Lov-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him*
Its tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him!
Absolutely! That’s such a powerful mindset. ✨ Knowing that you’re uniquely you, irreplaceable in your own right, is what makes every connection you have that much more meaningful. Embracing this truth sets you apart, and it’s a beautiful reminder of your intrinsic value. Let that confidence shine! ❤️
Thank you for sharing this! It’s powerful to hear from someone who embraces their spirituality, independence, and integrity so fully. You’re absolutely right, staying true to yourself, setting boundaries, and listening with love makes a strong foundation for authentic connections. Keep holding that inner strength; it radiates more than you know. 💪💕
Wow listened to this entire video. Did all of this alone for over 2 yrs, except for the words! I told him all about himself! Then disappeared. Took all my power back! & moving forward. These steps really work. ❤❤❤❤
Your journey is inspiring! 🔥 Taking back your power and moving forward on your own terms is truly empowering. It’s amazing to hear how these steps resonated with you and that you’re experiencing the real impact of embracing this path. Keep going strong, your story is a powerful reminder of what self-respect and resilience can do! ❤💪✨
Absolutely. When someone treats you as an afterthought or keeps you at arm's length, it’s a clear signal to step back. You’re worthy of respect, attention, and real connection, not crumbs. Pulling back isn’t about playing games, it’s about valuing yourself and setting a standard for how you deserve to be treated. Your worth isn’t defined by anyone’s lukewarm behavior; it’s defined by how you honor yourself.
Lost myself in a 25 year marriage trying to control her addictions and mental illness. Only now I realize she needs to take control of her own actions and it’s up to her to show up for the marriage and children. I must walk away. If she wants the life we build she must show it.
Sounds like you’re already ahead of the game! Recognizing your own value and knowing what you deserve is huge. Being single isn’t a lack, it’s a choice to not settle for anything less than the respect, effort, and energy you give out. Stay in that powerful mindset, because the right person will see your worth without you having to convince them.
When someone distances themselves and ignores you, it's best to protect your peace with clarity and confidence. Rather than reacting emotionally, embrace these seven steps: stay calm, remain composed, continue your routine, focus on self-growth, show kindness, set boundaries, and maintain your dignity. Patience reveals intentions.
Absolutely! Owning that energy is powerful! Keep walking in that confidence - when you believe you’re irresistible, others can’t help but feel it too. Keep shining! 🌟
Thank you! I'm glad you found the video valuable and picked up on the life lessons. Stoicism has so many layers, and it’s powerful to see how these insights can make a difference. Stick around, there’s much more to explore together!
If they Distance & Ignore You: Stop Chasing them. Never make them a Priority when they make you an Option. Stop Chasing= Confidence & In Control. 1- Never Show Desperation, or Panic..“Stop giving them the Power”. 2- Disappear into Silence, “make them miss your absence”. Stop all Contacts. 3- Buckle up, Don’t fall into their Manipulative Trap. Focus on your Values. 4- Be Mysterious, Stop Communicating Information. Don’t be Available. 5- Be 100% Emotionally Resilient, Be Indifferent to their Actions= Confidence. 6- Flip the Action without any Words= Showing you don’t Care to Chase. (“ I’m no longer playing to your Rules”).the less you say the more they want. 7- Let them Chase Shadows, Stop being Predictable, and Ease to Reach
An abusive marriage ended with my husband's suicide. A person who stood by me through this and claimed to love me has gone MIA after this. It affected my stand over humanity, it felt unfair and caused me pain. But I'm learning to stand up. I did nothing wrong and i deserve love.
Love the energy! 🔥 Keep embracing that unstoppable strength and irresistible vibe, with that mindset, there's nothing you can't achieve. Keep pushing forward! 💪✨
That's the spirit! Embracing your power and recognizing your worth is a huge step forward. Keep channeling that unstoppable energy, it's what separates leaders from followers! 🔥💪
Absolutely, being single often brings a certain calm and freedom that’s hard to find in relationships. But, as you mentioned, the financial responsibility can feel heavy when it’s all on you. It takes resilience, but the independence it builds is priceless. Embracing that challenge can be empowering, each achievement becomes a testament to your own strength. Keep pushing forward; you’re building something truly powerful on your own!
Your energy is magnetic! Keep affirming that truth, believing in your own irresistibility is the first step to embodying it fully. You’ve got this! 🎉💫❤️
*When someone distances themselves and ignores you, it can feel disorienting and painful, but this is where Stoic wisdom becomes your greatest ally. Instead of reacting with frustration or desperation, take these seven steps rooted in dark Stoic moves to regain your power. First, maintain your composure-let silence speak louder than words. Second, focus on yourself, not them-use this time to grow stronger emotionally and mentally. Third, never chase-respect your own worth. Fourth, set boundaries with calm authority. Fifth, reflect on the situation without judgment-accept what you cannot control. Sixth, continue to live fully and independently, proving that your happiness is not tied to someone else's behavior. Lastly, embrace their distance as a chance to cultivate your inner peace and resilience. By following these steps, you reclaim control, not of the other person, but of your own mind and spirit, which is the ultimate victory.*
Here’s a way to handle this: keep it strictly professional. Focus on your tasks, and let your work be your armor. When conversations come up, keep responses brief and redirect back to work topics. If he tries to engage you beyond that, politely excuse yourself, mentioning that you have tasks to finish. This doesn’t just create distance; it subtly signals that you’re focused and unbothered. Also, work on building your confidence and emotional independence outside of work, finding ways to recharge your mind after hours can make you feel more resilient in the office. Keep your standards high; people will notice, even in a small company.
