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I'm Dating a Girl - For the Girls with Becca Moore 

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This is the scariest thing I’ve ever posted!! Please be gentle!! I love you guys, thank you for letting me figure things out as I go.
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@daniellemoonstar6947
@daniellemoonstar6947 Месяц назад
Girl, having Shannon as a first girlfriend is like hitting a lesbian lottery jackpot. I’m so happy and excited for you and Shannon.
@anonymouse0123
@anonymouse0123 Месяц назад
i think she found her through Fletcher lol ... she literally said Fletcher's music video was her gay awakening...
@FutureXXD
@FutureXXD Месяц назад
ikr!! lmao that's what i was saying
@ari7836
@ari7836 Месяц назад
@@anonymouse0123 if you’re referring to her talking about meeting shannon on a set of a music video, she’s talking about zolita’s music video
@derekg5563
@derekg5563 Месяц назад
@daniellemoonstar6947: She might want to work on not staring at someone like a creep for an entire day and feeling entitled to do so just because she likes them. It isn't like she hasn't been educated about harassing behavior, living in today's society.
@FutureXXD
@FutureXXD Месяц назад
@@derekg5563 i mean her staring got her Shannon lol, so i don’t get why you’re so triggered by it 😅 i’m sure she meant she was trying to make eye contact to initiate a convo. You need to chill
@slauthordraws3363
@slauthordraws3363 Месяц назад
listening to a girl talk about what she likes about her girlfriend is literally the best thing ever
@derekg5563
@derekg5563 Месяц назад
@slauthordraws3363: Being someone who can get approval to the point of someone calling what you're doing literally the best thing ever, simply by talking about what you like about your partner, which would be fun and easy to do anyway, seems even better (for the people in that situation, at least).
@michellesnip6901
@michellesnip6901 Месяц назад
THE MAIN LESBIAN THAT THERE EVER COULD BE has me CACKLING
@steadystudying
@steadystudying Месяц назад
The moment you do “am I gay “ quiz is the tell lol
@genZer420
@genZer420 Месяц назад
lollll
@LaLaLaLaLa8237
@LaLaLaLaLa8237 Месяц назад
Right.. if you're taking the quiz that's pretty much your answer...
@genZer420
@genZer420 Месяц назад
@TheRealVille why are u even commenting, do u really think ur gonna change our minds 💀🤢😂
@genZer420
@genZer420 Месяц назад
@TheRealVille i’m aware, and the previous statement is still applicable regardless of who u were talking to, and why read comments under a video about a queer woman if that’s how u feel 💀🤦‍♀️
@LaLaLaLaLa8237
@LaLaLaLaLa8237 Месяц назад
@TheRealVille so you choose to be straight?
@theauntless
@theauntless Месяц назад
I love that everyone was like "Uh YEAH no shit she's SHANNON BEVERIDGE" in response to you spiraling about being attracted to her 😂 She is truly everyone's type
@th-bx6bq
@th-bx6bq Месяц назад
Imagine coming out and you have an ARCHIVE of reassuring content made by your new gf over the last 10 years to help you and others get through it aww
@th-bx6bq
@th-bx6bq Месяц назад
I can't get over u discovering you're somewhat queer then starting to date Shannon Beveridge like?????? That's like going to Vegas for the first time and winning the jackpot. Your first born (or next cat) has to be named Zolita now, i don't make the rules..
@ekaterina6758
@ekaterina6758 Месяц назад
😂😂😂😂
@sandrabon1477
@sandrabon1477 Месяц назад
More alisha
@itsliv1998
@itsliv1998 Месяц назад
this representation is so important!! i am super feminine and only dated men, and when i started dating my gf everyone was super shocked, which was hard on me. it was the biggest transition of my life being out later in adulthood, but being on the other side now, its so worth it. im so proud of you and so excited for this new chapter!!
@bellebellebelle123
@bellebellebelle123 Месяц назад
ughhhh yessss about femme queer representation! I feel like growing up I did not see any super feminine lesbians, so I kind of just assumed I wasn’t queer because I didn’t fit the mold of lesbians I saw in media. So grateful for all the queer femmes now for changing my perspective & helping me recognize that my queerness is more than just how I dress!🌈
@sneekz07
@sneekz07 Месяц назад
@@bellebellebelle123 The majority of lesbians in the media are femme as are the majority in the community.
@llebron9678
@llebron9678 Месяц назад
I just hope we can normalize femme with femme relationships… no one needs to be the “dude “- masculine
@LaLaLaLaLa8237
@LaLaLaLaLa8237 Месяц назад
@@llebron9678 exactly
@Kennedichris
@Kennedichris Месяц назад
The teary “shannon” 😭😭 ty for sharing and for being so vulnerable and creating representation!!! you and your experiences and emotions are so important and the different feelings will come in waves. People, whether in real life or online, who choose to spread hate or negativity are not a reflection of the validity of your feelings, who you are, or who you love. Hold your head high. You’re braver than most 🤍
@allisonmoon2536
@allisonmoon2536 Месяц назад
that shit ripped my heart out of my chestttttt 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@alexg171
@alexg171 Месяц назад
that was so cute 😭
@toebeansmeow
@toebeansmeow Месяц назад
I teared up 😭
@maddieequestrian5520
@maddieequestrian5520 25 дней назад
oh my god this comment is SO sweet 😭🫶🫶
@mackmiller3410
@mackmiller3410 Месяц назад
It’s allowed to feel big to you, it is! Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place.
@anikarahman193
@anikarahman193 Месяц назад
The way becca talks about shannon is so sweet. Coming out is hard and takes bravery.
@MBGeneration
@MBGeneration Месяц назад
Shannon asin fletchers ex?
@anikarahman193
@anikarahman193 Месяц назад
@@MBGeneration Yes, Shannon beveridge and cari fletcher dated 2016-2020.
@MBGeneration
@MBGeneration Месяц назад
@@anikarahman193 oh wow ok
@adrianarugeles8737
@adrianarugeles8737 Месяц назад
The “It could happen to anyone!!” cracked me tf up 😂 as a femme, welcome to the winning team gurl 💅🏳️‍🌈
@elizabeth4689
@elizabeth4689 Месяц назад
"shannon looked like a cartoon character" lol so true she is real pretty
@ekaterina6758
@ekaterina6758 Месяц назад
She's stunning)))
@honeya3183
@honeya3183 Месяц назад
Have u meet shannon?​@@ekaterina6758
@vabraham2155
@vabraham2155 Месяц назад
This representation is so important!! I am femme and bisexual, and seeing more people like myself come out and be proud would have helped me figure things out a lot sooner!! Thank you for being so vulnerable!!
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
Remember: missfenderr ➡️ Alayna Joy
@nicolebenitez272
@nicolebenitez272 Месяц назад
The teary Shannon call got my heart. You found someone who makes you feel safe and a soft place to land through this journey. Hold tight, the ride can get bumpy but it’s all worth it in the end. My wife and I have been together 17 years. We had to work through her family the first 3 and they could have tore us apart had we let it. We put our love first and protected it from the beginning. Best of luck to you both.
@twildabuckingham
@twildabuckingham Месяц назад
"The main lesbian there ever could be" 😂❤
@Megnificentness
@Megnificentness Месяц назад
I've been watching Shannon for 10 years and I found Becca around 2020. It's been cool to see 2 beautiful and amazing women find each other. I love queer love. I love y'all's version of queer love. Welcome to the queer community Becca. We're so glad you're here and thank you for sharing your story
@savannahmuniz3421
@savannahmuniz3421 Месяц назад
Becca casually stumbling upon the love of her life~ and it’s Shannon… so so so happy for you both. Shannon deserves this type of healthy love & so do you!!!💖💖💖💖
@NanceN_12
@NanceN_12 Месяц назад
I am here bc of Shannon. Been a fan of hers since her early youtube days and of course I got curious to see who is this Becca she is now dating. Let me tell you, I went on IG and didn’t vibe too much with her content but this video shows so much vulnerability, honesty and emotion I can only say… it is all clear to me. Becca thank you for sharing this video. You couldn’t have fallen for a better person, especially in this community. Welcome to this particular roller coaster of life but filled with lots of laughter, joy and love. You got new fan here 😘
@sofrib
@sofrib Месяц назад
becca please dont think that just because we are in a more "progressive time" that it should be easy or not scary to do this! you have every right to feel any type of way, i just hope you know that you are incredible and amazing either way!!!! sending loooooots of love!
@hoopgal3216
@hoopgal3216 Месяц назад
I identify as straight, have never had a physical relationship with a woman, never attracted to women AT ALL - but when I was 30 years old I met this girl who I was sooooo attracted to. Her personality, her vibe, her everything. If she had made a move on me, I totally would’ve dated her. It was very confusing to me at the time. 15 years later and I’m still thinking of her to this day ❤You’re not alone!! Congrats on your wonderful girlfriend :)
@watzlowski
@watzlowski Месяц назад
Wish you had made a move instead! Maybe find her today and try, if you still think about her. You never know if she thinks about you too :)
@hoopgal3216
@hoopgal3216 Месяц назад
@@watzlowski I wish I would have too!! 😫 I was too scared. I’m happily married now, so no going back in time 😔
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
​@@hoopgal3216 go find her please. She might be your soul mate. For soul mates, gender doesn't matter. There are many stories like this. Give us an update.
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
​@@watzlowski you're right.
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
go find her please. She might be your soulmate. For soulmates, gender doesn't matter. Even marriage cannot stop soulmates. Also, you might just be a late bloomer. You might realize it later in life. You might just be influenced by compulsory heterosexuality - it's a real thing.
@krysivory493
@krysivory493 Месяц назад
The MV she was talking about IS ZOLITA's "Bloodstream"! ♥
@clairewodack434
@clairewodack434 Месяц назад
Becca! This is so so amazing. To hear this kind of queer vulnerability from a girl who is “small town sorority girl straight passing” woman is so validating and I feel so seen. I love u and I wish u the best forever and ever!
@ClaireWedgeworth
@ClaireWedgeworth Месяц назад
*The teary "Shannon" was so cute🥺 the internet ruined the surprise for me back in January but I'm happy for you both🥰💕*
@hannahuptegrove8786
@hannahuptegrove8786 Месяц назад
“I like the wine, not the label”. So happy for you girly!
@isthereanyoneoutthere
@isthereanyoneoutthere 22 дня назад
Love that adage
@amandashanda
@amandashanda Месяц назад
One of the best things i learned in therapy is what other people think about me is none of my business. Takes time to really set in and practice but has helped me so much! So happy for you guys!!
@cambrieoyler5503
@cambrieoyler5503 Месяц назад
This is exactly the kind of representation I need! I am super super feminine and felt the EXACT same way starting to date girls after dating boys, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR SHARING! I feel less alone!!
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
Comphet is a real thing indeed. Many people didn't realize they were gay because of comphet.
@nuriclimgal6833
@nuriclimgal6833 Месяц назад
shhh my novel has started
@Gaminggirl227
@Gaminggirl227 Месяц назад
“I talked about her to EVERYONE” That’s the situation I’m in. Can’t get this girl out of my head. She’s so pretty and funny. I’m so down bad
@ChocolatexCherries3
@ChocolatexCherries3 Месяц назад
as a late blooming bisexual who figured it out at 24, I feel so seen by your emotional reaction to being self-aware about your attraction to women!
@th-bx6bq
@th-bx6bq Месяц назад
This was such a sweet episode, i've never seen you be so candid, plus Becca T and Gabby supporting u is super nice to hear considering you and Shan's story is so similar to theirs with their current partners (it girl starts crushing on it lesbian lmao)!! And obviously your taste has gotten better, Shannon's the best but i'm sure you know that better than any of us atp
@abbyroche7027
@abbyroche7027 Месяц назад
I relate so hard to this. Both my gf and I are super feminine and she was in a sorority (we just graduated). Everything is perfect within our lives objectively, but when I think about little stereotypic intricacies like weddings, date events, etc… it gets overwhelming. Knowing that she’s worth it is so amazing and being wlw is truly a blessing and wonderful life to live, even with the little doubts. You’re doing a huge HUGE service to girls like me by coming out like this. It’s so so amazing to see “cool girls” be openly gay, it makes me feel sm more normal. My gf and I are sending love and we’re so happy for you and Shannon :))
@doremifaso1357
@doremifaso1357 Месяц назад
This video had me in shambles in the best way 😭 I can’t thank you enough for sharing it. I could have echoed every single word. I’ve been dating my first girlfriend for a little over a year and still haven’t hard launched because of my fear of those who will hate me or see me differently, especially old (church) friends and most of my family. This mayyyy just tip that scale for me… so thank you for your bravery. It begets other bravery. 💖 I am so sorry for the inner turmoil it has caused you and I totally get it… but I also couldn’t be happier for you and your happiness. For the girls!!
@krysivory493
@krysivory493 Месяц назад
...a girl? You're DATING THE GIRL I LOVE! 😭♥️
@th-bx6bq
@th-bx6bq Месяц назад
same like i didn't expect me and Becca to share a gf but here we are
@mommyissuesmusic
@mommyissuesmusic Месяц назад
It’s just one big parasocial polycule.
@BeatrizSantos-zx5gz
@BeatrizSantos-zx5gz Месяц назад
In conclusion: we sould all be thankful that Shannon Beveridge exists!
@alvaughn11
@alvaughn11 Месяц назад
Becca, thank you so much for sharing. I know it wasn’t easy, but this representation for someone who might be going through the same thing is so important. To call you brave is cliche’, but it’s true. I love that you love the person. That’s the message here.
@katelinhaught1357
@katelinhaught1357 Месяц назад
If you took an “am I gay” quiz as a kid chances are you’ll grow up to be at least a little bit 💅🏻 And we love you Becca! Love the way you’re so open and real
@lexi-op5vk
@lexi-op5vk Месяц назад
it's so cute to see you talking about your crush and your realization that you like girls 🥺 welcome to the club
@lexi-op5vk
@lexi-op5vk Месяц назад
@TheRealVille it aint
@annsley.martin
@annsley.martin Месяц назад
i always knew you were too funny to be straight lol. thank you for being patient with yourself and sharing such a happy and loving part of your life with the public eye! very excited for you to experience your first wlw relationship girls are truly the best
@marianafelix6562
@marianafelix6562 Месяц назад
I love how Shannon always introduce us to new people and amazing people like you !
@moriahsmith6196
@moriahsmith6196 Месяц назад
I love that you candidly shared your story! I came out at 26 too! I’m a lesbian, but, I grew up very religious and dated men up until that point. Some people were surprised, some people weren’t. There’s no right way to do things and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise! 💕 Welcome to the family sis!
@rhiannonbleu1044
@rhiannonbleu1044 Месяц назад
you’re gonna help so many people feel comfort into coming out, so many things come as relatable and I am so here for it!! you’re the best and I’m so happy for you both 💗
@catherinechase9517
@catherinechase9517 Месяц назад
The advice portion of this podcast was hilarious. The coming out portion of this podcast made me tear up. I’m so happy for you. Very very jealous that your gay awakening is now your girlfriend! I wish I had been so lucky!!
@katiehecht7085
@katiehecht7085 Месяц назад
I saw shannon at a renee rapp concert and she does look like a cartoon character shes got the best skin of anyone ive ever seen it doesnt look real 😂
@amandaleighplans
@amandaleighplans 27 дней назад
She needs to drop her skincare routine because wth
@Emarie468
@Emarie468 Месяц назад
I think you guys might be the most beautiful couple I’ve ever seen, like how can two people look SO GOOD together🥺😭💛.
@heathervc
@heathervc Месяц назад
This is why it’s so important to be open minded! Sexuality is soooo fluid! If you like a person, you like a person, regardless of gender. Happy for you two!
@isabella_1129
@isabella_1129 Месяц назад
I needed this. like I think I would’ve died without this
@catherinechase9517
@catherinechase9517 Месяц назад
I was 27 when I finally figured out I was queer - better late than never
@elizabeth4689
@elizabeth4689 Месяц назад
that's crazy but happy for you
@jasminec7639
@jasminec7639 Месяц назад
28 and realized the same thing…. Its so refreshing
@catherinechase9517
@catherinechase9517 Месяц назад
@@elizabeth4689 I had been in a 6.5 year relationship with a man, so I didn’t really consider the fact that I was interested in women too, despite realizing now that I absolutely had crushes on women but I was in a monogamous relationship so I never thought much about the meaning of my feelings, I just knew I would get really excited to be with certain friends
@jeffboyardee6003
@jeffboyardee6003 Месяц назад
@@elizabeth4689probably because straightness is seen as the default and until someone has concrete feelings, they have no reason to believe they’re anything but that
@bombadillo2
@bombadillo2 Месяц назад
30 for me!
@mckennahiller7048
@mckennahiller7048 Месяц назад
Had such a similar come to Jesus moment with a hot lesbian & also didn’t know how to act. It felt like 5th grade all over again. I am so happy for you both. The people that don’t get it aren’t a supposed to and you’ll create space for people that do. Celebrate how fun it is to grow and evolve in new ways-us humans are always learning- and know that the best is yet to come ❤️
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
@@mckennahiller7048 where is she? Are you together?
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
@@mckennahiller7048 where is she now? Were you a couple?
@lemon2983
@lemon2983 Месяц назад
"You're gonna be a man and be introverted? Shut up" lmao
@mehee271
@mehee271 Месяц назад
Shannon singlehandedly lesbianizing the world for us. I think her ability to turn "straight" girls gay counts as a superpower.
@Anna-19928
@Anna-19928 Месяц назад
Ehhh I get the joke but it really trivializes sexuality as a spectrum. Becca did this on her own! ❤
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
​@@Anna-19928 I think straight girls are the only ones who have fluid sexuality. It's possible for them to change if it's done right.
@SippinTeaaa
@SippinTeaaa Месяц назад
@@Anna-19928 exactly, sexuality is really a spectrum
@thebatmanwhoposts9600
@thebatmanwhoposts9600 Месяц назад
That sounds a little gross to me, anyone who can be turned isn't straight to begin with. Also feels like a man bragging about "turning" a lesbian.
@Anna-19928
@Anna-19928 Месяц назад
@@thebatmanwhoposts9600 exactly what I was thinking
@ashliechristine928
@ashliechristine928 Месяц назад
“Maybe I’m scared of conversations I’m not apart of” is so … just spot on. I never know how to word it. Which is so funny because I wanted to jump through the screen and help you get your thoughts out because you’re so genuine and so sweet, and I just relate to you and this and a lot of what you said toward the end. It’s a battle for just every day personal life things and letting go of those scares thoughts will release a weight so heavy. But, easier said than done, and all we can do is try !! ❤️‍🩹 SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! Feel your emotions! You’re human! And so loved 🤍🤍
@dvapols1
@dvapols1 Месяц назад
Truly, you're doing great. I yearn for the day that “I like who I like” is enough said. So happy for you, you're both wonderful.
@caitlynmoody5782
@caitlynmoody5782 Месяц назад
people may be talking about it and there may be articles but it’s because you are becoming the representation that so many people need. that you needed. your story will help so many people have life changing realizations earlier and with a positive representation of how they’re life might have changes but they are still exactly the same person.
@Caro-zx2ly
@Caro-zx2ly Месяц назад
OBSESSED WITH YOU AND WITH THIS!!!!!!!! Way to snag “the number one lesbian in the world” lmaooo died at that 😂😂😂
@RememberMex17
@RememberMex17 Месяц назад
This is so real and you’re handling it so well and you’re so earnest and sincere about it. I love this so much. You’re doing great. Thank you for being authentic and vulnerable here, you’re voicing things that are so relatable and real that not everyone opens up about.
@XXWINX397
@XXWINX397 Месяц назад
I have been following Shannon for 8 years and she is the best. Thank you for sharing your story. I cried the day you came out, and you made me cry again in this video. So proud of you❤
@Carriehammer718
@Carriehammer718 Месяц назад
Same
@marisollozano1792
@marisollozano1792 Месяц назад
I was my partner first relationship with a women! We have been together for 5+ years and still has not labeled herself. Don’t feel like you have to either. She always says she feel in love with human being not gender!
@Scribes68
@Scribes68 Месяц назад
Thank you to all the young women living their truths. Your representation was exactly what I desperately needed when I was forced out in 1988. Yes, you can have a long, fulfilling life living as a lesbian. None of your feelings or stories are new. They just happen to be amongst the first to be on open social media platforms. I love hearing what my generation was able to carve out in order for our generation to live the lives we dreamed of back many generations before you. Your vulnerability and truth will touch lives. Thank you!❤❤❤
@carlai7218
@carlai7218 Месяц назад
Thank you for speaking out Becca! I cannot even begin to explain how happy it makes me that I can finally relate to someone’s experience. I can totally understand the fear of how others may change their perceptions on you after coming out. Your experience is so valid and just because you did not know that part of yourself before does not mean it’s not you or not a real experience for you. I’m happy that you’re happy!
@TravisCurry
@TravisCurry Месяц назад
You're figuring yourself out - don't be afraid of changing. At your core, you'll always be the same, lovable person that you've always been, but now you're coming into yourself. It's scary AF and the self acceptance is a journey. There's so many thoughts and emotions to go through and it's a part of the coming out journey. I can't imagine what it is like to live your life fully thinking that you're straight, then realize that you aren't straight. That's got to be a lot to process. Sending you lots of love. Glad to have you as a part of the community. You definitely struck gold with Shannon - welcome to Internet Lesbian Royalty lol! I'm very happy for both you and Shannon!
@itsprobablyfinemel4314
@itsprobablyfinemel4314 Месяц назад
Great episode and so relatable. I'm a late in life lesbian and I met my fiancée 32:55 3.5 years ago. I've felt a lot of the same feelings that you talked about. I'm very happy for you!
@CamilleRoseMaine
@CamilleRoseMaine Месяц назад
Loving this entire beautiful story 🥰 I came out 6 years as bi and eventually unlearned people pleasing and realized I was actually a lesbian underneath it all. Proud of you for being vulnerable and sharing this!
@tmhulkst
@tmhulkst Месяц назад
First off i dont know you very well. As a 41 year old male who just came out out june 1st 2023 i understand the nerves you have. I grew up trying to be who everyone else wanted me to be. I tried being the normal guy who loved only girls but i never was in a serious relationship. As a teenager some things happened that looking back on now were experiences that helped me become the person i am today. However i ignored some signs for over 20 years. Finally in 2022 i realized i was attracted to both males and females. I was so scared the first few months after i got honest with myself about it. Over time i realized that if i came out i would lose friends and probably family members as well. I also knew that if i wanted to be able to live my life and love who i wanted to love i had to come out even it meant losing friends and family. Finally on june 1st 2023 i told everyone in a facebook post i was bisexual. Most people were positive like you said they were towards you. Do i still get looks and all whenever i am out in public and wearing my pride clothing or accessories; yes i do but at the end of the day i am confident free and able to be my trueself. I hope you continue to live your life for yourself and love who you want to love. HAPPY PRIDE to you.
@hannahwelch5824
@hannahwelch5824 Месяц назад
I recently led a ceremony in a celebration of life/memorial for a friend that passed away. When I finished speaking, I was chatting with a friend & said, “I couldn’t help choking up, the tears just came & my throat closed up, there was nothing I could do about it”; my friend responded by saying, “it is expected- eulogies are not often spoken without tears & cracks in the speakers voice”. You are being vulnerable & sharing your experience in navigating something new & life-changing (even being the same person you’ve always been, it’s still a significant experience that has a beautiful impact on your life)- as well as talking about your relationship with someone you’re obviously very in love with. So, in the words of my friend (basically), it is expected- you’re coming out/“announcing” your romantic relationship, acknowledging & accepting parts of yourself & sharing it with your followers, you’re stepping into authenticity, & you are allowing yourself to blossom. It makes sense that emotions are coming up & it’s difficult to express everything in a way that feels secure. All this to say: I see you & I’m proud of you, & it’s okay to be emotional. 💗 I’ve known that I was bi for quite awhile now & I still discover new things about myself/my sexuality to this day. We have each other- the queer community. We can be emotional & complex, & that’s okay.
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
missfenderr ➡️ Alayna Joy
@bridgettesheridan7316
@bridgettesheridan7316 Месяц назад
I’ve never heard something so close to my experience. What you said at 10:40. 🙌🏼 exactly! I’m very feminine, only dated men and then I met my (now) wife. All the love to you, it’s an amazing journey and I hope you enjoy the ride 🫶
@kateschmidtfit
@kateschmidtfit 24 дня назад
I feel so seen in this video. Thank you for being so vulnerable. As someone who is openly bisexual but have only dated men I never felt like I was part of the community. You’re always scared to say the wrong thing because you feel like you’re not qualified. It’s so valid. I am so so over the moon for you ❤
@brandy_cole
@brandy_cole Месяц назад
First of all, congratulations on coming out! The soft and hard launch was absolutely adorable. It was great to see you being so candid and vulnerable about your feelings (the happiness and the confusion). You are becoming the represtation to others that you needed. That is something to be really proud of. As a lesbian that didn't come out until 28 (while married to a man) and in a small southern town, it can be scary. But you're doing great and you will be ok, I promise. ❤ Those who truly love you will be happy for you and will continue to stand by your side. And remember that you never have to put yourself in a box or label yourself at all. Just be you. Be happy and enjoy life. You will be ok. Welcome to the family! 🌈
@maddievicky
@maddievicky Месяц назад
Becca we love you much!!! Also you have not changes ONE bit, this cute little love story is nearly identical to those you've said about guys, just with a girl instead. You seem so happy talking abt Shannon it's so so so adorable 😭😭❤️❤️ We wish you love and support on this new chapter!!! tbh this is so beautiful, especially considering you're both pretty feminine and you're what most people would consider "a normal girl" it's breaking stereotypes and literally showing that people can just like other people without needing to "change" who they are ❤️
@nicolette329
@nicolette329 Месяц назад
You have great taste bc Shannon is one of the most remarkable humans out there. I loved hearing your story of meeting and thank you for being so vulnerable with us. Have followed you for about 2 years and Shannon for over 10 and you both are so deserving of a healthy love like this. It’s been a long time coming so congrats. It gets easier too so please don’t stress and enjoy the ride. Just take care of and protect each other first over anything else
@lydialovexo
@lydialovexo Месяц назад
Im having such an internal crisis with my sexuality lately, listening to your thoughts and how happy you seem to be was really helpful to me
@amandas4400
@amandas4400 Месяц назад
One of the biggest misconceptions about coming out or dating the same gender or whatever different from the “norm” or what society tells us is, that we are different people and that’s the farthest from the truth. We are exactly the same people. Who we love makes no difference to who we are at the core. You’ll be okay and Shannon is great
@Miranda-ms7di
@Miranda-ms7di Месяц назад
You said so many of the same things I've been feeling and worrying about, and it made me feel less alone ♥️
@FutureXXD
@FutureXXD Месяц назад
Dating "A" girl? gurlllll your first gf is Shannon?? gahhdayumm i mean how lucky of you haha!! Anyway congratz on your new relationship YAY! ❤😂🤣
@flortorres7472
@flortorres7472 29 дней назад
One of the best quotes I ever heard was..." STOP shrinking yourself to make others happy. Be authentically you. Let them adjust."
@juliemurmann6899
@juliemurmann6899 Месяц назад
I'm so happy for you! This sounds so similar to my experience, except I didn't realize by getting a crush it just was a long journey of slowly unpacking my sexuality and trusting myself. I always felt confused about whether I was queer because growing up I never had any experiences with girls or had a crush on any, which all of my queer friends did experience. Then I finally realized in my early twenties (after questioning my sexuality for years), and now I'm pretty secure with my identity!
@reallifejenni
@reallifejenni Месяц назад
You care too much about the people whose opinions won't matter. If someone is a homophobe or hater, or unsupportive, it doesn't matter. Let them gossip, just be in your little love bubble and keep doing you.
@bombadillo2
@bombadillo2 Месяц назад
Even though I'm very jealous that you found out you were gay by falling in love with a woman and getting to date her rather than heartbreak and spending five years on the apps 😂, I am very very thrilled for you. Shannon is the salt of the Earth and it sounds like y'all are in a very sweet supportive and healthy relationship! Wishing you all the best with your podcast.
@1985cactus
@1985cactus Месяц назад
She's bi, not gay
@bombadillo2
@bombadillo2 25 дней назад
@@1985cactus I thought I already replied to this but it's not appearing so, yes you're correct, I meant to say queer not gay. Although you never know, for me it was a journey to discover I was a lesbian. Comphet is a biiiiitch!
@isabelluh6450
@isabelluh6450 Месяц назад
i totally understand the heaviness after the initial happiness and relief of coming out. i knew i was gay at 12 and didn't come out until 20. i was fine with it and was ready to tell my family. i thought it was gonna feel great but mostly i just felt exposed and like they saw me differently (even though they didn't). it took some months but i got to a place where i was soooo much happier that they knew because in the end it was heavier when i was the only one holding onto it
@ameliajasle4660
@ameliajasle4660 Месяц назад
okay but your advice is v accurate. all you have to do is make vaguely prolonged eye contact with a man for them to think you’re interested in them
@amandaleighplans
@amandaleighplans 27 дней назад
I was literally gonna say the same thing bahaha. That is the easiest way to let someone know you’re interested in them lmao - lingering eye contact with a playful/flirty smirk or smile
@mybrainismagiccity
@mybrainismagiccity Месяц назад
Truth is, you feel naked for a while once you come out. I’m glad you’re not putting yourself in a box - it has taken us a lifetime to figure this out. Sometimes it’s just the one girl, might be more than one girl. It’s okay.
@Floralysz
@Floralysz Месяц назад
*pretends to be shocked* omg no way 😮
@birdlovermusic
@birdlovermusic 26 дней назад
This is so real 😭the confusion and talking to everyone about her LMAO
@jennievandyk2527
@jennievandyk2527 19 дней назад
I have exposure to very few female queer influences online, and I can’t describe how impactful it is to get to follow you and hear your stories, as a queer woman who finds it hard to express herself or see representation. Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍🤍
@ZoeyPaigeLunaPhD
@ZoeyPaigeLunaPhD Месяц назад
In 2024, liking Shannon Beverige or Chappell Roan is pretty much lesbian requirement 😂 Welcome 😉
@kaileyparts1289
@kaileyparts1289 20 дней назад
I LOVE how you’re simping for Shannon omg this is precious
@Jowhaletail
@Jowhaletail Месяц назад
BE SO PROUD OF YOURSELF! This is not easy. But we are all so excited for you 💜💜💜
@jimenavargaspacora6485
@jimenavargaspacora6485 Месяц назад
“You’re gonna be a man and be an introvert? Shut up” 🤣🤣🤣 literally!!!
@jayyy-o2y
@jayyy-o2y Месяц назад
lol I just got to that part and wanted to comment 😂
@laurl4980
@laurl4980 Месяц назад
i never ever thought i would like a girl until i met one that peaked my interest (love at first sight as you called it haha)! i love how we have that in common
@FairyFangs
@FairyFangs 20 дней назад
It's like the wine label analogy from Schitts Creek. That seriously gave me an "aha" moment😅 *I edited aha it's a confusing little sucker
@mollywhaley9676
@mollywhaley9676 Месяц назад
It’s Ok Becca! You got This! Happy for you and Shannon! Be Happy! You are Loved❤️
@loh.22
@loh.22 Месяц назад
Dear lord, Shannon’s ego must be on 10 right now. 💀welcome to the club girl. Give yourself space to feel how you feel. No one else matters honestly.
@mooncookies7803
@mooncookies7803 21 день назад
i only heard about you because of shannon, but let me tell you that i am so proud of you! i have been watching shannon’s content for a while along with ally hills, amy ordman, rose and rosie, cammie scott, ava capri, etc and i’m glad you are joining the iconic group! ❤️❤️
@racheldufour
@racheldufour Месяц назад
I've known I was bi since I was 13, but I recently made it more public than ever before by posting for pride on Instagram and I totally get feeling vulnerable and a little nervous about having your identity be so public. Thank you for being so cool and brave. We need more people like you
@tallahoramismo
@tallahoramismo Месяц назад
Do you know Alayna Joy? Are you experiencing comphet?
@rambon19
@rambon19 13 дней назад
Her girlfriend won the lottery. She’s gorgeous.❤️
@dudatsimoes
@dudatsimoes Месяц назад
this is the first video ive ever seen of u outside of ig and this might've been my sexual awakening lmao
@dayers9257
@dayers9257 Месяц назад
Haters will always be loud, but know that there is a whole community here to support you. The queer community is a family, and we take care of our own. Live your truth and shut out those who spew their negativity.
@cave_hag
@cave_hag Месяц назад
Not a man, but that comment about men being an introvert was pretty toxic.
@amarijackson9270
@amarijackson9270 23 дня назад
ik you’re early on in your journey but i would also consider the intersectionality of it all! during your representation part i saw that you mentioned wanting more shows and people like chappell and rene, but there have been tons and tons of out, queer POC people for years now that they’ve taken inspiration from! For example, Kehlani, Victoria Monet, Syd, Orion Sun, and so so many more even megan thee stallion! intersectionality is so important in delving deeper and knowing your history as a girl who likes other girls!
@rebeccaalva
@rebeccaalva Месяц назад
watched once then had to rewatch with my girlfriend to show her. i appreciate you being so vulnerable and sharing, representation matters!!!!
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