I didn’t meet my husband until I was 33, I was 35 when we got married, and now I am 38 (39 next month) with our first child. You have so much time!! I wanted to be married with kids by 26, but I am so happy that it happened this way.
I always imagined having 2 kids close together... and then life happened. I was coming to terms with having an only child as I got older and older. But the universe had other plans. Mine are 6 years apart and I absolutely love the age gap. Whatever is in store for you - you are an amazing mama!
Awesome video girl! ❤️ I was 34 when my hubs and I had our first, I’m 36 and plan on trying for number 2 at 37. Women are doing the motherhood thing a lot later these days, and it ok! I had hospitals tell me I was of “advanced maternal age” at 34 and that it would be more difficult to do it naturally in a birth center, it wasn’t. Never let anyone tell you that you can’t or you won’t!
Loved this. Love getting to know you. I think you are a huge inspiration to so many moms here. I know RU-vid is saturated with so many “happy stay at home moms” myself falling into that category. But I know there are so many moms who need to see the single mom side of life! So anyways just wanted to say keep doin your thing!!
I don’t know why but every time I watch you I’m proud of you and I don’t know u ! I love watching you two even on what you call the boring videos . Love the sense of humor and the real ness to your channel never change !! One mama to another xx cork Ireland .
For what it's worth, I love watching you over all of the other youtube moms because you are so real! You aren't trying to make your life look perfect with a spotless home and acting like life is all puppy dogs and rainbows. You are like the rest of us (and how those seemingly perfect youtube moms really are). Thanks for your realness!
Watching this at the end of 2019 now and I'm sooooo proud and excited about how far you have come this year!! And most of all, you achieved your number one goal of the year!!! i'm sooo happy for you!!!!
I lost my mom when I was 25, I had just had my son. You seem like a warrior mama, I just found your channel and im super excited! I'm now 32 and pregnant with my 3rd baby boy! I'm excited to follow you ❤
Coming here from 2021, RU-vid randomly recommended this to me....I had no idea your name was Hayley!! I just always thought of you as Tres Chic Mama and Sydney 🤣
The shaaaaaaaade with the answer to how you and Sydney's dad co-parent 😜 I'm here for it tho, truth hurts. And I was closer to 34 when I had my son 10 months ago with a plan to have one more soon. So don't stress. All in God's time ❤
@@TresChicMama what about opening your own daycare and employing others. You can start super small and aim to stay small and that be your unique selling point.
Girl, im turning 32 this year as well, and only have 1 kid. NONE of my friends have kids yet.... you have more than enough time to have 1 more, or 3 if you wish so :) You are such a harworking, positive and strong mama, im sure you will end up having the life you want
I'm happy I found your channel. You're an inspiratin to me. Smart, pretty, good with money, funny and kind. I'm looking upto you. I'm 27, no kids and no bf. I have always had plans and dreams of getting married and a good career..health issues have deterred me and got in the way of things. But looking at you, You have overcome being a single mom and all these mountains I am terrified to claim. I pray that we both find a good man. I am trying to better myself and get a better job, be as healthy as possible, and get my life rolling. Thanks for sharing your struggles, it truly does help others and myself.
I love your grocery hauls! Do more lol! Your hauls are the only one I watch and you are the only RU-vidr I watch everyday btw! I love you guys! Btw I met my husband online 6 years ago and it was my best decision ever! So many people put me down saying I’m desperate well guess what! They are all still alone and I’ve been with the love of my life! Not all of the guys are great I got a ton of awful messages and then I see a message that says “hello angel” I was like whoa yup I’m messaging him back lol then I video chatted him and then went to go see him we went on our first date in his town two towns away! How was I to know my perfect match was 2 towns away!? I always back online dating! He is my perfect match for sure and we have two babies together. You will find your perfect match girl! It’s magical and beautiful to find that perfect person for you and to be so in love. I pray it happens for you soon girl you deserve it ❤️ also I always did tumble tots and kindermusik with my babies starting at 4 months old my daughter has done it for 2 years and I haven’t done it as much with my son bc he is 6 months old and I’ve had health issues which your videos have helped me get through ❤️ I breastfed my son through them and the surgery so I was a proud mama for sure! Breastfeeding is really important to me too my daughter breastfed until I was pregnant with my son she was 16 months old 😊 and girl get a playroom when finding a house for us to buy we had to have a playroom it’s a lifesaver! Lol
I loved your video and Ive been following most of them. Sydney is so adorable 😍😘 especially where you asked her at the end doee she need attention..so cute.. You're one inspiring super Mom... Loads of love and hugs 💞✨🙌
I'm heartbroken that Dose of Dad isn't in your list of Favorite RU-vidrs/Vloggers! I thought us Single parents had to stick together *smh* 😂 Man, I remember Charlie being that little...I miss it...but do not miss diapers.
love your videos!! How old was Sydney when you started working on letters and colors? And how old was she when she actually started to like respond to them?
Heather McCarthy She knew all colors by 15 months (I had always pointed them out since she was a little babe) and all letters at 21 months (she learned those in only 2-3 weeks). She loves learning & getting things correct ❤️
@@TresChicMama thank you!! my daughter is almost exactly a year younger than Sydney and I feel like I never know what she "should" know at what age! I'll def start working on the colors!!
I’m 34 and just had my first this past May. I got married at 31, so we had a little later start. Funny enough, I met my husband on Match.com! I was skeptical too, and definitely met some duds, but it worked for me! Dating is hard when you’re not in your early 20s anymore 😆
I promise I dont mean this in a bad way, it just might sound that way I promise i love you! I just saw in the comments you said sydney was planned - you only realized the lifestyle differences when you had her? Were those lifestyle differences due to having her?
What the fat is happening Sometimes in life you think people will change or see change in them so you have hope & then you grow up or realize what is important to you & how you want your children raised differently (hence the separation). I was at the point in my life where I thought I would never have children if we didn’t then. God clearly wanted us to have Sydney & I obviously have no regrets whatsoever, but things got progressively worse & I had to do what was right for myself & my daughter. ❤️
Hello, you are so great, how old is your doughter, i have a son 2 years old and he always jumping around like your girl, i subsccribed your channel it`s awesome
