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✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY. make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids. WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.
Sorry did I hear that? Raised a DEAF child all by herself, got a college & university education AND put her baby through private school? Round of applause for Evelyn please. That is a MOTHER!
@@jzen1032 he’s not gonna change he’s a lost cause atp. She should move on with her child. She’s doing more damage than good. No point in expecting more from someone who’s clearly incapable. Meet people where they are as sad as that is.
@@jzen1032 She clearly stated she has a father role in her daughters life. Therefore what is he needed for. More stress that’s more dysfunction if he’s there. No need to keep a “family” together if he isn’t even willing to be one. He deserves to go away until he can be consistent and leave the streets.
She chose him and needs to take accountability. Choosing the bad boy and trying to change him. She desribed him as "evil" How about choosing a good guy to start a family with? 6:41
I can fully explain myself very easily if you'd like me to. Because I had NO idea about the last 2 and I have a son with him already but I can openly say I take some accountability for this bullshit. please do not believe everything he says. I found out when I was 6 months pregnant but knew from the JUMP I didn't want him around. he has told ALOT of lies on me and I'm absolutely livid
@@bindalen3397 I have a son who's 9 and a daughter who is 3. She does not know him and they have my last name. Yes i was dumb but i met him at 16 in 2008. Evelyn and I have put in ALOT of work to get to where we are now. We are both successful without him. Im an account manager and my children are beautiful and happy
This man doesn't respect anyone, not the mother of his child, not even himself. This is really disturbing to see. How do you have 9 kids at 34 and not even put effort to raise them? Shout out to Evelyn though, her strength, patience, and dedication to raising her child is beautiful to see. Best wishes to Evelyn and her beautiful daughter and the other innocent children
✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY. make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids. WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.
“What did you actually accomplish from being on the roads?….survival” what does he think this is call of duty……if you don’t send this joke man to Ukraine to fight the war to put his rubbish to use. Honestly well done Evelyn you are a great Mother such an inspiration the way you handled this situation.
This woman is amazing 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 she has patience, intelligence, great fore sight, eloquence, wisdom and so much more....I bet she is an amazing mother too. She's doing great job👍🏾 wish her and her daughter all the best ❤️
She has made the best of a bad situation and I think she probably is a very good mother given the circumstances, but we need to chill with celebrating single mothers who breed for wotless baby fathers. If we keep heralding them as "amazing", it will only worsen the massive (and growing) issue of single/ teenage motherhood in the black community. I never see a married couple in their 30s who successfully raise a child together called "amazing" by anyone. In reality THAT is what we should be praising and aiming for. Not this… this is actually quite sad.
@BT J I hear you....but the reason I described her as 'amazing' is because in spite of the man not being there, she and her daughter seem to be thriving. Surely, that's something to celebrate. Not to glamorise single motherhood but rather to highlight that she overcame all of her struggles despite the man having minimal involvement. For me, that's something to celebrate and be amazed by. It's inspiring and sends the message that we can achieve more than we initially thought/ realise ❤️
@@bellocholo3626 That’s my point… maybe if we stopped celebrating single motherhood and started educating our children properly, they wouldn’t make mistakes like this. And of course relationships break up all the time, but clearly having a child at 16 with your first boyfriend, and having a child at 30 with your husband are two very different things. The latter has a far greater chance of keeping the family unit together. That is what we should be aiming for. Honestly, I can’t think of another culture that applauds single motherhood the way we love to for some reason. It’s not some badge of honour.
"You were keeping me from seeing her" "You kicked my door in, damn near threw my TV out the window, threw my phone down the stairs, you broke my window, I had to board it up you were damaging my property so I couldn't tell you where I lived" "Oh yeah that's right" Wtf 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
this man is a monster. look at evelyn wow!! successful, strong black woman. she has put this man a side and created a beautiful life for herself and daughter. going to uni with a child who has a disability and having a full time job at the same time? people struggle to just deal with uni ALONE no kids nothing ! wow! and having this man around her! god bless her.
@Pure Soul...strong black woman? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 another attempt of a black feminist with that misguided image and narrative lol. You forget the so-called ''independent'' term as well 🤣🤣.
@@dylandylantoriyama5370 oh cut it. im not even black myself but i can see the struggle of black women and this woman has been through hell but never gave up! stop being so negative. why does the term “strong black women” bother you? RIGHT. shes an independent, strong black woman, since you wanted me to co-operate independent into my sentence.
@@puresoul7070 Cut it? And you are not black yourself? lol, and you expect me to believe that. Your comment is very typical of a black feminist and this narrative of '' strong black women'' is a typical US illusion. You understand the ''struggle of black women'' but you are not black so what are you with all respect?
@@dylandylantoriyama5370 im human lol i dont need to be black or from a culture that is experiencing any form of oppression, racism or discrimination to empathise with them and help by speaking out the wrong doings. why are you so angry?
This guy is just tapped cannot lie. The disrespect. Makes me sick. He has no respect for Women period point blank. Such a narcissistic immature little boy.
Evelyn you are a fantastic mother against all the odds, you strived and made sure you and your daughter had a great life, I pray Kia has all the love and care she needs that her father neglected to give her. Composed and well spoken, your better then me 🤣 Well done. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
In this life Evelyn, you can only take so much disrespect. Your daughter deserves so much better. I honestly applaud your diplomacy and the level of maturity your applying to a serious conversation to which quite frankly this old-young man refuses to nip in a bud.
Where do y’all get this kind of men? What kind of creature is this? How can someone be this irresponsible? “Cuz, Fam, Bruh, my boy” to a female? This guy’s character is really 🤮
he so emotionally unintelligent? Emotionally unavailable, emotionally stunted. He simply don’t care. What a waste of a man. Young girls mind out!, he’s a low achiever and sees getting lots of girls pregnant as an achievement.
✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY. make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids. WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.
The way this beautiful lady articulates herself is incredible. She is so calm and knows how to get her point across even when this man is giving her a hard time not accepting his faults. Strong Black Women you are awesome. As I would have walked out of the interview from long time.
😂😂😂what a joke!! Who is this guys mother? Wow! What a disgrace! How embarrassing. He thinks we can’t feel how embarrassed he feels and looks. 🤦♀️ 🤣🤣🤣 laughing at ya, not with ya.
She cooks dinner, she’s obedient, she’s lovely, she just does! What an amazing child! She deserves better than this clown! She will see this one day and I hope she knows this isn’t her fault and moves on from him. Men like him will pop back up if she becomes famous or wealthy and expect to bask in her success.
This is a very classy and elegant lady who handled herself with so much self respect and poise. This man is incapable of taking accountability and responsibility, I can only pray that God helps this 34 year old to grow up, for the sake of his 9 KIDS!
this man is disgusting, truly. the disrespectful tone he speaks to her when she tells him how bad he is as a person, the fact that he purposefully ruined the relationship between her and the other baby mothers, him thinking he made an effort all because he used to drive a "long way" to see her....i could go on.
✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY. make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids. WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.
This mother is one class act. She’s a very eloquent and clearly dedicated to her child. I feel for the dad in the sense he knows nothing about being available for his children. I can only imagine what he’s been through but its a shame he’s a father at all
Never believed in stereo types until I watched this…to have to explain to a fully grown-ish man How to be a father to his daughter is revolting!..the saddest part is that her impression of black men in future will be awful …what a great mum with incredible patience..
Wtf? So you see 1 video of 1 bad example and that means you should believe in stereotype? So if you go watch “to catch a predator with Chris Hansen”, will you not allow your kids to be around Middle Aged white guys under any circumstances? Ridiculous
@Sarah Ayena...There we go again with the implicit ''black men'' bashing. So typical of black feminists as usual. This man has nothing to do with ''black men''. But I know the underlying message you trying to convey.
@@user-iq5oe6fw7e It doesn't exist it was a stereotype created by insecure racist white American men who wanted to ward off white women lol. The fact that you even believe it makes me already know what type you are. Dating a black guy is not indicative of being a ''single mom'' lol. Black is not a nationality or ethnicity. A Nigerian is different from a Jamaican different from a Kenyan who is different from a Barbadian. Cmon use your intelligent thinking cap...there is a reason you have a brain. Ukraine has a high level of HIV/AIDS is that indicative of white men having loose sexual relations?
I really praise this woman for how she presents herself and for making a whole successful life for her and her daughter while doing it on your own and going through treatment for your daughter. That is not easy, she’s really one strong minded woman!
Young women look carefully at this man, watch his actions not his words. This is the type to avoid. As for the woman here, she has learned a very hard lesson being tied to this poor excuse of a man.
I’m 24 and I understand exactly what Evelyn is saying. Goes to show that maturity and wisdom is not directly related to age. Man up and be responsible for the 9 lives you brought to this world. Simple
Someone asked who raised him.. no one raised him. He was failed by his family, because there’s many men who were on the “roads” and still showed up for their family and not disrespectful to their family, they even did what they did for their family. If you have a son who ends up like this.. just put urself in the bin 🗑 if this ends up being ur son.
✊🏿 💭🗯️ For all the women, black queens and black girls etc etc, makes sure you have yourself together before having children because pregnancy and having children is YOUR Choice and YOUR CHOICE ONLY. make sure you get with the right man before you choose to have any child from, by or with a man... Make sure you as a woman have a job, career and a home before you have kids. WHETHER YOU ARE MARRIED OR NOT, BOYFRIENDS AND GIRLFRIENDS MAKE SURE THAT YOU AS A WOMAN HAVE YOUR OWN HOME OR SHARE A HOME WITH THE FATHER BEFORE YOU HAVE KIDS... that way you won't have to sellout your motherhood to the welfare state and benefit system and be irresponsible mothers.
Welcome to the black man that we all have to deal with in our community. Before you say anything about choosing better. These men are ramp in our community. And the decent men are shunned and picked on. Preferences stay away from them
@Manifesting queen...LOL, another emotional delusional ''black shea butter feminist'' calling herself a queen lol. There is no black community madam. The Nigerian community is different from the Jamaican community, which is different from the Somali community. It's only you delusional ''queens'' that always have this ''black community and black men talk''. No these men are not rampant anywhere many of you ''black queens'' are just low-value women that love immature so-called ''badmen''. The many many black men that are very good are not only ''shunned and picked on but also disrespected by you ''queens''.You lot don't appreciate them, belittle, its good many of these decent black men stay away from you ''queens'' and pursue the women that value them sadly it's not the so-called ''melanin queens'' Preferences stay away from them as well.
She asked man what did you gain out of being on the roads? A man said "Survival" and "Respect" LOOOOOOOOOOOOL Hear what I'm saying: COME OFF THE ROADZ if you wanna survive and the Roadz DO NOT RESPECT You or LOVE You. Trust me on that one.
He would never stand a chance with her if he didn’t catch her so young. She is way out of his league and such a dime. He will meet his fall. Wish Evelyn the best !
I wouldn't say the majority... So many girls go for the same type of guy. 9 didn't see the red flags in his behaviour, they are usually right in front of you. Loads of guys are decent. Just not out there chasing skirts. Definitely agree though. Better outcomes if women raise their standard. Think and act logically ladies, feelings come and go.
@@kayleighdhillon1385 decent isn’t good enough And he has 5 baby mums not 9 Look at his behaviour and tell me he’s not manipulative,psychological abuse is real
woow Evelyn you are a strong woman, all them years ago I never knew this is what you had to deal with while studying and raising your daughter. I used to see you and you were just a hustler single mum doing the most. I'm glad you got to confront your bf, he doesn't even look like he cares at all. I hope you got closure. inspire crew
My man chattin bout certain situations taking "precedence" which is why he couldn't be consistent about seeing his daughter. But when Evelyn was dating someone new, he had all the time in the world to stalk her and break into her house. Hmm, how convenient.
This guy will NEVER change. He kept rolling his eyes and looking to the sky, he wasn't listening. This strong woman should just move on and continue to raise a wonderful human being with the support network that she already has....They seems to be dong really well so far!!!
I really take my hat off to this woman, her patience, composure, maturity, everything!! Because if that was me, it would of been a tussle in that studio 😒
I don’t know what this guy is genuinely doing on the show, no manners, no decorum just absolutely nothing. It’s very embarrassing to see. Evelyn has a lot of patience big up her!
Evelyn is addressing everything, no stone is unturned. So calm and collected, when your talking facts with receipts. How can you be mad at her for talking her truth, she just wants to facilitate a better relationship for her daughter with her father. I think he just stick to calling her Evelyn and not bruv, fam or cuz.
This guy is a product of his environment, the streets grew him, he has more respect for the streets than his children and their mothers, he was more present for the streets than for his children. He still have so much growing up to do. Props to this mom, I am sending you your 🌹 for doing such good job
Evelyn is a better woman than I am I can say that hand on heart. The way she articulates her interpretation of their situation, it really doesn't give him a chance to dodge the accountability he doesn't want to fully take. He sits there like he wants to climb out if his skin... Good!!!
Wow. He's a problem. He would try make you question what you saw with your own eyes. I know plenty roadmen that have loads of kids that are still in their kids life and I also know roadmen like him. Him not being an active father is not a consequence of him being on road, its a choice. That woman is a Saint to have continued the conversation.