Billy smashed the Panasars market and went to jail.Ben has done so many horrible things including human trafficking he's not fit to be around Lexi.I feel bad how Jay is being treated.
And Lola actively restricted Ben's access to Lexi in the past based on his actions. She was quick to tell him that he couldn't see Lexi until he pulled his shit together. What's different here besides the fact that Ben is now in Lola's position as Lexi's primary parent and Jay is the one doing illegal shit?
I can't believe Billy was being supportive towards Jay at first and then against Jay in the next minute. I am aware that Jay has been struggling with his loss of Lola and his mental issues but he should've known better. I know he is grieving and all, but his behaviour is also affecting Ben, Callum and Lexi. I don't think Jay realise he is pushing a limits too far. The more he keeps this up, the less of support he gets. I don't know how long Jay going to keep behaving like he is right now, but he needs to man up, stop putting himself before others because it's unhealthy when it comes to grieving. It is pathetic and ridiculous. Honestly. (sigh) 😒
@@Guitar-qv6gu he’s not her stepdad anymore as Lola is dead. Parental responsibility also doesn’t give him the right to see a child. Ben as the bio parent can stop contact at any point
Ben shouldn’t have said that in public and even in Front of LEXI too and Ben needs to help jay and so all of his family like Gina going love her and her sister but she my favourite out of Cindy and George kids
jay has never been/will never be lexi’s dad. having parental responsibilities doesn’t make someone a dad. he never had a fatherly relationship with her before this storyline and don’t even get me started on the fact that callum has been completely sidelined and treated like a second class dad for most of this story despite the fact he’s been her stepdad for way longer than hay has.
Jay was there for lexi a he'll of a lot more than Ben who tried to denied he was her dad on multiple occasions. Jay was there for lexi when he was with and without lola
@@jonathanstone.. ben didn’t even know lexi was his at first and when he found out that lexi was his him and lola agreed that it would be best if he stayed away from them. but since newcastle he’s been a constant presence in her life, unlike jay who was in and out of her life. jay was still with honey and playing stepdad to her kids last year.
It is his own fault. Nobody asked him to do drugs or go to that prostitute. Plus, he left drugs in the same house Lexi was in, clearly endangering her. What he should have done is to go to the therapist or talk to someone at least.
Jay Brown is finished. He deserved after everything the mistake Jay made. Jay didn’t know what to do I’m sorry to say to all of you who are watching from home as well as the RU-vid Subscribers. May I just just clarify this that Jay Brown is not Lexi’s Dad anymore. Ben is Lexi’s Dad. Jay should have moved on from Lola, but then he didn’t. That’s because of his mental health issues. Look at the bad state of Jay. And I feel so sorry for Lexi. I just can’t believe what the reaction was with Ben, Callum and Billy. Jay should be better off without Lola this time, but Jay keeps going back into the past like a life cycle from where he helped Lola die. If Jay Brown leaves Walford, that’s it. This will be the end of Jay Brown for upsetting Lexi about missing Lola.
I couldn’t agree with you more. I think that Jay is a complete disgrace! He’s a disgrace to Lexi, to his family and just to everything. All he’s ever been good at is being in the way of things and people, such as Ben and Callum, also when he was living with him, Phil and Shirley. I don’t even know why he’s still on the show…it’s not like he’s ever had any actual storylines. I’m literally sick of him altogether!! I really hope he leaves.
@hyperchicken1984 how many times has Ben let down his daughter 😂 but he father of the year he not capable of love because he didn't get any from his dad
Wish everybody would just get over Lola already! Normally soaps move on quickly from grief. But now they’re dragging this on too long. The only person who seems to be moving is Lexi and she has more right than any of them to go off the rails!
I'm confused. BEN is telling people how to be a parent????? Jay does maybe one bad thing every 5 years while all the other characters are consistently irresponsible jerks. Now when Jay is in a hard place they all turn their backs on him. Shameful
@@MJFANDOMEXPOSUREhe doesn't automatically cease to be her stepfather just because Lola died. That's not how parenthood/guardianship works. Ben would have to apply through the courts and social services to have Jay's access rights removed, he can't just say 'No, you can't see her.' It's staggering though that a killer and criminal gets more consideration here than the guy who actually has given more of a damn about Lola and Lexi throughout their time together. What things like this bring to light is how many people still think that people with mental health/grief problems should 'just sort themselves out', because that's obviously so easy.
A parent has every right to put distance between their child and someone abusing drugs. Lola would do the exact same thing - in fact, she has done the exact same thing.
Some People who has either lost a loved one or had traumatic stress experiences, some people can only cope with drugs as it helps them forget stress and can raise dopamine. A lot of people are too harsh with people who rely on that drug . They just need more support and help them come off drugs with a therapist. Look for positive in life. I could go on all day. But i had to get this out there.
That's not the debate here though, it's having someone like that around an 11 years old child, who you're also flunking in even visiting, and who just keeps lying.
I feel sorry jay when ben did drugs drinking everyone always treated him like an angel when jay lost lola and did drugs drinking everyone getting mad at him and everything
@@Homer255 Perhaps not pin them against each other but he wasn't completely honest with Billy about why Ben and Callum told him to move out. Ben was angry when he found out about the drugs but still wanted to support Jay...it was finding out the lies about the Lola-look-alike prostitute that pushed him over the edge. That's the part that Jay left out because deep down he knew how it would look to Billy (and it's not something he can really explain because the fact is that it doesn't really make sense and it isn't healthy). Naturally Billy being Lola's grandfather (more like a father to her) felt hurt and betrayed and thought if he's lied about this what else is he lying about. I do feel really sad for Jay though because he's so lost and hurting badly. I'm worried about what's coming.
Feel sad for jay he needs support not to bullied at and for Billy and Ben shouting at him and telling him he's not wanted is so cruel I mean Billy and Ben aren't Angels themselves in the past jay was the that gave them support when needed between them picking up the pieces
I wouldn't be at all surprised if we end up with a suicide attempt storyline here with Jay, after the initial grief/depression we're seeing now. The EastEnders plots are too depressing and dark nowadays. If it's not gangster stuff, it's mental health issues.
“i’m her dad” ???? no jay you’re not!! ben is her dad and callum is her step-dad. You just have PR over her which can be taken away by Ben in an instant. I understand he’s grieving but there ARE ways of dealing with it that simply don’t involve drugs and sleeping with prostitutes imo. Especially when there is a child involved. I just don’t see Jay very fit to be Lexi’s “dad” at all, not just because of the drugs, it just doesn’t make sense to me!!
I would’ve told Billy that he should’ve gone to jail for abusing me and Jamie, his adoptive children when the kids were younger then ended it with you are the last person to be talking.
Billy finds out the truth Jay went though about sleeping with Nadine Keller looks like late wife Lola and he grief of her and now Billy thrower Jay out
Ummm NO Jay you are NOT Lexi’s dad, Ben is! And while Ben is far from the perfect dad in the show and a little hypocritical, he’s been a better dad for Lexi lately than you’ve been!
