I've Never Met My Husband Outside Prison | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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JADE CHIPPS, 31, has never met her husband outside of prison - but she has got a life-size cutout of him to keep her company at home. Jade first got the idea to write to an inmate after watching an interview with a woman who met her husband through a prison pen-pal website. With nothing to lose, Jade went to a prison pen-pal website for inmates based close by to her home, where she came across her now husband, Chris. The couple now speak as much as three times a day on the phone and before the pandemic, Jade would see Chris once a month. However, Jade would advise others from pursuing an inmate relationship, as she admits it can be stressful. Once Chris is released, the couple plan to live in the house Chris bought Jade and start a family together.
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@IsaiahHollins 2 года назад

I can see why people and her family are judgemental about chris. He's cardboard.

@Happywifelife24 2 года назад

Lmao

@mejohn101 2 года назад

thats great

@muchtested 2 года назад

That makes him very pliable in decision making.

@epresley8324 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@MoonChildTarot8888 2 года назад

😂 that's the best relationship he dosent argue back he's made of paper lol.

@Mike_5 2 года назад

Chris is going to be raging mad when he comes home with Jade and finds she has been cheating on him with a cardboard cut out

@edreid7872 2 года назад

😝

@chantalabraham6701 2 года назад

🤣🤣

@CLROUGH 2 года назад

He knows about it though

@dnieto1466 2 года назад

😂

@Impastanonymous 2 года назад

🤣☠️

@babybeauti96 2 года назад

I'd love an update in 3 years, once he's out & there together.

@et3041 2 года назад

me too!

@laoscurita 2 года назад

Yes!

@eleagoldinger9829 2 года назад

Mee too

@mood-nr3nv 2 года назад

Me too

@archangels1111 2 года назад

Lol😅

@Sarah-ft8jr 2 года назад

The only thing I’d suggest to this women is to wait before they have any babies. She’ll only truly know him once he’s out of prison and they’ve lived together for at least a year. I’d say the same for anyone in a long distance relationship,

@mikeserrano3813 2 года назад

Sarah..I was thinking the exact same..some men would use a child as a way to force the women to feel obliged to stay with them..

@kawaiilette2462 2 года назад

good advice. they should definitely have some bonding time first, babies can cause relationship stress for even the closest couples!

@inkerikavantera 2 года назад

Greetings from someone at 38- we don't have this luxury. That is why I opted a sperm donor for having a baby. It makes much more sense than being potentially stuck with a wrong person for the next 18 years.

@EllicottCity1 2 года назад

Absolutely!

@michellehart6780 2 года назад

Right! You never really know a person until you live with them

@catapillargirl2021 2 года назад

So she went to a prison website looking for a husband and she got one. Definitely not what i would choose or want for my loved ones, but it’s her life.

@dingo1666 2 года назад

She went there because she needs attention. Who goes on such a website, to meet a criminal to marry? Can't they get a guy in real life or are they too boring or what? Reality is that they don't know each other at all, if they ever live together, he [or she] could turn out to be violent, gaga or straight unable to deal with banal things such as work, debt, arguments. I believe these women want a dream rather than a real soulmate. Especially those where the man doesn't ever come out. Could work with these, but the chances are slim to none.

@neatznotso7424 2 года назад

It was a penpal site not a prison website, at least that's what they said in this.

@kayla_j 2 года назад

@@Jade_Chipps I’d say nuts is an understatement. Who has cardboard cut outs of someone and carries them around? 😆 I’d say they’re both diagnosed crazies.

@aaiish9097 2 года назад

@@neatznotso7424 its a penpal site specifically for inmates i think

@ashtonbrown8549 2 года назад

Absolutely no way in hell would I go looking for that because it's just got to be way too hard to be in a relationship with someone you can't even touch most of the time 💔

@britlew5933 2 года назад

I worked in a male correctional institute, listen ladies: They have ALL day to write you love letters with all the romantic stuff that they KNOW you want to hear. Often they pay OTHER prisoners to write letters for them. It's a job in exchange for commissary. They will tell you they want you like no other man has EVER wanted you, because they are bored, it makes time pass and you put money on their books. They will bombard you with romance letters because they HAVE the time. They might not have a college degree but they DO have one in street smarts and KNOW how to con you into love (again by telling you everything YOU want to hear). Once they get out, the romance talk is over, your years have been waisted and your money is gone. Don't do this to yourself, you deserve better.

@Seoyeaji921 2 года назад

You are absolutely right ✅

@HayesByeGrey 2 года назад

I agree. They use manipulative tactics to grab the bait. The know the smooth talking & do these kind gestures, but soon take control little by little because they want something from you.

@aprilleerose 2 года назад

And they could be talking to ten other women too

@MillennialMountainMama 2 года назад

And men who aren’t prisoners do this so………?

@britlew5933 2 года назад

@@MillennialMountainMama men outside of prison usually don't write you 5 page romantic love letters, when is the last time you received one? Also, it is a bit harder to find out who else they are talking to since they are behind a prison wall and not in your environment, I think.

@kayla_j 2 года назад

Relationships are easy when someone is in jail, you are the focus of their day. They have nothing else going on but to dote on you. It is all a fantasy. I do believe you can love someone in jail. Just don’t expect your relationship to be the same way it was when they were in jail when the person is out of jail.

@MsGoldenSmiles 2 года назад

Agreed!

@stopxenophobiamukuku924 2 года назад

Very true

@GD-xc4wg 2 года назад

I 200% agree I would recommend ppl not to marry before at least seeing and be with a person for 2 years after they are out to see if they really changed their ways. Most will do anything just to have that lady writting to them, encouraging him, loving him and then out wow lots of other ppl...

@dante6985 2 года назад

Not to mention living with someone completely changes the dynamic of the relationship too. I wish them all the happiness in the world... but they're kind of missing a part of the matrimony process (sharing each other's physical living space for prolonged periods). I'd be interested to hear about them one year after he's out of prison.

@ChassityNOubre_88 2 года назад

Right!!

@Sarakate601 2 года назад

I’ll never understand why women are attracted to men who’ve been to prison. I was in rehab with a girl.. who met a guy there and literally said to me “I didn’t think he was attractive until he told me he did 7 years! Now I think he’s SO HOT!” I’m just like “… good to know your priorities are in the right place”

@WeirdBrandi 2 года назад

Some men are attracted to women in prison too I’ve noticed! A guy who was a lawyer fell in love with Susan Adkins, who murdered the actress Sharon Tate and they married in prison

@LauraBidingCitizen 2 года назад

I don’t think she’s attracted to him because he’s been inside (I’ve never heard of that before!) - I think it’s because when you’re long distance, you do get to know each other far more intimately than if you were to meet someone in your area or online who you could meet up with the following week in the spur of the moment. You’re forced to get to know one another & everything about one another, & I also think it’s the thought of ‘changing’ someone (or rather, being witness to that change) that others find attractive.

@misspoliticallyincorrect2081 2 года назад

Some of these women are attracted to broken people and are basically addicted to fixing others. It might be a rush to some as well. But I think the ones who marry these men that're doing life..its all about control. Knowing he's in prison, cannot cheat and absolutely needs them is very appealing to some women.

@SaraDanielle9630 2 года назад

As someone who is with a guy I met in rehab who’s been to prison multiple times I can say some girls are attracted to bad boys or “badasses” so to speak. I didn’t get with him because of that but I know tons of girls who are with guys that went to jail or were in jail and it’s just something some chicks are into 🤷‍♀️

@SaraDanielle9630 2 года назад

Also I want to add that not everything is for other people to understand

@whispermcgaughy7251 2 года назад

I'm not going to judge her but I know from experience that inmates will tell you whatever you want to hear and they have nothing but time to know the most perfect things to say and they listen so intently,to prey on your vulnerabilities..They have you believing the behavior they exhibit during visits and over the phone are a true reflection of who they are,when in reality,they are just following the rules and playing a role..I can guarantee that the man who comes home to her will reveal his true self real quick and she'll have realized too late..How do I know all this, because I watched my dad and his prison buddies,my uncles,cousins and countless others..Half the time the stuff they wrote was recited to them by another inmate.. It's like a soap opera for the other guys.. I've watched countless women waste so much time,money and gas, believing in a fairytale.. There's a possibility he's different but I doubt it..😔

@freetobree5323 2 года назад

🎯🎯🎯

@Becca_MS-fighter 2 года назад

Anyone who kisses and feeds cardboard, is free game to judge! It is WEIRDAAAAH!

@aml9439 2 года назад

Yeah. Pillow talk and Prison talk are very much the same thing think 🤔

@erey1662 2 года назад

I’ve seen plenty of women who have been through this, comment on her TikTok page. She’s naive, doesn’t want to hear or believe it so she blocks them and defines it as bullying, when they’re just giving her a heads up.

@wicked_deftlady 2 года назад

Yup! It happened to me. I fell in love with an inmate, whom I’ve known since we were kids. Turns out he broke my heart because he was bored of me and found an interest to my younger cousin. It was messy but I learned a great deal from this traumatic experience. It was nothing but a fantasy for me and for him.

@mrq2044 2 года назад

You know he didn't get 31 years for simple burglary and identity theft...more like he broke into someone's crib and attacked them

@chinchillamdgamer 2 года назад

I dunno, did you see this guy who got 14 years for cutting 0ff a girl's arms? And then he only served 10 and was Let out for "good behavior"? The system is effed!!!!

@jemmaj2919 2 года назад

"In 2014, a jury convicted him of one count of second-degree burglary and four counts of identity theft for breaking into a home in Whitewood and later using stolen credit cards. Facing a second trial for additional crimes, Chipps pleaded guilty to one count of grand theft."

@asiadread4902 2 года назад

Google is your friend…2nd deg burglary and 4 counts of identity theft

@Samanthamoemoes 2 года назад

I'm sure he's had priors as well not always but normally play a part.

@oliviamartini9700 2 года назад

According to a source above, not only was the family in the house during the robbery, but the Mrs was dying of leukemia and he stole 4k of her pain meds. But "we all make mistakes", right?

@shade247 2 года назад

My issue with this isn’t that he’s in prison. It’s that she went out of her way to meet him through a prison pen pal website with the INTENTIONS of dating him. It’s as if she wanted a man who couldn’t get away from her and had nothing else going for him in his life to distract from her. She’s also incredibly obsessive.

@michaelndossy9496 2 года назад

Thought so as well

@AJ-df7pq 2 года назад

this is all his stuff to, his house, everything

@MM-fg4tw 2 года назад

The men on the prison pen pal websites are looking for women to date too. It can work out. And of course he can get away from her, all he has to do is just not call her? Lol.

@largeautomobile 2 года назад

literally picked her man out of a lineup 💀

@crystaleward 2 года назад

Well he'll be out in the big world, that's when the real stuff happens.

@LoveDemi.XO_ 2 года назад

When he gets out he’s gonna be a different person .

@GD-xc4wg 2 года назад

Yeah many chances just a very minority change

@EYE_GOTCHA 2 года назад

@@GD-xc4wg What is a “minority change”? Perhaps you meant a “minor change”.

@GD-xc4wg 2 года назад

@@EYE_GOTCHA yes... lol. French growing up... lived in many countries now it is hard to express haha minorité is in French so I thought minority would be the translation...

@EYE_GOTCHA 2 года назад

@@GD-xc4wg Ahh, thank you for explaining. I think it’s great that you speak more than one language. ☺️

@taee.9324 2 года назад

It hapeens

@Aserrano_678 2 года назад

“Only 3 more years…” was the most deflating sentence

@brennathecatlover4360 2 года назад

Geez 31 years for burglary and identity theft? That sounds like a lot tbh

@mashakalinkina7207 2 года назад

I bet you it was more serious than that. Whenever you watch these things inmates say like, “I got into an argument with a friend & got 40 years.” And it turns out they severed their friends spinal cord in stabbing them 50 times for some asinine reason & theyre now a quadriplegic. Ie criminals lie. You see this minimizing All the time. Its annoying.

@Vamika12347 2 года назад

@@mashakalinkina7207 oh my god…hilarious

@Mooodyyhhh 2 года назад

We dont know the details of the burglary. Couldve resulted in serious injuries or death

@britlew5933 2 года назад

In Europe you don't get 31 years for burglary and identity theft. A murder nets you about 15 years, so you can do the math. It's a cool thing so, 31 years of romantic love letters and never fading love because you'll never face reality and have to deal with your partner...lol

@brennathecatlover4360 2 года назад

@@mashakalinkina7207 I mean u know the justice system does give harsher punishments for not as serious crimes like murder

@stayce751 2 года назад

“Just got back from working out” That made me laugh….not too many other options.

@ladydeanna3775 2 года назад

Lol they don’t really have anything to talk about besides the past or lies that he will tell her about their future together

@Kristalya 2 года назад

Great option tho! 😊

@miaa1762 2 года назад

LMAOOO

@rachelvaughn60 Год назад

Im a prison wife I work out 2 hours a day..gotta release that pent up energy somehow. LOL

@Mooodyyhhh 2 года назад

Its one thing to be in love with someone who happens to be in prison. But specifically looking for a partner in prison is strange. Like why specifically would you look there for love

@jos.3649 2 года назад

Because there is distance… some people like placeholder partners.

@barbararichardson2747 2 года назад

Probably hurt by failed relationships and relationships such as this takes little effort.

@Mooodyyhhh 2 года назад

@@jos.3649 i thought maybe its a fetish lol

@Mooodyyhhh 2 года назад

@@barbararichardson2747 true

@jos.3649 2 года назад

@@Mooodyyhhh that too..

@loulalucille8946 2 года назад

It's easy to act loving and attentive when you are in prison. Once out of prison I'd bet money they won't last. I don't say this out of hate! It's just the facts of the situation.

@ZV_iBlitzkrieg 2 года назад

And what profound evidence or future visions tells you that lmao

@germanspacelord 2 года назад

@@ZV_iBlitzkrieg statistics

@ZV_iBlitzkrieg 2 года назад

@@germanspacelord Good ol blind faith in statistics without any further knowledge of individual backgrounds or circumstances lol An observation is this woman has plenty of money and not much brain or imagination, shes lonely and found a man that fits the puzzle, he'll have a very easy time holding onto her especially considering he's already doing so from behind bars

@germanspacelord 2 года назад

@@ZV_iBlitzkrieg Dude is bad news once he gets out it’s going to be a completely different story ,but whatever rocks her boat ..she’s an adult not a child but these type of things rarely end well

@britt4404 2 года назад

Ya'll need to see love after lock (tv show) that proves these people change so much after being reintroduced to the outside world

@ashleydelacuadra3826 2 года назад

He hit the jack pot getting her. She's pretty, loyal, and she seems like she has a nice house so she must be pretty successful.

@NANDA-JONES 2 года назад

I hope he doesn’t rob her 😬

@muchtested 2 года назад

She's a flight attendant.

@Shayne_T 2 года назад

and she kind find someone who's not in prison.. says everything.

@kjdunkley7765 2 года назад

It says in the bio... Chris bought the house for her 😮

@johnblah1040 2 года назад

@@NANDA-JONES bruh? 💀

@user-el3iw6rz3m 2 года назад

Self esteem will always define your choices.

@donnar9864 2 года назад

It has definitely defined mine ...

@Shellypooh 2 года назад

@@ITI-xi5zx observant not judgemental

@bellababe7391 2 года назад

@@ITI-xi5zx nothing about her statement was judgmental. She must’ve struck a nerve for you.

@brittany5019 2 года назад

Thanks for the reminder babe. I was about to hippity hop on the prison website !! Nahhhh lol

@user-el3iw6rz3m 2 года назад

@@brittany5019 been had a prison boo when I was 16. I was committed!!! 🤣

@edreid7872 2 года назад

You know this is only working because they're separated...😂

@danab172 2 года назад

Exactly

@Zee-ob1pe 2 года назад

She is attractive on the outside but clearly suffers from low self esteem

@justincase2716 2 года назад

You don't even know her... I bet my arse she's got more confidence than you think lovely.

@bruppieo5118 2 года назад

I just don’t understand why we wouldn’t find a partner that isn’t in prison. She’s gorgeous. Looks like she has her life together. Why not expect the same from your partner that you offer yourself?

@annamorgan6765 2 года назад

maybe because love goes beyond that

@bruppieo5118 2 года назад

@@annamorgan6765 but why would you search for love in such a place to begin with? Why would you purposefully look for someone with a criminal record to find love with?

@Emily789 2 года назад

@@bruppieo5118 It's her fetish

@anujpramanik1819 2 года назад

@@bruppieo5118 I was thinking the same thing and then I read an article in some journal that said that these women are basically damaged. They've faced sexual, emotional and/or physical abuse at some point in their lives. So now they go for men who atleast physically can't hurt them, basically the onus of how to proceed in such a relationship is on the women and they find security in that. Also a lot of these women are catholic/religious and often give the excuse of God having changed the men they love over time. They also happen to be madly and I mean MADLY in love with them to the point that they will use any and all excuses to rationalize the crimes these guys committed. Also many of the guys are quite manipulative themselves so it is kind of easy for them when they come across such women.

@r.r911 2 года назад

I agree 100% Bruppie. One have to be very insecure to scoop that low. Pretty sad. Just don't go searching for a prison pen-pal....just not worth it bc feelings are real, so don't go search for it. Only 3 more years? 🙄

@emmylee8862 2 года назад

I think it's a psychological thing- she's in control of the relationship, he depends on her, can't cheat...

@muchtested 2 года назад

He can cheat, there are other prisoners, guards, lawyers, administrators and other staff, some of them are women. There are major cases almost yearly of a prisoner and a prison or legal figure being involved intimately.

@FM-jo1jh 2 года назад

has to be. women who go for lifers have low self-esteem and think 'hmm, he's not going to leave me'...even tho he's serving 31 yrs...

@ITI-xi5zx 2 года назад

ugh. maybe she just loves him?

@KlirrenDieFahnen 2 года назад

Oh, but he can cheat, more easily than on the outside. It's quite common to have multiple girlfriends they can game at the same time.

@justincase2716 2 года назад

There are other dudes in prison you know lol 😆 😉

@kaeyana8541 2 года назад

The real life example of how people mistake fetish for love

@wildcaptivation 2 года назад

She likes feeling the security that ultimately she carries all the power in this relationship. She seems genuine and hopefully he is as well.

@KlirrenDieFahnen 2 года назад

But the joke is that the power in this relationship is not all with her. Quite the opposite.

@PrisTvv 2 года назад

Wow! That picture look so real. To the person reading this: Even though I don’t know you, I wish you the best of what life has to offer.

@winnmiller6012 2 года назад

You too...THANKS...😊☺😇!!!

@ciarabrown1074 2 года назад

Stay blessed

@user-sh2rc5kc7x 2 года назад

Thank you. I hope the best for you also x

@ladydeanna3775 2 года назад

Thank you same to you

@Chefgrlangel 2 года назад

Tysm ❤️ and Happy New year!

@redsummer4657 2 года назад

I guess if you lower your standards then it's easy to find love.

@airjaff 2 года назад

Well she's not lowered her standards, she liked bad boys, and this is the baddest. If you look at it that way, her standards are very high

@darcysilva7550 2 года назад

@@airjaff he’s like a 5”7 women beater. Definitely low standards lmao.

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

@@darcysilva7550 well damnnnnn

@user-el3iw6rz3m 2 года назад

I'm glad that this woman doesn't have any children from a previous relationship entering this marriage.

@gdaymates431 2 года назад

I posted this just now but he has 3 kids. I'm assuming the mother of said kids also thought "he would change"

@PrivateCitizenUSA 2 года назад

Definitely

@salexwsadw4311 2 года назад

Totally agree

@user-el3iw6rz3m 2 года назад

@@gdaymates431 !!!! U got a serious point

@ZeroFreak1 2 года назад

You know honestly when I started watching this I absolutely judged her and her situation but having studied the criminal justice system and how so many inmates have no sort of support / various rights stripped from them upon release which ends up leading to them going back to prison, this is the best kind of support to have coming out. I hope the best for both of them and I hope he gets his life together and have a happy family in the future

@annamorgan6765 2 года назад

this is such a positive comment compared to a lot of people shaming them as individuals. it’s nice to hear someone say something that’s truthful and uplifting

@n0to_reousd115 2 года назад

This dude robbed somebody😂

@annamorgan6765 2 года назад

@@n0to_reousd115 ya but one stupid dumb action shouldn’t define someone

@jesussaves6625 2 года назад

I do think it might be helpful to HIM, when he gets out, too have a wife and family, but what about the damage to HER?

@Openyoureyez83 2 года назад

@@annamorgan6765 his ex wife said he's been arrested 8 times in the past

@mashakalinkina7207 2 года назад

I dont care to judge her in like, a why are you doing that!? Kind of way. But this is The Epitome of falling in love with a fantasy. We all do that to an extent sometimes but My God-show this as an example of this & why its not good. :/ shes in love with the ideas she has about him, not reality-thats Dangerous.

@samiraadams6980 2 года назад

Thank you and well said, you resume what I was thinking about

@OhhShittMari 2 года назад

Except he’s not getting out, he’s clinically diagnose sociopath. Has children he doesn’t do nothing for and while he gets a lump some of money cause he’s native she’s only living off him.

@1991-present 2 года назад

The cardboard cut out finished me 😄

@arianaaguilera8606 2 года назад

30 something yrs for burglary and identity theft!????😳😱sounds like way more than someone who is a murderer

@muchtested 2 года назад

He forgot to mention that tidbit.

@AlexOjideagu2 2 года назад

Definitely suspect. No way would you get 30 years for that unless you're a violent offender or multiple serial felon. She's going to be in for a rude awakening when he's released.

@MillennialMountainMama 2 года назад

That’s “justice” for ya!

@justincase2716 2 года назад

@@AlexOjideagu2 you can literally look up what he did, its public knowledge, and I doubt he'd be in a minimum security prison if he was a violent offender and he isn't serving that time, he's out in 2 yrs

@catapillargirl2021 2 года назад

If you are hanging your hat on “him getting out and being a totally different person” why not just go looking for a husband ANYWHERE else other than a prison website?

@donnar9864 2 года назад

Some girls actively go looking for a bad boy... unfortunately they are easy to find and hard to get rid of...

@annamorgan6765 2 года назад

she wasn’t actively looking for someone in prison, she was curious

@muchtested 2 года назад

She may not be as put together as this blurb wants us to think. It could be two broken people fitting together. They could start a crime spree when he gets out.

@EYE_GOTCHA 2 года назад

@@Jade_Chipps Are you for real??

@reptilemama939 2 года назад

He definitely wanted to get married ASAP because you go down a level when you are. Less security. Less restrictions. That’s why he “moved to a new prison”. And it looks good on the parole board, too, because they think they have someone that is “supporting them”. So they could potentially get out faster. Sorry, just wouldn’t trust this at all.

@carad26 2 года назад

Is this true for people that have lwop sentences as well?

@johnwilliams6856 2 года назад

That's a lie I'm locked up none of that true

@bellababe7391 2 года назад

@@johnwilliams6856 having fun on the tube while in prison eh?

@samuelatuinaceva5003 2 года назад

@@DogDaysohlala not even remotely close

@rachelvaughn60 2 года назад

My husbands in prison..you don't "go down a level" whatever that means. It doesn't lower your points nothing, the DOC could care less. Seriously I have to laugh at what people think sometimes.

@wicked_deftlady 2 года назад

@erickeegan5999 Год назад

why would you do that to yourself?

@cloutqueen 2 года назад

When she said, “Hi Zaddy” I lost it🤣

@driley5004 2 года назад

I've never cringed so hard in my life 🥴

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

@@driley5004 😂

@GhastlyCretin 2 года назад

You can't know anybody until you've spent time alone in their presence

@wildfiregirl1556 2 года назад

And you still might not know lol.

@D_A_Marv 2 года назад

One advice, watch Love After Lockup, then report back on this relationship. Good luck though

@XxhimynameiscynxX 2 года назад

People date to their confidence level 🤷‍♀️

@Hellakiddie 2 года назад

Yuuuup

@BeachCrew100 2 года назад

@Proud Mary she has a “type” I’m sure guys around her are just too “nice” She has a fetish and she’s living a fantasy life. Once he gets out her fantasy will be over. I wish her the best she seems nice, but she’s delusional and shooting her self in the leg.

@CR-wk2re 2 года назад

"That'll be our first TikTok together" Yep, humanity is doomed.

@quinnieschannel8003 2 года назад

I thought she said she deleted her tiktok 🤔

@zephyrr914 2 года назад

I’d never hate on her or him. So many inmates are fantastic people and deserve the chance to prove themselves. If we just judge and make it impossible for them,how will they ever pull themselves up??

@JaeDee123 2 года назад

Amén to that, redemption. They did the time & paid the price, we need to let them be then productive people in society after that.

@rupman27isback 2 года назад

Watch love after lockup

@rebeccalasky6109 2 года назад

Some of them are terrible people who murdered. Trust me I'm all for redemption I was arrested a few times and was a drug addict but I've turned my entire life around and been clean for 7 years, however some people do not deserve chance after chance

@squizzyicetea 2 года назад

@@rebeccalasky6109 I love how you humble brag about your recovery while shitting on others....

@marynarkw 2 года назад

80% of fantastics return back to prison

@CR-wk2re 2 года назад

"He wants to impregnate me right away" That's because he wants to trap you, sweetie.

@Ireallyreallywishiwerenthere 2 года назад

Somewhere along a little girl was damaged and grew up to be married to a prisoner oop

@solierix 2 года назад

Here y'all go again

@alwaysfloating8121 2 года назад

@@solierix It’s true unfortunately. Wake up mate!

@alwaysfloating8121 2 года назад

Yep 100% agree mate. Very few will agree unfortunately but that’s the likely reason

@solierix 2 года назад

@@alwaysfloating8121 no because yall would see any sort of alt girl and immediately blame it on daddy issues LMAO y'all are weirdos

@alwaysfloating8121 2 года назад

@@solierix Nah mate you just can’t face the reality 👍 “Daddy issues” that phrase always makes me cringe. You my friend are the weirdo

@germanspacelord 2 года назад

He is happy at his new prison ...so romantic

@tjacobs990 2 года назад

The new generation.

@germanspacelord 2 года назад

@@tjacobs990 😂

@azuradawn5683 2 года назад

@@tjacobs990 Lmao, what? You think people haven't been dating/marrying people in prison before now? This is not new.

@tjacobs990 2 года назад

@@azuradawn5683 I’m from a small town and we don’t do that here.

@chantalabraham6701 2 года назад

Romantic beyond imagination

@loravipperman3061 2 года назад

She’s gonna be mad when she finds out he’s got at least a dozen pen pal/girlfriends that exchange letters with him, talk to him on the phone, and put money on his books that he’s promising relationships with...and will definitely hookup with when he gets released! 😬

@OhhShittMari 2 года назад

There’s more she’s not sharing but his ex, mother of his child is exposing with truth. She only married him for money while he’s backed up on child support and she enjoys being live bombed

@OhhShittMari 2 года назад

*loved*

@loravipperman3061 2 года назад

@You mad bro?😂 nope. Been with the same man for 16 years.

@wicked_deftlady 2 года назад

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@justincase2716 2 года назад

I doubt the guy would buy her a big fat diamond, marry her, buy her a huge home, car etc if he wasn't committed to her only.

@chrisw9122 2 года назад

Generally these "relationships" end terribly messy. Hope they do a follow up. #loveafterlockup😂

@EllicottCity1 2 года назад

Yes, 😆

@epresley8324 2 года назад

Yessssss!!!!

@ITI-xi5zx 2 года назад

oh, is that so? do give us some proof about that why hate on people who are happy?

@chrisw9122 2 года назад

@@ITI-xi5zx literally it's all over RU-vid lol it's not hate...it is reality. That's not hateful. Pretending everything roses and sunshine is cringey.

@dawnegan3984 2 года назад

Does she know how many millions of guys around the world have done this some have more than one sending them money and letters

@maleechild6475 2 года назад

If she found him on that sight he probably has more pin pals but more power to you girl

@kaylaneerivera4414 2 года назад

Right.

@OhhShittMari 2 года назад

He ain’t ever getting out. There’s more she’s NOT sharing! Lol

@Millyvii 2 года назад

@@OhhShittMari if you heard in the beginning he was sentenced to 31 yrs, has to serve 10 , and she mentioned he only has 3 yrs left…sooo …I’m guessing he is

@OhhShittMari 2 года назад

@@Millyvii I seen documents and there’s more to the story she doesn’t share.

@vero9348 2 года назад

So she overheard a conversation of a lady saying she met her boyfriend by an inmates dating app and she was like Oh sounds great choice im all in 🤣

@jesspuente4107 2 года назад

People are out here making cut board cut outs of their prison husbands and I can’t even get a text back lol. Good luck to you both.

@adorablymorbid6684 2 года назад

This has to be a control issue. If your partner is in prison you know exactly where they are and what they're doing all the time.

@dahliarose8466 10 месяцев назад

"He's happy at his new prison..." Someone please get this chick help. Of course he wants to "impregnate her" he wants to trap her. It wasn't a "mistake" to rob people...that was a choice.

@_babybat 4 месяца назад

Maybe she’s trapping him i saw somewhere that he has spent like a million dollars on her already with a house, car etc

@clarke4400 2 года назад

Her house is beautiful 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@SilentSymhphonies 2 года назад

This is hownstly really sweet, I wish them both all the happiness in the world. My husband is an ex addict and was in prison . He's turned his entire life around and we've been soulmates since day one. Change is about desire to stick to it. Five years strong and forever to go. Good luck Chris and Jade 🤍

@rebeccabolyard139 2 года назад

I love your story as well as this one. Glad to hear your husband reformed his life and you two are happy together!❤👍

@nappingwithkitties8069 2 года назад

My partner is also an ex-addict who did time. He's been out for 18 years, we've been together for 7. He's clean and sober, hard working, honest, loyal, kind, funny, smart, and the best thing that ever happened to me. Not everyone who has been in prison is a horrible person. Some inmates made a mistake in life, some made one bad decision in a time of desperation, some were in the wrong place at the wrong time, some change for the better, and in the us, unfortunately, some inmates are just plain innocent.

@rebeccabolyard139 2 года назад

@@nappingwithkitties8069 it is very inspirational to see stories like this. It is proof that anyone can change if they want to and that everyone deserves a second chance!👍😊

@jennjenn4920 2 года назад

Drugging is diff than thieving

@nappingwithkitties8069 2 года назад

@@jennjenn4920 I agree, but there could be alot of explanations. We don't know the whole story. Maybe this guy is a scumbag, maybe he's not. Maybe he's learned/grown/changed, maybe he hadn't. I hope for her sake he has. I just think it isn't for us to judge, based on this short video. I guarantee there's more to it, one way or another. I know a guy who was convicted in a murder case literally for being in the wrong place at the wrong time and not realizing what was happening until it was too late. I know people who have been in jail 100% innocent bc cops are corrupt. Certainly, most convicts deserve to be there, but the justice system is far from perfect.

@Al1492 2 года назад

I want to see an update of the relationship 5 years after he gets out of prison

@rianaconklin6954 2 года назад

I know that this video was a while ago, and I doubt that you'll ever see it, but I'm so happy for you, I grew up with my father in prison not jail, but I totally get the stigma, and I'm so glad to hear that you're happy and I really hope that you remain that way. Thank you so very much for sharing and wish you guys so much happiness in the future ❤👍❤👍

@kawaiilette2462 2 года назад

look at her house! he picked out a pretty one whos got her own money! hope he treats her good when he gets out, she took a gamble on him-hed be dumb to mess it up!

@Bold_bezels 2 года назад

How to be married and single at the same time

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

One of the best comments on here. This is how I feel 😂

@MrWingoTube 2 года назад

Damn. And people out here still single and she has a whole husband in prison. 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

@russellwestbrookoncrack7116 2 года назад

She's basically single

@barbararichardson2747 2 года назад

So this is the meaning of "whole husband"?

@carmenalopes4140 2 года назад

These type of relationships are based on delusion not reality

@jemmaj2919 2 года назад

He is a prisoner, he doesn't have options, will he go for you if he had the option? There are many things to think about, what if he's impatient, what if he has anger issues, what if, what if, you need to meet the person and observe him in his natural habitat!!

@perfectchaos5721 2 года назад

Even with observation in a natural setting you probably wouldn’t know till it’s too late, so hopefully they can both figure it out and be healthy and happy

@skunkie110 2 года назад

I don’t really understand the attraction to someone who’s in jail. To me, that’s a big red flag 🚩 unless they’ve been wrongfully accused and they’re innocent. But an actual criminal? No thank you.

@annissa5356 2 года назад

These relationships never work.

@LauraBidingCitizen 2 года назад

My one & only concern or query is.. what’s Chris going to actually do when he gets out?! Saying you’re going to get a job is one thing, but she’s good a cushty job with evidently a good income, whats to stop him moving in & refusing to do anything because he’s got it MADE? Has he educated himself while incarcerated? That might give me more confidence - if I was her - on his release if he had actually put effort into bettering himself in some way...? I’m happy for anyone that finds love, & I certainly wouldn’t bully her for her choices.. but I’d reserve judgement until he’s out & shows he’s changed in his actions x

@daninicole5633 2 года назад

he pays for everything while incarcerated. if you’ve seen her tiktok, she’s talked many times about how he’s able to do so. he’s definitely not going to be mooching off of her lol.

@justincase2716 2 года назад

Ahhh because he bought the house and everything that came with it!! That's probably an indication that he won't do that lol

@indominuswrex9465 Год назад

He also sells beadwork with his family and its a whole small business.

@Rust_Rust_Rust Год назад

@@justincase2716 so why did he commit burglary in the first place if he has so much money to begin with 🤨

@Krissyroses 2 года назад

I’m happy for you Jade! Wishing you and Chris nothing much happiness and success 💋

@alliegator187 2 года назад

The cardboard cut out is hilarious. This lady needs to be on love after lockup. All guys change when they get out. They want to taste that newly found freedom. Much luck to them.

@lateledescaraibes7760 2 года назад

All the Best to Jade and her Future 💪❤️

@sophielazu6120 2 года назад

Absolutely!!

@stacey738 2 года назад

My husband and I met online in 2006! When I was 19 and he was 23. We met IRL in 2007 after talking daily for a year. We did long distance for 6 months and then he moved to my town, and got married in 2009. It's been 12 years now and we are so happy. Back in 2006 meeting online was still seen as weird, and my parents were really concerned. It worked out for us because during the year before we met, where we chatted online daily, I didn't once consider him a potential boyfriend. He was just a friend I spoke to. He wasn't on my radar for a relationship because he was at the other end of the country. It just wasn't an option. But we got on so well, I even remember telling him that his wife would be a lucky woman. It got to the point where we couldn't deny it anymore, we would have to meet IRL and either get together or end the relationship. It ended up working out for us. It could have gone wrong in so many ways. I was so young and naive. Would I let my daughter do the same? I don't know.

@army4life235 2 года назад

I currently write to several inmates. The ones I write have all been decent as far as not asking for anything. I flat out told them in the beginning that I’m here as a friend for support. I think they appreciate that and someone actually taking the time to write.

@army4life235 2 года назад

Oh and I wish these 2 luck. Nothing wrong with what she’s doing.

@Miss.TJ516 2 года назад

Just be careful.

@angelothehorrorfan5013 11 месяцев назад

Please don't

@kkurova9345 2 года назад

This is giving me major flashbacks to when I was in a relationship with a guy in prison :(

@ceciliaaguirre4185 2 года назад

Yea ,it's a thing, it won't work, yes I've been there done that. Your friends and family don't have a choice they have to accept him. He can't support you,you obviously have a good life and are high maintenance. You made this fairytale up in your mind when it all comes crashing down, he will find some other chick that'll do the same once you get fed up with him. It's reality

@justincase2716 2 года назад

Except you're wrong, he bought her the house and the big fat diamond and everything else to go with the house.

@johnwilliams6856 2 года назад

I'm in prison, and I can feel this story💪🏾 I'm happy for them..I wish I had someone to atleast vibe with for the rest of my time and see where it go

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

I hope you do as well. I'm a prison wife and sometimes the dudes where my husband is located ask me to hook them up.

@trizahmugo5055 Год назад

😂😂

@bellaxoxo5271 2 года назад

The cardboard cut-out is creepy

@BeachCrew100 2 года назад

The whole thing is creepy.

@ilovelife6214 2 года назад

Really lovely. I wish you both the best. I mean it's important for people like Chris to find love. It's a changing factor.

@cocohotheatclips8264 2 года назад

3:52 “Only 3 more years” 😂😂😂😂😂

@harrybalzahk 2 года назад

Chris is one lucky dude. Not because she’s hot but she is very interested in him

@user-eh8gt2xm7d 2 года назад

She is a sad person who need to go to prison to find a date. I dont buy it. People like this are problematic

@maleah4529 Год назад

They are on a show called LOVE DURING LOCKUP

@rollerboogie 2 года назад

My friend was born from a conjugal visit. She has a lot of substance abuse issues. She grew up visiting her dad in prison and he has all sorts of mental issues from spending so much time in a cell. His cell mate was Ed Kemper from Mind Hunter. Apparently he got bundles of letters from women every day.

@PatriciaKanavy 2 года назад

She didn’t mention HIS family. Why didn’t she show us pix of his friends and family? 🤔

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

They probably do not want to be on TV or he might be estranged from them

@ladyunknown9101 2 года назад

She talks about “making it as long as we have”. Ever watch “Love After Lockup”? It’s always easy when one person is locked up. They aren’t even “making it” because they can’t be together since he’s locked up. She seems nice but I think she needs a dose of reality.

@aprilleerose 2 года назад

Exactly

@pattycakesurbina5283 2 года назад

She’s awesome for loving him and giving him a second chance!

@wildfiregirl1556 2 года назад

Facts couldn't be me though lol.

@thisanonymous5956 2 года назад

This woman is absolutely nuts

@Sam-pi2df 2 года назад

These prisoners seem to always say that they want to settle down when they get out, get married, have kids, etc & most of the time its the total opposite. They don't want to feel tied down after being locked up for a long time. Just saying 🤷‍♀️

@ulongo123 2 года назад

Yeah wait till he meets other women lol

@MakingDisciples4Jesus 2 года назад

I heard a story of a girl who's female friend was in a relationship with a prisoner and he told her every cutesy thing there is and she put money on his books and as soon as he got out, he never called her and completely disappeared to never be heard from again. Yikes

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

Unfortunately, this happens a lot

@MrMoose-mf1oy 2 года назад

I just don’t get it. There are PLENTY of single people out there. Why date someone who’s still in prison, and that you can’t truly get to know until they get out?

@chrisrouth2195 2 года назад

There's so many things wrong here. First of all.....what?.......huh?........ she's from Florida?........oh nevermind then.

@viciouz9rodriguez250 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣

@carad26 2 года назад

This is beautiful! You seem like a amazing person inside and out. I love the thought and effort and creative ways you have shown how much you love him . Best of luck to the both of you!

@katiektktkt 2 года назад

I tried a long distance relationship once (not an inmate lol) and it’s sooooo different when you’re actually together in person. The attraction was only over the phone! Zero s*xual chemistry!! 🤮 I’ll never do it again.

@ieshaanderson1317 Год назад

Did you try teaching him how you like it?

@katiektktkt Год назад

@@ieshaanderson1317 Yeah, TMI but his size was a problem.. he wasn’t hitting my spot so I couldn’t stay aroused

@6thsavage 2 года назад

And I can’t even get a text-printout-baked into-a-birthday-cake-and-smuggled-into-prison back. Smh

@clarke4400 2 года назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@z_ed 2 года назад

😅😂🤣😭

@wasongabeatrice 2 года назад

I saw a story online where a man murdered his family and went to prison... Then his pastor in the local church campaign for his release writing a letter that his actions were a 'mishap'.... In the long run... The man got out and ended up marrying the pastor's daughter.... They had four children... You wanna guess how this second marriage ended... Yeah..... Went and murder his four children and wife.... He cut his wife's mouth ear to ear... But the wife survived the attack... Moral of the story.... The prisoners barely change... For many prison make them even worse!

@haninaramirez6851 2 года назад

Good luck to them! They seem like a lovely couple who have bonded on maybe a deeper way than other people because of the separation between them.

@brittanyo5182 2 года назад

I grew up with my dad in and out of prison. That being said, people don’t change unless they want to.

@mizzhllywd 2 года назад

Why would she trust an identity thief?

@traveller8867 2 года назад

Thank-you.

@galvaque 2 года назад

After 5 months they divorce due to domestic violence 🤪

@tinasaywon 2 года назад

I will be watching them on Love After Lockup soon 😂

@VesaJay 2 года назад

And they say women mature faster the men! 🙄

@yourmajesty122 2 года назад

I fear for her safety once he's out. what if he cheats on her the second he's out? then all the years sacrifice will have been for nothing

@arenaguerra5844 2 года назад

STOP I HAVE BEEN WAITINGGGGG FOR THIS!!!!

@aml9439 2 года назад

Alarm bells went off, when she told her friends, the first thing he'll want to do, when he gets out. Is to impregnate her. Yikes!!! Maybe someone should recommend that they spend some quality time together 1st, before bringing a baby Into this, as she doesn't know this man and her doesn't know her and prison talk is like pillow talk. A fantasy!