I wasted my 20s .. maybe you did too. | Now what? 

@@TwangeKowa thank you & you’re welcome. This is your time to enjoy your youth. Sure- shape your future a bit, and have an idea of a good future at least, but do try things. You may not even know what you wanna do for a career until you’re 28-30 or even later. Your teens & 20s are for experimenting on a passion(s) that maybe you’d like to work towards as a career. Use your younger years for enjoyment of life, for failure & for growth. Not that you can’t when you’re older but the risk is less when you’re younger. Hopefully you find a passion(s) sooner than later but always remember to enjoy yourself. Enjoy your life.

@@DivineSisterhood777 you’re young. That doesn’t mean you can’t worry but you definitely shouldn’t feel this at your age (maybe any age). I understand uncertainty but you’re worrying about a life that hasn’t even happened yet. A life that you may not be in total control of but you can work towards a better future. That may start with you taking that stress away from yourself and enjoying your youth, maybe even talking to someone- whether a professional, family, friend(s), whoever’s there to help. Go out and enjoy being a teen, hang with family, friends. Cherish the moments that matter. Success and all that other stuff comes with work from consistency over time, over years. It doesn’t have to be all at once or fast. Success or what you and or I may view as success will always be there, but your youth won’t. Take time for yourself, take time for the people you care for. That’s what matters. Sure success can determine you & your families happiness but nothing will be better than quality time. Doesn’t have to be in a mansion or on a trip or whatever you view as success. It could be as simple as a walk. Keep a good head on your shoulders and take most of this life one day at a time. Thank you for your comment/kindness.

The fear is normal, it just means you aware of the potential risks, but don't let them cloud your judment set your goals and work for them!! yes, there will be up and downs, is part of the process, sometimes the downs can last more than we would like, so stay focus. I will repeat, set your goals and work on them!! . And if I may share something from my own experience, once you get your middle goals achieved, do not! get complacent! move forward to the end goal or to new goals! I will repeat, set your goals and work on them!! I wish you success.