😂😂

😂😂😂🎉 yes oooo. Shamelessly

From ur response it's obvious ur not that experienced n probably not old enough either, cz what James said was a 100% true. Loving someone and finding them attractive are not the same thing. You can be the most beautiful woman on planet earth but given enough time a man will loose interest. That's just how it is.

​@@Melan.DI agree... and to add to that: time does get the better of everyone, and sex drive tends to be driven by lust.. (even if it's for yur partner. The things he/she may do becomes the turn-on factor. ).. and fueled by love/emotions. That within a relationship is difficult as the one individual now has to fill all yur needs: visual. Sound. Fantasy. And dark desires. When you were out in singlehood all those can be achieved thru different means from different people.. and now, it's you. All yu. I love you but you are 40 and I need yu to be my slut my lover and my heart.. Trust.. the energy will come lol

@@nuffofyuhbs5458 We need to get the equality activist in on this as well 😁 get the women to put in the same amount of work in bed n see how long they can go. And then we can have a conversation abt how often we need to have sex.

No, no you’ve understood! he said exactly what you did but extended on it. There is an air about youthfulness that can’t be imitated. Air so powerful it’ll make you throw away years of faithfulness. That’s what he’s covering with that statement. It’s more akin to lust and urge than attraction or love.

Exactly ! Every immature

Right!!

❤❤❤ not enough LIKES for this one!!!!

Do they not have jobs? How do they even have time for that? 😂

@@emme2141 when it's fire... u make time for that

age does have something to do with it

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I think it's more to do with the onset of menopause.

James is so disrespectful to the 40 and up club! Reality is Dude wouldn't be able to handle it! Lol

All this. James would crumble into dust if a woman in her 40s put it on him.

Je sus💀 Only 3 comments on this vid and this is exactly what I was thinking

@@annishiajones9052 😂not with those weak ass knees.

@@FDT222 Facts!!

You're not a guy. You dont understand low T levels. End of.

@egdapo , I don't have to be a guy... WOMEN produce TESTOSTERONE, too. 😒 Just like ESTROGEN is in MEN as well. 🙄

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With that level of horny idk if mans was able to hold it in till they responded tbh. Bros probably spiking his drink rn for all we know 😂

I haven't watched the Shan podcast yet but my guess is that these guys, especially James, are far less experienced than they would have us belive. Have either of them even been in a long term relationship before? Feels like they are a couple 30yr old men who have only ever had casual sex, and probably only with young 20 something immature women. Which is unfortunate. Peter Pan syndrome.

@@verda_renee Why are you upset just because one person doesn't find old aunties attractive ? Isn't he allowed to have a preference. Some prefer 20s and others 40s

@tryingmann3458 who's upset? Yall gotta stop calling people upset for simply commenting an opinion on a social platform, which is what we're supposed to do. That's why comment sections exist.

Can't be too surprised - these guys spend their time reminiscing about their college days. They haven't matured past that.

I guarantee you, he’s interacted with 40s and didn’t know they were in their 40s. He has a completely different perception of what that age looks like, just like I did at 28. Lol.

@@Ivy94F I agree with you!

They are probably date women who are on average 21-24. Even though they’re in their mid 30s. So considering a 40 year old’s sex drive is probably beyond their comprehension.

We saw it and heard it but they addressed it with a no and why not. The misperception of sex in your forties is funnier and the banter light hearted - even in the comments. We all heard the question but it is clear that the woman on the other end is not just in need of advice but also therapy. Blasting her in the comments would only contribute to instability. She says she trust the guys and so we hope she takes care of herself after seeing their alarm over her thoughts. Blasting her might make it less likely she will hear and follow their advice. Then there is a man out there unknowingly dealing with an unhinged woman.

Thank you! I just posted the same thing. I'm like, "Y'all, this woman wants permission to drug her partner for sex". It's insane how that's the red flag we should focusing on, but they choose to get lost in the banter.

@@mephistopheles4910the men glossed over it and made it a discussion about her age but y’all mad at the woman for not talking about a topic they wasn’t speaking about ? 😂

@@sammiebateman8921no woman moved passed it because the men literally didn’t care more than they cared about her age it fine to hold men accountable 😂

It's not backwards. It's nature.

the problem is that she is trying to drug him without him knowing anything is up, if a guy did that to a woman people would call him a rapist. backwards

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Same!!!! I'm 52 as well. I could waste a day with someone who could keep up with me lol.

It sounds more like he was saying the guys perception or desire is different when engaging with a 40 year old woman.

That's what I got from the convo. It's not that the boyfriend doesn't want it more often, just not from a 40 year old woman.

@dblr4931 men act like they don't get old. We know they're balls start touching the toilet water at 40. Are we complaining?