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Can you imagine being happily married and still dating someone else ... with your spouse's consent? There are half a million Americans practicing polyamory, and Lisa Ling meets three families who are pushing the limits of love, commitment and family. (Original Air Date: March 5, 2013) Watch more of Our America with Lisa Ling on the WatchOWN app. For more information visit www.oprah.com/app/our-america...
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@MNP208 Месяц назад

Let adults do what adults want to do. However, bringing strangers into your home with children around is dangerous! It's a perfect playground for predatory behavior.

@thehempressoracle336 Месяц назад

It’s more honest that lying and cheating, and everyone knows what they’re getting into. They’re not preying on anyone, all grown adults. Understand it or not, like it or not, to each his own

@lisawolff3156 Месяц назад

Not for me, but I admit the idea of having another one or two adults to help share household duties & expenses is appealing.

@mariec3527 Месяц назад

Lmao 😂 especially the child care and bring in the income

@margo3367 Месяц назад

It reminds me of Ms. Ling’s investigation into swingers. It kind of left me with a yukky feeling. Fascinating though.

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

But IMMORAL

@mandyg943 Месяц назад

Jealousy is an emotion for a reason

@claudiacarrera9183 Месяц назад

I would not trust my daughter with anyone.

@dinomite078 Месяц назад

Exactly!!!! If they are adults with no kids fine - but don’t bring children ( any age ) into this .

@raybuggy11 Месяц назад

All I could think of is this is perfectly okay but when children are involved in the family unit you need to be so so so careful and pay attention to children's needs first before anyone

@dinomite078 Месяц назад

@@raybuggy11 exactly

@user-xl9xt3vp9j 10 дней назад

Those things happen if it's one boyfriend/husband

@PatriziaPlanatscher Месяц назад

It does not work for me

@raybuggy11 Месяц назад

Wouldn't work for me either but I love that other people are finding what works for them ❤

@maybaby13x Месяц назад

To each their own. If it's not hurting anyone, then what's the issue?

@marsharowaihy6725 Месяц назад

God

@abrilstorms Месяц назад

@@marsharowaihy6725lmao. Move along..

@latinaalma1947 Месяц назад

Judge not lest ye be judged.....PERIOD.

@kenofken9458 Месяц назад

The issue is that there are a lot of miserable people in this country who absolutely cannot stand knowing that someone else is happy. They are energy parasites to be ignored.

@RJArens Месяц назад

It's not illegal..... Unless they all marry each other. Funny how that goes.

@jennas2068 Месяц назад

We are everywhere. And not who you might expect we are. We're happy.

@cannkotlarz621 Месяц назад

Polygamy by another name is all it is.

@jennas2068 Месяц назад

@@cannkotlarz621 No. It's not for everyone. I'm married to one partner, but have no plans to marry my other partner. Now, if you still want to call it polygamy, I'm okay with that, but not all of us fit that definition.

@MNP208 Месяц назад

@@jennas2068 Do you have children? Bringing multiple partners into a home is not safe.

@jennas2068 Месяц назад

@@MNP208 yes, I have three. Do you assume that I bring just any old random person into my home? Please rest assured that I don't - for my own safety as well as theirs. I dated my BF for a year before he was allowed into my home. Y'all are making some wild assumptions.

@shanabenjamin8945 27 дней назад

Please just keep your kids safe 🙏

@user-xl9xt3vp9j 10 дней назад

This woman is fierce and awesome! She was married and hubby says lets explore, she says sure. Turned out that she met another man who was included...than im sure hubby wasnt so interested in exploring anymore 😂. Too bad for him because she is a loving person. Now she can live her life and everyone is happy.

@julesmbc Месяц назад

My husband, and kids, such a handful! I couldn't ever have imagined this kind of lifestyle...

@carnitacampbell9412 Месяц назад

Love thy neighbor literary..I really appreciate the insight and perspective of society. I enjoy these segments even if i don't share their reasonings.

@eileenglover4718 Месяц назад

Why do they all sit holding hands? Trying to make a point?

@aliceandappetizers 2 дня назад

This made me laugh 😂

@lidiamartinez9989 Месяц назад

This life is not for me… BUT who are they hurting?! How’s it affecting your life?! It’s not so let them be.

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

They're hurting the CHILDREN

@karenphillips2868 Месяц назад

I would love to see how many of these “relationships” are still working! I would love to see interviews with these people now to see if they still feel the same. There seems to be atleast one person with deeply low self esteem and insecurities in each of these relationships.

@ShaeDaily Месяц назад

I know a few couples who are 13+ years in, one 20+ when people choose to do life with someone it’s looks different for everyone. Through it all is what the vows say 😂🤷🏿‍♀️

@soco9937 5 дней назад

It's an irresponsible move to expose her daughter to this environment.

@janicescott-pair97 Месяц назад

I'm glad that lisa interviewed the daughter.

@hollaceparadis6591 Месяц назад

Ok, this is not PC. There is a trend here: people willing to share for a chunk of acceptance, to find a kind of romance and love they otherwise have not found. Also, they are nerds, notice anybody?

@maryellengabe7773 Месяц назад

Do they do a dna test if the woman gets pregnant. Also how do they explain their lifestyle to their kids. To each their own. Not my lifestyle

@janecole44 Месяц назад

SICK, THE KIDS ARE INVOLVED IN THIS MESS. THE WOMAN HISBAND IS NOW ON HIS 3 DIVORCE, REGINA IS ROTATING MORE MEN THAN JLO!!

@jovitaalejandrino4624 3 часа назад

🤢🤮

@seantech100 Месяц назад

I have been in the lifestyle for many years! Its no issue at all if you go into it with a mature mind

@rachellariviere795 Месяц назад

I have a friend who had two boyfriend, 5 Kids, 4 with the old bf, 1 with the New one, they all live together, then the first bf broke, and a couple of years latter she broke up with the second bf 😂

@Witchfoot.Incorporated Месяц назад

I could never but I have no problem with those that do.

@TV-wy1py Месяц назад

Wes's body language when w/ Gina compared to when he's w/ Jesse is much more guarded and closed-off.

@janeenharrison1953 Месяц назад

He's a cheater and really wants to dump Gina and stay with Jesse, but if he can both. Like a true sleazy man!

@lindseywaites3343 Месяц назад

To each their own.

@KS-yx7ho Месяц назад

Robin! Youre my hero!!

@tck3041 Месяц назад

Someone at some point is gonna get hurt. My concern would be with my child.

@kaykay10 Месяц назад

Iove it!!

@sharaswitala6296 Месяц назад

Thou shall not judge.

@Shannonmari Месяц назад

Not for me (I'd be too jealous, TBH), but hey, if this works for some, more power to them! 😄

@DemmanuelC Месяц назад

So adultery. Got it.

@christinamenhennett 19 дней назад

Exactly!

@josefagaunavoutuitubou6061 Месяц назад

How sick can society be. Animals are much better behave compared to these hooligans.

@dominique217 Месяц назад

Do you see the irony in your statement at all? 🤔

@wasabiginger6993 29 дней назад

So interesting how diverse and often polar the comments to this lifestyle.

@AuntJoanieBaloney Месяц назад

To each his own, but this is icky...

@margo3367 Месяц назад

I think so too. Oh well.

@howmoon67 Месяц назад

I love how Robin and her husband, Chuy, seem to be fine with her new love interest. The husband does not seem to have any jealousy issues.

@irinarose7553 Месяц назад

Dave sounds like someone who didn't give them any choice but to move in...

@damianwildfong7278 Месяц назад

there is a natural limit one only has so much money after all people who are realistic even if they are ploy recognize them.....ohhhh she said expecting one person to satisfy every need I could possibly have YAS that's an unrealistic expectation i relate

@lamaralexander5642 Месяц назад

What’s wrong with folks, this CRAZY INSANE.

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

So HOW EXACTLY DO YOU EXPLAIN POLYAMORY TO YOUR CHILD??????????

@asiancuteness8517 Месяц назад

You just talk to them about it? Ever heard of that?

@lauralee7281 Месяц назад

If they’re born into it there’s nothing to discuss. It’s part of their life. Those are their parents. If they’re going into it with a parent(s) the parents just need to be open honest and be open to their children(s) questions and feedback.

@jennas2068 23 дня назад

It's really pretty simple, though age appropriate answers, of course. "Kids, this is Dad's special friend". Kids just want to be loved and happy. My teenager needed to know that everyone was consenting, safe, and happy. It was a great opportunity to talk about consent and boundaries.

@laurenjames2877 Месяц назад

So a way to cheat without guilt? 😂 Great 🥴

@mariannehavisham8323 Месяц назад

Cheating is about dishonesty manipulation and a lack of consent/a abuse of trust. This is different because there is consent, honesty and trust

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

@@mariannehavisham8323LOL It's STILL cheating.

@chowmarina008 Месяц назад

No not for me. If i had to share my husband, i would cry everyday 24/7

@janedoe1146 Месяц назад

i feel a sense of awkwardness....definitely not a lifestyle i could embrace

@cassieblackmoore2776 Месяц назад

I dont know why but lisa i love your tv work but dont care for your stories

@lindih111 Месяц назад

Good point, I chose which episodes to watch,maybe you should do the same.

@proudhavenot Месяц назад

I think it's cool. We've been conditioned by so many different influencers and leaders that have zero knowledge of anything other than control, why not try something different? If it works for you and everyone involved, then why not?

@jeanmarierock4603 Месяц назад

What if her husband had a girlfriend and her boyfriend had a wife? Would she be ok with that??

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

Probably.

@janecole44 Месяц назад

REGINA IS SELFISH, SHE IS ALL ABOUT HERSELF.

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

@@janecole44Ummm, I think there’s other people besides Regina involved in the decision making.

@suzystone244 Месяц назад

Robin. Chewy. John. This triad is an equal match. They also have an orange cat...BONUS. I would like to see an update❤

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

But a CHILD only knows what they SEE and EXPERIENCE in their own environment! So HOW are they supposed to make sense of all these different couples- married or not???

@kingwillie206 Месяц назад

Do what you want as adults, but bringing children into that lifestyle is abuse.

@mariannehavisham8323 Месяц назад

This is insulting to actual abuse victims

@kingwillie206 Месяц назад

@@mariannehavisham8323 - Nonsense! What do you know about it?

@mariannehavisham8323 Месяц назад

@@kingwillie206 plenty

@kingwillie206 Месяц назад

@@mariannehavisham8323 - Explain to me how me watching my Mother get passed around by multiple men would have been less abusive than my Dad doing drugs in front of me and kicking me in the backside at 4 or 5 years old. I like to give people a chance to explain their positions before making assumptions.

@jennas2068 23 дня назад

Nobody is abused or neglected at my home. Are you thinking that there's chaos or s3x in front of a child? That's super gross. My kids see hugs and affection. I'm sorry that you seem to have had such poor examples - I did too, but I've chosen not to repeat them.

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

NOONE EVER SAID ONE PERSON IS SUPPOSED TO MEET ALL YOUR NEEDS! Where are they getting that FROM?? The Bible never said that! NO one person can ever meet 100% of someone else's needs.

@tyhoang1319 Месяц назад

God law is one husband and one wife for each couple. They change God’s law to make it to work for them. That’s how moral of this country going down hill. Ty

@az1infin268 Месяц назад

You are not their God, so have no place in dictating how they live their lives. God can communicate with them, just as God can communicate to you, so you in no way have any sort of authority or right to tell them what your "God" wants for them. That's between them and God. Just as who you love is between you and your God.

@az1infin268 Месяц назад

It's called freedom and bodily autonomy.

@tyhoang1319 Месяц назад

Morality that all

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

@@tyhoang1319Whose “morality?” We don’t get to dictate how other people live. You are exactly the reason why so many of us walk away from the self-proclaimed “chrissians.” You people are so intolerant of others.

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

@@az1infin268I like how you think. Come over here and sit with me!

@catherinebullock9748 26 дней назад

Does their commitment and fidelity last into old age or illness? I couldn't do this and still respect myself.

@ballgame3273 Месяц назад

Cringing.. but to each it's own

@janicescott-pair97 Месяц назад

Who truly benefits?😮

@jeto-gu5ni Месяц назад

Although I find it strange in my world I see how it can work for some people , I just wonder about there kids at school and how this is perceived by other kids and and the impact on the kids from this unusual situation.

@monicamb5042 Месяц назад

This seems so exhausting.... I'm happy for them but this is not for me.

@paddleduck5328 Месяц назад

❤♾️

@janespitfire9884 Месяц назад

no way!!

@klove6149 Месяц назад

Ok im waiting to hear the part where the guys have more partners too....🤔...or she just gets 2 guys?😂

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

They do. Sometimes the men have boyfriends and the women have girlfriends as well.

@raimeyewens7518 Месяц назад

I think they call them cucks

@janecole44 Месяц назад

I THINK EVENTUALLY BOTH MEN WILL LOOK TO OTHER PEOPLE. HOWEVER, BOTH MEN SEEM LIKE BETA WHIMPY WUSSY MALES.

@kimdelk1181 29 дней назад

Do any of these ppl work? Who the hell has time for such shenanigans

@chelseasummers2365 Месяц назад

Regina‘s marriage fell apart after she brought her boyfriend into the mix, gee … I never thought that would happen. 😆😆😆😆 It’s human nature to be jealous and want what’s yours to be only yours. These people are delusional and what’s really sad is when you see a child growing up in that environment. I wonder if Regina would be open to her husband bringing another woman in the mix. Somehow I don’t think she’d really be into it. Regina likes it because she’s benefiting of having two men. I bet you if her husband brought a woman into the mix shit would hit the fan.

@chicanica64 24 дня назад

Who owns the property Chewy and her girlfriend live on? Thats a lot of people living under one roof with plans for more. It sure makes the practical aspect of life like chores and shopping easier.

@QuentinBraxton-oh2wo Месяц назад

WHAT'S REALLY HAPPENING?!?! 😮❤

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

Welp, it looks quite apparent to me. It’s not like it’s an unfathomable mystery like black holes or dark matter, yk?

@janecole44 Месяц назад

WHAT IS REALLY HAPPENING IS THAT CHUEY AND JON WANT EACH OTHER, THEY ARE MANIPULATING ROBIN , MAKE HER THINK THEY WANT HER FAT UGLY OLD SELF BUT THESE 2 MEN WANT EACH OTHER.

@j.t1682 Месяц назад

America is on the wrong trek.

@juliehanna9443 22 дня назад

Oh please..welcome back to the 60’s .,

@danielleallenyoung7992 Месяц назад

It's not Biblical. So I don't support it.

@mlhiggs44 Месяц назад

Regina is goals

@howmoon67 Месяц назад

She does Fijian massage? I think that is what it is called since she is seated and using her feet.

@annficken6291 Месяц назад

What happens with sexually transmitted diseases?

@MNP208 Месяц назад

I was thinking the same. 🤣 She didn't ask the hard question.

@tolibjonjumayew Месяц назад

That is a pity. What is the stupid things occur in our life.😢

@user-dg6gq8gs9n Месяц назад

Definitely not for me, though in this economy, having all those incomes could certainly be nice ;)

@eileenglover4718 Месяц назад

A "W". 😅😅😅😅

@latinaalma1947 Месяц назад

moondancer: and you care why????Imquoted that because it is a precept in the Bible admonishing "believers". So you pick and choose what is CONVENIENT for your prejudices and discard the rest ehhhh? It is YOUR belief system not mine. I can also say, " Let he who is without sin cast the first stone". It is always best to withhold judgment of others...it is in YOUR belief system up to GOD to judge, not up to YOU.

@kimberlyoliveto9229 17 дней назад

John seems WAY more into Chewy than Robin.

@irinarose7553 Месяц назад

I think Jon got in that relationship for Robin's 16 year old daughter.

@QuentinBraxton-oh2wo Месяц назад

SAY IT'S NOT SO!?!? ❤️

@keyawnspoor9903 Месяц назад

I litterly thought the same thing soon as I saw her daughter like comon now we ain't stupid smdh

@janecole44 Месяц назад

HOW GROSS.

@janecole44 Месяц назад

ROBYN'S DAUGHTERMIS A VERY PRETTY YOUNG LADY. I HOPE ROBYN IS GUARDING HER DAUGHTER SAFETY. THIS POLYAMORY CRAP SEEMS VERY SELFISH.

@user-qe2cj5tl7d Месяц назад

yep

@user-st8vt5de6p Месяц назад

One of the guy will be have an eye for her daughter

@beckymaina8872 Месяц назад

😮very strange indeed 🤔 😕

@503ashkatchem4 Месяц назад

Regina has the juice lucky girl a husband and a boyfriend

@iamamazing7418 Месяц назад

Lol. Look at all the judgemental going on. These are grown a** adults. Let them live. If you weren't interested in this type of lifestyle. Then why click the video lol

@laneybobs8157 Месяц назад

She has a daughter. So it's not all grown a$$ adults.

@jennas2068 Месяц назад

Exactly. It's really wild that people are so threatened. (And to the busybody parson worried about the kids....my son is just fine, thanks. I hope you understand that he's not negatively effected. He sees loving and peaceful adults. He's decided that he feels like a monogamous person, which is just fine with me.)

@eileenglover4718 Месяц назад

Viewers are quite entitled to have an opinion. Just because it may differ from yours doesn't mean anyone is threatened.

@janeenharrison1953 Месяц назад

@@jennas2068 you're forgetting the child - she didn't ask for this nastiness in her life.

@jennas2068 Месяц назад

@@janeenharrison1953 Nobody has forgotten the child. If you think having a child in a polyamorous home is "nasty" and that in some way has a negative effect on the child, then you either have a really disgusting mindset or you aren't paying attention. MORE adults around is beneficial to a child. A nurtured and encouraged child is a happy and healthy child. Please don't use the "what about the children" card to cover for your prejudices. It's a flawed argument.

@cannkotlarz621 Месяц назад

Polygamy by a different name.

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

Exactly

@user-ru6om1qb3q Месяц назад

regina is one lucky lady. this was not around when i was in my younger years.

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

Yeah, actually they did and have since forever. The word they used is “infidelity.”

@user-qe2cj5tl7d Месяц назад

Regina is a dude LOL

@laneybobs8157 Месяц назад

Having no self respect or morals. Being a bad role model to her kid. Unlucky, IMO.

@jgator6694 Месяц назад

You think she is lucky?? Ugh

@mariannehavisham8323 Месяц назад

Look up professor Marsden -he had a polyamorous relationship in the 1920s, 30s 40s.. polyamory has always existed and it's different to infidelity

@user-qh9fy3my7w 16 дней назад

These are people wanting their cake and to eat it too.

@kdp9122 26 дней назад

To be 100% honest, these are all fringe people, so I’m not surprised. I didn’t see a normal one in the bunch.

@mym0onlight293 21 день назад

Freaks n’ Geeks

@barbatkinson5822 Месяц назад

🤮🤮🤮

@Mesekiu671 Месяц назад

Weird peope

@lydia2159 Месяц назад

Yuck 🤢

@janecole44 Месяц назад

ALL OF THESE MEN SEEM GHEY/

@aannalese Месяц назад

Disgusting 🤢

@SarahSmith-zr8bp 8 дней назад

They’re all weirdos

@ttenda2836 22 дня назад

weired

@AngeHCF 12 часов назад

🤢

@katerinac706 11 дней назад

Gross

@lindajackson2382 Месяц назад

Don't USE THE WORD "COMMITMENT "! That's blasphemous! It's anything BUT!! And you know that.

@jalennelson6008 Месяц назад

Gross! Why do we rebel against the Lord for the sake of a feeling?

@tundrawomansays694 Месяц назад

Because “we” is plural and not everyone thinks, believes or feels as you (or I) do. It has nothing to do with your magical guy in the sky.

@jalennelson6008 Месяц назад

@@tundrawomansays694 magical? Go ahead and convince yourself that God doesn't exist. That's on you

@jalennelson6008 Месяц назад

@llamalady8700 yes ma'am! Amen!

@Eileen-ne6qx Месяц назад

So sad that some of you LIMIT God

@jalennelson6008 Месяц назад

@@Eileen-ne6qx limit God? He's sovereign. His Will requires obedience. Quit trying to make Him whatever you want.

@laneybobs8157 Месяц назад

Gross.

@yvonnekneeshaw2784 29 дней назад

Not what God intended … I’ll pass on watching

@amemalecortexwilliams4076 Месяц назад

WOW this is So Nasty ... which one of those dudes are unemployed 😅

@bogu3290 Месяц назад

Probably you 😅

@amemalecortexwilliams4076 Месяц назад

@@bogu3290 negative Sir I have one wife and I'm employed

@janeenharrison1953 Месяц назад

😂😂😂