Does anyone else LOVE how unproblematic she is?! Someone literally tried to blackmail her and she still respected their privacy enough to not expose who it was!! One of the many things I love about her.
Celeste van Acken most of the beauty drama is american people you have to remember that people from other countries are more friendly and unproblematic
At 21 years old I sat down my dad with month and told him I’m a woman. He doesn’t understand what I’m going through but he stressed to me that he’d love me no matter what. That was the first time in such a long time I felt accepted by the world. Love you nikkie
as someone who was forced to come out to my family by my ex-therapist, and then was very much not accepted by my family, and then basically had my life ripped away from me because of it (no phone, no hanging out with friends, forced to go to church 6 times a week, conversion therapy, etc), hearing how Nikkie overcame that brought me to tears. it's been hard but i'm planning on cutting my parents off later in the year when I can move out and go to college, but it brings me comfort knowing that it was the right thing to do in her situation.
hope it goes well. It is always better to cut people off and maybe they change and become more open minded and empathic in the future. Sending you lots of love, luck and support
Her coming out never affected the way I looked at her. She does some bomb ass makeup and is cool asf, and deserves all the hype. People are whack with the hate comments. Don’t listen to them do your own thing 😁
"If you're not ready yet, you're not ready yet. You don't have to come out" As someone who came out as lesbian only last year at the age of 25 : thank you ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I came out when I was like 12(I am 14) as a lesbian I'm ace actually but either way I'm sure my family will try to be accepting. I'm kinda sad this is not true for everyone. You do you tho!
I lovee how she said that it’s a “luxury” to have the support of your family. Because it’s true NOT EVERYONE has that privilege. I’m BI and no one knows because I know that they’re NOT going to support me. I’m really happy that NIKKIE has her mom support.❤️🥰🥺🏳️🌈
I am so sorry that people are not that supportive around you! But I am so proud of you! I may not know you personally but still I am proud of how strong you are!You're beautiful the way you are! Be proud of everything that you are! I will not ever understand(as I am straight) your or any lgbtq members struggles especially when it comes to coming out but I would definitely suggest not to rush yourself! Please come out only when you feel safe! 🏳️🌈HAPPY PRIDE MONTH ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈 Always remember this You're beautiful You're stronger than you know and things will get better! Believe me! Here you dropped 👑keep slayyyiinggg! Sending you all the love 🌈
“Simply put they don’t have the range to understand” YES Nikki that is exactly it I’m so happy that it doesn’t get to you and you have such a great state of mind with it xx❤️
Kylie: I’m pregnant no secret is bigger than that Nikkie: hold my beauty blender But for real there are no words to describe how much I love and respect this woman
@@jasminesaxvik7300 i'm trying to but... i just can't seem to really be able to fit my head thaaaat far up my ass. So sorry . I can say WHATEVER i want.
Marsha wasn't the creator of pride. She has been tied to the riot and being the "one who threw the brick" but in actuality she was quoted saying she showed up afterwards. People actually there say a well known latina lesbian threw the first brick sparking the violence. She also died early before the pride we know today. She was definitely a popular trans figure and one to be admired but let's remember to get that important time in history correct :)
"Me entering the rainbow family" No, Nikkie you have always been part of the family. Coming out has nothing to do with being a part of the community. Much love❤️❤️
I struggle often because I’m 6’5” and a young trans woman. I feel like I will always be clockable. It’s hard for me to present properly without getting absolutely destroyed by the rest of society - especially in the deep Southern US. I’m doing my best and learning my makeup, but I’m craving the day when I no longer have to balance the two worlds of my presentation and socialization. I’m inspired by you and appreciate all the love you pour into the community. Thank you for being shamelessly and lovingly you all the time.
There's plenty tall women. If your height does make you uncomfortable, there's lots of fashion tips for taller ladies wanting to look shorter. Check out some articles! I'm a trans man so I'm trying to do the opposite- look taller, so I know how it feels. Don't worry, you're gonna fuckin thrive one day!
South US state too. As an older gay chick, I support you. Every. Step. Of. The. Way. And I am 5'11.. Embrace your height, your look, your true self! I'm rooting for you!💛❤️💙🌈
@@YOUVVITCH over the last two months I’ve taken a lot of steps to be more comfortable with myself and I’ve taken little bits and gained confidence from looking at places where height is more common for women in culture and how it can still be gorgeous and entrancing and fun. I can tell I’m growing because I’m not as down as I was when I wrote this comment months back. Thank you for your love and support💕🥺😭
Question, can trans women like a straight woman or straight guys? Is that a thing? Is said woman and man still considered straight if they like a trans person? What is the percentage of lgbtq that dislikes straight people?
you're the only "big" youtuber I've ever met, and I'm very happy about that youre such a gold hearted queen without scandal after scandal, a breath of fresh air damn !
i’m a straight girl but i fully support and love the way that nikki speaks about your guy’s lives. i live with homophobic parents and although i am straight i am disgusted and truly love your guy’s community! much love
When I was 16 I became pregnant and my family turned me out and turned their backs on me. I was living in a car and just not in a good situation to raise a baby so I made the insanely difficult choice to put him up for adoption. Well, a few days ago SHE finally found me!!!! I couldn’t find her because I was searching for her birth name which of course was too much of a boy name and didn’t fit her now. She is beautiful!!!! I’ve always been an ally to the LGBT community but now I’m a proud mom of a trans girl. Unfortunately her parents haven’t been very understanding but she’s glad to know I’m in her corner. Edit: Thank you all for your wonderful messages and support. I’ve been on cloud 9 since she found me!
i came out as trans and my grandma was like: "well, i guess i have a grandson." Took less than 5 seconds to accept. Because she knows it won't change me as a person. a big fear parents have is that their children will become unrecognizable - which is simply not true. your child will always be your child. Gender identity won't change that. I love your makeup!
Right people really think that's like a good insult. Nikkie is the most womany woman of all women lol and even if she didnt it would still never be ok to call someone a he when they identify as a she
Nikkie: _[long emotional speech about making one of the hardest decisions in one's lifetime]_ Also Nikkie 1 sec later: ALRIGHT THAT EYELINER BE LOOKIN HELLA GUUUD
I HATE when people call people "HE" when they are a trans woman. FIRST OF ALL, we only knew you as a she anyway so this was easy for us. When Bruce Jenner transitioned, people insisted on calling her "him" and I'm not even in the LGBTQ+ community and it works my flippin nerves. I get called trans all the time because I am a tall, beautiful woman with a brain, so they think it's an insult but, like you said, that mess tolls off your back. It rolls of my back because people call me a man when I kill them in a debate and they run out of material. So I laugh because men stay in my face and I think I'm gorgeous without that. It also might mean that I'm too good to be true. So hey. But they need to stop being ignorant. I hate it.
As an adult you need to learn that Not all people are not going to agree with your opinions. Who cares you’re not going to make me think a certain way if I don’t want to .
I wish the whole "coming out" idea would just disappear. Like... Just be born in a family and when you get a boyfriend or a girlfriend you can freely invite them over and that's it. No coming out needed, no "confessions" needed
@@lordparoose48 Saying that just because a male wears makeup, a long wig and had his genitals cut out does not make him a woman is the truth. Is it transphobic to tell the truth?
I agree with you, but don't let it upset you to much. Cause then they win, and you and Nikkie are better than that. She's a badass and so are you. Stay safe out there.
Thank you for your kindness in speaking out on behalf of those of us that have just begun our journey. I’m in my 40’s and have just begun to be honest about myself. I have just recently been honest about myself and the fact that I have been doing my H.R.T. for sometime now. Thank you for your courage and the Power House you are. Shine that light LoveBunch. I love and honor you Sis.💄💋
when i was 13, i came out as bisexual to my parents. they told me i was too young to know what i was talking about. i am 23 now. thankfully my parents do support me and the lgbt+ community. not everyone is as lucky. if you haven’t come out, just know i am rooting for you. and we’ll be waiting patiently for you. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I knew I was bi at the age of 12 I came out at 13 my mum doesn’t believe me she still doesn’t and I’m 14 she’s supportive she just doesn’t believe me all she said when I came out was “I support you but I don’t think you are lily you are too boy crazy” 🥺
Just some months ago I came out as bisexual to my best friends. First they where shock but then they supported me and never treated me differently for who I am, I felt so relieved and happy that I had those people in my life. Of course the main question was “how do you know your bisexual?” Because I’m just 12 years old, but I was like “I can be able to feel love for both genders”. I am waiting the right time to tell my parents, but we are always open to the sexuality topic and my mom said that if me or my brothers would come out she will support us. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@@martimosque yeah am i bisexual because i feel like I can date both women and men? I havent told anyone that I am bisexual. I came to realize i was bisexual when I was 13 and now im 15 and im sure im bisexual
You know, I’ve always been a bit sceptical about names... in the sense that, what the hell, labelling is at times not even accurate to define someone’s sexual orientation... I mean, let’s just love who we want without having to take names as if we were object of a scientific research... no hate obviously, it’s just my point of view. I hate the fact that every time people ask me if I’m heterosexual or not I explain my situation and people don’t understand because I don’t fit in one of those labels nor do I want to...
Absolutely love the look! I came out to my parents as trans three days ago with my sister (she knew) by my side, and they basically went "lol yeah we knew". It was nice, but I found myself getting impatient already with the misgendering screw ups and all that, so you mentioning how we have to be patient and give time to process reminded me that I need to give them time even though I want to keep moving forward. It's so easy to feel like it's been FOREVER (been in the closet for almost 10 years), but I have to remind myself that they've been using she/her pronouns for me for the last 21 years of my life, so it's going to need time. I'm glad that they're supportive of my, and I'm glad that you were also blessed with a supportive family (for the most part). Thank you for that bit of advice.
As someone who just in the last year discovered that I am not crazy but am asexual I know my family wouldn't have accepted me . I always knew I was different but figured I was just fridged but I discovered that there's other people like me and I am not broken and it's ok to be who and what I am. I'm just sad it took me 51 year's to discover that. Nikki I think you are a beautiful woman . That is what I see. You deserve to be happy and if being what you are , a woman makes you happy then I say no one should have ever said otherwise!
Did anyone else started crying when she said "i'm proud of you"? I was Forced to come out at the beginning of quarantine and damn, I really needed that. Thank you Nikkie.
@@confuseddemon9508 I am so sorry you were forced to come out! Hope you're staying safe and happy! Sending you all the love and support! Happy Pride Month 🏳️🌈❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
"Coming out is the hardest thing to do in your life, so the fact that you feel ready to do it, means you've already won one of the greatest battles" THIS IS SO WELL SAID
nikkie: *gives heartwarming speech about how scary it is to come out* me: *fresh out of the closet and crying cus of loving everyone in my family was (expect for my fathers side too) * nikkie: *exited over her eyeliner* me: h old on girl you gotta give me a minute to collect my emotions
Omg yes, please! And she could even highlight some of the pro MUA consultants who work with and teach older trans ladies who came out later in life. ☺️🌸💜
Yaass, bisexual all the way!! Just told my best friend I’m bi yesterday. So still very new to this fam, but loving it🌈 Shoutout to the bi folks out there, luvv u guyss💖💜💙
I am straight but these videos always make me cry. This world is so cruel, but I want to dream that we can make it better, piece by piece. Be proud of yourselves and always try to understand and love more ❤️💛🧡💚💙💜
It’s always heartwarming to know that there are people out there who are allies and support others for being themselves. As a part of the community who probably passes for straight most of the time anyway, it’s always reassuring to know that not all straight people are so close minded. Thank you for having humanity and compassion!
Gracious Rosebud i’ve obviously met multiple homophobic people and i’ve always stood up for everyone in the rainbow family !! everyone is human and deserve the same rights and treatment. i hate seeing videos of people getting outted. i will always be an ally for EVERYONE in the rainbow family! i might be straight and don’t understand the problems and issues they go through but i still stand by them because they need people or someone to support them and stand by them. equality is needed in this day and age!! 🤍
It's simple, we need to accept people for who they are. Who cares what colour, race, sexuality, gender whatever. I accept everybody! Compassion and kindness is what we all deserve
@@philipmario9809 No need to spread you homophobia, please take that somewhere else because we don't accept negativity of any kind. Please think next time you decide to bring people down for the way they were born.
@@13samin I think at jeffree star when she said "i have lighter contacts and no brows" and also when she said that the beauty community needs new names
hey, to all the babes who are in the closet or facing bigotry especially from their family: you are worthy, you are enough, and you are valid. you are not alone. there are people in this world who are supportive, understanding, and loving. i support, understand, and love you. take care of yourself, and be actively patient and kind to yourself. you are deserving. love, your friendly neighborhood lesbian
I actually had my daughter come out this past year, I pretty much already knew but had to wait for her to do it in her own time. Beginning of the month I actually texted her to let her know that she had something in common with Nikkie...She is celebrating her first Pride month out with Nikkie. She thought that was something really cool. I also have a Niece and her Wife, and a couple of good friends that are all part of the Rainbow Family. I am a strong outspoken Ally of the Family! LOVE YOU ALL!!!!
When ppl try to invalidate trans ppl by saying "God made you the way you were born and that's it," I remind them that we aren't born w/dyed hair, pierced ears, tattoos, makeup, or clothes either. These things are ways we express our outer selves to the world. Trans ppl are expressing who they feel they are inside in the exact same way. And scene. PERIOD.
I can't even begin to imagine how hard the situation was when you were blackmailed into coming out, but now seeing you look back and not being happy with how it happened, but accepting how things went and being able to keep being a thriving queen is proving you are such a great role model because of how you handled the situation. So much love from Texas!
My 14 yo son came out to me as bi a few days ago. I feel so special and trusted. My husband, his dad, and I are going to be married for 16 years next month and he, my husband, came out as bi a few years ago. I love him even more than I thought possible because he is now open and I can respect and celebrate him and us in a way I never thought. Love you all.
I’m so proud of you guys I support all of you and I wish there was a family for supporters because it is so cool that you all support each other! ✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿
As a straight woman, I can't imagine how hard it must be to come out. I hope one day it will be easier for people. Love who you want. It's your life and we all deserve to be happy. It makes me sad to hear that people's friends and families can be so judgemental, though.
Coming out was the hardest thing to do in my life but also was the best thing. I finally put my homophobic dad in his place and found out who my true friends and family were. It's been a hard and nikkie has made it so much easier. But I'm pansexual and proud
Yeah... It’s quite disappointing, especially since the whole point of religion is to include everyone and be kind, but there are some who use religion to drag others, and use it as a way to exclude people, and that is NOT at ALL what the Bible says.
I came out twice (once as a gay man, and once as a trans woman) and neither of which were on my time. I was forced to come out both times. This part of your story Nikkie hits home real hard. Thank you for being so open! You’re an icon and a legend my dear! Much love!!!
“The timing is yours.” So true. I have someone in my family that has only come out to me and a close friend. They haven’t told anyone else, but I know they want to so badly too! I also know the person that they want to tell, and it’s sad to say we know they will not accept them anymore. BUT it’s also comforting to know there is a community that will help them feel accepted. I get emotional because I want them to be happy, but I understand it’s their timing as well. If they don’t want to tell anyone else, it’s no one else’s fucking business! I’m feel lucky and special that they trusted me and I will continue to do my best to support and listen when they need it. Thank you.
Aw you’re a really great friend and your friend is so lucky to have you! Honestly everyone deserves a friend like you, well at least the nice people lol
Nikkie, Before I even knew you were part of the rainbow family, I just thought you were beautiful and bold, But now that I know you are part of the rainbow family, You are such a strong powerful person, and I hope I grow up to be so strong, kind and bold.
When her voice cracked when remembering the fear when she came out, I teared up. I may not be a part of the rainbow family, but I've been an ally for years and I plan on being one forever , for a world where people don't have to feel that they're different based on their sexuality and identity ❤️
One thing that’s crazy to me is how amazingly accepting young children are, before any part of our society can influence them. For instance, my cousin came out as trans a while ago, and he told his little brother that he wasn’t his sister anymore, he was his brother. And the kid was just like “aight cool” and he’s one of the only people who’s never misgendered my cousin.
Literally her voice is like crying and she is not... honey don't hide your tears. This video was like the first video I have heard about Nikkie. Nikkie if you're reading this comment, you are a brave women that will always achieve anything. Good job...
I am bisexual and my family doesn't support me. But I don't care, I am who I am and no one will ever tell me otherwise! A note for everyone: I love you and also always love yourself! Be you and only you! I love you and if you ever feel sad and think that nobody understands you just know that it's just in your head, because I learned that from my own experience. Ily and I hope your life is happy forever! 💛👑✨💫
It still confuses me that people can still think “yeah no she’s a HE”, like wtf I’ve always seen her as a female and even after she was forced to come out, it never changed my view on her
What bothers me most is that everyone accepted her as her before they “knew.” There was never a comment on her videos before she came out about her looking like a man or being a dude. But now that she’s come out there are people calling her a him and saying “how obvious it is.” Like, bitch, come off.. nobody had a freaking clue before she said something. People suck.
It was funny, my coming out (kinda), my mother just looked me dead in the face and asked “why don’t you have a girlfriend yet” like okay mom, you’re right but okay 😂
Every time I remember "I am me, I am Nikkie" I have goosebumps all over. It was so powerful, I've never seen anything more powerful in my life and ESPECIALLY because you're not "clockable" if you were there would be rumours it would not be such a surprise, you had to tell the world who had no idea and just wait for the response. I fell in love with humanity again when I saw the love you received. This needs to happen for everyone coming out, it's maybe a hopeless dream but I will still dream it and challenge everyone around me with the heart missing the love for someone they consider "different" (which is bullshit we are HUMANS). The world needs more love that's what it needs
Why are all these transphobes replying to all these comments talking about her? Why are you here other than to hate? It's 2020 get a life and leave this beautiful woman alone.
I'm an ally. My great aunt didn't live long enough to see the freedoms people have today. She never got to walk down the street holding her girlfriend of 38 years' hand. She had to say "my roommate" instead of wife,lover,girlfriend,or even partner. I support LGBTQ 100%.
You get homophobic people and you get God fearing people. The homophobic people hate you, the God fearing people want to pull you out of the fire. I fear you don't understand the difference. Yeshua is giving a lot of people dreams and visions these days of His return. Repent for the Kingdom of God is at hand. He is on His way, its imminent.
Arnie Kando they may have “good intentions” but they obviously don’t understand that being gay isn’t a choice. not everyone wants to be “saved”, so leave them alone and respect their wishes
That would be just the easiest thing wouldn’t it! I always see people as people. And I don’t understand why this is so difficult.. I hope your journey hasn’t been very hard!
Thats such a weird train of thought. As if you are born knowing what you are? No. Most people who "come out" just tell their family/friends after they realised what their identity of sexuality is. That's it. No hiding.
Nikki Ronitz, this comment shows how heteronormativity is entwined into our culture. It shouldn’t be that you are assumed as straight until you come out, we should just be able to date who we want without having to have the pressure of coming out. Unfortunately humanity hasn’t reached that level yet
Seb Morrison Well to be honest, the majority of the population is straight, and it is still pretty much the “norm” to be straight; because that is how humans reproduce. So people will most likely first assume that someone is straight because that is just what’s more “natural.” Of course we should be accepting of everyone no matter their preferences and attractions, but being straight will always be the norm, and people will always see it like that.
I can't even wear white while doing basic tasks, because by the time I take it off, it's stained. The fact that Nikkie can wear it while doing her makeup I-
Nikkie ive said it before but i will say it 1000 more times, you are such an inspiration to so many. i seriously started crying when you were talking about coming out because I've been struggling with the idea of coming out to my family and seeing you absolutely thriving in your identity has inspired me to finally do it. your videos always bring me such joy, thank you for all that you do. 🏳️🌈💕
