If it was trash she would’ve been left. Let’s be real. She just can’t keep up. Even though most women want a man like this. For some women it’s tooooo much.
I'm so disappointed in this episode. It's like they were peer pressuring her. Star just calling this young lady immature, a child and naive just because she doesn't want to have sex constantly. She is really making it seem like something is wrong with her. Then, they tell him nothing is wrong with having a high sex drive yet nobody said it was okay that this girl doesn't have one as high as his; Star invalidated everything she said and chalked it up to immaturity. I hope this young lady does not ignore her own sexual comfort for his needs.
Concur. He should find someone compatible with his sex drive because, as far as I'm concerned, this is a type of sexual abuse!! Sex is only a small but necessary part of a loving relationship!! The fact that he is not going outside of the relationship or engaging in adverse and perverse sexual practices does not mean he's not addicted. The professionals need to come up with a different definition!!
It's sad that they are determining the MATURITY level of this young lady based on her sex drive or desire. This is ridiculous. She actually seemed very mature but naive to some things and her boyfriend seems to want to control the relationship by making her feel immature because she doesn't desire to have sex 24/7. I hope this young lady runs and finds a healthier relationship.
Uh uh Judge Star I dont agree with you this time. This girl is young. This dude is older and into polyamoury. What makes him a good catch? Because he seems to no cheat? So she should subject herself to sex 4x a day if she is fundamentally against it? We're not talking about 2x wkly vs 3x wkly. We're talking about 2x wkly vs 4xDAILY. If she isnt into that like that that is torture. And she doesnt have to put up with it. She isnt even married to this guy. No maam.
Or she doesn't have a sexual appetite like he does my daughter's mother used to beg to have sex with me because we were not on the same sexual level the reason she would have to beg me is because soon as she get her she's ready to roll over and go to sleep how do you have sex with somebody and you rushing them to climax always talk about how good something is but you don't even have a drive or the stamina
@bidah007 good point. No consideration for her pleasure. Just jumping up and down like a rabbit. And I bet when she says “I don’t like that,” he says “I know what I’m doing!,” and keeps going. 😂😂
A sexual addiction doesn’t ONLY mean having sex. Addiction to porn, masturbating, etc. is sexual addiction. I’ve been to SA groups when I was achieving my degree. He’s very hyper-sexual. Porn sets unrealistic expectation. He may need someone to match his drive. I would be curious of his childhood as well.
I’m sorry he just a regular type of guy he definitely like sex more than most men but he not a terrible guy as much as yall paint him to be I have porn dvds I used to be in my 20s and guess what I still have them I haven’t watched them in almost 15+ years but ya know,most women don’t like real straight men in this society they want a woman inside a man’s body
Agreed sis! Hearing her validate it annoyed me. It is the demise of many marriages This stuff is not normal. Its because people have gotten away from what sex was meant for.
The judge made a wise decision, to try to get this couple therapy. Mind u, we heard nothing of cheating, disrespect, financial instability, or abuse in any way. It was just a man who like to have sex. He's waited days until she was ready, I think he said he even waited a month at one point. The willingness to give up on a person/relationship VS being alone or finding someone else, for what can be reconciled, seems so easy today. Women out here that wish the only problem they had with a man, their in a relationship with, is to much sex, when she actually decides to give. If the love is there, I wish them well with therapy.
He believed he could have made this young lady into a freak .she sounds very mature for her age, the age difference plays a part and he must have a history from childhood. She has a right to say okay enough but if you know what he wants and that’s how he is then baby girl it’s okay to move on.
@oodief88 she pretended how else would they be together 3 yrs and living together, she said herself he showed her clubbing and partying on a different level she acted like a freak and thought once they move together he would change but little did she no the only reason they moved together because he thought he had an ultimate freak and she wasn't
And it's wonderful that we are in the last of the last days. I am so looking forward to the restoration of Paradise on this earth. I understand why you can't stand it. So many people are being hurt by the decadence of our society.
He may live to regret his lifestyle. It's actually a selfish lifestyle without the knowledge or ability to exercise qualities such as restraint or consideration for the needs and desires of others.
No, he need to live alone , kick it, party. Find him 3 or 4 women to chill with whenever he wants, I'm sick of these women, than they will hate that he's a player
I don’t agree with the judge on this one! he’s older, and excessive. He purposely went for a younger woman who he thought would just do what he wanted. She needs to ruuuuunnnn! They are not married and he just wants a sex toy.
@Reezy12333 You can do what the hell you want, but don't expect a man to appreciate you. Instead of you arguing what you think I am doing,Stop and read! I was advocating for HER choice NOT to have a man have his way with her until he makes the invest of a HUSBAND. BUT you do you!
@@waltonjones5411 nah, you was telling her what to do. Women have fought for sexual liberation to sleep with whoever and whenever without being judged. Bw aren’t trying to get married. They want good pipe.
Honestly, even as a husband, I don't feel like she should feel obligated to be his sex toy [ultimately]. Just him constantly wanting sex from her, like our bodies and vaginas don't get sore and tired, is a no-go to me. It's like he just wants to get HIS rocks off however often he can, and that's his only concern.
Sex is not meant to be an everyday thing. There are times when that happens, but just remember to much of anything is not good. He is boring her by wanting to do it multiple times a day, everyday. Porn and sex materials make many people feel that life is really like that. It’s not.
You can’t say that because you aren’t that person. Ppl have different needs than others. If he wants sex everyday you either give it to him or leave him.
Judge Star secured this position bc she's willing to co-sign and condone anything as far as deviancy Notice the moral decline from Toler to Faith to now Star... Never forget Star was married to a bisexual so she's in favor of just about anything
Trying to feed someone's sexual appetite can be a burden, esp when other needs aren't met. All that fking yet he hasn't qued in on her love language, Sir gon on.
@@josweetlove1537 because that's the response most women have to a man on anything now. the thought of perfection has ruined most women because there is no compromise on that. dude could sneeze and there'd be a woman saying red flags and run
That’s what I was thinking, Judge encouraging her to try more sexually but they not even married. She seems like she wants more out of the relationship
This is the first time I disagree with Judge Star. There is nothing positive about pornography. It's a horrible addiction to have. It sets unrealistic expectations and can cause the other to feel like they're not enough.
The young lady is saying that she doesn't want to have sex like he wants it; 3 and 4 times a day. Sounds like he has the wrong mate. They are sexually incompatible and there is nothing wrong with her not wanting to have sex 3 to 4 times a day.
I do not agree with the advice that Star Jones or the so called therapist gave to that young lady.... She and her boyfriend are not sexually compatible. And that's fine! Don't make her feel bad about it. Maybe it's time for them to break up. He's gonna eventually cheat on her because he likes having sex so much and he's going to blame her for why he cheated.
BOTH JUDGE AND Dr Savage seem to be sex fiends. They acted like this couple is married. Judge is becoming disgusting. Considering her own history. I am getting worried for the young couples who come before her. In this case. I pray this young lady gets away from him and soon. He will eventually break her and have her doing illicit acts. He admitted he likes freak sex. Please young lady run before he puts you on the street. Why are non- married couples coming to divorce court. Just leave. Too many younger and older people are falling into traps because it is a new generation. Judge Jones seems freaky herself.
1 Corinth 11 8-9 says For the man is not of the woman; but the woman of the man. Neither was the man created for the woman but the woman for the man. 👀
This young lady doesn’t want an extra person in the bedroom, he does. Unfortunately it didn’t work with the previous relationship it ended in divorce. Also you have children in the house be more respectful. Love is more than sex.
It sounds as though she feels degraded with some of the things that he “likes” and wants her to do. And he doesn’t seem interested in being considerate of her feelings.
I don’t like how Judge tried to equate her maturity with her level of sex drive. He’s a sex addict and she’s not period. He needs help! She needs to RUN!
She isn’t ready for his sex needs and if he isn’t patient for her to grow into her sexuality they will grow apart. They need to be careful about fertility issues too
Judge Star must just be getting tired of these cases because she hasn’t been handling them the way she used to with logic and understanding. He indeed has an addiction and it’s nothing to do with her age because he chose her at that age too.
If he likes a committed relationship with 2women so much, then why didn't the last one work 🤔🤔🤔 thats what i would like to know because now you're with someone who isn't into that and you're still not satisfied 🤷🏽♀️
I Really Don't think this Young Man is the One For this Young Lady,🤔 her feelings Matter and if she's Not Comfortable with All the things he wants to Do she has the Right Not to Do it!!! She shouldn't Do Anything that she's Uncomfortable with just to keep him, and when he Mentioned what him and the Ex Use to Do that's A red flag because Ms. Moon isn't her🤔
Yes❤ She is and deserves the best. i hope he marries her because sexin with no marriage and he is already doing the most , is kinda scary. Does he have a history of 3somes? she needs to be careful🙏🏿😔
i don't really agree with the judge too much in this one, calling her naive because she doesn't want to have sex 6 times in a row every single day is ignorant and untrue. just because you're young doesn't mean your sex drive is going to be insanely high? and she's not naive or immature because she doesn't want to have sex constantly. the problem is expecting that sex 24/7 and having a problem with your partner if they won't, you can always satisfy yourself if your sex drive is that high and your partner isn't in the mood
Ew. I would never be with a man like this. He’d end up cheating anyway bc they’re never satisfied. This lady better get gone FAST bc she should not have to do things she’s uncomfortable with to satisfy him so judge trying to convince her disgusts me. Sex ain’t all about the man!!
Judge Star once again dropped the ball on another case. I noticed for the past few weeks, she's been trying to make couples stay together, knowing the relationships are doomed. I wonder if they're trying to change the platform to where she has more relationships that stay together for a more positive outlook for the network, or she's just gotten lackadaisical, and not interested in the cases anymore? First and foremost, maturity has nothing to do with a high or low sex drive. The plaintiff is 26. She's a woman, not a immature teenager. She just doesn't like to have sex as often as he does, and that is fine. Nothing is wrong with her at all. On the other hand, he has a high sex drive, and he wants it everyday, multiple times a day. Not sure if he's a sex addict, because he stated it hasn't interrupted his daily life, because that's what an addict is. I think he's just hypersexual. Since they aren't compatible in the sex department? They shouldn't be together, because I guarantee you he's going to cheat if she's not willing to give him sex when he wants it.
I don't think they need to be together. She wants more than just sex. I agree that they should have talked about what the expectations they have in the bedroom, but at the same time she doesn't have to match his expectations when it sounds like he's not matching hers.
It’s clear this man had an issue. I love judge star but judge Lynn would’ve called out his porn-sex addiction issues. If I was dating someone who wanted to have sex all day then I find unlocked box with multiple magazines and porn DVDs I would be bothered as hell. Not tot mention he probably watching porn on his phone too. I can’t believe judge star on this one
A man with some sense. Or maybe he needs to work on they way he's having sex. Maybe he doesn't satisfied her. Is not about only the quantity but the quality.
People confuse things being common with being normal. Having a sex addiction is highly prevalent in today's society. Though that is the reality, it does not make it okay nor normal. Lust and greed are one in the same. This young lady pretty much said his hunger for sex is insatiable. He is only going to dive deeper into the rabbit hole. And if she doesn't break things off, she will plunge into darkness right along with him. They really need God. The both of them. I hope they come into repentance & heal. Star's lack of discernment is appalling. Her and this "therapist" sent both of them in the wrong direction.
I'm not understanding how her not being experienced in different spiritual connections with other people and sexual escapades makes her immature but makes him more seasoned that is a connection and soul catching when you have sex he has so many different Spirits attached to him that he can't get enough and and it's never satisfied so your response is for her to open up and give herself to him the way other women did so then that way she can become turned out and have those sexual spirits attacking her in the same manner SMH I will tell my child to run
Really NEEDING MULTIPLE PARTNERS TO Have SEX WITH EVERYDAY AND Y'ALL THINK THATS NORMAL??? HES EQUAL TO A FRIGID FEMALE IF A COUPLE TIMES A DAY WITH ONE Woman ISNT ENOUGH FOR HIM.....THAT IS NOT NORMAL!!!!
You're right and I doubt therapy will fix that. It might improve their communicating skills regarding the topic. That's important for future relationships.
As a woman, I don’t want to have sex three-four times a day. I don’t think the woman is the issue her man needs to stop looking at all that porn because that is making his sex drive worse and no woman wants to have sex three-four times a day.
I usually like judge star but she was outta line for this one. Her age has nothing to do with her not wanting sex All the time. This man has a problem. He thought because she's young that she would want it all the time.
I mean i agree 4 times a day is too much we also need time to kinda get ourselves together.. if that makes sense he should be conciderate of how she feels too sexual wise.. just seems to much
He chose a cute young woman because he thought she would be ready willing and able to match his vibes. She isn't into all that extra stuff so he'll definitely add another woman to the mix. She should get away now if she isn't that adventurous.
She may have been violated in the past. Alot of times that put up roadblocks in the minds of women. Even if they come off as promiscuous when they get with someone they love they can shutdown bc sex becomes transactional. So she keeps saying i gave ypu want you want.
Some men expect all women to be as sexually advanced as they are; however, this is not true. A mature man with a woman who is younger and/or not as sexually advanced as he is should be patient with her a instruct her on how he likes to show intimacy. He has to raise her level off freak at a pace comfortable for her. A lot of women, especially African-American women, were raised to be sexually conservative and/or that sex is nasty. This is a barrier to intimacy & allowing someone to love you. This young lady needs a partner who is encouraging and patient.
I disagree with the judge. Some ppl don’t share the same sexual drive and it has nothing to do with maturity. The question is, can there be a compromise that makes everyone satisfied and comfortable? If not, it’s over
I disagree with the judge. I think she should move on. He can find an older woman to match his sex drive experience and the number of women he desires at one time. Their out there. I would have loved to hear Judge Lynn Toler’s response
Does that make him a terrible man not in my book he need to be single and let the women in his life know he like sex until he ready to tame that beast down I’m 44 trust me he won’t be like that a long time he going to slow down very soon
@@GETBIG4WARD I never said this King was a bad man what are you talking about sir. If two people agree on what type of relationship they are accepting it’s between them period.
Her sex drive & his sex drive simply don't match. There is nothing wrong with her & there is nothing wrong with him. They simply don't match. Her drive may never increase, and his may never decrease.
Why would you marry someone who you aren't equally yoked with? If her sex drive doesn't match his he will eventually cheat even in a marriage. That's horrible advice.
Her level of maturity has absolutely nothing to do with her not wanting to have back-to-back sex. It's as simple as their sex drives not being compatible.
Glad I'm not the only one who feels that this was all wrong. Like, can we not act as tho SHE is the one with the problem because she doesn't want this man entering her body multiple times a day. Vaginas can get tired and sore. I'm 30 and don't feel like having sex all day, every day. She's not "immature" sexually because of that.
This episode is ridiculous, this man clearly has a sex addiction and thinks imposing this on this poor woman is ok. I have a high sex drive but not to this level and my partner doesn't but we have a balance and I dont impose that on him especially because there's so much more meaning to our relationship. The first red flag is that he said an ex brought other women into the bedroom which fed this appetite that is not sustainable in a normal relationship. He thought by getting a younger woman she would be swinging every which way SMH
Young lady he has an addiction its not an attraction,, dont let them play with words bc they feel what he's doing is ok bc he's not cheating with a physical body! What does her age have to do with her sex drive? Woman don't want to be laying on their back everyday and the fact Star Jones is brushing it off saying she's in experience bc of her age is ridiculous... I had a higher sex drive in my 20s I'm in my 40s and my sex drive is definitely not what it used to be bc I realize there's more to a relationship than sex all day!!! They should be ashamed of themselves giving her the advice they gave her!😢
Hope he got as much money as the level of his sex drive. I say if a man has time for sex 3 times a day - he can't be working. Collect some cash not those raggedy magazines. She aint giving him what he want - like the judge said, they have different intimate expectations. I don't hear anything about romance in this relationship. She should at this point determine what makes it a deal breaker. His mind should be on the financial and emotional well being of their combined family. I would run.
We have to stop being so insecure about having different sex drives. He has a high sex drive and there is nothing wrong with that. Conversely she has a lower sexual drive and there is nothing wrong with that! We have to stop shaming people. Both of these people are healthy adults. There is nothing sick or unhealthy about wanting a lot of sex or not wanting it. They may not be a match sexually at this point🤷🏽♀️ I love the experts testimony! We are grown and gotta stop acting like there is something wrong with how we view sex and our sexual differences
@@Reezy12333 there is proof of that when bw are more college educated than bm. And have higher enployment rates😂😂😂. Bw are the group of women that are the main prividers in their household. Bm are not providers or protectors in general. Stop living in desilusion and other men accomplisment.
It’s crazy how the audience in the comments is saying she needs to run she didn’t say he abuses her or disrespects her however I agree they need to split 100% break up but run yall trippin he just wants nookie all the time that doesn’t make him a bad guy and it’s definitely not an easy fix just break up sex isn’t gonna be something she’s tryna do all the time
He may not be abusive physically. However,a man who doesn’t have discipline is a dangerous one. I’d say run because it isn’t going to get better and leads to infidelity. You don’t wait till the abuse happens before you leave. You spot the red flags early on.
OMG all these comments coming from women who probably having all kinds of sex. It’s not like he cheating or nothing bt yall want to label him a bad guy saying girl run. 🤦🏽♂️
Because he wants sex 4 times a day without even married. This is too much for any woman. Besides this, The fact that this Man maybe is porn addiction is a rede flag that she cant passa away. He want sex 4 times a day, I bet she dont get any satisfaction 50% on this times
The sex is probably just not good. She never said she liked it. She never bragged. She never smiled while talking about it. 26 years old is not young. He doesn't stimulate her mind. The sex might be boring or he isn't satisfying her. He may not be connecting with her mentally. He might not turn her on. Intimacy starts long before the sex. Has nothing to do with maturity.
