That one dude almost crying talking about how his girls confidence inspires him to be better was so sweet. A good relationship should always inspire you to be the best version of yourself as possible.
Meanwhile the girl he feels so lucky having, would dump him in a blink of an eye if he was the one with the womb and decided to do an abortion. She doesn't believe in women's rights.
Shadi and her bf are so passive aggressive it feels like a couple therapy sessions where both know therapy words and try to hide their anger but are soooo bitter lmao
I mean Anthony was 100% in the right. You should never get into kink until you've fully and completely discussed EVERYTHING with your partner. They need to know your boundaries, safe word, and other incredibly important things. Both partners need to be totally comfortable initiating a relationship like that.
i think a lot of people inexperienced in kink and kink culture don’t realise that the ‘they just seem to know what i want’ part of it is fantasy (or the result of a lot of learning somebody and communication and trust in a relationship), not something you can realistically expect or wait around for as a standard
@@lexthequeer i think it comes from if you only get your education from erotic sources(porn, erotic fiction, etc) it won't go into the nitty-gritty of what is actually involved in a BDSM relationship. No porno is going to stop mid scene so they can talk about hard boundaries, soft boundaries, and exploratory boundaries. But if you don't take the responsibility onto yourself to go to actual educational sources, you're never going to know that the reason one partner just seems to "know what the other wants" is because in reality the other partner explicitly said "I would like to try X with you."
I get where she was coming from when she got upset that he said she needed to take the lead since he should be actively wondering what he can do to improve their sexual relationship, but I totally agree that expecting him to just do it is insane - if you want something sexually that you and your partner haven’t done before you NEED to talk about it firdt
@@Jordan-gb4exWhy though? If the friend recognised that it wasn't going to work and decided to break up and didn't mind he was dating him? They probably just shortened the origin story for entertainment.
Hey, living in a forest tree mansion off the grid with most of the modern comforts with no one telling you how to live your life with your life partner is the DREAM! I know I'D love that! Chasing your dreams and living how you want to live is the American Way! She doesn't know how patriot she sounds when she says, "I just want to live on my own property without the government telling how to live my life."
Every time Shadi and her boyfriend talked they sounded so passive aggressive it was so painful 🥲 It felt like they came on here specifically to get grievances off their chest or something, like they used this game as couples therapy instead of just, GOING TO THERAPY.
She was passive aggressive and he was more defensive. And they don't need therapy, as they are just not compatible with each other and therapy won't do anything for that.
Totally different people in the end. Dude's passive, she's more aggressive, and they ironically want totally seperate things. Can't feel to bad about him though, he broke the best-friend code. Probably the first rule is don't date your best friend's ex, at least right after they break up.
@@Alex-cw3rzI can tell she’s probably mentioned these things to him before and have been ignored. She has the attitude of someone who is tired of asking and is becoming insecure in the relationship.
The thrill and ego boost of stealing his buddys GF has worn off and its no longer the feeling of forbidden fruit’ thats why hes struggling to finish now
that one couple was absolutely brutal...you can tell that they have things that they haven't communicated and it's just awful watching their differences in a room full of other couples.
The man with the curly hair with self confidence issues is actually so unbelievably beautiful and you can feel he’s also just as equally beautiful inside. Crazy how some of the most attractive people can see something that’s not 😢 breaks my heart.
that one guy is right though... if she wanted to be dominated, she shouldn't have just waited for him to do it. She needed to communicate that desire. and he's respectful for saying "I didn't know that's what you wanted, you could've told me"
This combined with her little ancap micronation dream at the end ... she wants that trad farm wife life away from all the libcucks and gendergoblins and the sooner Anthony wisens up about it, the better. Get out of there, man! edit: her getting off to dressing like a schoolgirl, too ... it's all coming together ...
Yeah like it actually would have been a serious red flag if he had just gone ahead without knowing. Assuming your partner wants to be dominated or whatever would lead to wayyy more isssues, verging on assault. Like ofc he’s not gonna just go ahead without asking?? I’m pretty sure the kind of ppl who indulge in that kind of stuff are also the most explicit about consent because they know how important establishing boundaries is before engaging in it. Probably should just stick to vanilla stuff if u can’t even properly communicate ur kinks to ur partner.
honestly! made her sound very ignorant for hating the us government so much... do you think its any better in other countries? as if thousands of people in third world countries are not wishing everyday they could someday live in america.
@@KayleighWenham-Ross If it wasn’t possible for the literal Unabomber to live off the grid completely, what on earth makes her think she would be able to.
The couple next to the moderator has to be one of the most ridiculously good looking couples I've ever seen. They're both so stunningly beautiful and in tune with each other and respectful for one another, I could just look at and listen to them for hours.
@@Pissnationyou’re in all of these replies saying this shit when when it’s so untrue, it’s like you want people to go against BLM just to argue with you, get a life
@@Pissnation I don't think we got enough info there. I read it more as he couldn't see the "big picture" of what she wanted to do and could only focus on feeling like the person he loves would be in harms way. I know that BLM protestors were not violent but she could still be a target of police/white violence. And this was also 2020 where any crowd was inherently dangerous due to the pandemic.
I'm going to need a 'Where Are They Now' segment in a few weeks because I'd be shocked if all of these couples were still together in a month or two lol
@@painhurtssometimes2185because if you’re not okay with someone disagreeing on that, then why are you with them? You’re not gonna change their mind on something important like that
@@painhurtssometimes2185 she was asked “if I aborted my baby knowing there was a 30% chance I’d die, would you support me?” and she said “no.” sorry but that’s fucked up imo
It is true though based on what is happening, too much diversity in one place with one law WILL cause problems, one law on one race is causing problems all around the world think about on so many different races
The first couple in line definitely has the best relationship lol they're just not worried at all about the other person freaking out about their answers. Very good trait in a relationship.
I spent 3 years of a 6 year relationship pretending that my bf and I having political differences was something we could ignore. We've been broken up for a week now and I feel so much better not having the same arguments every day. It's not just about politics, it's about core values.
@@monicaisreallycool3904politics is so vague though. In many cases it is immature, but in more extreme cases it’s not. It’s kinda wild to think you have to share opinions with your partner. That’s so not the case. It’s truly a big problem in general. People have a hard time just disagreeing. A major cause for fighting over a difference in opinion is trying to force your opinion on someone else, instead of just agreeing to disagree. That is very childish behavior.
I think when you're friends it's okay, and when it's not extreme differences of course. America is very 2-party oriented, so this would work better outside of the US I think
@@elijahungerman2066 “it’s wild to think you have to share opinions with your partner” it highly depends on what the opinion is about. If it’s a minor political disagreement then sure you can probably work around it, but if it’s a major political disagreement then it more than likely reflects an incompatibility between your core values. For example, if your partner is against welfare programs for the poor / homeless, or if your partner is against lgbt rights, etc. (and you disagree with them), then I don’t know how you can morally justify staying in a relationship with someone who disagrees with your personal values.
its so rare to hear a male partner in a heterosexual relationship say that he wants to be like his girlfriend or wife. i really admire him for being able to recognize that feeling and to say that in front of other men.
Sis thinking that living in the forest makes her free from the government is so funny to me 😂 I think she means she wants to go off-grid (be self "efficient" lol), but that wouldn't separate her from the laws & policies of the country in which she lives
Exactly what I was thinking. There are so many more rules and policies for "off grid" living. Cutting trees, starting fires, hunting, planting things, and making sure to respect the land are all governed pretty tightly. You can't just live anywhere and do anything.
😩😭 I hope Chun’s family gets over themselves and realizes that their son is happy with Vernice whether they like it or not. Ugh, you can just tell that it hurts her a lot.
I love how everyone thinks racial discrimination is fine as long as it's for "cultural" reasons. That poor girl and the blatant racism her husband's family is inflicting on her...and it's "okay" because they're Asian. That's absolutely wild.
@@mishterkhalid3117 yeah I see that a lot. It makes me sick to my stomach like culture is not an excuse to treat someone like they’re not a human being just because they’re not the same culture/race as you you don’t get excuse because you’re Asian, Indian etc but for some reason they think it’s an excuse💀
@@elijahungerman2066 see if someone asked me to do something at 4 am I'll probably say yes just because when I wake up im in a daze and not really thinking. I think it comes from childhood of my mother waking me up to lock the door for her because she lost her keys before she goes to work or telling me to get up for school . My default answer to a question when waking up is "okay" later on in the day though when I think about the fact that you woke me up for the GYM I would be kinda mad.
She thinks she’s going to go to a random euro country, announce her whiteness, and be granted free unmonitored forest land. It’s a genuinely childish plan.
Her comment about diversity and wanting to live in the forest makes me think she's like those other weird white pride people that idealize homesteading in Eastern Europe
And you can totally tell. 😂 Hell, he probably takes longer now because there's no 'thrill'of doing something wrong anymore. Sometimes karma is too damn petty. But just petty enough.
@@no.6377I feel your onto something….he doesn’t rlly want her and the thrill of taking/stealing her is gone now so that’s why he doesn’t initiate as much & he’s probably cheating too
Diversity can be problematic when it's people from a culture where they want their way or the highway. Just look at the anti-lgbt parade in Canada for example. And look at Europe, how deeply religious people are destroying our countries.
Honestly, I’m rooting for Jennie and Devin. They haven’t been together that long but they’re super open on communication and are really chill with each other.
Whenever I hear someone say "I don't want to live in US" or "I want to live in a forrest" 99% of the time they have never lived in a forest or outside the US.
@@hayley8907nah fr yeah the US isn’t the best; no place is, but at least it’s much better than other places, like she still has many rights not given in other countries
I don’t think she meant that, in the way we think. Remember, it’s a quick response she has to give. Best to be charitable to people, and notice politics is not the center of most people’s world. Better it is to judge ourselves, before we judge others.
@@seerumwhat countries are you thinking of because there’s plenty that have almost all the same rights short of guns and weaponry and they have higher happiness per capita and higher feelings of success than in the US with a much smaller wealth gap so
Clearly its not a deal breaker for him. No, she is not evil for having an opinion. Abortion is a complicated topic, people be acting as if everyone is on the same page on this.
I love how everyone thinks racial discrimination is fine as long as it's for "cultural" reasons. That poor girl and the blatant racism her husband's family is inflicting on her...and it's "okay" because they're Asian. That's absolutely wild.
I don’t think he thought it was ok he did say it hurt him personally too… it’s just very difficult to “convince” older more traditional adults to change their minds, no matter how fucked up their viewpoints are. Coming from an immigrant family, it’s especially hard bc they hold onto their beliefs that much stronger once they’re away from their country. But that girl was literally such a sweetheart I hope they come around
Also, fun fact I had a Shrek shirt I bought from Walmart under my button up that day lol I just didn't think I could show it because they said you couldn't wear brands or something like that, but everyone I showed loved it
well everyone is different. You have to learn what your partner likes and it could take a while before they feel comfortable saying what they do and don't like
@@em84c right but they haven't been together long enough for her to be talking about their shitty sex life in the beginning! There's not enough distance between when he "sucked in bed" to now. That's all I'm saying. No shade to him. All shade to her. She was wrong for that in my opinion.
Yeah. Lets just call the anti-authoritarian girl who dislikes the fear-mongering, war-waging, violent government that involuntarily has rulership over every single individual a fascist. Most of you will never grow up to be a free thinking adult with a brain it seems.
Shadi just becomes a worse person with every thing she says. Like yeah her partner seems to be a complete airhead, but apparently she doesnt communicate any of her wants. Completely doomed relationship. Hope Anthony learns how communicate with a partnet and Shadi should just go live in the woods and stay there.
Woot hells yeah! 🙌 Haha I texted my fiancé the one question I didn’t *confidently* know his answer to: his response was exactly the same answer/reasoning I had figured he would ultimately settle on, and that happens to be my exact answer/reasoning too. 😂
16:47 Bro, holy crap, that made me tear up hard. Not just because it was clearly so heartfelt, but because I've been there before. Just having the courage to open up and explain all of that while saying exactly what you mean to say on a show like this, like I respect the hell out of that. Idt I could've done the same tbh.
She keeps saying “you need to make the move,” but the thing I’m getting from him is that he wants clear boundaries and true consent from her. One doesn’t get into BDSM or kink-play without clear communication, planning, and consent. Lol even if it’s non-con-con, you need to discuss it and know your limits! 💀 her broad demand of getting kinky doesn’t actually help HIM lol
Correction, it doesn't help EITHER of them lmao. What she said is something people established in kink communities actively voice against/avoid in potential partners. It really seems she doesn't even know what she wants when she says she would like to get kinky!
You know how embarrassing it is for a couple to reveal that the man is timid and has the woman putting it all the work, initiating things. Honestly he definitely needs to let go of his feminine ways.
@@Luna-tl9xhI think it's more embarrassing to want something in bed but be unable to communicate it, and not accept someone else's boundary. If you want someone to read your mind, go to a psychic. Men want to date women, not children
Alondra saying she would rather her partner die than abort the baby is crazy 😂 and if he lived after aborting the baby hypothetically she’d still dump him
Right? Nobody talking about that.. they were generally very cute together but she said she really doesn’t like that he’s for abortion which could be a big problem in their relationship, no? I mean I hope they can work through it but it seems like kinda a big deal tbh
HAHAHAH WHAT? "My dream is to run away and live in a forest :)" That girl looks like she has never seen a GYM in her life and probably hates camping. You absolutely know she went to Starbucks after this and can't live without it. Stupid people exist and I think she's definitely one of them.
Imagine Shadi’s ex / Anthony’s ex best friend watching this and just revelling in how bad their relationship is. Not only do they have a terrible relationship, but they’ve also been publicly exposed and embarrassed in a viral RU-vid video.
first of all Vernice and her husband are the most beautiful couple ever. Second omg Shadi and Anthony seem like they HATE each other. They dont agree on anything. But its karma for how they got together.
@@Steve_Just_Steveinnovation having people from vastly different backgrounds creates different approaches for different solutions but i shouldn’t have to list the pros of diversity
Sometimes diversity cause problems. When it's people from a culture that clashes hard with the country they move to.. When they refuse to adapt even a little bit. That's when diversity becomes problematic.
im single so call me jealous and bitter but watching other couples is so interesting to me i can smell the problems from a mile off yet they are totally oblivious its crazy happens with my friends too, being single and figuring out who you are and what you want is SO vital if u ever want a successful relationship yet society pressures young ppl to jump into anything they can get out of fear of being seen as lonely by peers so it makes that really hard to do but i have to say its so incredibly rewarding and will save you a lot of time and energy trying to make something work with someone you are not compatible with at all !!
I felt that way too until I fell in love, truly. I thought I loved people before but it wasn't the same. When you're in love one day you'll get it, you'll love each other so unconditionally that you will be able to make each other grow and prosper. But it really was luck how I found him, I believe that's the case with a lot of people. Many people could be your "soulmate" there's just so many assholes it seems there's only one out there 😂
I just want to say, thank you so much Cody. I battle depression literally EVERYDAY & my daughter & your videos are on a very short list of things that help me get through my depression. I am grateful from the bottom of my heart that I found your channel & I love everything you put out. Thank you again & congrats on entering the DAD CLUB!!! I know your child will feel nothing but love from you & Kels. Please keep making videos & helping people like me fight their demons.
I highly recommend Stephanie soo "mss mango butt" she's the best and reallyyyyyy helped me through a rough time Wish you all the best and I know you can overcome your struggle!
I like watching Cody because he introduces me to content i would normally never watch. Like i saw that video and i was like "yea i am not gonna watch that". but watching Cody react to it makes it much better (and the video itself wasnt bad in the end)
Love that vernice and her partner both stepped up when they asked if they wanted more kinky shit. They're about to have so much fun omg, what a way to come out to each other
why is no one talking about how Alondra was seeming pretty upset about the abortion stuff but then at the end was like "I don't wanna be with anyone else". That seems crazy to me lol
Omg this hurt me to watch. Cody was right, it totally felt like I shouldn''t have been listening to these convos.. I can't believe how honest these people were. That is brave. The vid also made me appreciate some aspects of the single life a little more lol
