I’m really happy for you 😊. I’ve been watching you for years. I really needed someone to show me what was the best things to buy at Costco, but hearing your stories about your divorce , I stayed. I’ve learned what a women goes through. I must be your only male audience lol. I picked up those tank tops from target for my wife. She loves them. I’m wishing the best for you!
I’m a single dad of a 3-yo little guy and I found you a few weeks ago… giving me good cleaning tips and a few starry eyes. So happy you’re living your best life w/o regrets. All the best!
So happy for you girl-only up from here. Cheers to you! I work as a MH clinician and work with people on an everyday basis who struggle to make tough decisions and say “no” to the conveniences of complacency for the betterment of themselves. It takes a lot of coaching and a brave heart, so kudos to you.
We're here to support YOU! Anything you put out, we will continue to watch. We enjoy the cleaning, decluttering and 'shop with me' videos, so keep them coming. I also enjoy watching vlog style videos - just taking us along your day and "favorites" videos - beauty, amazon finds, cleaning products, etc.
I found when you're not looking is when u find a partner....i was married young,got divorced,wasnt looking at all,i met my second husband,we had forty wonderful yrs together...good luck❤
Best thing I did when I was single after a divorce and a failed engagement was write my non-negotiables. I even put the list on my dating profile 🤣. The quality of men I found after that were top notch. I ended up with the BEST husband and after 8 years together he really does treat me like gold and now we have the most perfect little boy. My husband is a fantastic father and supports me while I work through chasing my dreams. That list was the very best thing that I could have done and I really stuck to it because I finally came to a point where I truly believed that I deserved someone that met each and every desire on that list. Good luck out there!
It’s so good to see you doing well ❤! It’s definitely hard to prioritize ourselves as moms, but i’m glad you are doing what is best for you. As far as video suggestions, I think that since you are a mom you could show us some meal ideas for kids, or maybe some craft ideas for kids, what amazon prime deals you suggest, maybe even some redecorating. Easy outfit ideas, maybe a skincare routine or workout routine. Anything girl lol. If you just want to rant I will watch that too! Hope you have a great day 😊!
Happy for you! I honestly am obsessed with your cleaning and decluttering videos because it seriously gives me the best motivation. I think that day in the life videos are awesome, I also love the chatty videos where you just talk to us. Being a boy mom I think that giving some ideas of some activities you guys all do together or something would be fun. Or even back to your baby must haves maybe a video similar in style to school age must haves and things we like to do together. I also really liked your retail therapy videos since I love me some target and get to see all the cute things but having a 2 year old makes it harder to go out and about like that! Being a Midwest upper peninsula of Michigan girl who had moved to the south (az) I definitely relate to you so I do love watching your videos!
I enjoy your cleaning/decluttering videos! Get ready with me, what I eat in a day, catch-up with you like this. All those kinds of videos. Glad you have it finalized and are in a good mental state. Oh, book reviews, board game reviews that you play with your kids. Favorite things videos. You have room to grow girl! ❤
So good to see you happy and learning about yourself. You're an amazing woman, Mai and you're doing a great job! I'm in your corner and proud of the way you've dealt with your situation. Keep smiling and be happy! XXOO ❤️
If your husband was not trustworthy, yes, the divorce is really a good news! I like watching decluttering, makeup, home decor, vlogs sometimes, cleaning yes, I’m a little too curious about what happened in your couple because I’m divorced myself and I am always wondering if it was the same for others.
Thank you for this video!! It was great to hear an update and happy you’re doing so well!! Just on the video front, personally I started following you for mom and cleaning content about struggling to keep it all together like I think most of us did! I do love your personality and I totally get that the house wouldn’t get as messy with the kids around less, but maybe some diet and exercise tips you look in great shape since the separation! Idk! I don’t personally love the social commentary stuff lol but whatever you post I’ll watch!!
Glad you’re back! I really love your RU-vid shorts so I hope you continue those! I’d love to see content just about you trying new hobbies and discovering this new you. My kids are old enough now that I have time to do the same but I don’t even know who I am anymore! Would love to see your journey. 😊
Thank you for sharing! No body talks about the truth and reality of divorce. You are so authentic and real girl! 💓 I’m so glad you’re happy and divorce definitely should be celebrated 🎉 Because life’s too short to not be happy 🌞I will add that it definitely gets easier and easier over time 🙏🏻 someone told me that early on and it’s so true!! I have been divorced and coparenting since my 7 year old was 1 years old. And yes you’re absolutely right your child(ren) get constant QUALITY TIME at both houses 🌞❤️ and they just get spoiled with love 💗 glad your video showed up on my yt feed (:
Mai, I am so happy that your doing a lot better. Anyone who's going through whatever in life and finding things overwelming need s to take that time for themselves. I'm so glad you put you and your children first. You look amazing and I love your hair. Glad your back and wishing you all the best in you next chapter of life. take care! 😊💜
Hi Mai, I love your content, and watching you has gotten me through some tough times. I think your channel’s strength is your humour, intelligence and personality. I would love to see a series where you try new things to discover your passions and your true authentic self. Maybe try different sports? Different hairstyles? Different foods? Different mindsets or journaling prompts? Following with the theme of your “Kon Mai Method” sound-alike, you could call it something like “Mai Tries”, kind of like the drink Mai Tai? And maybe sip one before & after the segment to describe what you’re going to try and your analysis of what you liked/disliked about it, what type of viewer you would recommend trying something similar? Whatever you decide, I look forward to watching it! :)
I’m so happy you’re back and more importantly, that you were feeling ready to be back. I truly love all your video types (shop with me, cleaning, mom stuff, dating, etc.). I love the idea of pop culture stuff (Bravo!? Yes please!) and think you’d also be an amazing podcaster. I’ve always loved how “real” you are and your content has never felt fake/ trying too hard like many others I’ve had to stop following since becoming a mom (made me feel like a failure). You are also super funny and have such “down to earth” humor. One of my fav kinds of content on RU-vid is seeing how other families live in different areas of the country - Orlando (thetimtracker), Northeast, California, Alaska (this Alaska life, Legg Life), Texas, etc. I totally get that you need to find yourself again and I’m excited to see what you try along the way! I’ll be along for the ride 😊❤
Hey Mai I'm glad you're back and feeling positive. I think really we're all here for you, your personality so whatever content you want to do is fine. I personally am interested in ADHD hacks. Did you ever have trouble learning things in school? What helped? I have a daughter with ADHD and trying to teach her to read has been extremely difficult so I'm always looking for something that might make it click. Anyway other than that I like vlog style videos and product reviews.
Ur the first person I found to hear that understands the weariness of dating and sleeping with any and everyone. It's hars to find a real talk about this. I'm the same way and I've been divorced for almost a year.
Always rooting for you! Keep your chin up! As far as content, I personally enjoy your style and make up. I would enjoy seeing everyday outfits (especially online purchases) and what you wear for date night. Holy grails for skin or makeup also. I was first introduced your channel with your baby must have videos which were super helpful. Maybe even content on activities to do with your kids that they enjoyed or games/toys to buy or not to buy. I also watch your cleaning and organizing video's so how about a little of everything 😂😂?! Can't wait to see what's next
Hi Mai, glad you are happy, it's a pity about the videos, I did love your decluttering and cleaning videos as you made them fun and motivating. Not interested so much in the shopping ones as I don't live in the USA. You look wonderful, glad you are enjoying being a Mum again!!
I’d love to see videos of you trying new things (different classes, restaurants, books ect) but I’d watch anything. I always respect how you keep your kids’ lives private. I’m glad you and your boys are doing well. 🥰
I mainly just watch your videos because I love you as a person. I found you because I watch decluttering videos, but stuck around for you. So whatever you decide to do, I'll check it out! To answer your question, I also like home decorating videos, hauls, and book reviews. But if none of that is your cup of tea that's cool too! Dating stories are always fun!
Love you! You’re amazing! I’d love to see more about your health & fitness routine/diet. I know you’ve talked about intermittent fasting. You look so great! I’d also love more parenting tips & multiples content! 🤍
I'm glad you're back. Glad things are going well. Best wishes. I hope you'll still do some cleaning and decluttering. I enjoy your shop with me videos as well. Maybe some other stores as well.
i stumbled across this channel recently as i have slight OCD and your cleaning videos literally satisfy/cure and fulfilled those needs 😅 I love that you talk about other topics such as your personal life. I’d say take your time when it comes to dating, don’t rush the process and get to know people in the long run before tying the knot. People can only put up a fake imagine before the cracks start to show. I try not to make the same mistakes twice and allow history to repeat itself (tho some things are inevitable 😭). Your a stunning women with a great sense of humour i’m sure you’ll have no problem finding the right one 😌 Also 11:28 I completely understand and agree to a certain extent and i say this because i believe peoples true colours start to show when there an obstacle placed in your way ie an argument or disagreement. That’s why i say to people those commotion/incident that took place were a blessing in disguise. Anyways, i’m a new sub and looking forward to the rest of your videos and see what kind of wisdom i can gain from here.. keep up the amazing work your doing and don’t be too hard on yourself.. give credit where due as your an incredible women who deserve all the blessings this world has to offer.
I’d love to see shopping with you…like for outfits. Even if you don’t purchase stuff. Just going into the stores and putting outfits together . Just a thought!
Hey girl !!! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts your life in general you are very brave , thoughtful, and very considerate. I'm a young first time mom came across with your RU-vid channel because I needed a tutorial on how to do a amazon baby registry and men you succeed my expectations and answer all my questions. I'm also struggling to finding/understanding this new me . I would like to see more new mom content from you. How did you survive your the first couple years with your twins, what are the things that you did that worked for you on your daily routine to keep your sanity together ? What are the toys baby items that made your life easier?
Really happy for you.. as a future divorce women it is nice to see some women don’t crumble that easy.. I know it’s a lot especially when we have kids but we are stronger than we think we are.. I Am focusing on me first than my kids cuz they adapt easier than most adults..
Recommendations on traveling with kids and your favorite places to go would be a great new addition now that you said you are doing more traveling lately. And more of what you’re doing, ADHD life as I also have lots of ADHD between me and my oldest (7 year old)
I’m currently brainstorming what kind of videos you should make 🤔😅: I like your style and always enjoyed a peek into your closet when you were decluttering. So maybe a come shop with me (for clothes) or a fashion haul or what I like for fall/winter, anything like that 🙂 Cleaning videos obviously, day in the life type vlogs, maybe what you cook in a week with your kids or If you ever make over a space in your house I would definitely like to see that and just what you‘re up to basically. …and if you want to share about dates and stuff I‘m definitely all ears 😄❤️
I'm sure you feel like you're a better mom bc you have more time for you. I'm happy that you're doing better :) I found you through your decluttering videos and stayed for the good vibes, even though there's a lot of content I cannot relate, as I'm a mom also but from Europe, we consume very differently, no big bulk buys as our houses are smaller and grocery stores closer. So I usually don't watch your Costco videos 😊
Mai... you decluttered your husband! Lol I'm kidding! I do think that decluttering items from our home - we move onto decluttering our virtual and mental baggage as well. You get the opportunity to see what is serving you in your life and what is a hinderance. I think you did just that! I'll continue to follow whatever content you decide to share!
Love your cleaning and costco videos. Cleaning doesn't have to be a full on declutter either. It could be a simple weekly reset which is equally satisfying. I also enjoy to occasional dating/ life updates but they're not why I'm here. Love all your shorts videos too.
I am so happy for you! I am currently In the divorce process in the UK and it’s taking forever but I am not letting it get to me. I totally understand your point when you say u have a differ view on life u have quality time with the children. I feel the time since my ex moved out just felt so much happier when he wasn’t around anyways. I just wanted to make a suggestion on your video you could make and that’s just a day in your life/ the odd vlogs. I love watching what ppl get up to whilst I do my own stuff at home and it on in the background. But whatever you put out I will always be a supporter I love your content. Hope you are well and the kids are too have a lovely rest of the day❤ xx
Glad you are doing well and finding yourself. I have been following you for about a year.I wanted to address your content suggestion question. I really loved you cleaning/organizing as well Costco shop with me. So I would keep that but now that you life has changed take us along on your outings to restaurants and such. Continue to share your experiences with us. Just a thought. Hope to see you on social media soon.
Video on a day in your life! Cooking videos Shopping for clothes video A video on your gym work out. Your closet declutter Anything you do we will watch
Pure,true ,adhd content ♡ would be appreciated. Its so hard to find true mom /adhd copping video.And im struggling. Im really happy for you , its a really hard situation and following what is best for you will make you a better person , wife , daughter ,friend ect . God bless .
Given the journey you’re on, I think the focus for your channel has to come from you. As you grow you’ll get interested in things that are important to you. That’s what your channel is about - the things that are important to you. Love the Costco shop with me videos and cleaning/decluttering but you have to do what speaks to you or it won’t have your authentic voice, which is what a lot of us appreciate about you.
I love watching how people vacation. Where do you stay and what activities do you do? I’m always looking for new ideas. Also, I live in Minnesota, so around February please show us some of your beautiful Texas weather so I can live vicariously through you. 😁
You seem lighter! It also might seem strange to say but.. congratulations!!! Glad you are in a happy place, we all deserve to be in a safe environment. Keep working on you and all will fall into place!!
Great video!¡!!! Im so happy that you're in a good place 💛. I love all your videos. You are so beautiful and smart. Enjoy,take your pick.❤ So so happy you're back! Missed you 😊
Love from Tokyo ❤ Every time you are on videos, I’m just happy to see you. What I want on your videos is you as you are. We all have good days and bad days. I started watching your video as one of cleaning channels pretty girls cleaning pretty houses 😂 Now I’m feeling like your older sister or aunt who wants to get you some bottles of Japanese whiskey for your weekend and offers the dishes to take care. I’d love to cook some Tempura and sushi dinner for you and boys if possible 😊
I knew you would not last five minutes on the single market. You are gorgeous, funny and smart! So glad you are in a happier stage now that the BIG D is over, but remember to keep the co-parenting plan priority in your life. 😊 Content ideas for your channel: (1) Easy recipes. (2) Simple home organization. (3) Shopping tips. (4) Play date ideas with your kids (not showing their faces on camera of course). (5) Eating healthy.
Would love to see first date get ready/unready with me - letting us know how the date went 😊 I feel like those videos would get so many views and be so fun to watch
Hola! Yo te veo desde hace tiempo pero nunca te había escrito. Me siento tan identificada contigo. Yo también vivía en modo supervivencia y ahora hago muchas más cosas que antes. Yo todavía estoy en el proceso desde hace 9 meses. Tú te quedaste en tu casa? Ése es el tema que más me preocupa ahora mismo. Él se fue del estado y nunca más ha llamado a los niños ni se ocupa de ellos. Yo he tenido que ocuparme sola y no tengo un buen trabajo, pero tengo paz mental aunque no ha sido fácil
