I watched my wife get murdered in front of me (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile - EP 94 | Season 3 

I love this young man, he was well raised! He speaks of ‘we’ ‘we’ ‘we’, he said ‘…we had a miscarriage’, not ‘she had a miscarriage’!!! Very beautiful to see!

The way this man described his wife, she was truly loved and appreciated

Was once held hostage. I was deep in my sleep and all of "Sunday", ngivuswa umuntu i've never seen before. I really thought it was a bad dream. Like ngath ngingavuka, liphele. That night something in me died. I don't know what it is but I can feel it ukuth ngiyashoda. I over analyze situations and struggle to sleep at night. I know the feeling of begging an intruder not to take your life. Listening this brings back the anger. I hope you still pray and believe in GOD my brother. I lost all of that that night. So many unanswered questions. I'll end here but kuning. Qina nkab yam.

This story is so heartbreaking and disheartening on so many levels. Firstly when u live in a complex one of the main reasons is thinking you’re safer than what u would be in a stand alone . Secondly they weren’t fighting even told the guys to take everything just don’t shoot . What has this world come to ?💔💔💔💔💔💔 I’m so sorry Lwandi

I personally know Lwandi... Used to go to varsity together. Such a nice nice guy. Haven't seen him in years...

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I wonder if Criminals know what damage they do in people's lives. The trauma and brokenness. It takes a lot for one to heal from such a traumatic event, it's these things that causes depression. I'm so hurt by his story. A man lost a wife, a daughter lost a mom. A home broken all because of robbery. Parents lost a child. It's so heartbreaking.

His story is very touching and heartbreaking 💔 😢 The way he speaks about his wife is evident that he still loves her very much. This guy is deeply hurt. Keep strong my brother.

I was once shot during shop robbery. The trauma that follows the incident is too much. Little things like a teaspoon falling off a table triggers you. Paranoia and anxiety attacks.

I can feel his pain in his voice. We hope he find peace.

I hate the crime in this country! It's taken away so many important beautiful souls. I'm so sorry to this gentleman, I can't even begin to imagine the pain😥

I wonder how relebogile feel after all this heart breaking stories. I don't know these people but their stories hurt.

Father of my one and only child was murdered last year in September and he was shot more than 4 times in his head and he also lost his eye, this interview just takes me back to the day I received the news 💔😭 The past 5 months have been very hard and its still is, on some of the days I just feel like crashing my head on the wall and all the pain and thoughts will be gone and I'll be at peace too but then again I think about this little guy I'm left with , I know how its feels Lwandi sending Love and strength to you and your family.. Thank you Sis Rele for Unpacked

South Africa is crime infested and tattered😫😥.May Lwandi continue be comforted and be strengthen!

What a painful and unfair story 💔💔💔💔. There are couples that fight and live in toxic relationships for years on end, yet life gives a raw deal to couples that love each other so much.

A similar thing happened to a couple I know. They also met in varsity and got married, had a child. The wife was shot dead during a house robbery. Very sad thing to go through. Praying for Lwandi’s healing

My sister, her husband and their 2 kids died of the 3rd degree burns in their shack and my nephews died instantly, then followed my bro in law. The doctors kept telling me not to tell my sister that they passed away and every time she asked me where they were I kept lieying and she told me I must stop lieying because she can she can sense that they have died. She told me to delay the burial and wait for her so she could be buried with her and then said her goodbyes. A week later she passed on and we buried them all at the same time. This was and still is devastating and I miss them.

As a young man I have tears in my eyes. Sad to see this happen toa beautiful family 👪. The pain and trauma this wonderful man must have endured is unbelievable but I pray he will be stronger for his daughter ands for his family and her name and legacy will also be remembered. S.A loves you and your family. No matter where we are we can be in danger ...be safe everyone and practice safety.

whoever is dressing Relebogile uyasazi istory sakhe she always looks stunning inlove😍😍

He described her so beautifully 🥺❤️ You can tell that this man really loves his wife🥺even when he was shot in the head all he could think about was finding help for her. I pray for your healing❤️ This was so heavy to watch💔

Last week was the boy and his mom and today ke Lwandi 😔😔 its him running around for help with a bullet in his head that got me in tears 😥 I hope there is no guilt or blame he carries because he can place it on me weitsi. Aowa banna 😥😥😥

Shout out Lwa for continuing to fly Nombuso's flag high ! I hold you in very high regard my friend ! What a great person Nombuso was, and she loved you !! 💗

I'm a Kenyan but soo involve with this show . I learn alot . Thankyou sooo much

I've never cried so much in my life for someone I didn't know, healing to you and your family

The way Relebogile takes narraters back to the beginning when all was perfect is beyond amazing. She makes them remember the good ol days with a smile and so much pride and joy. I hv watched so manybof these and l honestly love it.

These are one of life moments that you can't explain. A young loving couple working hard, living in a gated community only to be met with such a sad ordeal. May God give Lwande all the strength to move on. This one really got me in my feelings again. 💔

Lwandi bro you are the most chilled gent ever man. I am really sorry about your wife and what happened to you and your wife. I have no doubt you are a great dad.

Sadly those who tore apart this amazing union will never realise what they took away from this man and their lovely daughter💔. May God heal this family sufficiently 🖤

The way he tries to hold back his tears 😭💔 devastating story

The love they share transcends through this screen... just breaks my heart! He experienced someone good in this lifetime. I pray he finds peace with and through his daughter.

Nombuso was deeply loved by her husband. May her soul Rest In Peace.

This young man did his things the right way, to prepare for a good future. Some uncultured animals that probably used to bunk school when he worked hard to get the little he had!!! This BS! We have to bring back death penalty for such bastards !

This is really heavy, I couldn't stop crying. My goodness, I could never begin to imagine how he feels but I hope he finds healing from the incident.🙏

A strong man he is!!! Above all lwande thank God.❤️❤️😭

This episode's title alone is a lot to read. My goodness, the world is cold 💔

It's a shame that we as black people do such to one another. 😠

Lwandi bro, I'm so sorry for your loss my brother. When you explaining what happened it brought back memories as I went through a similar situation of criminals breaking into our apartment in Newlands next to the N1. Fence was cut, alarm wasn't triggered and broke in. By the Grace of God, they didn't shoot but I was hit with a shovel and literally begged for my life as I was being tortured and had to lock my family in another room. Once again my bro, I'm so sorry man.

Until our health system understands the significance of the 1st 60 minutes trauma cases, a lot of lives would've been saved.

Lwandi your story tore my heart in pieces and my heart broke for you my brother For some reason lve felt God calling me to do some work to help heal the world and after watching your story l dont know what that journey is but lm going to ask him to use me in whatever way he needs me to Im so sorry about what you went thru l see the pain you are going thru and ask God to give you strength to be there for your beautiful daughter It is well my brother it is well🙏🏾🙏🏾

Love how he speaks of their lives as one... we, our first , our this our that...May God heal you my brother she will always be your very own angel. Ì can actually feel the depth of your paid . Sending you love and light💕🤲

The crime situation in South Africa is out of control and causing a lot of pain and suffering! Yet we respond with so much contempt and aggression towards people who choose to leave RSA. How can people who pay tax continue to be sitting ducks and live everyday with anxiety and fear? Bagaetsho something has to give!! South Africa is a very beautiful country but violent crime is a serious problem!!

May the good Lord place his hands upon both Lwandle and his daughter. And may he find peace knowing that his wife is resting. Such a brave man to even share this story. My heart goes out to him. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

The guilt ka the medical training 🥺🥺 Yho. E thata kgang e because we all would be feeling the same 🥺😥😔

I hate crime, I hate gratuitously violent crimes. He said take anything you want everything is insured just don't hurt is, but they shot her and they shot him too.

16:30 I’m crying , such an emotional story… I wish them all healing and a lot of Gods grace

Hayi ke Thixo,the darkness of this world... So sad and unbelievable! Poor gentleman... May God,the Prince of peace comfort him! The devil is busy,eish but he's a liar!

Oh Lwandi, I am so sorry about your loss. I am so sad right now.

What a brave man. He is full of love, realness, honesty and determination. Beautiful interview. Thank you.

Well done to you and your team for the manner in which you portrayed this story. Such a heart wrenching experience but I wanted to watch until the end to make sure that he is recovering. The human element is unmistakable and so raw. Wishing Lwandi and his daughter healing. This just puts everything into perspective. Thank you Relebogile for making us uncomfortable in our realities.

This is sooo sad, i felt my heart literally sink to how evil thieves could be 😭 there was no need for them to shoot, no need!! Lord you know best, may the healing power cover this family, that daughter will grow up with how life could have been had they spared her mother's life, so sad😓

Those people stole this man's happiness away. It will never be the same. There is no apology from those people and no life sentence that can right such a wrong.

‘We had a miscarriage’...such a gentleman, the ‘we’ symbolising we are in this together, they had a blessed union and ibhadi nje labathola ai kodwa Nkosi.

💔💔 I actually went to the funeral it was sad I know his mom n cousin. Prayers to him n family 🙏🙏🙏

Another heavy one 💔💔 so sorry Lwandi. Wishing you and your little one so much healing

People are so cruel, I'm so heart broken.i hope he finds healing💔

We truly walk amongst monsters. So sorry Lwande ❤️

Despite all the challenges you went through, you still have that smile on your face, thank and thank you for looking after your beautiful daughter cos I believe you can still see your wife through your daughter's smile. Young man you still looking good despite what happened, may God give you strength when u a feeling low.

Lwandi's body refused to react to the pain. I hope he find strength to raise his daughter with the same love he gave his wife.

You bought a ring brother. Game or what-not, don’t matter. She choose you for a good reason….. Some would die for Mr Price ring papa… Must be once in a lifetime kinda love 💕

totally love Relebogiles craft and her approach.

💔💔😭😭this is too much may you find comfort in God's hands Lwandi and give you strength to carry on with life,yeah neh this world we are living in people are so heartless they do agreed to be used by the kingdom of darkness

I really don't understand why Father God allow things like this to happen😢😣😭 like i don't get it

😢 so sorry for what you went and still going through Lwandi. May God give you and your daughter strength❤️..so heartbreaking 💔

I've never gotten SO teary over an episode with you Relabogile. This bothers pain touched my soul. I wish him all the best.

I'm sorry for what you and your wife went through my brother. No one deserves to go through that horrific experience. May your wife's soul find peace and may you also find peace.

Lwandi I am very sorry 💔 about what happened to you and your wife. You are a very strong person to be able to look for security after being shot in the face. May GOD continue to give you strength to go on with your life and keep you and your child safe from harm.🙏🏾

The way he speaks about her shows that he really loved her🥺❤️

This is going to be a tough watch, I can't get myself to watch it now.

This broke my heart. The senselessness of this crime makes me so sad. I am sorry Lwandi. I am so sorry. ❤️💔

I've no words😢😢😢... Am so sorry Sir for your loss.... God knows best🙏🙏🙏

The crime in this country,💔😢. Am so sorry for your loss, I don't even know what to say. This is too sad, I can tell you really loved your wife, how you talk about her. May her beautiful soul rest in peace.❤️🕊️

The pain in his voice is still there and it will never go away I pray that it gets better tho 😢😢

This episode really took something from me. Sjoe💔 what an incredibly heartbreaking story💔 God be with him💔♥️♥️♥️🙏🏾🕯️

This has to be one of the saddest story ive heard and just thinking that this is right here in South Africa in their home.when you home you feel safe its supposed to be that way and its not even like they fought back but they still shot at them this just reminds me of painful things.we live in a dangerous world.

SA is not for living. I don't blame people who leave

You have a life my dear, live your wife who is gone ahead and for your daughter with you. God never abandon His on. Shine on for her sake.

I can't stop crying 😭😭😭😭😭 this is painful I'm so sorry my brother keep on praying.

This guy realy new his woman what she loved her behavior how she chooses friends around her Wow guy you were a real loving husband Big up👍👍👍👍

I couldn't help but cry throughout the episode.

Why?? Why?? Why?? May they never know peace in this world.

So sad stay strong brother you loved your wife with your entire heart when she left this earth her love tank was full because you filled it with so much love & care. May God bless you & your daughter

My condolences 😭❤

Oh man, that was hard to watch! 😭😭😭💔💔 Sorry, my brother. May your lovely wife rest in peace.

Sad, and so awful what he been thru and his late wife. My condolecense

A heartbreaking interview , stay strong Lwandi as you have always been.God will give you strength bro..

Sad story askies man ...i dont know how you can manage to tell your story without any teardrop. Its a very sad story may God continue to give you strength

One of the best presenters in SA.Its in her Blood

God Almighty is close to the broken hearted, may He comfort you and yours. God's grace, peace, light,love, guidance and protection be with him always.Heartbreaking story 💔 You look gorgeous Lebo🌷🔥🔥🔥

Askis Lwandi. May you find complete healing in every area of your life. Tjo💔

Such a senseless crime. Why?😥

This is just so wrong. I don't know how people can do this to others.

Waitse Modimo a go he maata Relebogile ❤ I am always emotional watching your shows, I cannot imagine what you have to go through. I believe your team has put measures in place to help you cope mentally and emotionally. Lots of love sis. ❤️

We thank our brother Lwandi for giving you strength to be able to narrate this ordeal. God who is above all is the only one with power to heal internal wounds. May you continue receiving comfort and strength from Him .It shall be well my brother 🙏

Condolences my brother and thanks for treating her like a Queen 👸

I have never been this hurt nkosi yami yoooooh 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭he is hurting inside too much

23:35 and m bawling my eyes out😭😭😭 what a heartbreaking episode

If I were Rele I was goin to fail to finish the interview but battling with a river of tears..make up flashed.. aaii😭💔, u strong Sis💕. Divine healing Lwandi

I'm so hurt by this interview😭😭😭stay strong Lwande for your sake and your daughter

Yho. We are in the pits here in South Africa. The violence, the crime. Yho!

The hurt in his voice heartbreaking 😭😭😭

I regret watching this, omg I'm so devastated! How do people live with such pain and trauma? Ooh my word💔💔💔💔💔