Idubbbz won't stop embarrassing himself, so I have to keep calling him out how he lost $250,000 for charity ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-2RqjyRaKBmk.html
Yo dip Shit you know that I dubbz lost the money not the charity cause he used his own money. Also good job at laughing at someone for being assaulted makes you look real good.
@@OfficialBurrow sadly not surprising for a lot of porn stars and prostitutes, a lot of them then go on to use sex to make money, often because they’re addicts
@Rene Torres If she were raped and abused, yet continue to sexualize herself after the incident has passed thats her own fault, If having an onlyfans and showing her body on the internet is a way of “coping” with her trauma that shit isn’t healthy
@@froggo5690😂😂😂 dude are you serious Edit: It's been about a month or so since this comment was posted and this man is still being ratio'd into oblivion lol
@@froggo5690 You’re all up in these comments man, you’ve gotta realize what’s going on. This isn’t about discrediting real victims, it’s about calling out the liars that make things hell for the innocent and actual victims. Yes, she absolutely has something to gain from lying. You’re getting emotional and completely missing the point.
Started with Twitter yaaas queening people “owning” their trauma without addressing its effects, there’s a reason mental health conditions are a badge of honor on there now
@@ryanrichey3245 I can’t see my own comments so I don’t know if it went through or not but basically my reasoning is if you’re insane you might just attack people who you want
That's assuming she's not making it all up Given that she's a manipulative narcissist with a known track record of lying for attention and pity points, I'd be willing to bet my bottom dollar she made all these up
can we just leave her alone? she's gone through things most people can't even imagine and people are hating on the way that she copes. just get over it. Edit: I see yall responding to me... didn't really expect that... I just dont like spreading negativity !!!! I get that it's strange to do a funny dance about a horrible event but it's a coping mechanism and I don't hate on people like this. I could list a million things worse than posting about a traumatic even while dancing.
@@Ruby_Eve it’s ‘kinda dumb’ yeah but you can’t police how and when people heal from trauma. If someone was afraid if water because they almost drowned would you tell them to get back in just cause you don’t feel that same fear?
@@henrikboronowsky834 It actually is. Idubbz became a shadow of his former self. Morons will mistakenly call it "growth", but his change is simply a turn for the worse.
@@JokerYT306she round house kicked all of them b4 security could come and was known as the Bahamamamaho everyone claps her cheeks to pay homage to her lore
This isn't trauma dumping. Trauma dumping is when you basically put someone in a position where they don't feel like they have a choice but to listen to you go into detail about your traumatic past. Trauma dumping is when you walk up to the cashier and start going into detail about how your mom was neglectful and your dad was a violent alcoholic who used to beat everyday. She's not forcing you to watch this tiktok.
@@NefarionJones This is trauma dumping. The cashier could theoretically walk away, and we could close this video, yes, but she’s still forcing herself into as much public light as she can to spout off her trauma under the guise of it being “powerful and humorous” when in reality she’s undermining the very experiences she’s trying to elaborate on. This is wrong and you are wrong. The internet is not your therapist and this should have been directed thru the proper channels if she was actually interested in helping anyone. What she’s doing in this trite stupid video is undermining the severity of her experiences and everyone who has experienced similar by doing her dumb dance. A truly horrible, self-serving, self-interested woman.
@user-jx6zw6su3i no. This is literally trauma dumping. It's unhealthy, and she needs to go to a therapist. I'm not with the people attacking her, but what you said is equally ridiculous my guy.
According to some people the internet the term kill all men is okay but imagine if you added black or gay to it. Then it would not be okay according to these people
The point isn’t “all men” it’s that women on average in daily environments have to worry about being objectified / harassed etc. because it happens quite often. You honestly don’t hear girls talking about it often unless they’re comfortable talking about it and they trust you. If you say “oh women can rape too” yeah no shit but by saying that you’d blatantly disregard the fact that it’s men that do it by a great majority.
@@Kris-tp8zs that doesn’t discredit his point though. Blacks commit more crime than other races. Unless you want to propagate racism and sexism towards people that haven’t done anything, I’d say it’s best to be aware of the statistic, but don’t blame “all men” or make it a “men only” issue. Women do rape, no if and or buts, and just because we see more men reported of rape, doesn’t mean that women should get a social pass. All rapist are bad, no matter what sex, religion, race, or culture.
projection . Men are so bad at processing their own emotions that they perpetually point the finger at everyone else. Pitiful really . This is why you need pseudo-intellectuals like idubbbz and Jordan Peterson to tell you how to think … pathetic. Soon not now but soon you will age into an older man ,your testosterone will deplete and you will have to retire. What happens when the world no longer acknowledges you ? They no longer see the value due to your inability to produce labor . You become nothing ,powerless. This my dear is when you will finally know how it feels to be a woman. It will haunt you until your dying days. Men before you have woken up to this . They were smart enough to end it , for they knew what lie ahead …. Consider it.
@@thehammurabichode7994 "My abusers are all men" Proceed to make an onlyfans to attract more male audience The Irony 😂 Seems like she enjoy all of those abuse tho Who knows 🤔
@@fraviddraser3891 if you dont want to be sexually harassed then maybe dont make an onlyfans? you know what people are like they will do it even more if shes got one
@@ugn154wow men r@pe women and then they get mad that women want to ruin a man’s life because he ruined hers? Crazy! You prove that so many men share the same hateful ideology. It’s disgusting. Go to therapy and sort out your misogynistic and self hatred.
When male comedians make comedic routines about their past trauma it's them dealing with their past through comedy. But this is a bridge too far? Real double standard here.
@@dee_is_tired they did. She hates all men, but relies on them for money and has no problem showing her naked body to them and doing whatever they request, lol.
@@randomdude8373so what’s the point ? Because she was abused she can’t have an only fans ? Or because she has an only fans it makes her a slut ? Or because she was abused she can’t be a slut ? Whatever the point is, it’s wrong because it’s obviously made by somebody who doesn’t know what they are talking about.
@@jonathanrodriguez5873 what if it's already the case? He's aware of it too and thus all is doom and gloom..🤷 he's a grown ass man and I'm not worried. I know nothing of her or their relationship but he's chill and, against popular belief, not losing his edge since the relationship.
@lee_9837 well, I can tell people bad things about everyone. Almost all people can do that. The only problem is, can I back them all up, especially in court?
@lee_9837they sure AF weren’t lined up like you’d expect in a high profile Hollywood case if there was a long line of malfeasance done by Depp so I doubt it.
@@k.a.8473 i don’t have an issue with people talking about their SA or traumatic experiences but if someone’s serious about doing it to raise awareness or help others, they aren’t doing shit like this
In a parallel universe, in a Mortal Kombat 1 pre-fight intro: "All social networks were a mistake" "Maybe we should not fight and let the cringe people do Fatalities on each other".
@@Chhjmmkg TikTok is like a culmination of everything wrong with social media. It's like that quote by the Gravemind about being "a monument to all your sins."
@@TheGreatLake and some consider it as a psychological weapon developed by China to bolster their youth and weaken the west's. If you say that to a tiktoker, they'll be like "bruh" or whatever.
You mean money right? She's making money while you likely toil or live with a parent. Honestly losers hating on a woman for existing in sight of them is pretty sad and they all FLOCK to this shit, giving her more money from views and engagement. You think she cares that you're helping her with your sad misguided anger?
@@realnowheregirlA 30 year old woman doing cringey tiktok dance videos is embarrassing. I would divorce my wife and become a serial killer if I found her doing something this corny.
Right??! I’m 30 and a survivor but I would NEVER share details with complete strangers or f-king *dance* about it. I’m not ashamed but I’m not telling my barista about my CSA over my frappe order 💀 I met heaps of women like her in the Asylum, they turn out to either be pathological liars or have other serious mental health issues that the SA made so much worse and they can’t help but act inappropriately.
As a rape survivor myself, if you let yourself sink into the horror of it, it takes a day ro two to recover with lots of bad stuff (anxiety, flashbacks, depression). Humor or other positive things are a common coping mechanism and can help you share your trauma without having to relive it
@Sky L I go to therapy as well and sorry but it is. There are many forms of "letting it out", this isn't a form of "self-deprecating humor". There's literally no self-depreciation in this video. She isn't speaking down on herself in no means just telling what happened. I'm quite sure no therapist would say it's okay to call peoples outlets as attention seeking. Where as that can be very harmful. If there was more information to support it then maybe but just saying someone is attention seeking and should only expresses their trauma through a and b, yeah no-. Sure with the way the internet is it's honestly not healthy because of critical comments like these. People need to realize that not every person dealing with something is going to be crying their eyes out and sad all the time. I can sympathize with you towards the negative forms of coping leading to emotional-self harm. Still dealing with it myself in some aspects but thats not what this is. And it's not telling she might have a therapist and she might not. Therapy ain't always free. What is absolutely disgusting is telling someone that does have some form of trauma that they aren't even trying to work on themselves. In all honesty I don't know much about this girl nor her situation. And sure everything in the video could be lies or manipulated truths but who am I to speculate. Your comment is very ignorant and I suggest you do some research on what you're talking about. Shaming people instead of directing them towards getting help is sick. Now don't get me wrong, I don't think you are a bad person by any means but I do suggest being careful about the things you say.
@@SpannerzIsHappy ah yes social media were ppl gain a following from their attention 🤧, but sometimes people can share things and still make it somewhat engaging for their followers even if it's not about sumthin positive. Like what is with people saying ppl sharing about their experiences attention seeking. Oh no someone is trying to gain peoples attention about the shi that happened to em.＼(°o°)／everyone be upset and send hate because they are seeking attention
@@nunpho to have such a pessimistic view on men due to sexual misconduct and imply that nearly all men are sexual deviants and then monetize sexual content that is targeted towards men is the definition of hypocrisy
Well why do some people laugh when their scared or nervous 😃 I don't see the problem with it if she chooses to cope by doing a silly dance on tik tok she has the right to
@@micahslashfr and I understand that it’s even possible for this stuff to happen while still making good decisions, but I’ve seen these weirdos before and they always either exaggerate or just straight up lie. Also a lot of these just sound like lies. What really gives her away tho is the fact her entire family calls her weird and 99% of people don’t dance to previous abuse. Definitely a case of pretend abuse 😂
I think an almost-decent analogy to this would be like claiming you hate peanut butter because you are very allergic to it, yet still going out of your way to continue ingesting the stuff that causes you physical/respiratory discomfort because "it just tastes soooooo good! Yum yum yum! *lips, tongue & cheeks proceed to swell slightly* This chick dancing to her list of traumatic "experiences" isn't just classified as a "women moment", but a narcissitic liar moment, too.
@@joshjess9841 this is like lactose intolerant people eating ice cream saying “I know I’m gonna regurgitate my intestines back up after this but it’s so fucking good” that’s the vibe I get
@@randohuman5084 imagine a frontline infantry man he charges at the enemies with other men and watching other men get there brains blown out and hearing bullets wiz by your head then shooting someone’s brains out, knowing you could get shot at any moment
@@randohuman5084youre unironically saying that anything she went through is worse than anything a soldier that survived live combat went through? Man this is a soft world. We really need WW3
@@Melbeezo it's not just about reading comprehension, it's about getting context too. People use the phrase "all my abusers were men" to justify their hate for men.
1 in 3 lesbian women will be sexually assaulted by another woman in their life. That's higher than the statistic of 1 in 4 straight women will be sexually assaulted by a straight man.
@@sushilsharma4202 There IS a major difference between the US & Canada but you're too much of a narrow minded basement dwelling echo chamber redditor that never leaves their home so you don't have a real opinion of the outside world.
This just in : women can rape. Women can abuse. Maybe think a little harder before commenting something so incredibly myopic, champ. Better luck next time.
@@Sandyoo6026n normal terms shes blaming her problems with men on the whole of them, the entire Gender, rather than looking at her abusers individually or even herself like why did those abusers chose her and how did they get close to her. The Point is Bad PEOPLE who abuse others are their own group. not a reflection of the Gender like she would RATHER believe.
"Got put into a gas chamber by Nazis" 💃💃💃 Edit: Stop crying about how this isn't funny to you, or this is too offensive. I'm not mocking people who died in the Holocaust, I'm mocking the woman in the video.
This is not funny. People died in the Holocaust including my grandmother which was only 8 years old at the time, she died because the Nazis forced her to play the piano at the camp opera.
@@MAPkiller_shitsummoner-wizard im not saying i dont believe you. But HOW TF u got a Grandma who died at 8 years old....by my calculations, nobody who is 8 has any children....how are you here?
@@Xenor999what?? Who is doubting her?? It's obvious she has trauma and she's just unfortunately choosing to trauma dump in a "cringe" way. You can hate the girl all you want for "ruining your edgelord" but don't go invalidating her trauma just because she stole Idubbz away
As someone who’s gone through similar life altering, traumatic experiences, you’d think that maybe you would have more sympathy and understanding. People cope and deal with shit in different ways. Even if it’s dancing in a silly manner on tiktok.
Oh 100% and the sad part is that this is going to be the best thing that could possibly happen to him in recent years. Let's hope the mental breakdown afterword's gives us a renaissance of content or is at least funny.
Most of criminals and sociopath are men. Men are born more prone to sociopathy which hurt everyone around them Males constituted 79.7% of those arrested for offenses against family and children. Males constituted 77.8% of those arrested for aggravated assault. Males constituted 58.7% of those arrested for fraud.
Absolute cap. Lol. 95 percent of sexual offenders are men, so if you got abused multiple times theres an incredibly low chance ALL of them were women. Stfu.
If someone’s abusers were all one gender then it’s perfectly understandable if they feel nervous around everyone of that gender till they get to know the individual.
"Not all men" but all my abusers were men' is the most basic logical fallacy. This is example of all dogs have a tail but not all tails belong to a dog... just because all her abusers were men, doesn't mean all men are abusers.
@@emilydavis162 it is the same exact thing as a guy making a video about the times he was cheated on. Then the video says "women", "but not all women". Either way the person posting said video is clearly insinuating that it is the entire other gender without actually saying it. The purpose is to literally be cringe and controversial so she gets more views.
Here’s the thing: trauma vs logic, trauma wins. If you’ve had very bad experience with men, your natural response is to be uncomfortable around them, even though you logically know not all men are evil, in fact, most of them are not, but sometimes there is just no room to give them any benefit of the doubt. I do however have a hard time believing anything she says when shes making such light of it by dancing.
@@seokw8777As a real victim, we don't do silly TikTok dances while text flashes about our life altering trauma. Shes barely a victim, and if she is shes doing an awful job at portraying that to people.
@@FluffieandFuzziezzzzz how other victims process their trauma and share their stories has no bearing on your own experience. terribly egocentric viewpoint
she started out as a boobie streamer. then got into onlyfans. she never had a problem sexualizing herself for men until it hit her that there are negative consequences to that.
@@Giga_Chad_ all you’ve done is made it blatantly obvious that the only pussy you’ll ever see is through a screen. if you’re seriously praying for the downfall of others you need therapy.
Funny how most victims wouldn't even dream of dancing and monetising their traumas because we just want to recover and get on with our lives. What an airhead
Funny how you seem to know most victims so well. Do you at least have a source for that bullshit or will u just admit you pull your talking points out of your flat ass?
@@demsterclippy4252 thats complete horseshit. That shit stays with you and thoughts ambush your ass outta nowhere. Get waves of anxiety and need to actively focus on repressing. You start practicing detachment and go third person mode. Lol
@@hongodongo9053 yeah it does always stay with you, you just learn how to cope and deal with the trauma, which surprisingly different people do in different ways. down playing the severity helps some people minimize the impact it has on them emotionally. if she was crying instead of dancing in the tiktok you’d be calling her an attention whore. just because someone isn’t wallowing and outwardly upset doesn’t mean they’re okay mentally
Mine was a pretty even split but if they never got physical or sexual with you then why are you bringing it up? It’s a false equivalence and I highly doubt you did that by accident
@@maenad1231@maenad1231 holy shit, someone said they were bullied and you're here downplaying it? This is so out of touch but, what joy it is that you never experienced the pain.
She said "all men," but yeah loves her boyfriend as the exception. We have a funny way of saying "all/every" when we mean "most." Most violent/sexual crime *is* commited by men, so she has a point there.
So, a woman says all of this stuff that is incredibly common in society of how she was abused and everyone is hating on her and not abusers??? Like, this survivor isn't coping the way you like so the discussion is about criticising her and not how normal SA is today???
I suspect that men who post negative online comments about sexual abuse victims are significantly more likely to be perpertrators of sexual abuse. If that's the case, then a statistically effective way to clamp down on sexual abuse might be through tracking people who post negative online comments about sexual abuse victims. What I'm saying is that posting of negative online comments about SA abuse victims can provide a mechanism by which authorities can track likely perpertrators - maybe not so much now, but perhaps in the future if society becomes even more 'woke', or AI becomes more powerful, or legislation enables law enforcement to snoop into people's online activities more thoroughly, or if any increase in automation/efficiency/effectiveness enables a higher proportion of cases to be processed and therefore lower priority crimes to be investigated thoroughly. If any of those things happen, people who are currently posting hateful comments online might find their necks on the chopping block.
Maybe if she made a video exposing her abusers,instead of trying to do a cringe internet dance. Honestly what do you expect when you share your story on the internet, it’s not meant to be something public for everyone and their grandma to know. She also makes a point to say all her abusers were men(except her boyfriend) You know the guy who eats hair cake and throws the N word like football. Anyways maybe she should’ve taken some of those experiences to not let herself be taken advantage of, going to a bar at 18. Maybe we should blame her father instead 😂
@@MarveIs everyone is a victim of circumstances but if you put yourself in terrible places things are bound to happen. Just use your brain before you reply. 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 Most women dont think about the terrible outcomes which leads them to having things like this happen. First time isnt on her but if she keeps letting it happen you put yourself in that position and i cant feel bad for you. So yes i dont like the victim mentality
I mean I’m not agreeing completely what she’s saying. But what are you even saying? She’s giving permission to how she puts her body for display on only fans. Just cuz someone calls themselves fat, and ugly doesn’t mean you have the right to do so as well?
@@Jr7969612 I don't need permission to have an opinion, even if it is a negative one and the person saying it agrees with such. Anyways my point is she has such trauma with men and thinks she is making a point saying all the people that violated her were men, but then the question goes to what kind of man was she seeking out to begin with? If it were that common, then there is a possibility that she is very bad at picking men or is in an isolated situation. But then at the same time she is fine with commodifying her body to guys who may at that moment also do the same thing to her if they were in person. And she thinks about the same, or even worse about the guys who pay for her onlyfans.
@@KAMFP Not saying your opinion needs permission. Just your opinion simply sounded nuts and illogical. It's like those people who try to make sense of groping comic con cosplayers or adult actors in public just because it's on display, "where permission becomes a vague line"? When it shouldn't be. Also her choice in men doesn't matter, trauma like that should never happen. Now complaining of " why do I keep getting my heart broken", when a person only messes with players is when choices of men makes sense, but not physical or sexual trauma. Also when I said "right"I didn't mean permission legally, but morally my dude.
@@nainadhaliwal9625 It just seems to be either just rage bait to get views, or just seems diametrically opposed thought processes. Like what value does the short hold anyways? Did she even date women? And then just the casually way that information is put out in a tik tok like it's all jokes.
Nice strawman. How do you explain the 98% statistic in favor of men universally being the sexual agressors then? Of course not all men are bad, why are you acting like you just made some brilliant point? Statistically speaking criminals are going to make up less than 1 percent of the population (the U.S. in this case, but you can apply that statistic for most other countries as well). Care to guess what the difference in sex within that small percentage of criminals is going to look like? I guarantee you it's not a majority of women. But hey, it's always easier to pretend being virtuous and sincere by just focusing on the, "Not all of them are bad, stop generalizing," instead of acknowledging an actual, observable issue. Grow some brain.
@@rainesaysdie863 because she has openly accused people of shit before and was disproven of it. It wouldn’t surprise me if she’s lying about this for sympathy points.
I don't like this woman. In fact, I have strong suspicions that she is (emotionally) abusive toward Ian. But what you just said is genuinely harmful and cruel, I would advise you to look at what you said and really think about what that implies
And my ex wife beat me, ex best friend raped me, and my boss (woman) constantly sexually harassed me at 16 while she was 26. Abuse doesn’t have a gender. It is up to all of us to call it out and be there for those who go through it.
It’s actually funny that the “boys will be boys” has lost all its power BUT if it’s a woman sexually harassing a man they have their own little saying of “YOU liked it though” or you like it if it’s happening in real time. So there is the double standard. As a man I have told women to stop touching me. Mainly want to grab my butt🤷♂️. Telling them so and there response: “why? You like it though 😉” Tell them well if that’s the case can I grab you then? Them: “😟 it’s not the same” It’s not, if I was interested in you would say and do something about it. Just like you don’t find it appropriate, I don’t find it appropriate either
Yep. There will be untold amounts of baggage. And there's a good chance they will take out their anger towards not only men in general but you specifically
@@whitefang-zm9ztmainly that she's happily singing about all these in a tiktok. Hey i haven't gone through any of that so i don't know the coping mechanisms but this doesn't seem like an actual cooing mechanism.
I have a bulshit detector for girls like this. Often they are lying so much that even though 10% of what they say is true it doesn’t really matter, never mind the fact they are desperately seeking out any form of abuse so they can use it for social credit. People are sick in the head.
Imagine a veteran of the Iraq war records themselves doing a mindblowing move while talking about PTSD. Edit: I was joking about a specific facebook livestream and it somehow got many likes.
I have a uncle that got into interpretive dance to deal with his. He is extremely private with it and would probably murder anyone outside of his group that saw him.
So, she objects to " not all men" but can't go out without her boyfriend to protect her from the bad men. Does she not see the cognitive dissonance there?
missed the point. she agrees not all men but shes pointing out that her abusers have indeed been all men… if you look at statistics men are responsible for the vast majority of violent crime. the socialization that men are forced to go through that tells them that all emotional reactions besides anger are shameful and “unmanly”, is clearly responsible for this.
@@lee_1292 I acknowledge that men are primarily responsible for violent crime. They are also primarily responsible for stopping and punishing violent crime. Men are naturally more aggressive, and that aggression needs to be expressed appropriately, and I assume (and hope) her boyfriend would be ready to do so, if necessary. All I'm saying is that she seems to agree with the slogan in her actions, while opposing it with her rhetoric.
@@lee_1292 she is literally using the "but all my abusers are all man" as a way to refute "not all men" if not then why would she put the word "but" that is basically saying "You guys said that not all men are abusers but all my abusers are men" She didn't even say anything that indicate that she knows that not all men are abusers something like I know that not all men, But no,she did not add anything like that so saying that she agrees that not all men are abusers is just your assumption
@@lee_1292 Correct, men are responsible for the majority of violent crime. They are also the majority victims of violent crime. Its like 90-something % responsible with 87% victims - so don’t cut your statistics short, leading a false narrative as if women are the majority victims.
@@whateverwhatever4026 I get the feeling Ian only got the tattoos bc Anisa got them. The style is even similar so I wouldn't be surprised if he went to the same artist she went to
