I love that he put the disclaimer in the description. I just wanna tell you most of us in here are not really angry . We are just acting angry just like we smile and blush when you say lovey dovey things in other audios . Except the people who really experienced this in real life and it hurt them, i am sorry, I hope you recover from this and find a person who love you right .
Apart from wherever we like or don’t this audio. Can we appreciate the fact that K is a really good VA, bc only by his voice make us believe that this scenario is soo real. Im so proud of K improvement along the years
@@alicebizzarri02ahahahahah sometimes there are so many opportunities for meme/songs refrences with K's audios its hard not to think of one so I dont blame you 🤣❤
So, we had a bad day, we came home to him calling us by his ex's name and then calling us crazy 5 seconds later???? Nuh uh babe you bet i'm leaving and waiting for you to beg for an apology
I am SUPER interested in the psychology of conflict mediation and have many thoughts about this audio so get ready for an essay 😅 First off, I am not writing this to invalidate any person’s experience. Triggers are very real. Even a sound or smell can trigger a PTSD flashback and I know this from personal experience. Does that mean people are not allowed to point out that you are overreacting when triggered? No. Some people here are overstating the harm of someone who accidentally mixed up a name. Human beings are allowed to think about their exes sometimes. Our brains are a collection of memories. Perhaps someone saw something that reminded them of their ex. Perhaps they saw their name somewhere or they appeared on their social media. Perhaps you are a forgetful person or Neurodivergent and often mix up names. This is not cheating. It doesn’t mean we are fantasising about getting back with our ex. I also think the double standards is interesting. In a previous audio where the listener says her ex’s name while sleeping on multiple nights: K’s character ignores the first few times and then brings it up after it continues. There is no exploding and insults from him and we have a relatively calm conversation until it is resolved. So why is the boyfriend being held to a higher standard than the girlfriend? The clinical definition of gaslighting is: “psychological manipulation of a person usually over an extended period of time that causes the victim to question the validity of their own thoughts, perception of reality, or memories and typically leads to confusion, loss of confidence and self-esteem, uncertainty of one's emotional or mental stability, and a dependency on the perpetrator”. That is NOT what is happening in this scenario. This is not a repeated pattern of behaviour nor is the intent malicious. The listener has never been called a gaslighter even though in multiple audios she pretends that her ex is not calling her or texting her or talking to her, even though he is. This is also not gaslighting: just being dishonest to avoid conflict (she tells the truth in the end). But I wonder why the word gaslighting has never been brought up in those audios when the girlfriend is being dishonest and yet it has been used multiple times in this thread. Yes, calling someone who is upset ‘crazy’ or ‘silly’ is not nice and can lead to further upset so not the best move by K’s character but he didn’t deny that he said ‘Anne’. I empathise in this situation because if someone exploded at me for saying another name by accident and was accusing me of thinking of someone else and then storming out of the room, I would probably panic in response and say the wrong thing or make a terrible joke while attempting to diffuse the situation. That is not gaslighting but just poorly handling someone else’s emotional outburst in a moment of surprise. If someone says something without the intent to harm and that triggers an emotional wound within someone, that doesn’t automatically put one person into the role of victim and the other of perpetrator. To clarify, I am not blaming the listener for getting upset in this scenario either as we can’t choose when we get triggered but we must have a process of identifying within ourselves when this happens and choose to not lash out at other people. I don’t agree with the listener’s character calling K’s character ‘stupid’ and an ‘idiot’ at the end as that’s mean and is meant to intentionally hurt him. People can be mean when they are angry and I’ll assume the listener apologised for the insults later. I like argument ASMR audios as much as the next person because I appreciate how kind and gentle K’s character tries to be but let’s acknowledge the listening character’s behaviour isn’t always perfect just because they are the listener. Neither is perfect in this scenario and both characters deserve empathy. So in summary: - Somebody being triggered doesn’t automatically mean an act of violence has taken place by the other party. - The term gaslighting (a form of abuse) is used too frivolously on the internet. - Feeling discomfort doesn’t always mean that harm was caused. - Conflict between two people is uncomfortable but doesn’t automatically mean abuse. I hope the people who are still angry with K’s character (even after all the apologies) read my comment, do further research and talk with their therapists incase this happens with a partner in real life one day. This is not meant to be patronising by the way- I’m in regular therapy myself! All the best with everyone’s healing journeys and I hope you found this comment interesting 🙏🏾
9:48 - 13:31 I’m literally in love with your apology skills, the way you can reflect about yourself and how you know you messed it up IS INCREDIBLY BEAUTIFUL! 😭❤️
Thank you to K for giving out a disclaimer in the description, we appreciate you a bunch ❤ My heart goes out to those who feels this audio has hit too close to home and those who are still healing from a past relationship ❤
I love how it's the first time I've seen K in like a childish (somewhat) role tho personally I wont be able to let this slide LMAO it'll be an ENDLESS argument cause bro who's Anne!!
This audio stirred up so many emotions within me...my love for argument audios is concerning 😭 but K handled it cutely i could sense the nervous tone which made this feel genuine ♥️✨
I'm a very forgiving person... However, I already have serious trust issues with people so I'm not quite sure what I'd do in a situation like this... I'm more mad that he called her crazy... I would have needed to leave to completely cool down from that. 😤😅
Nah, him saying I’m being silly like I’d leave right after that, we’re not talking for 5-10 business days and you gotta do a LOT more to earn my forgiveness 😒
It’s my first time hearing K's first ever toxic audio. 😢 I know It's all roleplay & everything but honestly in this scenario I'd walk right away from that relationship. And the apology was not it. Nuh uh..
7:10 "No- Anne is just somebody I know!" Time to hunt for Anne! 😤 Im joking yall, but really this audio was executed so well, K you're amazing as always! 😩❤
6:56 "relaxxxx it's nothing to worry about" K, you say this after calling me by your ex's name?! 😔💔 K broke us all this one audio, our man woke up and decided to choose violence 🤣😭👏🏻
I saw the description change and K, our reactions were like this because we're just jealous and protective of our man and we won't let no ANN take him from us😂❤ but seriously, we know your audios are a work of fiction and you don't mean anything bad. Yes, your audios make us feel all the emotions but even for us with some bad past experiences your audios are always a safe space because we know in reality you're amazing K. We love you❤
Honestly I would’ve loved if this was a two parter & we didn’t “forgive” K & make up right away I want him sweating & begging outside with a boombox trying to get us back talking to him🤣🤣🤣
Hey K its Faith here! and i js wanna say im proud of how far youve came and you've done so well with your audios, just remember to take breaks, i have a few questions, 1. Have u been drinking enough water lately? 2. Have you been eating enough? 3. Have u been taking breaks? Sorry if im Being annoying im just wanting to make sure ur okay!!🫶🏻
I think it’s so sweet of you that you see the reactions of us and decide to write a disclaimer That shows that you really cares about us and the people who feels triggered ❤️
as someone whose first language isn't english, istg I didn't even realize when K said that name and I got confused for a quick second 😅 anyways, I loved the video as always! 💕
This man can manipulate me so well with his sweet words, apologies and communication skills any say, it shouldn't be that way but IT'S K, I LOVE HIM OKAY
I usually don't write comments, but this video got me badly. Is it just me, or is the listener (us) toxic in this audio? The man was reading. It is a totally valid point to ignore everyone. I will ignore anyone who dares to interrupt my reading. Especially if the book is interesting. Also, all this fuss about ex's name... can anybody explain why that is such a problem? (it's a joke, I don't need any explanations😅). Just personally, I mix up names pretty much every time I speak, so I don't care about that. Despite all of that, this audio is amazing. As always. Thank you so much for your hard work❤
Yes the listener is being quite unreasonable and I’m disappointed in all the people in the comments not understanding this. I’m about to drop an essay in the comments later 😅
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