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From reading headline before listening. No regrets when u have done good things God will bring abundance. I will not stop doing good,,, becoz bad things u will hurt your self.
Kingori your doing good job,, but asking onbehave of many do you help those are suffering before making wrong decision which will end up to that situation 🙏
Never return to that marriage plzz, if u are beaten even parents are not holding your hand,, it will come time they need you,, hapa ndio unapata mtu amekufa, alafu wananza kukumbuka mwenye alienda na watoto wake mmmmhh
I once helped a man to build a house but he dumped me, I became depressed and made a decision to go far from Kenya I opted to become a house manager in gulf and I really don't regret at all.... I'm now a land owner and landlady... My dear siz pick up yourself and move on.
She is a wife material who wanted to get married and build her home but she fall in a wrong hands, she landed herself to a very heartless family, God will see you through
It will increase her energy, I remember we were having wedding fundraising of Wed to my parents. My uncle refused to give us jam chairs,,, after wedding, my mum become serious of making ours, so sometimes we become wick when we feel somebody loves ❤ us.
Watu utoa wapi energy ya kupatia mwanaume pesa? If you build a man a house make sure the land is yours in your name. Pole aki. Take it as a lesson, pick up the pieces and you will rise again
It is true,I have a home of my own,the 1st man misbehaved and I chased him away,the one I have now is ok but we have 2 homes yangu na yake and we are fine,the home is my kids' inheritance......usiandikishie bwanako vitu vyako....he will mistreat you at some point.
Someone for what 😔😔atafute kazi alee watoto...ajiconect na gulf hataregret...Mimi siwezi toka kwa bwana na watoto niolewe Tena..nikujituma...men are the same
The lady saw the red flags from the day the man started coming home late.what else was she waiting for, miracles 🤔 ladies learn to leave from the first day you will feel unappreciated.
You can clearly see the lady was naive .. and despite every challenges the woman was try to rebuild the home with good intentions it's just that it didn't work out and she learnt so, thats why she is here to educate others ...do not be here judging people harshly here ..
@@VivianC-t4i Thank you. People should not judge this lady. It's important to understand the Meru culture and their perception of a good wife. Most women are expected to be passive and work like a donkey for the man. However, the millennial generation are changing this narrative.
I feel the pain ,am zambian i have gone thru pain in relationship but this one has hit me so badly just embrace the pain now the fature is asured it is well sending hugs my sister and please take my flower,,,, 🎉
Mwanaume ukitoka kwake ujirudishe atakudharau sana. From the beginning, it’s clear he didn’t want you. It’s really sad and you will overcome this. I wish you well in your healing journey.
The more you build a man, the more you increase his value in the dating world and the more you decrease your value in him. That's why he ends up being abusive or openly cheating. Anytime you feel the need to push him or help him get somewhere, you set yourself up as the leader in the relationship a.k.a mom. So, if he doesn't have his life together right now, and he needs you to help/fund him, then he is not ready for marriage.
Her story is very emotional and quite sad. The family had no right to allow and to even help the son to use and mistreat the lady. I hope everything will get better for her and she pays her loans. I pray that her mental health gets better and she heals from that unfortunate relationship and experience ❤️
There were red flags from the beginning and this lady went ahead to fund this man to build a house. The beatings and being abandoned at home in the first days should have been reason enough for you to leave him. HUYO HAKUWA ANAKUPENDA NA HATA WAZAZI WAKE. My ego won't allow me to take such bull***t
Thank God that this happened early, God has blesssed you. Very soon you’ll get back on your feet in USA. Just don’t take him back. God has bigger plans for you.
May u find solace in the hands of God.All is vanity.one day you will come out a successful gal.Mark my words ,your adversaries will cry your cry one day ,the tears you are shedding are being collected and God will answer you.overseas is waiting for u Purity.
Don't worry you are young God will bless you I was married by A meru and left me now is 15yrs down the line but God came through for me and today Our Good God has given me a three bedrooms house. There is a God in heaven it's not easy but encourage your self in The Lord. But wa meru if you one come on your way run run run.....
Wauze nyumba yao😂😂😂 but that depends if she put up as collateral 😢unfortunately probably because the title is in the father's name he can claim it's his property 😢 women need to wisen up and not help struggling men and better still look out for red flags .if you get an urge to spend money on a man send to your parents ama weka lock account todu men!!!!!!
This lady just needs assistance to get a secure job abroad considering she is skilled ( honestly Kenya hakuna jobs). That way she will clear the loans and support her kids.
May God restore peace to you. I can't blame you. You were genuine and honest. People make mistakes. Even those laughing at her....can you foretell your tomorrow....things change for better or worse . Receive Jesus Christ let Him be your guide. Very soon you will get a God sent person. Will wipe every tear from your faces. These are moments of trials
May God help any woman who genuinely entered into a marriage, got conned emotionally, financially or otherwise. Mungu usitumane. Hata malaika. 1:03:02 Just come by yourself. 🙏
Me too. I have a teenage daughter and I give her strong advice. Everything she inherits from me will be in her name alone so no man will ever try to exploit her
I think this Relationship was one sided. It seems like he married her because she was pregnant with his child and maybe he was also pressured to do so. There's nothing in his actions that shows he loved her or even cared about her 😢😢
God will pay you seven fold. Just forgive them know it’s painful. God will make your enemies your foot stool. The blessing He will give you people will marvel.
I am a man, but ladies, once anan puts his hands on you, please leave. It will happen again.I don't understand why you will go through all that for the sake of a man??
@@muthonimureithi3665 hata hizo nguruwe angeuza kimpango! Si eti unafanya vitu in broad daylight na hutakwi? Says who! Mimi hata milango na madirisha wangepata haziko na wakose kujua zilienda saa ngapi !
Pole sana kathure for what you went through by loving a beast of a man We learn from our own books of life what we passed through or were are facing And you are only person to do correct your class work and move forward Wishing you wisdom and blessings Move forward gal and most love your self more until the whole ❤is occupied no space for beast,
Jesus,,, women pass alot..I even heard my hubby saying i should support him to build our house..when I asked him how ready are you? He said Jenga nyumba I will refund you nikipata..mpaka saa hii tunalala one room .sababu siwezi promise mtu kujenga nyumba...
My dear sister sorry for what has happened to you! I can hear there were red flags all throughout your stay in marriage but please forgive yourself for ignoring them, you were living with a narcist. Pick up yourself- the best revenge in this life is self improvement but seek professional help- therapy
Huyo bwana ako kwa pays lip huyu madam ampel3ke teketeke apewa kids support by force by fire aache kuji stress na mwanaume kwenye ako anakula raha,my kind advice!
People think what they do won't catch up with them karma is a beach and it knows every door it should visit that man Hana bahati chenye unafanyia mwingine be sure utalipa double double. Sorry gal.
Wueh ni love hufikisha watu ku baiya men manyumba ama ni nini 😮 mimi ata a pair of socks i kant, ladies remember what you allow is what continues, this people can use you and live you without even a matress to sleep on
@@ifgodsayyes.nobodycansayno1796 most of these women do suffer in the name of “ I wanted my marriage to work “ I didn’t want my children to be without a father “I loved him “”I thought he would change “ neigh , nope , no no , if a man or a woman hit you that’s domestic violence , if they insults you , that’s moral violation , just leave leave leave before he /she add more kids .
Na bado akaendelea kuishi na yeye ns kumjengea...at this rate i blame her...aki madame tujipende...Aiii mimi siezi vumilia ujinga!wacha nibaki single.!
Ehen did women start tsking roll of men building house for them?? Desperation is a created desease in this case. Sometimes we overstretch ourselves too much. Dont please a man to show love. Sorry if my comment is ruthless.
Your right. Eti coz women must be married in abusive relationship...better you be single and peace of mind than being abused physically and disrespected
Ladies!!! We are not a rehab for men!!!! Men never eat with the women they struggled with!! You just warm their beds as they wait for their princesses when things look up. Stay woke!!!
