I Told Him I Couldn't Have Kids And He GHOSTED Me 

“ yea you’re going to jail! “ 😂😂😂 Jess took me OUT with that! Her dryness is hilarious! 😂😂

She asked at what point did you tell a person that you can't have kids. The answer is within the first few conversations.

Wanting children or not wanting children can be a conversation on the first date, you are supposed to be getting to know each other, why waste each other’s time?

The first caller definitely got a wide back that's real big back energy

Second caller needs to own that situation. She think telling the truth about her situation on the first few conversations is wild but the truth is, it sounds like she’s scared of rejection. Why wait months to tell someone? Weed out the men that don’t like that and find a guy that accepts you for you.

The First Lady sound older than Charlemagne talking bout unc stop it maam 😂

Hilarious! Charlamagne stalker made EveryOne laugh😂 She got them good!

Also I think some questions are too serious for Jess! I’m like Iyanla need to be answering this one!! 😂

The way I yell when she say Charla 🤣🤣🤣!!

Don’t waste nobody time you should tell them atleast 2nd date

Waiting too see how Jess defends Diddy this time 😂😂

Waited 7 months to tell someone that?! NOOOOOOOOOOO WAY!

if the man is dating with a purpose then you tell him as soon as possible, if he's not committed don't bring it up.

I'm a man with no kids that wants kids. If I was him, I wouldnt have blocked her, but I would have definately ended it. Honestly that conversation should have happened early and not after 6 months.

"your going to jail." and she clearly doesn't care. lol

The second caller broke my heart. Im pass child bearing age now, but i went through a similar issues in my 30. Nobody except someone who can’t kids will understand the shame that comes with it. Seek therapy

Jess starting to look like Sexy Red’s twin 😂😂😂

I look young at 46. The one guy I dated wanted kids and I wasn't able to for him. I told him I'm in para menopause. I felt like I let him down. He ended up getting another girl pregnant. That's the breaks. Lol 😊

As a person who is 38..who has never been pregnant and may not be able to have children due to PCOS. I agree with Jess that sis needs to have that convo early as to not waste anyone's time including her own. Also so that person has the full choice of what they want to do. I also agree with Jess that sis needs to get back into therapy to talk about the lack of self worth and feeling rejection that can come from dealing with these types of issues

Assuming what she is saying is accurate. The only thing the brother did wrong was not communicating and ghosting her. Other than that. He has every right to not continue the relationship if he wants kids and she can't have kids.

She waited till 7 months 😂 he should of blocked her

Sounds like Flame prank calling

Y'all ain't see that Diddy video huh

DIDDY DIDDY DIDDY let’s see y’all defend this new video

At this grown age we should ask those type of questions about kids. I have a daughter and it’s brought up first conversation. Then the girl normally ask if I want another kid eventually. Then I ask them. Folks make it difficult for no reason lol

Pulled up not invited was the first clue sis lol

I wouldn't say that on the first date, but I would tell you if we start getting closer.

You should have that convo up front bc some ppl dont want kids. So if you cant have kids or if you dont want kids, thats something that should be discussed up front so the other person can move on if thats a dealbreaker.

I’m just wondering are they gonna bring up the Diddy situation….or keep quiet we all waiting 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

I don't want kids and you will never change my mind.

UM SOME PEOPLE WHO WERE TOLD THAT THEY COULDN'T HAVE KIDS STILL WERE ABLE TO STILL HAVE KIDS BIOLOGICALLY

14 years ? & Only recently wanted to give him some, he should have ghosted u along time ago

Great video

The first person 😂😂😂😂😂

The First Lady 🤣🤣

Nah that twist with the first caller made my morning 🤣🤣

The man want kids.. simple 🤷🏽‍♀️

They aint quick to talk about diddy 😅

Cant wait to see how yall gone defend diddy this time😂😂😂

The second caller lied to the guy for months now trying to play victim 😂😂😂

YALL REALLLL QUIET ON THE DIDDY SITUATION AND THATS WILD

She trolllin!!!

That’s a blessing ❤❤girl

You never block that blessing. Clearly you can kids. You just have to take the extra step.

second caller doesn't really want kids and needs to be upfront about that. she doesn't want to have the surgery that could help the issue, and even the way she talked about being a foster mother sounded ignorant. she sounds like she'd be the type to return the child to the system once it got too hard. the man who blocked her probably felt played because the topic of kids most likely came up more than once and she lied or was evasive about what was really going on with her body. it's not about her not being enough or whole without being able to get pregnant - it sounds like she has issues being honest with herself and others. jess read this situation very clearly, i think.

That was probably the best thing that could have happened to her. If left like that, he wasn't emotionally invested anyway. When dating one shoukd date there equal/ be honest about intentions/ don't be afraid to leave when the relationship no longer suits you. It's ok to walk away.

Love that y’all posting on The Weeknd too good job BC editor

Honestly not all Men want kids..... I don't .... Never had a desire to have kids

Jess, you're not helping anyone 😂. This segment is bs, lol.

"DA BRAT" 😭

Talking about every thing else but the Diddy situation 🤣🤣

I am the second caller and let me be clear I don't want to bash that man.I don't have any hard feelings towards him.I made a choice and I got the outcome that I got.It is what it is. Jess was absolutely correct, and I was not comfortable and I was scared to tell the truth. If I told the truth up front.We would possibly Still be friends now . And for all the overly nosy people .the surgery is not a hundred percent guarantee Insurance only partially covers it The amount of time I would have to take off work is crazy Just realistically if all of that works I would still possibly be high risk Pregnancy So I rather invest that love, time, effort, and money into a child That needs a loving home instead of chasing a dream that may never happen I was a little overly excited talking to them on the radio but I did go And continue to go to therapy And i'm okay with the choice that I made I'm just a regular person trying to figure it out. I called to get a different perspective and Hopefully handle it better in the future .

trying get my mans caught up lmaoo

This is entertainment 🤣

I think it would be best for her to date a man that already has kids. The pressure won't be there and she might form a great relationship with his kids If the relationship gets serious.

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Being upfront in the beginning is the only way. Imagine if someone had HIV or had a sex change, you would want to know that in the beginning. Stand on your stuff and let mfs know whats up right awy

That definitely surprised me 😂

“the truth hurts more in the end than it does in the beginning.” you have to tell someone that you’re “dating” what you want your future to look like, and that’s including if you want kids (if you don’t have any already.) once you both share that info wit each other then you will know who is for you and who isn’t. please try not to make it harder for the both of y’all by just omitting or not sharing those views ASAP. it saves a lot of time & energy. besides, if you wait too long to share that wit that person then you’re basically making that decision for them because now that person has caught feelings and is in love. that will not end well. we see too many situations happen where one side doesn’t tell them the truth (and live in their truth) to the point where that side makes the decision for the other side, now the opposing side feels some type of way. how that guy handled it was wrong, but her withholding that info for that long was wrong also. yes what she’s going thru is rough and i’m not faulting her because of that, but in order for you to find the right one for you, you have to be honest. it’s the only way. i hope this helps her & whoever is reading this. 🙏🏾

Lmaooo

Once they already established that they are having sex they should discuss it then.

I knew she was going to say Charlamagne... LOL

For her to take so long to tell him means she knew it'd be a problem and probably make him run. People love to wait until later on to tell you something rather than give you the option to willingly stay in hopes that although whatever they have going on is a major setback, they're hoping your already emotionally invested and will stay although that leads to unfairness and resentment... So if that man stayed and then had a baby with someone else she can't even be too mad at the cheating if he wanted his own children and you manipulated the relationship to begin with.

Dang...y'all not talking about Diddy?!🤦🏽‍♀️

“He’s Mexican” lmfao

It’s crazy that yall ain’t covering Diddy hotel incident.

The Breakfast Club is keeping quiet about that Diddy video😂😅

Why ghost her? Why not just say I’m sorry in the future so I don’t think this will work. Wish her well. It’s cruel to ghost people. Then some of these men wonder why they aren’t meeting good women. They turning women heartless

Tell him right away

We will be here on Monday to see their reaction to the video..

😂😂

One key thing to make a relationship work is to have clear communication. If you feel like they’ll judge you for something not in your control, ask yourself.. do you really want to be in that relationship? They were both in the wrong. You don’t wait 7 months to tell someone that, but you also don’t ghost them afterwards. Rejection sucks, but it’s not the end of the world.

Yeah these dudes giving you bad advice. Probably don't even care about kids. This a man telling you who love his kids. Day 1 kids were on my mind as a boy. You see all these movies portraying little girls playing games about having kids. I was a dude with my cuz chilling out playing those games. I wasn't all over the place with any woman to have kids. I chose a specific one as a girl who wasn't wild. God blessed us twice. Something like that would have went on. There would be nothing she could explain after the fact because you had to go to a doctor to find this out. So You Really KNOW. It's not a guess you medically know this. This something you can bring up first date by asking do you want kids. You ask it. I can tell you will hide this. Not sure what Charlemagne talking about but if you not trying to hide this you will bring it up. Do you want kids is not an odd question. Then you tell the person. They say yea or nay.

I'd ghost you to if I ask and you don't tell me then. That much time goes by and you tell me

That woman on some baby reindeer lol

11:22 💯💯💯💯

Yall best NOT duck the Diddy topic these week.... all that weak energy yall was giving tryna down play the situation.... all that "I hate seeing blk men tore down blah blah blah..." when yall know damn well ppl just don't want ppl in power to keep getting away with crooked activity...

It was funny 😂😂😂😂😂

Big back behavior

There is a surgery the caller said that could possibly make having kids a option for her but she stated she rather adopt. which is her right but let that be know very early on if your dating with intentions. Also for some women and men they may not be able to conceive on their own but things like IFV can help. just be open and transparent.

I’m waiting to see the way y’all address the Diddy/Cassie footage on Monday. If y’all turn a blind eye to it or try to justify it I’m done supporting.

Where’s the Jess with mess segment

Difficult conversation. I think if your dating a with INTENTION, a conversation is needed.

WHAT BOUT DIDDY

On monday. I'm wondering how the Breakfast Club is going to try and cover up for Diddy this time like they always do.

Not not talking about diddy is wild !! They better make videos on how wrong he is etc ! Man the bias is sick 🤢

I’m surprised yall not bringing up that Diddy video 🤨😏

Jess brings special reason into the narrative.

😂😂😂😂😂😂

That's not first date convo unless it's casually brought up. If you're getting to know each other then it's not a necessary thing the other person needs to know, but if you're getting serious....then thats the time to tell them.

Ngl 7 months is CRAZY… that’s way too long to tell someone that. You can’t really blame him for doing what he did. On the bright side for her, there’s a lot of guys out there that don’t want kids 🤷🏽‍♂️.

For millions of people, children are an absolute deal-breaker either way. No need to prolong anything if you know you're a person who does/not want children.

Sounds like she being scammed

No diddy news TBC ?

From me listening to her she will hide this again.

Just listen she thinks because she likes that person it should happen. Ma that's not life. If yall don't mutually like each other and yall honest about everything. It will be a lie. This something you knew but didn't reveal.

I'm 44......I'm a stepfather of 2, but I do not have any biological children. I chose not to have children because I fear having kids with the wrong person She has be confident in telling people that she is unable to have kids. If men don't like what she says......F them! Be happy no matter what 💯💯💯

He could have been running cuz made he couldn’t have kids … and didn’t want to tell her so he left the relationship..

Im on the complete opposite spectrum of the woman who cant have kids, I dont want to have any. But i will say, that its sad that women aren't able to carry, especially when they want to have children. I also understand the man's point of view as well, he just should have communicated that with her instead of leaving abruptly. And at the end of the day, people need to stop feeling so comfortable asking women why they dont have any, because just like this woman, its not as simple as not wanting to carry, some women physically can't. Stay out of our business regardless of the situation. Unless of course youre dating, then it should be discussed, but since its such a sensitive topic, thats up to the woman to disclose that information.

She can talk to me cuz I anit got no kids either 🤷🏽‍♂️😂