Oof I've only had two and one is a jerk and hated me + he would always talk bad about me but somehow I still liked him and the other is super nice and polite but he only knows me as his friend's little sis but i do still have his number for some reason...we dont talk tho...
man same i had a panic attack when i decided to send my friend to give my friend chocolates like a messanger, it took so much fricking courage then it turns out that he stomped on them !
I actually can relate but it's annoying that's the only thing they say about me as if it were my only virtue :(, never "u are cute" "you are funny" "I like you" just "you are smart" :(
Omgsh giiirrl aaaa still remember that guys from my primary school and he was so polite and held the school gate for me and walked me home cuz he is soo nice to ppl aaaaa omg like I'm a doctor now and I don't know why i keep screaming hehe... but I hope he is fine whenever he is... Liking his personality we strongly would be a nice friends.. Amm dating.... Idk but somehow relatable 😂😂😂😂💔
I know my crushes name, but he doesn’t know mine cause he’s my brother’s friend. My brother is four years older than me but my crush is only 1 year older than me.
Almost 100% of the time, the people that appear in your dreams are people that you saw at least once in real life so maybe just a random guy in the streets, who knows🤔
That's why I plan on writing a long ass text with everything I've felt for my ex/crush when I graduate in a year. Yeah our relationship was pretty confusing
Hey, I know this is kinda unrelated but I have this friend. She's a girl btw. So, she used to like this guy. She liked him because of his personality. At first, the guy would make fun of her and stuff since at the time, she was overweight and just wasn't really clean. I didn't mind being her friend though. She liked how he was good with kids, funny and also athletic. Sometimes he was nice to her and that made her blush a little. Soon, she lost weight and stuff. Turns out the guy liked her back but she was turned off because of his acne. His face was full of it and it kinda grossed her out and didn't like him like that anymore. Yeah, most of her friends has acne on their faces but she just didn't like the guy that way anymore because of his face. She feels guilty for judging him his looks but still kinda stays friends with him. She wants to know if she was a jerk for judging his looks because she thinks she is. Oh, she liked him for 4 years btw.
@@wheresdarice3988 I wouldn't call her a jerk. We are humans so many physical factors can subconsciously turn us on and off, it's not our fault. The only thing that would make you a jerk is if you bullied a person because of their physical appearance, which your friend did not. So it's okay. I have also liked this guy for 7 years now, he's very nice to me but rejected me. I feel like he has been trying to ignore me lately, and there are many things I do not like about him but I just can't stop my feelings and it sucks because I know they will never be returned.
@@Boomshakalaka1008 Wow, that's pretty sad. At least you're aware that your feelings will never be returned instead of hopelessly thinking that you still have a chance. Don't try too hard, okay? Some people try too hard and sometimes in the end, it was all for nothing. I hope you won't get blinded by love too much and still can think logically. I'm sorry I can't really help you give up your crush though since I don't really like anyone these days.
tbh what it feels like is like we are out of reach from ppl like so distant so no one knows much abt us other than "you're smart"... I mean it is a compliment but it doesn't really feel good to hear that from a crush 😅😅
"I'm pretty sure I was obvious." Girl, guys don't know unless you full on yell it at us. We are morons when it comes to catching on to that about ourselves, particularely in highschool.
Lmao I honestly I agree to this so much even tho I'm a girl XD Had a crush on my guy bsf and we literally told each other "I love you goodnight" to each other but there's an "as a friend" after XD He's the first one who liked me (never told me but was hella obvious / he's also the one who said ily as a friend first) and then kinda fell for him aswell. He never knew I liked him and still refusing it when I told him I knew he liked me before lmao. He's the shy emo _I'm depressed_ rich kid type when we were classmates 🤦🏽♀️ We got lots of similarities and was honestly about to confess to him and ask him out but then he told me gay people are disgusting- And according to his religion he shouldn't be with people like *_that_* never talked to him again after graduation until now we're once again classmates XD He's still homophobic so I don't think I can ever like him again XD
@UCGHaVkQrUN6uZUbtBG-QiOQ does stuff like that really bother you that much? I would be flattered by someone telling me they had a crush on me🤷🏼♀️ also it sounds interesting to find out whether you were as obvious with your crushing as you think you were, if your self-destructive thinking ("they would never like me, they are out of my league!") was accurate or if some of your crushes could have led to more if someone had been bold enough to shoot their shot
Literally happened to me once, but the other way around. This was when I was an exchange student. I went to high school and I had this one guy in almost all of my classes. So, we started noticing each other but he started talking to me first. I just thought he was cute and funny and maybe had a minor crush on him. Since we had so many classes together, sometimes we would have lunch at the same table and stuff. I didn’t suspect a thing though. After I left the US and came back to my home country, he sent me messages on Facebook and we talked for a while. Then, he finally confessed that he really had a crush on me BIG TIME. I was like, wut!? I mean I kinda liked you as well but how the hell did you hide that so friggin well that I didn’t know anything!? Not one of my friends ever told me either. 😅
@@HolsteinDevil Lol, for me it was a bit different. This girl had a major crush on me, and I knew because she was very obvious about it, but I just liked her as my best friend. Then fastforward 6 months later and I have the biggest crush I've ever had in my life. Just 3 weeks ago i told her and although she didnt still have a crush on me, she wanted a relationship with me. So im glad it still worked out
I haven’t had a crush in a year! But if you mean a proper crush I haven’t had one in three years. Life is boring without a crush 😭 My high school has no pretty guys
I can’t be the only person who low-key wants to know how their crush/past crushes would react to this, but doesn’t make yt videos and is too nervous anyway
@@chevaliedelareverie I am too much of a scared potato. I told my BFF that if my crush even walks in our direction I would get way too scared and I’d walk into a wall and faint 🤣 I’m the type that wants to admire from afar cause I’m way too inferior to him 😅
@@candy6265 yeah that’s why i asked for the timestamp since i was confused, the only person that liked her back was her ex-boyfriend so it wasnt really a missed opportunity
Out of all the guys she liked i think Armen was the best. He’s a 9/10 personality wise! And i honestly think she still has a chance with him and should go for itXD
Sometimes you find yourself meeting people who are beautiful and with great a personality but you don't see yourself dating them because their is just something missing like a spark. But to does people I would keep them close to the end of days.
@@esmeraldagarcia1095 Yep yep. It's like you can admit that they're wonderful people, but there's just no attraction. Like, I can admit a girl looks 💯, but I'm not lesbian so I'd never be interested in dating her. Or with any other attribute- you don't have to be attracted to someone to know they're attractive.
I’m a guy, I meet a lot of girls that I find really cute with great personalities but often won’t even consider dating them because there’s no “spark” or chemistry. I try to make my relationships as fluid as possible. There have honestly only been only like three girls I’ve actually desired to date.
Bro I’ll never forget this one dude that was in my taekwondo class when I was in grade 3. He was so fine 😩 and he complimented my art once. Anyways, Ethan if ur reading this hey
I've never knew what it was like not having a crush just because I was crushing on one guy for 4 years, but now I know.. it's kinda sad. I want to be in love😢
man sometimes all they gotta do is give me a little attention in group work or somethin and I fall for them bc I feel like they're nice people that include everyone lmao this is so sad
You guys are not "easy" , you are just really nice people who like to see the good in everyone . That's a very good thing , but please don't let it bring down your self esteem 😊
I told my crush that I liked him, he said he liked me and then we didn't talk for the next few days and then his friend came up to me and was like "He threw away your confession note because he doesn't understand his feelings for you" and I had a whole reset, I immediately stopped liking him.
Girl trust me I'm probably older than you are and from my life experience I would tell you that stanning kpop idols (especially Min suga lol) is a much better ROI than have an actual crush lmao
“The first one- his name is Brandon” If you never had a crush on some white boy named Brandon, Bennett, Brady, or some other B-name, I either hate or respect you
Theres a difference between having a crush on someone and thinking a person is attractive then liking them for a short period of time. For example, lets say you go to high school with Avan Jogia. You dont talk to him, dont hang around him much, and you guys probably arent even that close but he sits next to you in biology class. Or he just does something really nice for you like once. That means you simply just think they are attractive and you personally feel them as your type but you dont know enough about them to say you are "in love" or have a crush. If you say someone is your specific crush, you should at least know enough about them and they should at least be able to remember your name. But I totally relate to the 41 past crushes lmao.
@@theatrefreakstudios6245 how long is that period of time cause i had a crush on this boy for a month and he insulted me so i immediately stopped having a crush on him
I stopped liking my crush because one day, I said to myself, "You have other things to do and goals to accomplish. Stop wasting your time on that dude and get your butt moving." - Me, a person who had invested a lot if her time on a dude that didn't like her Not sure if anyone would see this so if you do, hello.
Samee. Spent 5 years on an one sided crush and yea eventually I was like 'gurl, you have goals to reach and there's definitely other guys out there who might or might not like me but meh'
honestly this is a great way to ask your crush (singular) out. just lie and tell them that you sent it to all your crushes, but never specify how many and who. and if they do end up liking you back, then great! and if not, it's still great cause now you know what they feel about you.
Amogus Oh wow you used the effort to come back like 3 weeks later to say what my comment was before. Go touch some grass and use the advise of my og comment lol.
It makes since that most of them are kinda/not sure. I feel like most guys typically don't mentally separate friends and potential dates. There are a lot of possible relationships that could be fun, but you never know ahead of time. Even though I would consider myself choosy, there aren't many girls that I wouldn't at least consider the possibility of dating. I hope that makes sense
@namjesus Girl i can feel u cause if I ever had crush on someone are only BTS members which I have no more only suga & jimin anyways I feel like they're more likely my long distance friends Alright I may leave now I wrote too much hope it didn't offened u btw, Happy Army Day
Okay, but how do I send this to: • Anime characters • Game characters • Book characters • Guys from TV show's and Kdramas • Webtoon characters • And to that one guy who picked my purse and looked at me with his blue eyes, smiled and gave it to me. And I was just like thhhanks... and run away....I will never forgive myself....
All of my crushes, I have been friends with... But the sake of RU-vid, I’ll tell u what happened, but these aren’t any of their actual names. #1 Carson: I met him through a homeschool group. We became pretty good friends and I liked him a lot until I noticed how freaking cheesy he was lol. I told one of my friends I liked him while I liked him, little did I know that they knew each other |: (Which I found out literally just after I told her I liked him) I was eventually invited to his birthday party, at this point I didn’t like him anymore, but my friend didn’t know that, so she TOLD him I liked him. He confessed to me that he liked me at his birthday party, where I rejected him. Sry buddy, I actually liked ur best friend... hehe... I’m not cringing while writing this. #2 Miles: Speaking of Carson’s best friend... that I had a crush on.... *awkward laugh*. Miles was honestly just so nice, but I didn’t tell him I liked him because I thought he was interested in someone else, but I literally found out days before he moved that he liked me. OOF, apparently the only reason why he said he was interested in the other girl is because she liked him and he thought I wasn’t interested... (he had heard I liked Carson... RIP) Sadly, I didn’t see him before he moved and neither of us had phones at the time, so I haven’t spoken to him in years, but, *insert real name here* if you read this at some point and know it’s you, you were honestly just the perfect crush. 100% no regrets liking you. #3 Dylan: I met Dylan through church, honestly not much to report on this one. I found out he liked me the day after I moved to Utah. RIP me. #4 Curly Since this is ACTUALLY his nickname, I was a little reckless with this name. ESPECIALLY since I still like him... if you look at any of the other comments I’ve made about a crush, it’s about him. He’s honestly amazing. Idk if he likes me, but I would never want to lose someone so amazing. His smile is just..... AGHHH. I can’t get over him
My personality is really bad by the way. I always acted rough or not caring when I'm shy or embarassed. So when I had this crush on this one dude, I pretended that I didn't like him and kinda avoided the guy like the plague.☠️
Same my personality is crap and I m not beautiful either sooo there is that... but I still had some pretty good relashionships so dw, luckily for us, some people have no taste
I had a crush on my best friend for 3 years. I finally told him, and he reacted by running around the playground screaming in terror. I scampered up a tree. We were 11 😂
@@prodbyhan 👀 you bet i am. my god i went to the premier like 2 hours early. lmao they didn't do Chan's hairstyle much justice but look at Han and Felix
To people saying if it lasts years then it's love, not a crush, that's not true for most of the cases. It can only be love if you know the person, actually know them. Most of us, ahem, are familiar with the far-off thing. That's why 10+ year crushes exsist. Nothing was done to dispell them. No reason to stop, and no reason to move forward, because you don't know enough about the person to do either.
@@legha9493 Good idea. I like that you're going to be honest about it all. Good luck, and thank you as well 🌟. It was honestly a pleasure talking to you. I'll now delete the comments before this one.
@@louizaloudie3314 Tell me you're together now or something nice and optimistic like that. Man it's hard though when the person you like is also the person everyone likes. Too much competition.
I just found out that my crush is somehow my relative....I saw him in a family gathering and I was like *WaIt a MiNuTe* - Edit : lol we are not blood related... he's my uncle's wife nephew 🤔 even he is we can't hang out since the friends he hangs out with are super pretty...lol 😂 I don't have a single *CHANCE*
2 years a go I texted this guy who i like in highschool and I haven't seen him in 8 years and he just blocked me. Edit: he literally texted me after 2 years saying sorry wtf, what should i do, i don't like him anymore lol he said he felt guilty after finding the chat conversation after 2 years. I feel like i should be the one blocking him now.
@@Sophia-sj3hx yeah 😂 but the good thing is, I'm over him now knowing that he doesn't like me. Because I always said "what if he likes me back" but I guess not
I told my crush before leaving school that i had a crush on him and he did not answer me, he only saw my message and the best thing for me to do was to delete the app. and at the same time I was moving to a new department and now I realized that he is my neighbor. GREAT I'm living my best life :):
Considering I can get a crush just from making eye contact one time and can easily mentally maintain well over a dozen one-sided crushes at a time: uhhhh
You are one of the most straightforward youtubers I’ve ever seen on youtube. No extra talk, straight to the quick explanation and test results. I love this ❤️, never give up!
