im thankfull for my mother fr- these happened when i was going to bed yesterday , we had this convo irl too and if your parents dont support you then- ALL MY SUBS AND I WILL
I told my best friend my sexualilty yesterday (kinda cause im not fully aware) idk whats her reaction still😧 i was actually private messeging her and accidentally the whole server (3 or 2 people)knew about it cause im dum (and i did this on roblox cause we live so far away from each other)
I told my mom that I was bisexual and she just said "okay, I don't really care if you like men or women, that doesn't hurt me", damn how I love my mother
My dad is that type of person "You're not old enough to know yet" BRO WHAT ABOUT THE SIGNS THAT ARE JUST OBVIOUSLY OUT THERE SHOWING I AM WHAT I SAY AND *KNOW* I AM
LMAO Seriously I one time just said the WORD "Pansexual" and my mom said "You're too young you have a lot of time to figure that out." OKAY? THE TIME HAS COME, I HAVE BLOSSOMED INTO A NON-BINARY ASEXUAL AROMANTIC OMNISEXUAL DON'T EVEN DENY IT 😭
Uh simpler version would be like tell her "I'm bisexual and bigener" and if she doesn't get it just tell her "bisexual means I like both boys and girls and bigener means I'm both a boy and a girl"
@*pastel sunset* well no ._. If you are a girl and you are bisexual you aren't gay and straight right? Bisexual doesn't mean gay, if you are a bisexual man you aren't gay, if you are bisexual woman you aren't a lesbian, if you are a bisexual bigener you aren't gay, lesbian or both- You are just bisexual
I came out as non-binary to both my mom and dad at once at night and all they said was- “Yeah, we know. Well, we thought you were a street goblin, but this doesn’t really change that. Now get your as* up to bed, it’s 1 am.” I think they accepted me, but I can never be sure-
*I tried telling my mom many times that I don't ever want marriage, children or relationships* *She went silent every time* *And now she accuses me of being gay*
She's just confused ... maybe if you try to explain to her she might understand and if she doesn't ... Well there's nothing she can do I mean you're feelings are not gonna change just because she doesn't approve of them and it's not like you're doing anything bad like having drug's or killing and hurting others ....you're sexuality doesn't affect people around you I really don't understand why some parent's take it as a bad thing ...I hope she come to understand you're feeling and love you for who you are 🌹Take care sweetheart🌹
When I came out as lesbian to my mom, she was fully supportive. I asked her why she wasn't upset about not being able to have grandchildren (I'm legitimately the only member of this generation in my family.) She said, "I don't care hun, it's your choice!" That made me cry, I love my mom so much
My mom just said “Listen here, idc if your lesbian, bi, or whatever, that's nothing to do with what u want in life. Chase ur dreams, and i won't give af if you love a girl.”
I hope my mom said that too bc when i told her that maybe i like girls more that boys bc my crushes was mostly girls she hitted me with a fucking baseball bat and she didn't even care if i die....
My mom said to me even before a became Pan, “I really dont care if you like women or anyone, as long as you’re safe and happy” Edit: OMG WHY SO MANY LIKES😩😩😩
my parents accept my sibling as gender fluid, but thier almost in college. If I came out as Pansexual and Non-Binary my mom would probably say I'm "too young" to know this yet, and that I need to wait until I'm older to decide.
My parents said that when My older brothers were born, they talked about this. "What if one of our sons are gay?" They said. And nope, the oldest currently has a wife and 3 kids, The middle has a girlfriend and 1 kid... OOP- yo little princess came out as a Pansexual! (Me)😏
I feel like the "you're not old enough to know yet" just means "you're still questioning your sexuality, so if it changes, don't be surprised". Which is true, some people are still unsure of their sexuality.
You are better off being a questioning before you turn 18, by that age you should start actually trying things to see how it goes! I’m currently aro ase, but I don’t know for sure. So I think one day it might change, so I try not to hang on to it too much.
@@urmomisgay916 I totally agree! We gotta accept that we're kids, that doesn't mean we're dumb, we just don't have experience on certain things! Just see where you're feelings take you! I'm bisexual, and I'm pretty confident that that's my sexuality, but who knows!
At first I thought I was Pansexual, then thought I was a boy, then thought I was gender fluid, then thought I was bigender, then thought I was a girl, and then thought I was a lesbian. So far I'm pretty sure I'm a lesbian but I'm still questioning it.
Well In my country- Their Parents Arent supportive When Their Kids Is Bi Or Not Straight, Because In My Country Their Kids Become Bi Because Of Trend Or Some like that, that's why. Well My dad isn't that supportive that's Why I Become Normal👁n👁
Mine said: “You’re still young and confused, probably in the future when you’re mature enough you will know the answer. You’re too young to know however if your mind doesn’t change in the future I will be fine with that.” Disclaimer: She’s not homophobic she just thinks that I’m too young to know and label myself that’s all. :’)
are you okay? i'm here for you. my dad is really homophobic but my mom really supports but i haven't told them yet [i'm asexual/pan]! if you need help or someone to talk to i'm here... "do you know what that means?" that was really rude, like literally. then she just left?? i really hope your okay
@@towacunt Yes, I'm okay! I'm planning to come out once I'm old enough to support myself, If my Mom kicks me out because I'm bisexual and Gender-fluid, then I can be responsible and have my own home with my gf. So far, I've been dropping hints about the LGBTQ+, hope it works
😪I wish my mom was like that but she was raised by her grandma who lived in the 1900 and in a land where most people are straight and if there are persons who are any other sexuality i dont know
I have a gay friend, and I told my parents about it. They wanted me to cut off all contact with him. “Ew! Stay away from him!” “What if he is secretly straight and just wants to get close to you!” “Those people are disgusting” they’re both homophobic and racist. They fight every single day, they are never home. What a nice family I have ^^
The thing I know is that my parents arent racist cus I had a black friend since I was 3 and they were really nice to her and like blm. but when I told them about a friend coming out to me as bi they said that she is to young to know so Im not sure if they are homophobic-
I send you all the hugs and love. The same thing pretty much happened to me. Me and my bestfriend (who is a trans bisexual-) were on a phone call and he was talking about a non-binary actor and my mom walked in. I didn't know how to tell my friend to stop talking about it without looking suspicious so I just sat there with my mom listening while my friend went on about the actor for the next 2 minutes. A few days later, me and my mom were in the car and she asked me what non-binary meant, and I told her. A lot happened after that, but to sum it up my mom forced me to out my friend and myself and she was not happy. Later that day, my parents call me downstairs to talk to them. My mom told my step dad that my friend was bisexual but not me (probably cuz she knew that he would absolutely destroy me-) and he gave me a 30 minute lecture about how what my friend, "believes in" is wrong. My parents now hate my bestfriend but they haven't made me cut ties because they know that I don't have any other friends. 😔
when I first came out as bi, my mom was like "im proud of you" and gave me a hug, but now here I am waiting to see her again so I can tell her about me being asexual, pansexual, and non binary knowing she will accept me Edit: okay I don't think you guys know what I mean. Someone has already helped me figure out I'm panromantic. Also, my parents are very accepting (my dad is iffy on gender) so I'm not worried. And I'll be able to see my mom tomorrow so yay!! Anyways that's all I wanted to cover so please dont say what I might be or stuff like that because I've already figured out so thanks!
i think the correct term for this would be panromantic since you’re asexual, but feel free to name any terms you feel like. hope you get to see your mom again and hopefully she accepts you
@@andressica6993 np, i was confused about it first and people use whichever term which is entirely fine, just that there’s another way you could write it to help it make more sense
"hey sweetie, do you like girls by any chance?" "no, but I am pansexual so.." "what?" "nevermind. I don't like girls." "sweetie, are you lying again?" "no. I didn't." I'm too scared to tell my parents. Especially my father. They say I'm "too young" to have a sexuality.
thats the worst part like your age doesnt define your sexuality if that makes sense, sure alot of kids say it because its a trend or something but sometimes they really mean it
I told my mom when she asked me if I was lesbian that I had one real life crush the rest are fictional characters and she said “you can’t date someone that doesn’t exist” and me and my aunt screamed “WE KNOW THAT!”
I told my mom I was bi, and she said "Well, if you're in-love with a girl, then how will I get grandkids?" and I replied; "but mother, you don't know if I will or not" then she said nothing and continued cooking..
When you get out of a mental hospital and the first thing your mom says after not seeing you for 2 years is. “Your aunt told me u like girls, is this true?”...fun times 😃
i'm jealous damn i got yelled at for being trans because god made me a girl, told i'd be disowned if i changed my name, and told that if i don't give my parents grandchildren i'll be a disappointment. like i would literally kill to have supportive parents like that 😭
My mom was straightening things in the kitchen and I asked why she was organizing so much. She said that she likes things to be straight and neat, to which I responded with: "so you don't like me?". She turned around and looked at me like "seriously? You make a gay pun now?".
i mean there's a slight truth to that considering when I was 8 I was as straight as a stick, around when I turned 11 a couple years ago, I sorta took a few days to question my sexuality as I then sorta realised I was always attracted to girls-
Becomes 18 and moves to another country Texts mom "I'm pansexual" if she reacts badly, never speak to her again If she reacts positively, I'll keep talking to her
Im happy that I live in thailand (they have rule or something that say you cant kick your child off your house,give your child to other person that isn't family,treat your child very bad,not let them made their life choice,etc. or eles go to jail)
my parents arent really homophobic or atleast my mom isnt since she knows its not really her business but i think my older siblings and parents are kinda transphobic which sucks for me
@@iris-qz8xu My Parents are very homophobic so Ima just keep saying I'm straight and I'm pretty sure I am idk cus I was just raised up to be straight and nothing else{which also means can't be trans}
I told my aunt that always goes to church on Sunday that I was Bi and she still said jesus loved me I was so happy I started crying. This was about 2 years ago
Tell them „i like every gernder identety“ next time,parents think sexualitys are complicated so its kinda weird for them and they dont understand it well (edit because i accedentally switched sexuality and gernder oop-)
My mom is kicking me out after I'm 18, plus she kept saying "it's a phase" at first. The reason she believes I'm a lesbian now, is because I got a girlfriend 😬
Me when i told my mom i was pansexual: Mom im pan Her: Okay..Uh i support you..? My sister when she told our mom she was bi: mom.. im bi My mom: *doesnt talk* Me realizing my brother is bi too and my mom is going to lose it if she finds out all 3 of her children are bisexual and pansexual..
When I came out to my mom she is all like Mom:Oh okay I just thought you were lesbian cause like our whole family thinks your lesbian Excuse me what-😭😭
Man... if only some parents are like this, I know some children are might be scared to reveal this kind of things since they feared of the bad things that will happened... it's just sad...
yeah... personally I never had any issues with my sexuality or anything related to gender but... I do know that such things isn't allowed since they thought it was a sin, especially if you are christian... i don't know for other religion, but i hope you all are doing fine 🤗
My mom and mines conversation is just "Hey mom I'm pansexual and use she/they Pronouns" "Is this a prank again?"(I came out to her once but that's when I thought I was bisexual but I said it was a prank) "No" Next day "I love you no matter what winter girl🥺♥️"
My parents raised me to be NOT straight Everytime if one of them said: "One day you will find the perfect man" the other one said: "or women" Im so happy :D
My parents are the exact opposite if I said I liked the same gender I'd be kicked out and then they'd give me a lecture abt how God will get you and you'll go to Hell so I'm just saying I'm straight :) {My parents are Christians and are very against LGBTQ+}
My brother was raised as "pan" he always thought it was perfectly normal dating the same gender since me and my sister are gay so he always hasn't cared about the gender of the person he liked
How do you have a “phase” where you want to wear a different style clothes that makes you comfortable and you want to have a different name that people are going to start calling you for a long time/ your whole life? I don’t get the logic here.
I'm to scared to tell my parents I'm trans My dad side of the family won't except me " I had a aunt I didn't know exist till a couple years ago, but the reason why is because she was gay and married to a girl, they didn't even attend her wedding, and my dad says people can't be trans unless if they get surgery because mentality if you are another gender your not fiscally so he doesn't really like trans" T^T☹☹😔😔
I love how people come out come out with these conversations, but I did "I'm lesbian ByE-" Then I explained I was sure and blah blah blah Then I overheard my dad say "I failed as a father'- OuCh-
@@hipeeps8560 oh, I didn't clear it enough. I didn't get a therapist because that. I actually overdosed In February due to grief complications and my mom. After being treated like hell for 8-9 days I finally got out and my parents got me a therapist. They just decided to tell my therapist for whateverrr reason. My therapist took it the real wrong way cause I mess up speaking to new people that I am afraid of. So haha- anyways thank you!! You did too
I could be like- "Mom, Dad i'm Bi!" and they'd be like- "Bi?? what do you mean bye?? Where are you going?" d e a d a s s edit: for everyone saying "just say bisexual" the whole joke is the fact I said Bi instead of that- If this were real ofc I'd say bisexual pls stop lmao-
I came out to my mother and she’s just like, “You’re too young to be labeling yourself in that way” or “You don’t even know what a romantic feeling is like” like of course I don’t, I’m a Aromantic asexual, I’ve literally never had any romantic feelings for anyone, it was literally all just an act cause I thought I would fit in that way
When i came out to my dad he was like “ok” “I still love you sweetie, that won’t change how i think of you” and for my mom she was like “I still love you but you may need to think more about it when you get older but I still love you for you.”
I cant say anything with the word “sexual” or “gay” because my parents don’t support the lgbtq+ community, and I feel like they would read the Bible to me again 😃 Seriously they actually read the Bible to me after mentioning it once
I came to my mom and big sister aswell and they said the same things "You are too young to be that and you'll probably change your mind when you grow up." but they weren't mad, they actually supported me, it was a big relief.
my mom was pretty much the same- except i never told her. i know she’s the same since ever since i was like 4 she’d tell me “you can’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend till your older” the only reason why i don’t tell her is because i’m young lol
"You're a child" "No, You're a women" Then two weeks later: "Ma'am your child is okay." "You mean my daughter?" "...Thats a extra 20 dollars." I love my nurse hshshhsshsh
My mom said the same thing😭 “your young you will grow out of it” when I told her I was bisexual😂but the weird part is she said she went threw the “same faze”😳..
When I'm coming out as genderfluid to my parents,and my parents be like: My Mom: it's okay sweetie,it's your life choices,I can't control my daughter life anyway,but still you can't date anyone cuz your still too young to date people. My dad:I love you no matter what you are,either you are straight or not,I want my daughter to have a nice life and healthy relationship ^^.
Your mom is saying “idk man, do what you want, idc 🧍♀️” While my dad is trying to convince me that I’m lying to myself, and that I’m to young to know that I like girls. And that society is “pushing” me to be apart of the LGBTQ+ even though I literally had multiple crushes on girls ranging from 5th - 7th grade- 🧍🏻
Me:explains to my parent that I’m pan My parent: Wow you’ll settle for anyone🙄👎 Me: no I just like everyone😭 My parent:that’s why 3 seconds ago you said you hated your brother🤦♀️ Me:THATS MY BROTHER💀
Yeah both of my parents actually just don't really care one way or another that I'm bie demiromantic... now that I think about it I'm not actually sure if my dad knows😅
My MOM came out me when I accidentally came out as bi. And she said "and. I'm bi as well" And I was like what and my aunt said "I'm bisexual too" It took me like an hour to comprehend all that a ounce.
lmao for me it'd be like "Hey mom and dad, I'm non-binary and pansexual" "hi non-binary and pansexual, I'm kicking you out" DHRISHFJDHF I'M GLAD YOUR MOM ACCEPTS YOU AND THIS IS IN NO WAY SHAMING YOU- I JUST SAW SOMEONE ELSE DO THIS 💀
When I told my dad I like both boys and girls he said "Okay? Can you eat your food now??" But with my mom she didn't say anything and y'know she shared it on Facebook told a lot of people I WASn't MAD at all
I told my mom I was Pansexual and she said "your to young" I literally had crushes on people with multiple genders and am currently dating a non binary! (I'm a top btw)
Introdoucing some joke to say everyone Pansexaul: to understand this PMSYL = person who makes sure your alive at home also I'm not trying to offend anyone also I know the pansexaul joke overused Y/N: PMSYL I want to introdouce you to who my love interest PMSYL: ...Okay... Y/N: My panfriend
i think that we can love anyone and as long you are happy with that person, no one can judge. no matter what gender, skin, race, eye color, shape, how much does that person weigh or how trendy and rich they are. personality! only personality!
When I told my mom I was questioning she kinda looked at me all silent and I started freaking out and said “I’m leaving that issue to hang until I’m much older- until the love hormones hit-“ and she cut me off and said “There’s nothing wrong with you if you are, but I agree. You should just leave it for the future.” We then agreed that sexuality is a “Big people problem” and as I am still a minor, I don’t have to worry :)
I just found out one of my school friends might be homophonic cause once we were having a conversation that turned into an agreement and she said that if you are apart of the LGBTQ that is going against God and we'll all go to hell 😑
Actually later that day she new I was upset cause me and everyone in our friend group is part of the LGBTQ especially our one friend that's trans bit I think she knew cause later she said the whole thing was a joke 🤨???
@@dani2rvvl also i feel like my older siblings just wouldnt give a care in the world, but my younger brother would probably adore them or just hate them- also my entire family would hate them if they had a pixie-cut i just know they would
Hello! 👋 I'm currently adopting those who don't have supporting parents. I'm accepting of everyone. I am also here to talk to people who need to get things off their chest. Also, I'm making fried chicken and Mac and cheese for dinner. 🤗
I was trying to explain being pansexual to my mom and this is kinda how it went Me : Mom can we talk? Mom : Sure! Me : I’m pansexual.. Mom : ..What does that mean? Me : It means I like all genders..! Mom : Maybe you should wait and see until you are older. Me : oh okay.. (Just went and cried in my room for 10 mins)
I feel like most parents would say this if you haven’t been in a relationship yet. If so good for you! Or they might feel that you are at an age where you might not have to best grasp on relationships.
I mean, she has a point tho, maybe trying to have more experience will make you more sure of your sexuality, it could change through the time and that's something normal.
Bro, my mom doesn’t mind me being any sexuality she is like “Oh okay, and I am happy for you and it doesn’t mean I change the way I love you, you are my daughter and life I have to take care of you,” I am crying. Thanks Mom🥰😭
My mom just told me she supports me in every way, but doesn't want me using the name i want to cause im non binary, i looked at her like she was insane.
@@RE0123 ik, i was only saying that idk if they already knew, but i wanted to say it, and i know how does it feels to be called by a name i don't use anymore / dead name (more like doesn't fits for me).
I've told my mom that I'm lesbian...burning don't know if my dad will accept me cuz he has this whole idea in his head about what I'll be when I grow up. I have a friend who has lesbian moms, and he's cool with them, I just don't know how he'll react when I come out of the closet....
My dad actually used to be kinda homophonic he's not anymore because we have LGBTQ family and friends now but now he doesn't really care one way or the other and there's still.some things about the LGBTQ that he doesn't like and argues that there are 4 genders so I'm to scared to tell him head on that I'm bie demiromantic
Why do these conversations always pop up when ur about to go to bed? LIKE- IM ABT TO GO TO BED AND REALIZED I WANNA TELL MY MOM IM CHATTING A BOY LIKE-
*me telling my sexuality to my mom* Me: so i'm bi mom... my mom: ... do you like someone ??? When is the mariage ?? Me: Mom im only - my mom: WHEN IS THE F MARIAGE :>
