I shouldn't be left unsupervised. 

I talked my wife into letting get a flight simulator, this is what I got and how it turned out.
Parts Used for Sim: (not affiliate)
Honeycomb Controls:
www.sportys.co...
HOTAS:
www.thrustmast...
Flight Cockpit:
nextlevelracin...
Monitor Stand:
nextlevelracin...
Monitors:
www.amazon.com...
PC Build:
pcpartpicker.c...
Camera:
Google Pixel 7
Other options I considered:
HOTAS:
us.winwingsim....
Seat:
trakracer.com/...
Monitor Stand:
trakracer.com/...